sachi mohobbat

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: sachi mohobbat

aap ne bhi kiya misaal di hai

Hazrat Mohammed saw. ki zindagi se bhi yeh baat maloom hoti he.. ke Hazoor ki itni wivies thien.. lekin jo mohabbat un ke dil mai Hazrat Khadija r.a ke liye thi wo aur kisi ke liye nahi thi.

I feel ke... jo sachi mohabbat hoti he... wo baar baar kabhi bhi kisi se nahi hosakti. Jiss Mohabat ki baat aap kerahe hain... wo Dillagi...hoti he...ya pihr... waqti attraction.

Insaan ki fitrat me yeh chiez hai.. ke mohabat aap ko chahye HAZaarou se ho... lekin koi un me se zaroor aik Hota hai... jis ke liye apki MOhabbat " khass" hoti he.

Tum ne yeh jo misaal di, kia tum is ka kisi hadees se reference de sakti ho?

Aik aur baat, maan baap ki pehli aulaad jo hoti he, maan baap ko us per bara maan hota he, lekin is ka matlab yeh nahi hota ke unhein apni pehli aulaad se ziada mohabat he aur baki se nahi.

It is the similar case, ke Hazrat Khadeejia Hazoor (SA) ki pehli bivi thein to un ke saath aik khas connection zaroor tha, lekin unhoon ne apni baki biviyoon se bhi mohabat ki, insaaf kia. Hope you get my point

[jia]

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aap jis se sachi mohabat kerain...wo aapki qismat mai nahi tha... to aap doosri mohabat kerlain... to yeh kaisi sachi mohabat hai???

laikin agar woh kismat main he nahi hay to kia kr sakty hain?
or kismat ki batain wqt k sath sath pata chalta hay....hum nahi janty k humari kismat main kia hay or kia nahi..

[jia]

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toon bari seyaani ho gai wein :D:

main kia is dafa zara siyani ho lwaan faer he gupshup karaan ge:lol

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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main kia is dafa zara siyani ho lwaan faer he gupshup karaan ge:lol

bara changa keeta e, ke gupshup te aan toon pehlay apnay mature hoon da intzaar ker leya :D:

[*Samra*]

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Tum ne yeh jo misaal di, kia tum is ka kisi hadees se reference de sakti ho?

Aik aur baat, maan baap ki pehli aulaad jo hoti he, maan baap ko us per bara maan hota he, lekin is ka matlab yeh nahi hota ke unhein apni pehli aulaad se ziada mohabat he aur baki se nahi.

It is the similar case, ke Hazrat Khadeejia Hazoor (SA) ki pehli bivi thein to un ke saath aik khas connection zaroor tha, lekin unhoon ne apni baki biviyoon se bhi mohabat ki, insaaf kia. Hope you get my point

mai wohi to apko bata rahi hoon... is mai pehli bivi ka masla nahi hai. aap ne khud hi misaal di bachou ki... akser parents ko sab se chote se ya kisi aur bache se ziada mohabbat hoti he...

aap ko nahi lagta... ke aik hi shaksh khass ho sakta hai? be-shaq aap mohabat ziada logou se kerain?

[*Samra*]

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laikin agar woh kismat main he nahi hay to kia kr sakty hain?
or kismat ki batain wqt k sath sath pata chalta hay....hum nahi janty k humari kismat main kia hay or kia nahi..

Kisi se mohabat hone ka yeh matlab to nahi ke usko paa liya jaye....
zaroori to nahi jis se sachi mohabbat ho wo mil bhi jaye.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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mai wohi to apko bata rahi hoon... is mai pehli bivi ka masla nahi hai. aap ne khud hi misaal di bachou ki... akser parents ko sab se chote se ya kisi aur bache se ziada mohabbat hoti he...

aap ko nahi lagta... ke aik hi shaksh khass ho sakta hai? be-shaq aap mohabat ziada logou se kerain?

Nope, ager aap ziada loogon se wabasta hein to aap ziada loog aap ke liye khaas hein. You see, baaz loogon ne 2 shadiyaan ki hoti hein, aur wo dono biviyoon ko nahi choorna chahtay kisi bhi soorat mein, kyoon ke unhein dono se mohabat hoti he.

Tit far tat ka formula to her aik jagah apply hota he, yani jo bivi apnay shoher se ziada acha bartao karay gi, shoher ki attraction us ki taraf ziada ho jaye gi - quite natural. Lekin aik se ziada se mohabbat hona bhi quite natural he.

[jia]

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bara changa keeta e, ke gupshup te aan toon pehlay apnay mature hoon da intzaar ker leya :D:

main sab kuch changa e kardi aan:eye:
waisy hajy v main bachi he aan naa?teddy

Kisi se mohabat hone ka yeh matlab to nahi ke usko paa liya jaye....
zaroori to nahi jis se sachi mohabbat ho wo mil bhi jaye.

laikin jab aapp us ki jagaah kisi or ko apna'ain geen to kia aap us ko bhi muhhaabat nahi dain geen? kia aap apni zindagi aisy he bghair muhabbat k guzar dain geen...?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Kisi se mohabat hone ka yeh matlab to nahi ke usko paa liya jaye....
zaroori to nahi jis se sachi mohabbat ho wo mil bhi jaye.

kyoon zaroori nahi, jis se sachi mohabat ho usay panay ki puri kooshish kerni chahiye, aur kooshish ke baad bhi wo na milay to yeh aik alag baat he

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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main sab kuch changa e kardi aan:eye:
waisy hajy v main bachi he aan naa?teddy

Mainu pata way ke toon buchi wein

mainu aye v pata way ke toon buchna nai 372-haha

[*Samra*]

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laikin jab aapp us ki jagaah kisi or ko apna'ain geen to kia aap us ko bhi muhhaabat nahi dain geen? kia aap apni zindagi aisy he bghair muhabbat k guzar dain geen...?

mohabat hogi ya nahi yeh to tab hi maloom hota he jab hum us shakhs ke saath guzara ker rahe hote hain. Zaahir he.. mohabbat to ho hi jaati he.. jab 2 person saath rehte hain.

lekin iss topic ke hawaale se... aap log meri baat ko samjhe nahi..

mera kehne ka maqsad yeh tha ke... sachi mohabat sirf aik se kerni chahiye.. jo larke (khass tor per) aik waqt mai hazaarou larkiou se mohabat ke daawai kerte hain... wo konsi sachi mohabat hai :donno: wo to be wafai hai.

[jia]

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Mainu pata way ke toon buchi wein

mainu aye v pata way ke toon buchna nai 372-haha

main kion nai bachna?.......:mm:
main koi gool gappa ban'ny wali aan jehra main bachna nai?:kr:

[*Samra*]

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kyoon zaroori nahi, jis se sachi mohabat ho usay panay ki puri kooshish kerni chahiye, aur kooshish ke baad bhi wo na milay to yeh aik alag baat he

abhi aap ne kaha ke bohat si larkiou se sachi mohabbat ho sakti he...to islam me to sirf 4 shadiou ki ijazat he... to pihr aap kitni sachi Mohabbato se shadi kerain gai??? :tasali:

[jia]

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hogi ya nahi yeh to tab hi maloom hota he jab hum us shakhs ke saath guzara ker rahe hote hain. Zaahir he.. mohabbat to ho hi jaati he.. jab 2 person saath rehte hain.

lekin iss topic ke hawaale se... aap log meri baat ko samjhe nahi..

mera kehne ka maqsad yeh tha ke... sachi mohabat sirf aik se kerni chahiye.. jo larke (khass tor per) aik waqt mai hazaarou larkiou se mohabat ke daawai kerte hain... wo konsi sachi mohabat hai :donno: wo to be wafai hai.

g muhabbat ho he jati hay.....
sawal yeh nahi tha k muhabbat ki shidat kitni ho ge pehly say ziyada yaa km sawal muhabbat ki sachiai ka hay.....agar hum usi dussry person k sath muhabbat krain gay to kia woh sachi nahi ho ge?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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main kion nai bachna?.......:mm:
main koi gool gappa ban'ny wali aan jehra main bachna nai?:kr:

Chal ainj e hubshiyaan haar dund kad'di reh :khi: