NaSeehat

[Muhammad Ali Jawad]

Re: NaSeehat

aik baat yaad rekhna hadees per amal karna zaroori hai ya waqya per jis ka yeh pata na ho ka wo theak hai k nahi

aur meray khayal main app yeh be jantay hoo ga k hadees kis ko kahtay hain :donno:

Zahir hai hadees k samny waqye ki koi ahmiat nahi (iss say kisse ku inkar bhi nahi)....lykin dear! aap hadees ka sahi mafhoom nahi samjhay....iss ka matlab yeh hai k kisse ku forran yeh nahi keh daina chahye k tum naseehat na karo pehlay amal karo.....lykin zahir hai naseehat kernay walay ku bhi tu apna tarze amal change kerna chahye..ye tu nahi k dosoroon ku naseehat kerta phiray aur apany aap ku theek na karay..Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ki tableegh say iss liye hi tu bari tadad main loogoon nay aik bohut qaleel arsay main islam qabool kia..k aap (s.w) nay sab say pehlay khood loogon ku amalee namona ban k dekhaya.

[shahid_naman]

Re: NaSeehat

Zahir hai hadees k samny waqye ki koi ahmiat nahi (iss say kisse ku inkar bhi nahi)....lykin dear! aap hadees ka sahi mafhoom nahi samjhay....iss ka matlab yeh hai k kisse ku forran yeh nahi keh daina chahye k tum naseehat na karo pehlay amal karo.....lykin zahir hai naseehat kernay walay ku bhi tu apna tarze amal change kerna chahye..ye tu nahi k dosoroon ku naseehat kerta phiray aur apany aap ku theek na karay..Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ki tableegh say iss liye hi tu bari tadad main loogoon nay aik bohut qaleel arsay main islam qabool kia..k aap (s.w) nay sab say pehlay khood loogon ku amalee namona ban k dekhaya.

:salam:

mujy es baat se inkar nehi hai k insan ko hud amal karna chaheya lakin app ne jo baat ke thee ka pehlay hud amal karay pher kesi ko naseehat keray es baat ko main ne mantion keya tha jis ko app ne maan leya

aur rehi baat mafhoom ke too yeh baat mafhoom main shamil nehi hai ka usi waqat keho ya baad main baat aik he hai agar app samaj te hoo ka wo aik achi naseehat kar reha hai too pher app ko koi hak nehi ponchata ka app yeh baat us se keho haan ager app us per amal karty hoo aur pher kehtay hoo too theak hai app yeh baat kah sakty hoo:)

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: NaSeehat

Aslamoalikum:salam:
koi hamen naseehat kare to achi kion nahi lagti?:embarasse
jab hamen khud achi nahi lagti to dusron ko kion karte hen?:donno:
ap naseehat sun kar kia karte hen?:mm:
or ager apko kisi ko naseehat karni pare to best tareeka kia ikhtyar karen ge?

Wa Alaikum Aslam

Kisi ne such kaha he

Kisi ko bhi naseehat na karo, kyoon ke akalmand ko nasihat ki zaroorat nahi hoti, jub ke bewakoof nasihat per amal nahi kerta :lpop:

[MeemSheenAlif]

Re: NaSeehat

chaloo abhi naseehatian suntay rahoo pher jab baray hoo jana to apna badla lay leena naseehatian kar kar kay :lol

koi baat nahi ap k bhale k leay hi naseehat karte hen sab:tasali:kuch years k baad ap apne se choton ko ye sab naseehaten pass kar dena:hehe:

mein apne choto ko kaho ga yeh nasehat mujhay wirse me mili he372-haha

[fari]

Re: NaSeehat

khud ap wo karti ho jo ap chahti ho or bhai wo karta he jo ap chahti ho:mm:....ye to khula tizzaadddd he fari:hehe:

woh kiya ha na ya bhai log awara hojatay hai :khi:aur us ki umar bhi asi ha kah us ko baro ki baato ka asar nhi hotia tu mai us ki yaar dost ban kar hi batati ho aur woh man jata ha:khi:

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

waalikum asslam
hmmm..rita dear....muje tou naseehat itni buri nae lagti....haan illogical ho tou buri lagti hai.....ya phir uss ki jo khud mian fazeehat ho....
behtar tareeqa....ek qoul hai k kisi ki islaah krni ho tou pehlay uss se mohabbat kro......soooooo..........thats the way........:D:
aur yeh k naseehat krtay hue aglay banday ki self respect ka khayaal rakhiye....

:thmbup:

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

wasalam... khush raho.... :rose
“kin raaho’n se door hai manzil, rasta kaun sa mushkil hai…
Hum bhi jub thak kar baitheinge oro’n ko sumjhayenge…”
First let me enjoy ma self… ma own stupid ideas… so me sun leti hi chup chaap naseehatein… or share bhi kar leti ho apna experience…. but…… I do prefer ma own ideas or thoughts…. Because of that I suffer a lot.. but still I am satisfied too… :D

:thmbup:

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

Jo loog apanay aap ku turram khan samjhtay hain..zahir hay k unn ku kisse ki naseeehat bhi pasand nahi lagay gee. Aur yahee wajah hai k apna rooub jamany ki liye hum doosron ku naseehat kertay hain.

Naseehat sun ker amal kernay ki kaushish kerta hoon..lykin ye bhi dekhata hoon k woh khud kitan uss per ammal kerta hai. Tabhi uss ka asar ho sakta hai.

turam khan nahi bewakoof kahen ge:hehe:

[fari]

Re: NaSeehat

beechara bahi :lol

koi bechara nahi ha372-shed

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

w/ salam

app kis ne keha k koi neseehat keray too acha nehi lagta agar wo waka he theak kah reha hai too acha keu nehi lagy ga

keu ka mujy neseehat achi lagti hai es leya main be naseehat karta hoon:lpop:

ager koi theak baat kerya too us ke baat manta hoon aur ager maray nazdeek wo baat theak na ho too main nehi manta

ager app kesi ko achi naseehat karty hain too app ko koi treeka doondnay ke zaroort nehi hai aur agar app bela vaja kesi ko tang karna chatay hain too app ko tareeka doondna parta hai:donno:

kaha kisi ne nahi....lekin dekha yehi he k naseehat hamesha buri lagti he.....abhi dekhen zeada tar members ne kaha k un ko naseehat achi nahi lagti:mm:

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

Wa Alaikum Aslam

Kisi ne such kaha he

Kisi ko bhi naseehat na karo, kyoon ke akalmand ko nasihat ki zaroorat nahi hoti, jub ke bewakoof nasihat per amal nahi kerta :lpop:

jis ne kaha sach kaha

[AbgeenA]

Re: NaSeehat

koi bechara nahi ha372-shed

to phir zalim behen theek he na:hehe:

[fari]

Re: NaSeehat

to phir zalim behen theek he na:hehe:

mai u ko zalim lagti ho

[Nazneen]

Re: NaSeehat

Hey Salam...
Hehe men to bohot Zyada Nasihatey karti hun lekin mere karne ka Tarika hi esa hota hai ke agley ko pata nahi chalta :D. Or wese bhi HARR insaan peda hote hi khud ko sab se zyada akalmand samjhta hai isslie nasihatey AKSARoukaat buri lagti hain.
Men jab nasihat karti hun to shaed wo sahi tarah ki nasihat bhi nahi hoti kyu ke men sirf batadeti hun ke agar esa karna hai to wesa hoga.... lekin karo phir bhi apni marzi isslie kyu ke KOI bhi insaan kisi ke kahe se PURI tarah kisi baat pe nahi utarrta JAB tak ke uske DIL men KHUD SE na ae. ya Allah dalde so dalde. Ham insaan wese bhi apne tajarbon se seekhte hain. ab men kahun ke yeh jo laddu men khaa rahi hun bara maze ka hai Tumlog bhi to chakkhna chaho ge na ke meri mante hue socho ge chalo isne kha kha ke sugar bhardhaali to bardhaali men nahi chakkhta/chakkhti :-) so baki chizen bhi ham kuch ese hi karte hain. KHwah achi ho ya "aksaroukat" buri :)

[shahid_naman]

Re: NaSeehat

kaha kisi ne nahi....lekin dekha yehi he k naseehat hamesha buri lagti he.....abhi dekhen zeada tar members ne kaha k un ko naseehat achi nahi lagti:mm:

ESI WAJA SE TOO WO KAMYAAB NEHI HO PATAY NA:lpop: