Understanding wife & husband

[Muhammad Ali Jawad]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

padh ker afsos hua... :(

meri soch yeh hai ke...insaan jo apne liye soch rakhta hai waise apne saathi kai liey bih rakhe.

Jaise farz kerain... mai jiss se bohat mohabbat kerti hoon, mai chahti hoon kai wo mere ilawa kisi aur ka soche bih nahi....to isssi tarah mujhe bih aisa hi hona Chahhiye , kai mai bih kabih kissi kai baare koi soch Naa laou.

u know...... hum doosre se to expectation rakhte hain kai wo humare saath aisa rahe, yaa humare liye Chand tor laye :khi:lekin Hum khud kiya kerte hain...!?

I absoultly agree with u khala! Infact its a islamic approach which unfortunatly we dont have. I think we should have this above type of feeling in every type of relationship. And then we could able to get poistive results.

[Khala@Saleema]

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I absoultly agree with u khala! Infact its a islamic approach which unfortunatly we dont have. I think we should have this above type of feeling in every type of relationship. And then we could able to get poistive results.

:thmbup: right

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husband wife main larrai is baat pay bhi rehti hai kay shadi kay bad husband apni beveeo ko us ka career ya education ya jo bhi karna chahati hain life main karnay say mana kar deytay hian kay ab bas ghar , husband or bachay .......yeh zaidaiti nahi beveoo kay sath :mm:

[aabi2cool]

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husband wife main larrai is baat pay bhi rehti hai kay shadi kay bad husband apni beveeo ko us ka career ya education ya jo bhi karna chahati hain life main karnay say mana kar deytay hian kay ab bas ghar , husband or bachay .......yeh zaidaiti nahi beveoo kay sath :mm:

naeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee:D:

[Khala@Saleema]

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husband wife main larrai is baat pay bhi rehti hai kay shadi kay bad husband apni beveeo ko us ka career ya education ya jo bhi karna chahati hain life main karnay say mana kar deytay hian kay ab bas ghar , husband or bachay .......yeh zaidaiti nahi beveoo kay sath :mm:

yeh bih to hosakta hai kai biwi ka khiyal kerte huye kehta ho,, bcz yeh uskai ke liye tension hoskati hai saab manage kerne mai :mm:

ager husband biwi ko jaan booj ker rokta hai (pata nahi konsi soch ki binaa per) to it is totally wrong

[saraah]

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khala..........
ek aur baat bataiye..............larrki ko susraal me kam az kam kitna arsa darkaar hota hai...adjustment k liye..i think i varies......bt phir b.....normally.....logically......pcycologically.. .......:donno:

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naeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee:D:

zahir hai aap bhi aik husband hoo kisi kay to aap ko yeh sahi lagta hoo ga :lol

par hai zaiditi han

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yeh bih to hosakta hai kai biwi ka khiyal kerte huye kehta ho,, bcz yeh uskai ke liye tension hoskati hai saab manage kerne mai :mm:

ager husband biwi ko jaan booj ker rokta hai (pata nahi konsi soch ki binaa per) to it is totally wrong

shadi say pehlay sab kay khawaab hotay hain larka or larki donoo kay ..jab beviyan husband kay khawaab poora karnay main un ka sath diti hain to husband kio nahi :D:

[Khala@Saleema]

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khala..........
ek aur baat bataiye..............larrki ko susraal me kam az kam kitna arsa darkaar hota hai...adjustment k liye..i think i varies......bt phir b.....normally.....logically......pcycologically.. .......:donno:

yeh to Larki aur susral , dono per depend kerta hai :wk

meri apni thinking yeh hai kai....Larki to tab mushkil hota hai adjust kerna, Jaab usne shadi se pehle "ghalat" khawaab sajaye huye hou...aur Bohat si ghalat Ummeedain....

Aur ager ghalat Umeedain lagai bih howi thien, to unko Poora honai kai liey usko chaiye kai, wo apne Nafs ko qurban kere....


lekin kurriyou , tum logou ko meri baat samjh nahi aiy gi, kiouke tum log to NEW Generation ho:36_1_62[1]:

[aabi2cool]

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zahir hai aap bhi aik husband hoo kisi kay to aap ko yeh sahi lagta hoo ga :lol

par hai zaiditi han

aur zahir aap bhi aik bewee hoo kisi ki honay wali to aap ko ye ghalat lagta ho hoga halank ye ziyadti naheen 372-haha

[saraah]

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yeh to Larki aur susral , dono per depend kerta hai :wk

meri apni thinking yeh hai kai....Larki to tab mushkil hota hai adjust kerna, Jaab usne shadi se pehle "ghalat" khawaab sajaye huye hou...aur Bohat si ghalat Ummeedain....

Aur ager ghalat Umeedain lagai bih howi thien, to unko Poora honai kai liey usko chaiye kai, wo apne Nafs ko qurban kere....


lekin kurriyou , tum logou ko meri baat samjh nahi aiy gi, kiouke tum log to NEW Generation ho:36_1_62[1]:

khala this is not fair..........
har kisi ko ek hi charri se mat haanken.......lets suppose....larrki ne khwaamkhah ki ummedain nae lagaiyen.....phir normlly kitna time lgta hai........kin pehloun ko madd e nazar rakhna chahiye.....mostly.....
aur nafas ki qurbani ........behrahaal......i agree.....:thmbup:
chalin ab batein......:lpop:

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aur zahir aap bhi aik bewee hoo kisi ki honay wali to aap ko ye ghalat lagta ho hoga halank ye ziyadti naheen 372-haha

saray mard aik jasi sooch rekhtay hain siway chand aik kay ..or pata nahi wo chand aik hotay kahan hain

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yeh to Larki aur susral , dono per depend kerta hai :wk

meri apni thinking yeh hai kai....Larki to tab mushkil hota hai adjust kerna, Jaab usne shadi se pehle "ghalat" khawaab sajaye huye hou...aur Bohat si ghalat Ummeedain....

Aur ager ghalat Umeedain lagai bih howi thien, to unko Poora honai kai liey usko chaiye kai, wo apne Nafs ko qurban kere....


lekin kurriyou , tum logou ko meri baat samjh nahi aiy gi, kiouke tum log to NEW Generation ho:36_1_62[1]:

khala jani khawaab deekhna bora to nahi :D:
nafas ko qurban bivi hi kio karay husband ko aisay choor dia jaye :donno:..agar 50/50 ho to tab bhi baat banti hai :lol lekan sirf larki hi karay wo ajeeb hi lagta hai :yy:

[D@y W@lk3r]

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... aik ghar kai AIK hi sarbra hota hai (i mean aik hi HEAD hota hai) Normally husband ko hi hona chahiey....

aur biwi ko chahiy kai husband ki baat ko respect dete huey accept kere (be.shaq wo nahi chahti)/ iss se yeh hoga ka......
Husband kai dil mai apni wife ki qadar badhe gi...

totally wrong, ab wo time nahi jis ki app baat kar rahay/rahi hain. app ko ab kay time main apni wife ko saat leker chalna hoga.
Respect dono ko aik dosray ki karni aur deni chahay. aray qader aur muhabbat kay liyah dikhawa zarori nahi. dono ko is gari ko milker chalna chahay.

[D@y W@lk3r]

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khala jani khawaab deekhna bora to nahi :D:
nafas ko qurban bivi hi kio karay husband ko aisay choor dia jaye :donno:..agar 50/50 ho to tab bhi baat banti hai :lol lekan sirf larki hi karay wo ajeeb hi lagta hai :yy:

very good. :phool: