Understanding wife & husband

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

bilkul theek kaha !!!!

we expect toooo much from our life partner.....
lekin aisa to us waqt zeada hota hai
jab engagement/ nikkah 1-3 years tak rahay
in this time we come to know each other....
aur issi waqt wishes, hopes aur expectation
bohat zeada ho jaati hai.... aur shaadi ke baad
kuch bhi waisa nahi hota jaisa hamne socha
hota hai.....

tumhare sawal ka jawaab (meri nazar mai)

kuch logou ki engagement kai baad foran shadi hojaati hai... wo bih lekin shadi kai baad khush nahi hotai, aur aise bih hain jinki engagement bohat arsaa rehti hai, lekin unko shadi kai baad bih koi problemes nahi ati....

jaisa Umeed nai bih kaha kai... understanding humesha role adaa nahi kerti. i agree !

[Muhammad Ali Jawad]

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Prophet Muahmmad (s.w) ka faman-e-mubarik hay k aurat tairhi (bent) pasli say paida ki gaee hai, agar tum uss ku seedhat kerna chaho gay tu woh toot jay gee. Lihaza uss say payar mohabat say pash any ki koushish kero. Agar uss main koi boori baat ho gi tu bohut see achee batain bhi hon gee. (Hadees agreed upon)

I think we should rely on this hadeeth. And certainly we will get good results for smooth marital life.

[Khala@Saleema]

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i agree

kuch cases mai larka larki dono khush hotai hain, lekin third person involve honai ki koshish kerta hai, aur pihr dono ka distance paita hota hai.


akser dehka hai kai Larke ki Maa, yaa pihr Larki ki Maa ,,iss rishte mai kaafi role ada kerti hain.

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Re: Understanding wife & husband

Prophet Muahmmad (s.w) ka faman-e-mubarik hay k aurat tairhi (bent) pasli say paida ki gaee hai, agar tum uss ku seedhat kerna chaho gay tu woh toot jay gee. Lihaza uss say payar mohabat say pash any ki koushish kero. Agar uss main koi boori baat ho gi tu bohut see achee batain bhi hon gee. (Hadees agreed upon)

I think we should rely on this hadeeth. And certainly we will get good results for smooth marital life.

sahi :)

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i agree

kuch cases mai larka larki dono khush hotai hain, lekin third person involve honai ki koshish kerta hai, aur pihr dono ka distance paita hota hai.


akser dehka hai kai Larke ki Maa, yaa pihr Larki ki Maa ,,iss rishte mai kaafi role ada kerti hain.

yep aisa bhi hota hai ..agar donoo main achi understanding hoo jaye or apnay maslay discuss kia karian apas main to pher teesra banda kabhi beech main nahi aye ga :D:

aik cheez yeh bhi hai kay loog shadi karna hi nahi chahtay or un ki zabardasti shadi kar di jati hai ..ghar walye zoor daltay hian age hoo gai shadi kar loo ya dosri wajoohat houn ..kisi kay dabaao main a kay shadi nahi karni chaye ..:)

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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yani ab sabhi kuch chor doon?

Sub ko choor do per aanchal ko mut choorna 372-shed

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ary mai kaha jaasakti hoon tum logou ko chor ker :wk

iss topic ko sharu kiya tha to pata nhai tha yeh Hashar hojaye ga

ab soch rahi hoon isko close kerwaa doon...

kiouke is ka koi bih sahi se discussion nahi ban rahi:donno:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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sahi :)

Itni masoom shakal banati ho, kabi kabi waqee lagnay lagta ke tum masoom ho 372-haha

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Sub ko choor do per aanchal ko mut choorna 372-shed

main nay kia kia hai :donno:

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Itni masoom shakal banati ho, kabi kabi waqee lagnay lagta ke tum masoom ho 372-haha

deekhoo Khala yehi moujood hain un kay thread pay na un kay topic pay baat karoo

[Khala@Saleema]

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yep aisa bhi hota hai ..agar donoo main achi understanding hoo jaye or apnay maslay discuss kia karian apas main to pher teesra banda kabhi beech main nahi aye ga :D:

aik cheez yeh bhi hai kay loog shadi karna hi nahi chahtay or un ki zabardasti shadi kar di jati hai ..ghar walye zoor daltay hian age hoo gai shadi kar loo ya dosri wajoohat houn ..kisi kay dabaao main a kay shadi nahi karni chaye ..:)

yeh bih hai, lekin dabaou mai aaaker to akser shaadia hoti hain.

Waqt kai saath saath insaan ki soch mai bih Faraq ajaata hai. Meri soch bih pehle...kuch aur thi.
I think iss baat ka dono ki age per bih depend kerta hai. Ager kam age me shadi ho ( larki ki khass tor per) to wo kaafi chiezain apnaa leti hai, jo kai wo baari age mai Nahi kersakti.

Marzi se shadi hona to bohat zaroori he...

lekin jinki nahi hoti...wo kiya kerain:donno:

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yeh bih hai, lekin dabaou mai aaaker to akser shaadia hoti hain.

Waqt kai saath saath insaan ki soch mai bih Faraq ajaata hai. Meri soch bih pehle...kuch aur thi.
I think iss baat ka dono ki age per bih depend kerta hai. Ager kam age me shadi ho ( larki ki khass tor per) to wo kaafi chiezain apnaa leti hai, jo kai wo baari age mai Nahi kersakti.

Marzi se shadi hona to bohat zaroori he...

lekin jinki nahi hoti...wo kiya kerain:donno:

yeh baat hai kay bad main kuch loogoo ki shadiyan theek hoo jati hain lekan aap ki shadi kay shuru kay din to zaya hoo gay na :D:..agar burhpay main banda ja kay sidhray pher faida kia :lol

yep shadiyan to kafi sari aisi hain dabaoo main ki jati hain ...agar larki larka aik dosray ko pasand nahi kartay to zabardasti na karay na koi ..or pasand kio nahi kartay aik dosray ko is ki bhi wajoohat hoti hain ..aksar loog ideal kay peechay bhi bhgatay hian :D:

[Khala@Saleema]

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yeh baat hai kay bad main kuch loogoo ki shadiyan theek hoo jati hain lekan aap ki shadi kay shuru kay din to zaya hoo gay na :D:..agar burhpay main banda ja kay sidhray pher faida kia :lol

yep shadiyan to kafi sari aisi hain dabaoo main ki jati hain ...agar larki larka aik dosray ko pasand nahi kartay to zabardasti na karay na koi ..or pasand kio nahi kartay aik dosray ko is ki bhi wajoohat hoti hain ..aksar loog ideal kay peechay bhi bhgatay hian :D:

hmmm ideal kai chaker mai acha saathi kho dete hain , Ideal shakal ka hona chahiey ya seerat ka?

yeh to humari tarbiyat per bih depend kerta hai, kai hum kaisi kaisi Khawaishain paaain

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hmmm ideal kai chaker mai acha saathi kho dete hain , Ideal shakal ka hona chahiey ya seerat ka?

yeh to humari tarbiyat per bih depend kerta hai, kai hum kaisi kaisi Khawaishain paaain

har aik ka ideal alag alag hota hai kisi ko seerayat achi lagti hai to kisi ko surat ..
or larka larki donoo kay ideal different hotay hian ...

asal main aik baat yeh bhi hai kay movies deekh deekh kay loog hero herone jesay banda/bandi ko apna ideal bana leytay hain or real life main bhi aisai ha banda/bandi chahtay hian ....
wo hero herone bhi sirf movies main achay lagtay hain kabhi real life main unhay deekhian to logoo ki ankhian khul jaian :lol:

[Khala@Saleema]

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har aik ka ideal alag alag hota hai kisi ko seerayat achi lagti hai to kisi ko surat ..
or larka larki donoo kay ideal different hotay hian ...

asal main aik baat yeh bhi hai kay movies deekh deekh kay loog hero herone jesay banda/bandi ko apna ideal bana leytay hain or real life main bhi aisai ha banda/bandi chahtay hian ....
wo hero herone bhi sirf movies main achay lagtay hain kabhi real life main unhay deekhian to logoo ki ankhian khul jaian :lol:

haa sahi kaha, lekin yeh sab kerne mai piche kiska haath ziada hota hai?

Parents ka :lahoul