Understanding wife & husband

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

shadi se pehle akser Logou ko lag raha hota hai "hum saab se alag hongai... hum aisa kerain.... hum ideal life guzaarain gai...." etc

lekin..

aisa kiou nahi ho pataa ... kioukai..... hum aik doosre se Ghalat Tawaquat kerne lag jaate hain, yaa pihr ziada Umeedain laga lete hain.

Mai aik female hone kai naate se yeh samjhti hoon, kai Husband ki jo bih zime-daaria hou, lekin aik wife ki zime/dari khass tor per yeh hai kai.... wo husband ka TOTAL saath de... her qadam per...

I mean.. jab financial probleme ho... usmai uska saath de.. aisi demand naaa kere ... jo husband ko upset kere

aur jaise relatives ka mamla ho... husband kai relatives kai saath bih waisa hi salooq rakhe jaise apnou kai saath to, yeh bih achi baat hai..

iss tarah se bohat si baatain hai, jinko practical kerna Zahiri si baat hai mushkil hota hai..... lekin kerne se bohat kuch milta hai.


aik misaal hai mere zehan mai
Karwi Goliaa khaane se hi Sehat jaisi Nemaat haasil hoti hai :)

[Sky angel]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

me ko nai pata

[Khala@Saleema]

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me ko nai pata

kiya kerti hoo tum bhanjiiiiiiiii :pagal: pata nahi he to pata kero

[*muSkaan*]

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khala jee wonderful topic....

actually abhi experience to nahi hua....
lekin ab tak aap sab ne jo bhi kaha bilkul theek kaha....
and i also think first of all DUA....
aur apko ek dusre ki mistakes bhi maaf kardeni chahiye
.....and discuss about everything u want....
Dil ki har baat karni chahiye.... agar kuch acha lage
ya kuch burra bhi lagay...kisi baat se dil dukha ho...etc.

[*muSkaan*]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

shadi se pehle akser Logou ko lag raha hota hai "hum saab se alag hongai... hum aisa kerain.... hum ideal life guzaarain gai...." etc

lekin..

aisa kiou nahi ho pataa ... kioukai..... hum aik doosre se Ghalat Tawaquat kerne lag jaate hain, yaa pihr ziada Umeedain laga lete hain.

Mai aik female hone kai naate se yeh samjhti hoon, kai Husband ki jo bih zime-daaria hou, lekin aik wife ki zime/dari khass tor per yeh hai kai.... wo husband ka TOTAL saath de... her qadam per...

I mean.. jab financial probleme ho... usmai uska saath de.. aisi demand naaa kere ... jo husband ko upset kere

aur jaise relatives ka mamla ho... husband kai relatives kai saath bih waisa hi salooq rakhe jaise apnou kai saath to, yeh bih achi baat hai..

iss tarah se bohat si baatain hai, jinko practical kerna Zahiri si baat hai mushkil hota hai..... lekin kerne se bohat kuch milta hai.


aik misaal hai mere zehan mai
Karwi Goliaa khaane se hi Sehat jaisi Nemaat haasil hoti hai :)

bilkul theek kaha !!!!

we expect toooo much from our life partner.....
lekin aisa to us waqt zeada hota hai
jab engagement/ nikkah 1-3 years tak rahay
in this time we come to know each other....
aur issi waqt wishes, hopes aur expectation
bohat zeada ho jaati hai.... aur shaadi ke baad
kuch bhi waisa nahi hota jaisa hamne socha
hota hai.....

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

khala jee wonderful topic....

actually abhi experience to nahi hua....
lekin ab tak aap sab ne jo bhi kaha bilkul theek kaha....
and i also think first of all DUA....
aur apko ek dusre ki mistakes bhi maaf kardeni chahiye
.....and discuss about everything u want....
Dil ki har baat karni chahiye.... agar kuch acha lage
ya kuch burra bhi lagay...kisi baat se dil dukha ho...etc.

sahi kaha kuriyee :salam:

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

bilkul theek kaha !!!!

we expect toooo much from our life partner.....
lekin aisa to us waqt zeada hota hai
jab engagement/ nikkah 1-3 years tak rahay
in this time we come to know each other....
aur issi waqt wishes, hopes aur expectation
bohat zeada ho jaati hai.... aur shaadi ke baad
kuch bhi waisa nahi hota jaisa hamne socha
hota hai.....

yeh bih aik point hosakta hai... kai engagement /nikah ka shadi tak jo time hota hai wo lambaa hojaye....aur expectations bih ziada hojaien...

aik doosre ki ghalti ko maaf kerna chahie...lekin jo aam zindag mai choti moti hoti hain.... (koi aisi ghalti nahi jo wo bohat baari ho, aur wo kerne ka aadi hogaea ho) ....

[*muSkaan*]

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yeh bih aik point hosakta hai... kai engagement /nikah ka shadi tak jo time hota hai wo lambaa hojaye....aur expectations bih ziada hojaien...

aik doosre ki ghalti ko maaf kerna chahie...lekin jo aam zindag mai choti moti hoti hain.... (koi aisi ghalti nahi jo wo bohat baari ho, aur wo kerne ka aadi hogaea ho) ....

jee khala jee.... lekin wo bechare kya
kare jinki engagement/ nikkah itnaaaaa
lamba chaley???? (1-3 years)

now don't say get married as soon as u can an!!!! :yy:

[Khala@Saleema]

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jee khala jee.... lekin wo bechare kya
kare jinki engagement/ nikkah itnaaaaa
lamba chaley???? (1-3 years)

now don't say get married as soon as u can an!!!! :yy:

:eye: mai to yehi kehne waali thi... lekin ab tumne rok diya....


yeh hosakta hai kam baat ki jaye.... wo bih to nahi hotaaa :pagal:

[*muSkaan*]

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:eye: mai to yehi kehne waali thi... lekin ab tumne rok diya....


yeh hosakta hai kam baat ki jaye.... wo bih to nahi hotaaa :pagal:

matlab koi solution nahi??? .....

phir bhi thx khala jee....

[Khala@Saleema]

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matlab koi solution nahi??? .....

phir bhi thx khala jee....

sochte hain abih...pehle mai TEA pi louu

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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yeh khush khaal kiya hai :mm:


wo to mujhe bih pata hai :tasali: lekin tumhe khush rakhne kai liye kaisa Hona chahiey

wah wah wah............

Khala seema, meri baaton pe sirf wah wah wah he kia jata he

[Khala@Saleema]

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Khala seema, meri baaton pe sirf wah wah wah he kia jata he

konsa wala wah wah372-haha

[BUS U HE]

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Salam Batcho :D:

Umeed hai tum saab apni apni jagah per bethe ho.

Mai aik seriouse topic per discuss kerna chahti hoon, lekin maloom nahi yaha aisa mumkin hoga ya nahi 372-scare

Khair... Mia biwi ki Understanding....aik aisa masla hai jo akser Gharou mai hai... aur yeh masla.... agli Nasslou (generation) ko bih nuqsaan deta hai.

Achi understanding aur khush haal zindagi guzarne kai liye kiya zaroori hai?

aik aisa zindagi ka saathi milna jo her lihaaz se aapka saath deta ho...Bohat Mushkil hota hai...

lekin aik chiez hai meri nazar mai...jo aisa mumkin kersakti hai..aur wo hai DUA..... bcz dua aisa hatiyaar hai...jo humare saare raaste khol deta hai...

what do u think? :tasali:


pls no mazaq in this thread

apne se ziyadah doosre ko tarjeeh do aur apni ego ko mar dalo

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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konsa wala wah wah372-haha

Jo saraah ne kia