kiya aap imandar hein.....?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

baat alfaz ki nahi dear .............. ur reply indicated wht u meant ............. :lpop:

Aap ko aisa laga, lekin mein apni general life ki baat ker raah hoon na ke office ki

do agree with u ................. aap optimistic ho skatey ho her koi nahi ............. issi tarah aap kitney bhi achey observant yaan judge hon aakhir ko insan hi hain ........... humesha her kisi ko nahi parakh saktey.

Exactly...lekin aap yeh sooch ke ke shayad in future aap us insaan se hurt ho jaein...SHAYAD...aik hypothesis creat ker lein ke aap ke saath aisa hona he to mein yeh kahon ga ke yeh aitmaad ki kami he.

Aik aur quote pesh kerta hoon "A ship in the port is safe, but this is not what a ship is made for". Similary do deal with all kinda ppl confidently without any fear in mind that you might probably hurt from him/her. Believe me, if you are confident, it will solve almost all problems

[Masood]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

Aap loogon ki bajaye apne zameer ko mutmain karo. Yeh baat to tay he ke aaj kul ke door mein insaan laakh chahay to bhi wo jhoot se avoid nahi ker sakta...mere nazdeek jo jhoot bolta he wo kamzoor aur be-bus hota he...such boolnay wala bahadur hota he...mein apnay aap ko bahadur loogon mein shamil kerne ki door mein he rehta hoon :alhamd: but at times...kuch circumstances unavoidable hotay hein, un ke liye aap ko apni hikmat-e-amli change kerni per jati he...lekin baat wohi he jo jhoot boolta he wo derpook hota he...aur yeh insaan khud jaanta he ke wo kitna darpook he aur kitna bahadur

i agree with u - hamesha yehi koshish karni chahiye keh sach ka daman pakrein magar as u said kuchh circumstances aisey hotey hain keh sach bolna ziyada takleefdeh aur nuqsandeh hota hai - aur us soorat mein kuchh chhupa lena behtar hota - zaroorat is amar ki hai keh samajhney wala us majboori ko samjhney ki koshish karey keh aisey halaat kyun pedah huwey keh aik insaanj jis ney sari umer seedhi raah per chaltey huwey guzari ussey aik jhoot ka sahara kyun lena parra??? Circumstances!

['SamRazi']

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

Aap ko aisa laga, lekin mein apni general life ki baat ker raah hoon na ke office ki

Exactly...lekin aap yeh sooch ke ke shayad in future aap us insaan se hurt ho jaein...SHAYAD...aik hypothesis creat ker lein ke aap ke saath aisa hona he to mein yeh kahon ga ke yeh aitmaad ki kami he.

Aik aur quote pesh kerta hoon "A ship in the port is safe, but this is not what a ship is made for". Similary do deal with all kinda ppl confidently without any fear in mind that you might probably hurt from him/her. Believe me, if you are confident, it will solve almost all problems

its not like that ........ jab aap baar baar ek hi tarah ke tajrbat se gusron then wht it shows ........ its not others whom u can change but yes u can change your self by avoiding such incidents ..............

rather then going in to the sea and sinking its better to remain in port ...... specially when u dont know your direction ......... i think u know wht i mean ........ :lpop:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

i agree with u - hamesha yehi koshish karni chahiye keh sach ka daman pakrein magar as u said kuchh circumstances aisey hotey hain keh sach bolna ziyada takleefdeh aur nuqsandeh hota hai - aur us soorat mein kuchh chhupa lena behtar hota - zaroorat is amar ki hai keh samajhney wala us majboori ko samjhney ki koshish karey keh aisey halaat kyun pedah huwey keh aik insaanj jis ney sari umer seedhi raah per chaltey huwey guzari ussey aik jhoot ka sahara kyun lena parra??? Circumstances!

hmmm...well jhoot kia he, circumstances kia thay, situation kia thi, yeh to wohi jaan sakta he jo is process se guzra he...it depends...and i am not the authority to have my final say abt it :)

[Masood]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

hmmm...well jhoot kia he, circumstances kia thay, situation kia thi, yeh to wohi jaan sakta he jo is process se guzra he...it depends...and i am not the authority to have my final say abt it :)

This IS the real point to be noted!!! Jo insaan jin halaat sey guzarta hai wohi janta hai - doosra insaan agar samajhna chahey to ussey samajhney ki koshish kar sakta hai, manena ya na manena uska kaam hai...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

its not like that ........ jab aap baar baar ek hi tarah ke tajrbat se gusron then wht it shows ........ its not others whom u can change but yes u can change your self by avoiding such incidents ..............

rather then going in to the sea and sinking its better to remain in port ...... specially when u dont know your direction ......... i think u know wht i mean ........ :lpop:

From the highlighted statement, it seems as if you are a real confused soul :tauba Anyways....you got your own style, maybe its effective for you...so carry on with it :)

['SamRazi']

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From the highlighted statement, it seems as if you are a real confused soul :tauba Anyways....you got your own style, maybe its effective for you...so carry on with it :)

humarey nazdeek issey zindagi mei mohtat rehna kehtey hain .......... anyways do remembers your statment .......... and thanks .......... :lpop:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

This IS the real point to be noted!!! Jo insaan jin halaat sey guzarta hai wohi janta hai - doosra insaan agar samajhna chahey to ussey samajhney ki koshish kar sakta hai, manena ya na manena uska kaam hai...

Is mein koi shak bhi nahi :donno:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

humarey nazdeek issey zindagi mei mohtat rehna kehtey hain .......... anyways do remembers your statment .......... and thanks .......... :lpop:

mohtaat zaroor raho...lekin her cheez kay negative point ko na dekho :)

['SamRazi']

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

mohtaat zaroor raho...lekin her cheez kay negative point ko na dekho :)

dont want to argue more ............... u said ........ i have my own style .............. tum lerki hotey to mei dekhti kaisy plus point dekh ker her chiz ki taraf qadam barhatey ho ........... there's no point explaining u :lpop:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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dont want to argue more ............... u said ........ i have my own style .............. tum lerki hotey to mei dekhti kaisy plus point dekh ker her chiz ki taraf qadam barhatey ho ........... there's no point explaining u :lpop:

RIGHT :lpop:

[snobbish]

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To me every relation is demanding, you just need to understand the intensity of demand and to act accordingly to justify your relations. Until and unless you are not fully available for all your adequate services, your relation is hollow and fake and this is what i believe in. The element of being honest with your relations can't be ruled out...it is the base where the roots of ur relationship entrench. Being honest in the relations implies to your all time goodwill for that person. If you want the goodwill of other person, then you must be prepared for any kinda circumstances to cope with your extreme intelect and wisdom in order to protect your relationship. This is the formula which i believe in.

Not every relation is demanding there is one relation that is as pure as honey called mother's relation there is no intensity of demand and there is no need to justify your relation bcoz its the one wich is based on purest motives where rules are out of order and the only thing is honesty if you thing that good will does matter then brother no one has a perfect good will coz nobody is perfect bcoz i can change my life no one can do it for me you are just talking opver the one sided coin not the other one else what your belife is, i appriciate it but at some extent as far as is your personal gratification towards the relation and tha's it

[Aania]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

sawal he kiss kam mein zayada imandar hein jis mein aap se beimani nahee hoti.



mein apne bare mein pehle bata deta hoon ,
me sirf apni lover ke saat imandar hon jis me beimani nahee hosekti
yanee jhot nahee bhool sekta.

well ... kia aap apni gf/bf ko .. trust dilaney ke liye ye thread bana bethey :lol

Alhamdulillah .. barrey bol meri fitrat nahen .. na hi anaa.. sab apney jesey dikhtey hein is liye sab ke saath eemandar hoon Alhamdulillah baaqi .. khata bhi fitrat e insani hai .. janey anjaney koi ho gayee to Allah muaf fermaaye aameen

[Aania]

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Not every relation is demanding there is one relation that is as pure as honey called mother's relation there is no intensity of demand and there is no need to justify your relation bcoz its the one wich is based on purest motives where rules are out of order and the only thing is honesty if you thing that good will does matter then brother no one has a perfect good will coz nobody is perfect bcoz i can change my life no one can do it for me you are just talking opver the one sided coin not the other one else what your belife is, i appriciate it but at some extent as far as is your personal gratification towards the relation and tha's it

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To me every relation is demanding, you just need to understand the intensity of demand and to act accordingly to justify your relations. Until and unless you are not fully available for all your adequate services, your relation is hollow and fake and this is what i believe in. The element of being honest with your relations can't be ruled out...it is the base where the roots of ur relationship entrench. Being honest in the relations implies to your all time goodwill for that person. If you want the goodwill of other person, then you must be prepared for any kinda circumstances to cope with your extreme intelect and wisdom in order to protect your relationship. This is the formula which i believe in.

agree with both of you also ... :lol