kiya aap imandar hein.....?

[aquari]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

exactly this it what i'm to clarify here .......... its true her relations demanding hota hai aur her wo relation jo aap ke liyeh maney rakhta hai ousey bachantey ke liyeh akser sacrifice kerna perta hai .......... i agree ......... magar jhoot bol ker kabhi kisi relation ko nahi bachaya ja sakta ........
at the end hota kya hai ........ aap her limit cross ker jatey hain,apney rishtey ko bachaney ke liyeh aap shayed na jantey ho magar aap ke jhoot se shayed kisi ka nuwsan hota hai .......... kiu ke jhoot mei kabhi kisi ka faida nahi ho sakta ........ aur choonkey jhootey rishtey ko tootna hota hai wo toot jata hai tab insan ke pass siwayeh pachtawey ke kuch nahi bachta .....

Haa saimaa yehi tu loog jhoot boltey howey nahi soochtey k agley ko kitnii takleef hogi jub such maloom parey gaa ,kitnaa dard hoga jub rihsta tootey gaa..waisey hi rishtey nazuk hotey haii mager kon smajhyee jub khud k dil per guzarti haii tub andaza hotaa haii

[Masood]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

sawal he kiss kam mein zayada imandar hein jis mein aap se beimani nahee hoti.



mein apne bare mein pehle bata deta hoon ,
me sirf apni lover ke saat imandar hon jis me beimani nahee hosekti
yanee jhot nahee bhool sekta.

patah nahin yaar kaun eemandar hai aur kaun nahin - jinhon ney eemandari ki ho unhein be'eeman samjha jata hai aur jo be'eemani ko kisi khoobsurat khol mein chhupaney ki muharat rakhein woh eemandar hain...

main be'eeman hoon :lpop:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

meri taseer kaisi bhi ho ous ki fiker u matt kero . kiu ke U ke liyeh mei her haal mei zeher hi sabit hon gi :lpop:



Dekho aamir .......... aap jo baat ker rahey ho woh sirf aur sirf diplomatic hai ........... humarey mazhab aur ikhlaqiyat mei ous ka koi wajood nahi .......... zamana saaz duniya sirf maslehaton ke tehad jhoot nahi aur bhi buhut kuch mangti hai kya aap woh sab kero gai .......... ????
mei bhi yahan white lies ki baat nahi ker rahi ........ sirf itna keh rahi hoon jhoot kisi bhi soorat mei jhoot hota hai ..... chahyeh wo kisi waja se bhi bola jayeh ......... aur jesa aap ne kaha her rishta demanding hota hai, sacrifice mangata hai . to ager koi rishta bachaney ke liyeh aap ko baar baar jhoot bolna parey to aap boltey raho gai ......... aur aakhir kab tak ??? at the end jis rishtey jis maqsad ke liyeh aap ne yeh kiya jab baat samney aayi to ko nahi dekhey ga aap ne kiu kiya yeh dekha jayeh ga aap jhootey sabit huwey ... aur jhoot per mabni her rishta jhoota hota hai ........ to phir kaisa sacrifice ????? ...... instead yeh behter nahi ke aap sach ka sath lo jo rishtey aap ke sachey honey ki qadar kertey hain wahi aap ke sath sada rehtey hain ..... na ke jhooti maselhaton pe mabni rishtey ...... koi bhi rishta, koi bhi kaam, jhoot ke bal per nahi chal sakta .... kiu ke jhoot bazaat-e-khudh ek lanat hai jo kabhi bhi kisi ke liyeh bhi maslehat kabhi ban hi nahi sakti .........

aur ek baat :alhamd: humein bhi bachpan se sach ki taleem di gayi hai .......... till date i have lost many things ....... even from blood relations because of it and i dont regret it ........... this is wht my parents have always taught me.

:clap: Nice quote and thinking
You are approximatlly right ,the root of your relation is honest ..I believe in this and thats why i simply don't do those things which will hurt my any beloved relation and in thatmanner i keep them happy andtheir happines give me strength.
About circumstances..we can try to handle each and every situtation and let them not dominant on us .:)

Never ever let the other person to dominate on you, be confident what you are doing. Keeping a certain symetry in your relationship is not that easy, sometimes you struggle. What i have learnt from my life is that no one will understand you, instead it is you who has to make others understand you. Once you are out of sight, the ppl will forge the things and then relate with you....many a times ppl misinterpret you...and it happens...it is a consistently a struggle...but at the end of the day, the good manager is successful...diplomacy is also involved...but still the truth is the main key for becoming a good manager. I am really not emphasising on speaking lie, as i personally don't believe in it. Show flexibility for your dear ones, let them realize that you care for them, be polite and good with them...learn to bend otherwise you have no choice but to break....its all about a good management in your relationships.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

main be'eeman hoon :lpop:

buri baat :na:

['SamRazi']

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

Haa saimaa yehi tu loog jhoot boltey howey nahi soochtey k agley ko kitnii takleef hogi jub such maloom parey gaa ,kitnaa dard hoga jub rihsta tootey gaa..waisey hi rishtey nazuk hotey haii mager kon smajhyee jub khud k dil per guzarti haii tub andaza hotaa haii

kisi ko kisi ki takleef se kya dear ......... yeh duniya to bas mufad ki hai ........ apna kaam nikalna janti hai ....... issi liyeh to mei na is duniyadaari ke rishton mei yaqin rakhti hoon na perti hoon :)

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

yeh roots hi ager aap ke so called maslehat per mabni jhoot ki ho to ???? how can u call it an honest relation ????

:na: ub aisi bhi baat nahi jesa aap keh rahi hein

Ager aisay relations hon to mein aisay loogon ko wahan maarta hoon jaahan unhein paani bhi na milay :lpop:

['SamRazi']

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

Never ever let the other person to dominate on you, be confident what you are doing. Keeping a certain symetry in your relationship is not that easy, sometimes you struggle. What i have learnt from my life is that no one will understand you, instead it is you who has to make others understand you. Once you are out of sight, the ppl will forge the things and then relate with you....many a times ppl misinterpret you...and it happens...it is a consistently a struggle...but at the end of the day, the good manager is successful...diplomacy is also involved...but still the truth is the main key for becoming a good manager. I am really not emphasising on speaking lie, as i personally don't believe in it. Show flexibility for your dear ones, let them realize that you care for them, be polite and good with them...learn to bend otherwise you have no choice but to break....its all about a good management in your relationships.

Mr. Manager ........ aap profession ko is mei mix matt ghaseeto ........... in office there are many other things also going on ........ even we lie in it ......... if your boss asks u not to tell anyone that he's there . then u have to lie for him ..... that's totally a different thing ...... yahan aap apney boss se emandari ker rahey ho this is wht u have taken job for ........ it has got nothing to do with u as person.

['SamRazi']

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

:na: ub aisi bhi baat nahi jesa aap keh rahi hein

Ager aisay relations hon to mein aisay loogon ko wahan maarta hoon jaahan unhein paani bhi na milay :lpop:

faida ????? aap ki wajah se kisi ki zindagi chahyeh kharab ho jayeh ........... tab aap dosro ko pakro to kya faida ?????

and sometimes its too late for that .........

[aquari]

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kisi ko kisi ki takleef se kya dear ......... yeh duniya to bas mufad ki hai ........ apna kaam nikalna janti hai ....... issi liyeh to mei na is duniyadaari ke rishton mei yaqin rakhti hoon na perti hoon :)

sahi kertihai or yehi acha bhi rehta haii

[Masood]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

buri baat :na:

Dekho dost aaj kal key dor mein eemandari ka bhao itna gir chuka hai keh har zameer rakhney wala insaan agar apney gareban mein jhan ker dekhey to ussey mehsoos ho ga keh woh kahi na kahi be'eeman waqey huwa hai - apney aap sey, apney ghar walon sey, apney dost rishtedaron sey, apni muhabbat sey apney dushman sey yahan tak keh aaj kal log Allah sey bhi be'eemani kar jaatey haiin aur phir bhi seena taan ker chaltey hain ... eemandari ka ta'aluq zameer sey hota hai - kaun kitna eemandar hai - yeh usi ki zaat janti hai ...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Mr. Manager ........ aap profession ko is mei mix matt ghaseeto ........... in office there are many other things also going on ........ even we lie in it ......... if your boss asks u not to tell anyone that he's there . then u have to lie for him ..... that's totally a different thing ...... yahan aap apney boss se emandari ker rahey ho this is wht u have taken job for ........ it has got nothing to do with u as person.

mein ne prefession, office, boss ka naam kahin bhi nahi liya :donno:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kiya aap imandar hein.....?

faida ????? aap ki wajah se kisi ki zindagi chahyeh kharab ho jayeh ........... tab aap dosro ko pakro to kya faida ?????

and sometimes its too late for that .........

Your satatement reminds me a quotation "Its cruel to discover someone's mediocrity when it is too late". You must owe a good perception to judge a person's charector to avoid mishap. Be observant and clever and more to it optimistic...Optimistic in sense, that sometimes a bad charector dramatically changes himself for the sake of your goodwill and the custesy that you extend to him.

['SamRazi']

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mein ne prefession, office, boss ka naam kahin bhi nahi liya :donno:

baat alfaz ki nahi dear .............. ur reply indicated wht u meant ............. :lpop:

['SamRazi']

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Your satatement reminds me a quotation "Its cruel to discover someone's mediocrity when it is too late". You must owe a good perception to judge a person's charector to avoid mishap. Be observant and clever and more to it optimistic...Optimistic in sense, that sometimes a bad charector dramatically changes himself for the sake of your goodwill and the custesy that you extend to him.

do agree with u ................. aap optimistic ho skatey ho her koi nahi ............. issi tarah aap kitney bhi achey observant yaan judge hon aakhir ko insan hi hain ........... humesha her kisi ko nahi parakh saktey.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Dekho dost aaj kal key dor mein eemandari ka bhao itna gir chuka hai keh har zameer rakhney wala insaan agar apney gareban mein jhan ker dekhey to ussey mehsoos ho ga keh woh kahi na kahi be'eeman waqey huwa hai - apney aap sey, apney ghar walon sey, apney dost rishtedaron sey, apni muhabbat sey apney dushman sey yahan tak keh aaj kal log Allah sey bhi be'eemani kar jaatey haiin aur phir bhi seena taan ker chaltey hain ... eemandari ka ta'aluq zameer sey hota hai - kaun kitna eemandar hai - yeh usi ki zaat janti hai ...

Aap loogon ki bajaye apne zameer ko mutmain karo. Yeh baat to tay he ke aaj kul ke door mein insaan laakh chahay to bhi wo jhoot se avoid nahi ker sakta...mere nazdeek jo jhoot bolta he wo kamzoor aur be-bus hota he...such boolnay wala bahadur hota he...mein apnay aap ko bahadur loogon mein shamil kerne ki door mein he rehta hoon :alhamd: but at times...kuch circumstances unavoidable hotay hein, un ke liye aap ko apni hikmat-e-amli change kerni per jati he...lekin baat wohi he jo jhoot boolta he wo derpook hota he...aur yeh insaan khud jaanta he ke wo kitna darpook he aur kitna bahadur