shadi say pehlay kay scandals

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sorry anchal but i think u have no idea what u r talking about.
u have only started this thread to make fun of it,
although it's a serious topic.... instead of thinking
and discussing about this matter....
how we can stop all this or why
girls and boys do this......
you all are making fun of it....

har aik ka apna point of view hota hai aap ka apna hamara apna :)

aap ko kahan say yeh fun laga :donno:

[MuQadas]

Re: shadi say pehlay kay scandals

bilkul sahi bat ki Anchal app nay ajkal too yeh bohat barh gaya hai jisay dekhoo woh laga para hai is qisim ki batoon main
sab films ka asar hai salon sal involve rahain gay phir kis aik ki manzil juda ho gai too apnay fake kisim k dukh lay k rotay rahain gay :khi: sorry agar mare bat say kise ka dil tootay:D:

[Khala@Saleema]

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jin kay hotay hain pehlay say scandals wo bad main samnay a jatay hain..
ab maaf karnay wali baat hai to.....................banda aisay karay hi kio .........koi maaf kar bhi day to baat to dil main reh jani hai na :)

u r saying kai maaf kerne se kiya hota... baat to dil me rehni hai...

Hum kissi ko jaab maaf kerte hain, to uska to matlab yehi hona chahiey kai hum Dil se maaf kerahe hain... u know... Maaf kerdena Muu se kaafi nahi....maaf kerne ka assal matlab hi yeh hota hai kai....maaaf kerdiya...dil se...aur bhula di tumhari khataa....



aur apkai topic kai hawaale se ..: scandels kiou bante hain... waha se start hote jaha koi ROK naa ho...jaise Be-Pardagi ... Naa-mehram se ghul mil ker bethna.... dostia kerrne se... etc

lekin ager kisi ka past mai koi aisa ghalat kaam guzra hai..aur wo ab pashtaata hai, aur khuda se maafi maang chuka hai... aur shadi kai baad apne saathi kai saath acha hai...to pihr biwi ko bih chahiey aur doosrou ko bih....kai Past KI FAZOOL mai history ko taza na kerain....aur apne ache future kai liye usse .... bhoool jain

[MuQadas]

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u r saying kai maaf kerne se kiya hota... baat to dil me rehni hai...

Hum kissi ko jaab maaf kerte hain, to uska to matlab yehi hona chahiey kai hum Dil se maaf kerahe hain... u know... Maaf kerdena Muu se kaafi nahi....maaf kerne ka assal matlab hi yeh hota hai kai....maaaf kerdiya...dil se...aur bhula di tumhari khataa....



aur apkai topic kai hawaale se ..: scandels kiou bante hain... waha se start hote jaha koi ROK naa ho...jaise Be-Pardagi ... Naa-mehram se ghul mil ker bethna.... dostia kerrne se... etc

lekin ager kisi ka past mai koi aisa ghalat kaam guzra hai..aur wo ab pashtaata hai, aur khuda se maafi maang chuka hai... aur shadi kai baad apne saathi kai saath acha hai...to pihr biwi ko bih chahiey aur doosrou ko bih....kai Past KI FAZOOL mai history ko taza na kerain....aur apne ache future kai liye usse .... bhoool jain

zahay naseeb piyare dadi app nay baja farmaya:clap:

[*muSkaan*]

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u r saying kai maaf kerne se kiya hota... baat to dil me rehni hai...

Hum kissi ko jaab maaf kerte hain, to uska to matlab yehi hona chahiey kai hum Dil se maaf kerahe hain... u know... Maaf kerdena Muu se kaafi nahi....maaf kerne ka assal matlab hi yeh hota hai kai....maaaf kerdiya...dil se...aur bhula di tumhari khataa....



aur apkai topic kai hawaale se ..: scandels kiou bante hain... waha se start hote jaha koi ROK naa ho...jaise Be-Pardagi ... Naa-mehram se ghul mil ker bethna.... dostia kerrne se... etc

lekin ager kisi ka past mai koi aisa ghalat kaam guzra hai..aur wo ab pashtaata hai, aur khuda se maafi maang chuka hai... aur shadi kai baad apne saathi kai saath acha hai...to pihr biwi ko bih chahiey aur doosrou ko bih....kai Past KI FAZOOL mai history ko taza na kerain....aur apne ache future kai liye usse .... bhoool jain

thanks khala jee.... sirf apne yaha pe seriously koi
comments diye... warna sab to... any ways....

khala jee u r absolutely right.... and i also think
ke agar koi aapse sache dil se maafi maange
to maaf karne se uski nazar me aap ke liye
aur bhi izzat barhe ge....kamm nahi hogi.....
jaise ke koi agar shaadi se pehle sab kuch
bata dey.... then i think he/she is a very honest and
true person.....kiu ke har rishtey ki shuruwat sachai
se honi chahiye......

aur haan jab koi sachey dil se khuda se maafi
mangta hai tauba karta hai apne gunnaho ki
to khuda bhi to maaf karde te hain.... phir ham to
phir bhi insaan hain.... aur gunnah aur ghaltiya kise nahi
hoti??? ham sab se hoti hain......!!!!!

[saraah]

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thanks khala jee.... sirf apne yaha pe seriously koi
comments diye... warna sab to... any ways....

khala jee u r absolutely right.... and i also think
ke agar koi aapse sache dil se maafi maange
to maaf karne se uski nazar me aap ke liye
aur bhi izzat barhe ge....kamm nahi hogi.....
jaise ke koi agar shaadi se pehle sab kuch
bata dey.... then i think he/she is a very honest and
true person.....kiu ke har rishtey ki shuruwat sachai
se honi chahiye......

aur haan jab koi sachey dil se khuda se maafi
mangta hai tauba karta hai apne gunnaho ki
to khuda bhi to maaf karde te hain.... phir ham to
phir bhi insaan hain.... aur gunnah aur ghaltiya kise nahi
hoti??? ham sab se hoti hain......!!!!!

DEAR MUSKAAN.....
KHALA B THEEK JA RAHI HAIN AUR AAP B....AUR ANCHAL B GALAT NAE THIN...UNHON NE APNI TARAF SE SERIOUS TOPIC HI LAGAYA HAI...WO ACHI TRAH SE JAANTI HAIN K MEMBERS TOPICS KA KYA HASHAR KRTAY HAIN.....
AS U KNOW ... YEH HUM MEMBERS PE DEPEND KRTA HAI K HUM KITNI SANJEEDGI SE JAWAAB DETE HAI.....
JESA K ..KUCH MEMBERS NE...BASHMOL MERE...NON SERIOUSLY REPL\Y KIYA HAI.....AUR MUMTAZ MUFTI KA KEHNA HAI...K JIS BAAT PE EK BAAR HANSS LIYA JAYE...USS PE GHOR KRNA MUMKIN NA EREHTA....LAKIN AAP NEW HAIN NA.....SHYD ISS LIYE AAPKO PEHLI NAZAR ME YEH FUN MAKING LAGA...
BEHARHAAL.....ISS WAQT ME JALDI ME HOON....NEXT TIME ME SERIOUS REPLY K SATH HAAZIR HONGI...:insha:....:)

[*muSkaan*]

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har aik ka apna point of view hota hai aap ka apna hamara apna :)

aap ko kahan say yeh fun laga :donno:

jee bilkul thik kaha apne...sab ka apna point of view....
And i m not here to change the opinion of anyone.... what ever......

aur jaha tak baat FUN ki hai....to wo apke
topic ke Intro me hi nazar araha hai.........

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

Re: shadi say pehlay kay scandals

assalamalikum
is thread main jis topic pay baat karian gay wo hai kay shadi say pehlay larka hoo ya larki kafi tadaad aisi hoti hai jo apnay scandals banwa leytay hian ....or pher shadi kay bad yehi scandlas un ki shadi tootnay kay bhi zimmdaar hotay hian :)

main nay pechlay saal aik shadi attend ki , kafi achi shadi the ..ab suna hai kay donoo main larai jhugray shuru hain ..or waja us larki kay pehlay say scandlas ...

jahan scandals or aisi doosteoo ki baat ati hai to us main humesha modern boys/girls ka naam ata hai ...aisa nahi hai aap gaoun main bhi jaian vohan yeh cheez millye gee....cousins ki bhi apas main aisay scandlas ban jatay hain ....bad acha badnaam boora :lol
aik gaoun ki aisi shadi attend ki the main nay :D: jahan larkay ka theek thaak scandals apni cousin kay sath tha pher shadi kahi or hovi ..or pher begum say un ban :D:

to sawaal yeh hai kay jab yeh sab ghalat hai to loog aisi cheezoo main kio involve hotay hian ?
agar koi banda pasand hai to pher usi say shadi karian pher peechay na hatian ..bajye is kay kay saloo saal us say scandals banwa kay shadi kisi or say :D:
hamrai zindagi main sirf aik hi banda hona chaye :thmbup:

WA ALAIKUM ASSALAM
bht achha topic hay dear .......aur ye hamaree aaj kal ki generation ki sab se bari prb bhi ...k zara zameen se ooper huey nahin aur ,ohabbatein shuru kar daaltay hain ..aur wo koi serious nahin hotay bas frnds mein baythh k batanay k liey k un se bhi koi banda ya bandi impress hay .......

aur jab wo qissa khatam ho jata hay to naya shuru kar letay hain tu nahin aur sahee aur nahin aur sahee k musdaaq ...aur phir jab sab hee khatam ho jatay hain aur shadi kisi alag hee banday ya bandi se ho jatee hay to phr wo puranay qissay zinda hotay hain aur jhagray bantay hain...................

m not saying k mohabbat buri hay............ han jo rawayya aajkal us k sath apna rakha hay is generation nay wo bht bura hay:) q k koi aik ho to phr bhi hubby ho ya mrs: ye soch k sabar kar leta hay k chalo ho gaeey hogi mohabbat ...per aajkal to aik chhor kaeey nikal aatay/aatee hain so kis kis per becharay sabar karein


aur rahi aapki baat to banda wakaeey aik hee hona chahieey :)
n shukar :alhamd:ALLAH tala nay humein is baat mein surkhru rakha :alhamd:

[*muSkaan*]

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DEAR MUSKAAN.....
KHALA B THEEK JA RAHI HAIN AUR AAP B....AUR ANCHAL B GALAT NAE THIN...UNHON NE APNI TARAF SE SERIOUS TOPIC HI LAGAYA HAI...WO ACHI TRAH SE JAANTI HAIN K MEMBERS TOPICS KA KYA HASHAR KRTAY HAIN.....
AS U KNOW ... YEH HUM MEMBERS PE DEPEND KRTA HAI K HUM KITNI SANJEEDGI SE JAWAAB DETE HAI.....
JESA K ..KUCH MEMBERS NE...BASHMOL MERE...NON SERIOUSLY REPL\Y KIYA HAI.....AUR MUMTAZ MUFTI KA KEHNA HAI...K JIS BAAT PE EK BAAR HANSS LIYA JAYE...USS PE GHOR KRNA MUMKIN NA EREHTA....LAKIN AAP NEW HAIN NA.....SHYD ISS LIYE AAPKO PEHLI NAZAR ME YEH FUN MAKING LAGA...
BEHARHAAL.....ISS WAQT ME JALDI ME HOON....NEXT TIME ME SERIOUS REPLY K SATH HAAZIR HONGI...:insha:....:)

then i m sorry for you guys....
who can't or who aren't able to differ serious topics
from funny topics.........
i m not here to say that you should/ must reply seriously......
But if u can't reply to a serious topic
seriously...and to a
funny topic with fun..... THEN LEAVE IT PLZ!!!!
and for ur kind information i m not new here......
it's just sad how people make fun of things which
are serious matters and problems in every societey....
...doesn't matter if it's pk aur germany or anywhere else.....
this problem is everywhere.......
so plz before starting a new thread/ topic.... THINK about it
10 times before creating it.....!!!!!!!!!!

[Bint E Aadam]

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As salam-o-Alaykum larki ko hamesha aise mamlat main mukhtat rehna chaiye usay apni tumam feelings husband se wabasta rakhna chaiye kisi aire gaire se dosti ya kisi cosine se bhi dosti nahi kerni chaiye ya ais akuch k woh kuch ghaklat soche q k is s enateeja ghalat eh nikalta hai rahi baat ais akune to janab jin ka nafs per qaboo na ho woh yun kerte hain aur jin ka nafs per qaboo ho jin ko yeh ilam ho k un ki maa ki parwraish uneh yeh nahi sikhati k yun ekrein woh larki kabhi ais enahi ekrte ahi main smajhti hoon larki 75% involv hoti hai kisi bhi scandal k liye agar koi larka larki ki traf qadam barhaye larki khench ekr 2 dei to akbhi larka dubara anay ki himat nahi ekre ga aur thapper marne k sath us ka ur apnay wlaiden ko bhi bata de agar waliden kahein k mean larkay k tum ne kuch kiya ho ga to same kahe alrki k agar main en kiya hota to khud btati na................ larki sakht lehja ikhtyar ekr le to kuch bhi na ho

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aur jaha tak baat FUN ki hai....to wo apke
topic ke Intro me hi nazar araha hai.........

aap us jumlay ko point out karian jahan aap ko fun nazar aya hai ?
agar serious topic main bhi halki phulki si gupshup hoo jaye to koi itni ghalat baat bhi nahi hoti :thmbup:

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u r saying kai maaf kerne se kiya hota... baat to dil me rehni hai...

Hum kissi ko jaab maaf kerte hain, to uska to matlab yehi hona chahiey kai hum Dil se maaf kerahe hain... u know... Maaf kerdena Muu se kaafi nahi....maaf kerne ka assal matlab hi yeh hota hai kai....maaaf kerdiya...dil se...aur bhula di tumhari khataa....



aur apkai topic kai hawaale se ..: scandels kiou bante hain... waha se start hote jaha koi ROK naa ho...jaise Be-Pardagi ... Naa-mehram se ghul mil ker bethna.... dostia kerrne se... etc

khala banday sab kuch ulta seedha karta/karti pheeray or yeh sooch rekhian kay jab shadi hoo geee life partner ko sab bata kay maafi maang laian gay ...yeh kia baat hovi ?:D:

pehlay to humye deekhna hai na kay aisa hota kio hai ..or maafi wali baat to bad main ati hai ................or ALLHA Tala diloo kay haal behtar jantay hain teddy

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WA ALAIKUM ASSALAM
bht achha topic hay dear .......aur ye hamaree aaj kal ki generation ki sab se bari prb bhi ...k zara zameen se ooper huey nahin aur ,ohabbatein shuru kar daaltay hain ..aur wo koi serious nahin hotay bas frnds mein baythh k batanay k liey k un se bhi koi banda ya bandi impress hay .......

aur jab wo qissa khatam ho jata hay to naya shuru kar letay hain tu nahin aur sahee aur nahin aur sahee k musdaaq ...aur phir jab sab hee khatam ho jatay hain aur shadi kisi alag hee banday ya bandi se ho jatee hay to phr wo puranay qissay zinda hotay hain aur jhagray bantay hain...................

m not saying k mohabbat buri hay............ han jo rawayya aajkal us k sath apna rakha hay is generation nay wo bht bura hay:) q k koi aik ho to phr bhi hubby ho ya mrs: ye soch k sabar kar leta hay k chalo ho gaeey hogi mohabbat ...per aajkal to aik chhor kaeey nikal aatay/aatee hain so kis kis per becharay sabar karein


aur rahi aapki baat to banda wakaeey aik hee hona chahieey :)
n shukar :alhamd:ALLAH tala nay humein is baat mein surkhru rakha :alhamd:

right :thmbup:
main bhi yehi kehna chahati houn kay aaj kal jis tarha say society main aisay silsilay shuru kar rehay hain logoo main yeh ghalat hain ......jo cheezian limit main nahi rehti vo yehi scandals ban jatay hain ....or pher shadi kay bad yehi loog nuqsaan utahay hian ...:)

[Mr.Khan]

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sorry anchal but i think u have no idea what u r talking about.
u have only started this thread to make fun of it,
although it's a serious topic.... instead of thinking
and discussing about this matter....
how we can stop all this or why
girls and boys do this......
you all are making fun of it....

Bilkul sahi farmaya hai aap ne .......:thmbup:
Pegham k kuch logon ko har topic me sirf fun or maza hi chahye hota hai.....
chahye woh ek serious topic ho ya shughal.....
unho apne comments dena zarori hote hen......
na jaane woh kya sabit karna chahte hen k aise uselesss comments paas kar k

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Bilkul sahi farmaya hai aap ne .......:thmbup:
Pegham k kuch logon ko har topic me sirf fun or maza hi chahye hota hai.....
chahye woh ek serious topic ho ya shughal.....
unho apne comments dena zarori hote hen......
na jaane woh kya sabit karna chahte hen k aise uselesss comments paas kar k

oye kia hoo gia hai
aap bhi comments daian :D: