Shadi ki rasmain

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: Shadi ki rasmain

Mazeed kuch rasmain batati hn
ek rasm hoti hai kheer khileny k yeh larki ki rukhsati k bad larkey k gher jaker hoti hain
meri apni family main yeh rasm khasii badtameezi sey ki jati hai:khi: means dulhan ko tu phr bhi sharafat sey dulha spoon sey 7times kheer khila deta hai mager kunk as u all know dulhan nath pehni hoti hai is lya spoon bhi bari mushkil sey us tak poohnchta haii or saath main huting alag hoti haii...or jab larkey ki bari ati hai tu larki k haath yani hatheli pr kheer dali jati hai jo ussey khani parti haii is main kheny waley ka tu pata nahi pr dekhney waloo ko bauht maza ata haii
goodh bharai usualy mehdi waley din ya rukhsati sey pehely ki jati hai sometimes ager time short hoo tu after rukhsati bhi krdi jati hai.
dulha k gher main jab dulha k room main janey ka time ata hai tu tamam behnain,cosuins waghaia room k darwazey pr rasta rookti hai or naig wasool krk ussey ander janey dya jata haii .
Rukhsati k bad nexty day morning dulhan tayar hokr sub sey pehley apni saas or gher k tamam baroo ko salam krti hai jis k lya nanad lekr jati haii,phr sari family sey taruf hota hai hr koi mithai khilata hai or saath hi mun'h dikhai k tur pr koi gift bhi deta hai.
is k bad larki k gher sey us ki sisters nashta lekr ati hai yeh nashta usualy itna hota hai k gher main mojoud tamam gher waley kr lain specialy dulha dulhan tu isi sey nashta krtey hian waisey koi khas rule nahi ager koi kum bhi nashta bhejey tu sirf dulha dulhan ko krwa dya jata hai baqi hr gher main zahir ahi nashta tu banta hi hia is lya yeh baat larki walo pr choor di jati hai k woh jo aford kr sakain waisey bhi rukhsati k waqt khaney k daig b saath bheji jati haii trak jin gher waloo ya kisi barati ney khana na khaya hoo tu woh aram sey gher jaker kha ley.
Nashta k bad dulhan apni behnoo k saaath (dulha ko choor kr:tasali:) apney gher chali jati haii,sham ko dulha ata hai dulhan ko leney ,us waqt dulhan ki ammi dulha k haath pr kuch na kuch paisey rakhti hai or dulan k saath koi na koi chootey choey gifts krk usey dulha k saath bhej deti hai,baqi sometimes usi din valima hota haii ya next day wohj valima ki date pr hai.
Valima waley din dulha khud reception pr khara hota hai apney in laws k istaqbal pr phr sara VIP treatment larki waloo ko milta hai.

in asri baton main sab say achi cheez hay , salami aur gifts :hehe:

[SherAli]

Re: Shadi ki rasmain

ye sifarat kaaron walay aadab shadi main kidher say aa gaye :D:

hmmm.....do kunboN ke maa bai'n sifaaratii ahl-kaaroN ke aadaab o sakaanaat :)

[saraah]

Re: Shadi ki rasmain

W salam saraah

app ney sahi kaha woh baraat ka istaqbal bhi humara ek tradition hai waisey bhi mehman ka isteqbal jitna purjoszh hoo is main mehman ki izzat hai or phr u know baraat tu baraat haii :wk

WASLAAM
theek hai aquari ji.....jo aap ki aagiya:salam:

jesa WO kahain ge.......wesa hi kr lain ge....:khi::embarasse

[aquari]

Re: Shadi ki rasmain

WASLAAM
theek hai aquari ji.....jo aap ki aagiya:salam:

jesa WO kahain ge.......wesa hi kr lain ge....:khi::embarasse

:eye:

in asri baton main sab say achi cheez hay , salami aur gifts :hehe:

te hor ki..