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**rehman** · 31 January 2006, 10:50

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by D@y W@lk3r

hosakta hai abhi yeh farak mahsoos na ho... aur jab aap dono aged hojain tab yeh farak aap ko mahsoos ho.... :)

**rehman** · 31 January 2006, 10:52

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Aania

sad news... conservative people cannt be understood....cannt ever give happiness :( wot else to say.... its so bad..... but guess wot... acha hua sif mangni hi thee..... aur definately ye faisla larrki ke liye acha hua... koz.. insaan takeef detey huye sochta thorri naa hai... is baat ka pata shaadi ke baad chalta to wo larrki aur uski family socho kitna dukh utha-ti... Allah ke har kaam main behtri hoti hai... InshaAllah... us larrki ke naseeb main bohat khushyaan hon gi.... fir aiesey sar-phirey cheap-minded conservative logon ko pachtawey ke siwa kuch nahen milney wala....
meri dua hai.... Allah us larrki ko dheron khushyaa aur pur-sakoon zindagi ataa fermaaye... usey kabhi zindagi main dukh na miley na us ki family ko aameen....

wese me kay friend ka mokaf hai k larki walon nay yeh baat pehlay kyun nahi batai..... :) baad mein age difference ka ezhaar karna vo badniyati hai.... :)

**Shaim** · 31 January 2006, 10:54

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by rehman

suppose engagement ho jaati hai.... larki waley age difference nahi batatay .... baad mein kahen k larki ki age bari hai.... zahir si baat hai larkay walay tu naraz hoongay na....:) dono tara sincerity honi chahiye jese saima shaheen nay durast kaha... otherwise jhoot per rishtay paidaar tu nahi rahen gay...:)

Yup dono sides per sachai n sincerety zarori hai
but me k nazdeek age matter nahi kerti.........!!!

**sam@hotmail.com** · 31 January 2006, 11:42

Re: mangni toooot gayi

hi there

**sam@hotmail.com** · 31 January 2006, 11:43

Re: mangni toooot gayi

yaa kohi mujhaa hepl kar gaa plz

**'SamRazi'** · 31 January 2006, 11:43

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by rehman

aap nay bahut umda baat ki...... :)

Thnx, yeh sirf ek logic hai jo samajhney ki zarorat hai :)

**sam@hotmail.com** · 31 January 2006, 11:45

Re: mangni toooot gayi

kyaa maih bhee app donoo kee conversation maih ahh sakh tee hoon

**'SamRazi'** · 31 January 2006, 11:45

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by sam@hotmail.com

yaa kohi mujhaa hepl kar gaa plz

kaisi help chahiyeh aap ko ???

**Masood** · 31 January 2006, 12:23

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by rehman

meray eik dost nay 1 saal pehlay enagement ki thi jab ussay yeh pata chala k larki 2 saal umer mein bari hai tu uss larkay nay magni tor di.... jab me ko pata laga bahut dukh hua.... :)

kiya wakai larki ka larkay ki umer mein chota hona zaroori hai?? aap kiya comments dein gay??

Rehman baat yeh hai keh aik kaamyab shaadi ka daro maddar is baat per nahin hota keh umer mein kitna tazaad hai aur kiski umer kaisi hai. Aik kaamyab shaadi key liye sochon ka milna bohat zaroori hai. Larki aur larkey ko is baat per yaqin hona chahiye keh zindagi key mailey mein koi muqaam bhi aaey mera saathi us waqt meri himmat bandhaey ga jab main down hoon, aur us waqt mujhey encourage karey ga jab main theek jaa raha/rahi hoon. Aik doosrey per bharosa, aetmaad bohat zaroori hai.

Aik fact yeh hai keh larkiyaan aur larkey aaj kal dey daur mein itney "ba'shaoor" ho gaey hain keh woh age key gap ko feel kartey hain. Unkey nazdeek agar age ka gap bohat ziyada ho ga to sochon mein ham'ahangi nahin hoti - thinking level different hota hai.

Ba'zaat-e-khud I think keh kuchh saal ka gap hona chahiye. Larki kam'umer ho bhi to woh behtar adjust kar paati hai, lekin agar larki age mein larkey sey ziyada ho to ussey khud feel hota hai keh uska miyaan us sey kam'umer (bacha :wk ) hai...

**Spy009** · 31 January 2006, 12:51

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by rehman

meray eik dost nay 1 saal pehlay enagement ki thi jab ussay yeh pata chala k larki 2 saal umer mein bari hai tu uss larkay nay magni tor di.... jab me ko pata laga bahut dukh hua.... :)

kiya wakai larki ka larkay ki umer mein chota hona zaroori hai?? aap kiya comments dein gay??

2-3 saal ka bada koi farq nahin hota,

kuchh din pehle mera bhi purposal aaya tha...baad mein pata chala ke she is 3 years older to me, jab meri mother ko pata chala to baat ayi gayi rah gayi.

**Spy009** · 31 January 2006, 12:58

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Masood

Rehman baat yeh hai keh aik kaamyab shaadi ka daro maddar is baat per nahin hota keh umer mein kitna tazaad hai aur kiski umer kaisi hai. Aik kaamyab shaadi key liye sochon ka milna bohat zaroori hai. Larki aur larkey ko is baat per yaqin hona chahiye keh zindagi key mailey mein koi muqaam bhi aaey mera saathi us waqt meri himmat bandhaey ga jab main down hoon, aur us waqt mujhey encourage karey ga jab main theek jaa raha/rahi hoon. Aik doosrey per bharosa, aetmaad bohat zaroori hai.

Aik fact yeh hai keh larkiyaan aur larkey aaj kal dey daur mein itney "ba'shaoor" ho gaey hain keh woh age key gap ko feel kartey hain. Unkey nazdeek agar age ka gap bohat ziyada ho ga to sochon mein ham'ahangi nahin hoti - thinking level different hota hai.

Ba'zaat-e-khud I think keh kuchh saal ka gap hona chahiye. Larki kam'umer ho bhi to woh behtar adjust kar paati hai, lekin agar larki age mein larkey sey ziyada ho to ussey khud feel hota hai keh uska miyaan us sey kam'umer (bacha :wk ) hai...

Waise mere khyal mein larka 4-5 saal larki se bada hona chahiye, phir dono mein "ham'ahangi" balance rahta hai.

Lekin main kuchh logon ko dekha ke larka 30-32 ka hai to larki 20-22 ka yehan 10 ka difference dekhne ko milta hai, aur aaj kal boys yeh chahtey hian ke jab tak koi suitable job naa mil jaye tab tak shaadi nahiin karenge, after graduation ke baad is competion daur mein job paney mein kafi waqt nikal jata hai, aur ab pehle zamaney ki tarah ab 4-5 saal ke difference age ratio nahin raha.

**Masood** · 31 January 2006, 13:03

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Spy009

Waise mere khyal mein larka 4-5 saal larki se bada hona chahiye, phir dono mein "ham'ahangi" balance rahta hai.

Lekin main kuchh logon ko dekha ke larka 30-32 ka hai to larki 20-22 ka yehan 10 ka difference dekhne ko milta hai, aur aaj kal boys yeh chahtey hian ke jab tak koi suitable job naa mil jaye tab tak shaadi nahiin karenge, after graduation ke baad is competion daur mein job paney mein kafi waqt nikal jata hai, aur ab pehle zamaney ki tarah ab 4-5 saal ke difference age ratio nahin raha.

Mera zaati khiyaal hai keh larki kam'sin hoti hai magar woh adjust karna jaan jati hai. Magar larka la'ubali tabiyat ka hota hai. 20 saal key larkey ki shadi aik azab sey kam nahin. Larkey ki shadi us waqt karni chahiye jab woh mature ho. Ab yeh koi zaroori nahin keh umer key saath hi larka mature hota hai. Lekin ham in general baat kartey hain. Aur general yehi dekhney mein aaya hai keh larkey around about 27-30 yrs mein aa ker saheeh "paktey" :lol hain. For me around about 30 yrs for a male is an excellent age.

Main bhi bohat sey logon ko janta hoon jahan age ka gap 20 saal tak dekhney mein aaya hai

**Spy009** · 31 January 2006, 13:07

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Masood

Main bhi bohat sey logon ko janta hoon jahan age ka gap 20 saal tak dekhney mein aaya hai

As a muslim hamey nahin bhoolna chahiye ke Rasool Allah s.a.wasallam ne Khadija r.a. se shaadi kiye, jo ke Aap s.a.w. se 15 saal badi thin, wahi doosri aur Hajrate Ayesha r.a. aur Aap s.a.w. ke bich kaafi age difference tha.

**'SamRazi'** · 31 January 2006, 13:14

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Masood

For me around about 30 yrs for a male is an excellent age.

khudh is umer ko pohanch rahye ho is liyeh :lol :lol

**'SamRazi'** · 31 January 2006, 13:15

Re: mangni toooot gayi

Originally posted by Spy009

As a muslim hamey nahin bhoolna chahiye ke Rasool Allah s.a.wasallam ne Khadija r.a. se shaadi kiye, jo ke Aap s.a.w. se 15 saal badi thin, wahi doosri aur Hajrate Ayesha r.a. aur Aap s.a.w. ke bich kaafi age difference tha.

Aap ki baat darust hai Spy magar wo daur wo waqt aur tha, logo ki tarbeeyat sahi hoti thi, aaj kal to 70% parents ko pata hi nahi hota tarbeeyat kaisey ki jati hai :tauba

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