uuuff saas...haey saaass

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

bahu k sath salook bhi to dekho na kese hota he,dulhan ghar me ati he to us ko sara khandan microscopic ankh se dekhta he,saas ko apni beti ki ghalti mamooli si lagti he lekin bahu ki mamooli si baat pahar jesi lagti he,or yakinan saas bhi achi ho sakti he or bahu bhi khatarnak ho sakti he lekin masla ye he k dono me se aik jhagre wali fitrat rakhti ho to doosri kese sath nibhaey?:think:

haan ye to hay k aik achi ho to 2nd fareeq badmazgi pheylanay wala hota hay ........... is ka hall wohi hay k mard ,, means shohar ya susar sahab agar hain to aetdaal raknay ki koshish karen kiun k baro'N ka beher haal aik muqam hota hay ghar main , agar baray munasib waqton pay munasib qadam uthain aur apna roll play karen to mahol khrab honay say bach sakta hay

wesay main personaly baho k liye ye kahon gi k eesaar ka jazba usay rakhna chahhye. saas apna beyta aik tarha say usay sonp deti hay , to badlay main baho saas ko kam say kam maan jitni izzat to day ,


2..4 kaam ko zulm ka naam dena achi baat to nahi na .

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

372-haha

:hahahaha: apnay aap pay hans k geo

[aabi2cool]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

:rose

= ummid:tunn:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

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Walaikum Assalaam

Aap ki Aziz ka kia band kia hua hay ??

Khair.... Jahan tak topic ka sawaal hay, yeh laRayi aaj kal ki nahin, aur iss ka hal bhi koi itna asaan nahin.

Baat TOLERANCE ki hay aur iss main sab say behtreen kirdaar aik BAHOO hi nibah sakti hay, meray hisaab say laRki main tolerance apni Saas say ziyda hona chayeh, kiyonki umar main izaafay ki bina per un main Generation Gap tou filhaal hota hi hay jis ki bina per Saas apni baatoon ki paasdaari ko ziyada importance bhi day gi aur usski tawaqooat Bahoo say kayi ziyda hoongi... LaRki ko pasand karna, unkay khandaan say baat cheet karna, yeh sab aik Saas ki zimaydaari samjha jaata hay isi liye agar laRki tawaqo'at per poori naa utray tou iss ka sab say ziyada asar DIRECT saas per hi paRta hay.

Baaqi laRkay ko chayeh kay woh apnay ghar kay mahool ko MAINTAIN rakhay, maana kay yeh jhgaRa SAAS aur BAHOO ka hay magar iss main sab say AHAM KIRDAAR aik SHOHAR aur BAITAY ka bhi hota hay jo baaz auqaat KHAMOSHI ko afiyat jaantay hain, aur aisa attitude raktay hay kay yeh Aurat aurat ki dushmani hay, laRnay bhaRnay doo inhain, hum kiyon beech main bolain, yeh meri maa aur biwi ka maala hay waghaira waghaira .....jo kay meri nazar main GHALAT hay agar laRka apnay gharailoo mamlaat per nazar rakhay aur JUSTIFY karay tou laRayi jhagRoon ko AVOID kia jaa sakta hay.

Behnoon, Saas, bhabhiyon, aur apni biwi sab ko apni jagah aur ahmiyat day, kiyonki Mohabbat baantnay say bant-ti nahin, aur har rishtay ki mohabbat aur har rishtay ka ahtiraam alag hota hay, jiss kay saath JUSTIFY karna bohat zaroori hota hay.

May ALLAH light and guide our ways AMEEN

Fi Amaan ALLAH

:salam: bohat achi soch hay Ali , mashaAllah aap insaf pasndi say tajzia kartay hain bilkul durust farmaya aap nay , aksar mard hazrat yahi kehtay hain k maan behnen aur bv ki baaton main jhgron main ham kiun phansen , mujhe na sunao wagera , ye beywaqofana tarz e amal hay kabooter ki manind billi say aankhen churanay wali baat .

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

hum nay paRh bhi lia aur dekh bhi lia, aap Star Plus kay daramoon ki GUNDI AURTOON ki tarah aag main tayl ka kaam naa karain :lol 372-haha

aap dono k replies k baad tail dalnay ki zarorat he nai parti372-haha
lambay chhoray khabarnaamay

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Phir ghalti kar gayin aaap, humara (nahin humara nahin kehta warna aag kahin aur lag jayay gi :lol ) I mean mera kaam AAG lagaana hay, baaqi tayil waghaira ka kaam aap ka hay 372-haha

aap dono k replies k baad tail dalnay ki zarorat he nai parti372-haha
lambay chhoray khabarnaamay

[AbgeenA]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Walaikum Assalaam

Aap ki Aziz ka kia band kia hua hay ??

Khair.... Jahan tak topic ka sawaal hay, yeh laRayi aaj kal ki nahin, aur iss ka hal bhi koi itna asaan nahin.

Baat TOLERANCE ki hay aur iss main sab say behtreen kirdaar aik BAHOO hi nibah sakti hay, meray hisaab say laRki main tolerance apni Saas say ziyda hona chayeh, kiyonki umar main izaafay ki bina per un main Generation Gap tou filhaal hota hi hay jis ki bina per Saas apni baatoon ki paasdaari ko ziyada importance bhi day gi aur usski tawaqooat Bahoo say kayi ziyda hoongi... LaRki ko pasand karna, unkay khandaan say baat cheet karna, yeh sab aik Saas ki zimaydaari samjha jaata hay isi liye agar laRki tawaqo'at per poori naa utray tou iss ka sab say ziyada asar DIRECT saas per hi paRta hay.

Baaqi laRkay ko chayeh kay woh apnay ghar kay mahool ko MAINTAIN rakhay, maana kay yeh jhgaRa SAAS aur BAHOO ka hay magar iss main sab say AHAM KIRDAAR aik SHOHAR aur BAITAY ka bhi hota hay jo baaz auqaat KHAMOSHI ko afiyat jaantay hain, aur aisa attitude raktay hay kay yeh Aurat aurat ki dushmani hay, laRnay bhaRnay doo inhain, hum kiyon beech main bolain, yeh meri maa aur biwi ka maala hay waghaira waghaira .....jo kay meri nazar main GHALAT hay agar laRka apnay gharailoo mamlaat per nazar rakhay aur JUSTIFY karay tou laRayi jhagRoon ko AVOID kia jaa sakta hay.

Behnoon, Saas, bhabhiyon, aur apni biwi sab ko apni jagah aur ahmiyat day, kiyonki Mohabbat baantnay say bant-ti nahin, aur har rishtay ki mohabbat aur har rishtay ka ahtiraam alag hota hay, jiss kay saath JUSTIFY karna bohat zaroori hota hay.

May ALLAH light and guide our ways AMEEN

Fi Amaan ALLAH

g mohawara bola tha..natka band karna:think:
n thanks for ur detail reply:thmbup:

[AbgeenA]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

yar aise kuch nahi hota.... I think.... aap ko aap ke consent ke bagair koi "down" feel nahi karwaa sakta.... and its natural... rishto ko un ki jagaho per rakhna aana chahiye... chalein saas ko beti ki ghalti nazar nahi aati or bahu ki nazar aati hai tu kya??? its human nature apni cheez apni hi hoti hai... so, why should I suffer just because someone is not comfortable with me or think that I am good for nothing.... Its all on your thinking..... saas saheba ko disappear tu nahi kiya jaa sakta na.. per apni thinking to badli jaa sakti hai na..... or vice versa.... per khair.... :think:

haan ye to hay k aik achi ho to 2nd fareeq badmazgi pheylanay wala hota hay ........... is ka hall wohi hay k mard ,, means shohar ya susar sahab agar hain to aetdaal raknay ki koshish karen kiun k baro'N ka beher haal aik muqam hota hay ghar main , agar baray munasib waqton pay munasib qadam uthain aur apna roll play karen to mahol khrab honay say bach sakta hay

wesay main personaly baho k liye ye kahon gi k eesaar ka jazba usay rakhna chahhye. saas apna beyta aik tarha say usay sonp deti hay , to badlay main baho saas ko kam say kam maan jitni izzat to day ,


2..4 kaam ko zulm ka naam dena achi baat to nahi na .

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

whats about your saas

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

aap apni saaska bata den no prob :dance5:

Kounn Doctor nayy Rokkaa howa haii kiaa

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

yani abhi saas peda ho gi,phir bahu,ap to 100 saal k ho jaen ge tab tak

Umiid par duniaa Qaim haii

[D@y W@lk3r]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Aslamoalikum:hii:
Maa kitna khubsurat lafz..kitna khubsurat rishta...sirapa dua hi dua...lekin yehi maan jab saas banti he to bad dua kiun ban jati he?372-scareye aik sadiyon purana jhagra he,lekin poochne ka khiyal yun aya k meri aik aziz hen,un ka natka un ki saas ne band kia hua he,mujhe to us k masle ka koi hal nazar nahi ata:donno:apko ata ho to bataen?:think:

saas bhi kabhi bhaho thibarbie1

[RulzZ]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

larki ki

laRki ki saas matlab laRkay ki walida muhtarma :think:

ab maiN kuch kahoonga to baat serious ho jaiy gi is leay

mitti pao aur khud samajh jao :oldie:

zaba10 shot 372-hahaAllah khair , phir in k din raat baal nochtay aur jawab detay he guzar jaingay

abid bhai and ali aap dono ko kia keh rahay hain ammu
:kr:

maiN to apnay dushmanoN ko yahe dua dayta hooN kay woh masood kay ham'raz banaiN, unhaiN aabid aur thefire1 kay pm aaiN, msa un ka jigri dost ban jaiy, un ki raah chaltay koi aashi jesi laRki piTai laga day :oldie:

[saraah]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

ufffffffffffffffff :garmi:

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

:lol