uuuff saas...haey saaass

[AbgeenA]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

waalikumasalam:d1:

I thni rita "rishto ki izat un ka ehtraam apni jagah per hume kisi bhi rishte ko ser per sawar nahi karna chahiye" :think:

shaadi or sans se tu na jaane kyun larkiyo ko humesha hi daraya jata hai like yaahn tu chal gaay sasoraal mein sans ke samne pata chalega and all bla bla bla... :fight:...isi liye woh ek fear hota hai larkiyo mein jo I think nahi hona chahiye... kisi bhi rishte mein respect ki jaagah ager dar le le tu us ka yahi haal hota hai.... ager aaj hume pata chal jaaye ke bei falan banda aap se darta hai tu samne waala khud b khud shair hojata hai....:lpop: ..
secondly... woh kaam jo aap nahi kar sakte us ke liye NO kehna seekhna chahiye.. yeh aap ko bauaht tareeqo se problem free kar deta hai... as being human you cant be a jack of all.... so its Ok ager aap kuch nahi kar sakte... it doesnt make you bad person.. akser sans baho ke rishte mein yahi hota hai bahu saheba foozol mein hi khud ko "ghulaam" consider ker leti hain or saans ko jalad... or khud ke hi foozol assumption ki wajah se is rishte ka yeh haal hota hai ...

or aap ki frnd ke case filhaal tu yahi hosakta hai ke baato ko clear kiya jaaye.. hume sumjh nahi aa rahi kis sense mein yeh nutqa band kiya howa hai.. warna me shaid kuch suggest karti...

bahu k sath salook bhi to dekho na kese hota he,dulhan ghar me ati he to us ko sara khandan microscopic ankh se dekhta he,saas ko apni beti ki ghalti mamooli si lagti he lekin bahu ki mamooli si baat pahar jesi lagti he,or yakinan saas bhi achi ho sakti he or bahu bhi khatarnak ho sakti he lekin masla ye he k dono me se aik jhagre wali fitrat rakhti ho to doosri kese sath nibhaey?:think:

[AbgeenA]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

apnii Too abhii saass bhii Paiddaa nahii hoiii,,,,
hamm kaissaayy bataa sakkttay hainnn....


ussay kahoo sabbar karrayyy...
kuchh Gunahoo kiis azaaa duniaa main hii
saass kii shakkal main mill jatii haiii
:dance2:

yani abhi saas peda ho gi,phir bahu,ap to 100 saal k ho jaen ge tab tak:khi:

w/salam,

yeh laRkay ki saas ki baat ho rahe hai ya laRki ki :think:

larki ki

unity khala yeh u ko thread kharab kar raha hai :hairdrayer:

karne de,in ko phir saza k tor par aik adad zalim saas mile gi:dance2:

[aabi2cool]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

waalikumasalam:d1:

I thni rita "rishto ki izat un ka ehtraam apni jagah per hume kisi bhi rishte ko ser per sawar nahi karna chahiye" :think:

shaadi or sans se tu na jaane kyun larkiyo ko humesha hi daraya jata hai like yaahn tu chal gaay sasoraal mein sans ke samne pata chalega and all bla bla bla... :fight:...isi liye woh ek fear hota hai larkiyo mein jo I think nahi hona chahiye... kisi bhi rishte mein respect ki jaagah ager dar le le tu us ka yahi haal hota hai.... ager aaj hume pata chal jaaye ke bei falan banda aap se darta hai tu samne waala khud b khud shair hojata hai....:lpop: ..
secondly... woh kaam jo aap nahi kar sakte us ke liye NO kehna seekhna chahiye.. yeh aap ko bauaht tareeqo se problem free kar deta hai... as being human you cant be a jack of all.... so its Ok ager aap kuch nahi kar sakte... it doesnt make you bad person.. akser sans baho ke rishte mein yahi hota hai bahu saheba foozol mein hi khud ko "ghulaam" consider ker leti hain or saans ko jalad... or khud ke hi foozol assumption ki wajah se is rishte ka yeh haal hota hai ...

or aap ki frnd ke case filhaal tu yahi hosakta hai ke baato ko clear kiya jaaye.. hume sumjh nahi aa rahi kis sense mein yeh nutqa band kiya howa hai.. warna me shaid kuch suggest karti...

لایَعْنی تبصرہ + اَغلاط نامہ
372-haha372-haha372-haha

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

:lol

w/salam,

yeh laRkay ki saas ki baat ho rahe hai ya laRki ki :think:

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

372-haha

meri dua hai tujhay aabi2cool aur thefire1 kay pm aaiN :dua

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Walaikum Assalaam

Aap ki Aziz ka kia band kia hua hay ??

Khair.... Jahan tak topic ka sawaal hay, yeh laRayi aaj kal ki nahin, aur iss ka hal bhi koi itna asaan nahin.

Baat TOLERANCE ki hay aur iss main sab say behtreen kirdaar aik BAHOO hi nibah sakti hay, meray hisaab say laRki main tolerance apni Saas say ziyda hona chayeh, kiyonki umar main izaafay ki bina per un main Generation Gap tou filhaal hota hi hay jis ki bina per Saas apni baatoon ki paasdaari ko ziyada importance bhi day gi aur usski tawaqooat Bahoo say kayi ziyda hoongi... LaRki ko pasand karna, unkay khandaan say baat cheet karna, yeh sab aik Saas ki zimaydaari samjha jaata hay isi liye agar laRki tawaqo'at per poori naa utray tou iss ka sab say ziyada asar DIRECT saas per hi paRta hay.

Baaqi laRkay ko chayeh kay woh apnay ghar kay mahool ko MAINTAIN rakhay, maana kay yeh jhgaRa SAAS aur BAHOO ka hay magar iss main sab say AHAM KIRDAAR aik SHOHAR aur BAITAY ka bhi hota hay jo baaz auqaat KHAMOSHI ko afiyat jaantay hain, aur aisa attitude raktay hay kay yeh Aurat aurat ki dushmani hay, laRnay bhaRnay doo inhain, hum kiyon beech main bolain, yeh meri maa aur biwi ka maala hay waghaira waghaira .....jo kay meri nazar main GHALAT hay agar laRka apnay gharailoo mamlaat per nazar rakhay aur JUSTIFY karay tou laRayi jhagRoon ko AVOID kia jaa sakta hay.

Behnoon, Saas, bhabhiyon, aur apni biwi sab ko apni jagah aur ahmiyat day, kiyonki Mohabbat baantnay say bant-ti nahin, aur har rishtay ki mohabbat aur har rishtay ka ahtiraam alag hota hay, jiss kay saath JUSTIFY karna bohat zaroori hota hay.

May ALLAH light and guide our ways AMEEN

Fi Amaan ALLAH

Aslamoalikum:hii:
Maa kitna khubsurat lafz..kitna khubsurat rishta...sirapa dua hi dua...lekin yehi maan jab saas banti he to bad dua kiun ban jati he?372-scareye aik sadiyon purana jhagra he,lekin poochne ka khiyal yun aya k meri aik aziz hen,un ka natka un ki saas ne band kia hua he,mujhe to us k masle ka koi hal nazar nahi ata:donno:apko ata ho to bataen?:think:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Zabardast

:d1:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Ummid bachay ye sans nahin SAAS word hay

ummid ki saans apni saas k sath juri hoi hay jabi unhon nay aisay kaha :d1:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

w/salam,

yeh laRkay ki saas ki baat ho rahe hai ya laRki ki :think:

aap apni saaska bata den no prob :dance5:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

karr loo Galllll


Zulaikhaa Mardd thaaa yaaa aoorrattt

ammu ko koi qissa na sunana aainda

[ummid]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

Ummid bachay ye sans nahin SAAS word hay

ji de.... SAAS :embarasse

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

meri dua hai tujhay aabi2cool aur thefire1 kay pm aaiN :dua

zaba10 shot 372-hahaAllah khair , phir in k din raat baal nochtay aur jawab detay he guzar jaingay

abid bhai and ali aap dono ko kia keh rahay hain ammu
:kr:

[ummid]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

bahu k sath salook bhi to dekho na kese hota he,dulhan ghar me ati he to us ko sara khandan microscopic ankh se dekhta he,saas ko apni beti ki ghalti mamooli si lagti he lekin bahu ki mamooli si baat pahar jesi lagti he,or yakinan saas bhi achi ho sakti he or bahu bhi khatarnak ho sakti he lekin masla ye he k dono me se aik jhagre wali fitrat rakhti ho to doosri kese sath nibhaey?:think:

yar aise kuch nahi hota.... I think.... aap ko aap ke consent ke bagair koi "down" feel nahi karwaa sakta.... and its natural... rishto ko un ki jagaho per rakhna aana chahiye... chalein saas ko beti ki ghalti nazar nahi aati or bahu ki nazar aati hai tu kya??? its human nature apni cheez apni hi hoti hai... so, why should I suffer just because someone is not comfortable with me or think that I am good for nothing.... Its all on your thinking..... saas saheba ko disappear tu nahi kiya jaa sakta na.. per apni thinking to badli jaa sakti hai na..... or vice versa.... per khair.... :think:

[ummid]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

لایَعْنی تبصرہ + اَغلاط نامہ


372-haha372-haha372-haha

:rose

[thefire1]

Re: uuuff saas...haey saaass

hum nay paRh bhi lia aur dekh bhi lia, aap Star Plus kay daramoon ki GUNDI AURTOON ki tarah aag main tayl ka kaam naa karain :lol 372-haha

zaba10 shot 372-hahaAllah khair , phir in k din raat baal nochtay aur jawab detay he guzar jaingay

abid bhai and ali aap dono ko kia keh rahay hain ammu
:kr: