Understanding wife & husband

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

khala jani khawaab deekhna bora to nahi :D:
nafas ko qurban bivi hi kio karay husband ko aisay choor dia jaye :donno:..agar 50/50 ho to tab bhi baat banti hai :lol lekan sirf larki hi karay wo ajeeb hi lagta hai :yy:

Jis tarah ki tumhari baatein hein, tum bus apni khair he manaoo 372-haha

[Muhammad Ali Jawad]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

B]As I have already mentioned that, we should apply islamic philosophy in every type of relashionship. Main yahan kuch ahadees quote kerna chaoon ga.

Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ka faramn-e-mubarik AURAT (FEMALE) k barya main yeh hai k "aurat terhi (bent) pasli say paida ki gayee hai. Ager tum uss ku zabardasti seedha kernay ki koushis kero gay tu woh toot jaiy gee. Uss say payar mohabbat say pash any ki kushish kero. Agar uss main buri batain hongee tu bohut see achee batain bhee hongee. Yani uss ki buri batoon ku nazar andaaz ker do". (ager woh sharyiat k khilaaf nahi hain).

Jab k Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ka faramn-e-mubarik Marrad (MALE) k barya main yeh hai, k "tum main say kisee k liye yeh jaiz nahi k woh kisee insaan ku sijda keray chahay woh nabi (Prophet) hi kyun na hu. Ager sijda jaiz hota tu main aurtoun ku hukum daita k woh apnay shouhroun (husbands) ku sijda karian".

Iss hadees say husband ki ahmiat k pata chalta hai. Aaurt k liye ye jaiz nahi k bilwajah apnay husband ki na farmani kerya. Sirf aisay ahkaam main husband ki nafarmani jaiz hai jo sharyiat k khilaaf hoon.

Jahan tak susral k rawayyoon k taalooq hai. Islam main iss ka bhi aik waqia hai. Aik auraat ya marrad Prophet k pass aay aur aap say farmaya k marya relitives (susraal) meray saath achaa salook nahi kertay lykin main un k saath hameesha achaa salook kerta hon. Prophet Muhammad (s.w) nay uss say farmaya k ager tum yeh baat sach keh rahay ho tu tum apnay relitives ki nakian samait rahay ho aur tumhary gunah un kay khatay main dalay ja rahay hain. Aur un k mooqablay main Allah tumhara madadgar ho ga. (tumharay sabar k wajah say).

Aik cheez aur add karoon ga k hamari naujawan unmarried larkyun ku chahye k woh novels aur afsanay kam say kam paraha kerain. Yeh cheezain un ku kharaab kertee hain aur woh shaadi say pehlay hi khowaab deknay lagti hain k un ka honay wala shoouhar bohut handsome aur rich aur payar kernay wala hu ga. Jaissa k afsanoo main hota hai. Reality is totally different. Jab un ku waisa husband nahi melta tu woh disturb hoo jati hain. Ur un ki married life bhi disturb ho jati hai.

Umeed hai memebers meri above statement say thora bohut agree karain gay.

Waslam. [/B]

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

khala this is not fair..........
har kisi ko ek hi charri se mat haanken.......lets suppose....larrki ne khwaamkhah ki ummedain nae lagaiyen.....phir normlly kitna time lgta hai........kin pehloun ko madd e nazar rakhna chahiye.....mostly.....
aur nafas ki qurbani ........behrahaal......i agree.....:thmbup:
chalin ab batein......:lpop:

Aik larki ko doosre ki Baat sunne ka Hosla aur Bardaasht hona chahiiye.

Kisi ki baat buri lage, (husband aur wife ka to relation aisa hai, kai koi baat buri lage to ziada ter wo Izhaar ker lete hain ) lekin hum akser doosre relatives ki baat ko bura lagne per Izhaar nahi ker paate....to iss kai liye zaroor hai kai apne kisi bih relative ki baat jo buri lage... usko IGNORE kero... Yeh zaroori hai.... I mean, jo ghar mai aam tor per Baatien hoti hain.

Iss tarah kerne se apki apni qadar padhti hai. BCZ koi bih Perfect nahi hai iss Dunia mai.

Apkai Sussraal waalou ki bih yehi soch honi Chahiye.. teddy... kiouke ager wo apki ghaltiou ko ignore kerte hain, aur pyar se samjhaate hain, jaise APNI BETI ko...to apko BIH kabih apne susraal se shikayet nahi hogi :)

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

khala jani khawaab deekhna bora to nahi :D:
nafas ko qurban bivi hi kio karay husband ko aisay choor dia jaye :donno:..agar 50/50 ho to tab bhi baat banti hai :lol lekan sirf larki hi karay wo ajeeb hi lagta hai :yy:

Aik larki ne hi apne husband ke ghar jana ahota hai (humare Pakistani / indian ) Maashre kai mutabiq.... jo kai mujhe bih samjh nahi ataa kai KIOU :donno:

Khawab dehkna buri baat nahi...lekin unko poora hote dehkne ki KHawahish Ghalat hai :tasali:

kiou kai Khawaab iss liye nahi dehke Jaate kai wo ZAROOR Poore bih hongai :tasali:

Khair.... Husband ki apni Zime-daariya hain...

Maine aik bohat pyara quote suna tha.... uss waqt to mai isko nahi samjhi thi, lekin ab mai isko samjhti hoon kai yeh 100% TRUE hai.

" larki shadi kai baad apne shohar ki jab Londi banti hai, to pihr shohar aik din Uska GHULAAM Hojaata hai :clap:"

Kitne Mazeh ki baat hai :wk.............. Aik Larki ko chahiye kai wo apne husband ka itna khiyaal kere...ke usko WAQIYE mai apni wifeki dil mai Qadar hojaye...uskai baad to saari zindagi wo apka hojaye ga :eye:


Aur yehi NAsHIHAAT tumhari pyari Khala ki TUM saab Larkiou ko hai :eye:

[Khala@Saleema]

Re: Understanding wife & husband

B]As I have already mentioned that, we should apply islamic philosophy in every type of relashionship. Main yahan kuch ahadees quote kerna chaoon ga.

Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ka faramn-e-mubarik AURAT (FEMALE) k barya main yeh hai k "aurat terhi (bent) pasli say paida ki gayee hai. Ager tum uss ku zabardasti seedha kernay ki koushis kero gay tu woh toot jaiy gee. Uss say payar mohabbat say pash any ki kushish kero. Agar uss main buri batain hongee tu bohut see achee batain bhee hongee. Yani uss ki buri batoon ku nazar andaaz ker do". (ager woh sharyiat k khilaaf nahi hain).

Jab k Prophet Muhammad (s.w) ka faramn-e-mubarik Marrad (MALE) k barya main yeh hai, k "tum main say kisee k liye yeh jaiz nahi k woh kisee insaan ku sijda keray chahay woh nabi (Prophet) hi kyun na hu. Ager sijda jaiz hota tu main aurtoun ku hukum daita k woh apnay shouhroun (husbands) ku sijda karian".

Iss hadees say husband ki ahmiat k pata chalta hai. Aaurt k liye ye jaiz nahi k bilwajah apnay husband ki na farmani kerya. Sirf aisay ahkaam main husband ki nafarmani jaiz hai jo sharyiat k khilaaf hoon.

Jahan tak susral k rawayyoon k taalooq hai. Islam main iss ka bhi aik waqia hai. Aik auraat ya marrad Prophet k pass aay aur aap say farmaya k marya relitives (susraal) meray saath achaa salook nahi kertay lykin main un k saath hameesha achaa salook kerta hon. Prophet Muhammad (s.w) nay uss say farmaya k ager tum yeh baat sach keh rahay ho tu tum apnay relitives ki nakian samait rahay ho aur tumhary gunah un kay khatay main dalay ja rahay hain. Aur un k mooqablay main Allah tumhara madadgar ho ga. (tumharay sabar k wajah say).

Aik cheez aur add karoon ga k hamari naujawan unmarried larkyun ku chahye k woh novels aur afsanay kam say kam paraha kerain. Yeh cheezain un ku kharaab kertee hain aur woh shaadi say pehlay hi khowaab deknay lagti hain k un ka honay wala shoouhar bohut handsome aur rich aur payar kernay wala hu ga. Jaissa k afsanoo main hota hai. Reality is totally different. Jab un ku waisa husband nahi melta tu woh disturb hoo jati hain. Ur un ki married life bhi disturb ho jati hai.

Umeed hai memebers meri above statement say thora bohut agree karain gay.

Waslam. [/b]

Bilkul sahi likha hai aapne bhanje ... shaabash

aik hadidh mai yeh bih ataa hai kai...aik shohar ko chahiye kai wo apni biwi kai saath Husne Salooq se paish aye... Aur uskai saath narmi aur pyarka salooq kere.

jab aik shakhs deen ki Iss Taleem per amal kere ga to saab thik hoga,.

aik larki kai liye uska shohar itna khiyal kerta ho, yehi kaafi hota hai.