MUBAHISA: Lerkion Ko Shadi K Baad Perhna Chahye?

[Shaim]

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Daikhye 5on fingers kabhi barabar nahi hotin.........or aise special examples mere saamne bhi hain isii lye mai ne word compromise use kya tha......
Yahan per baat overall generation ki ho rahi hai na ke sirf ek ya 2 family per..

ummeed hai k aap mera matlub samajh gaii hon gi

pr mujeh lgta hai k effort kr k dekh lena chahye ager ap ik special case ban sakty ho to guud or ager nahi to choor dena chahye q k Family sy imp kuch nahi hoota :)

[Farrukh]

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walikum Assalam
pasandeedgi K Lye Shukerya :)

apny Quraan N Hadees Ka Jo Point Add Kiya Usk Lye Thumbs Up :)
deen Ki Perhae To Umer K Akhri Din Tk Sath Rehni Chahye
or Ye Baat Sahii Hai K Is Taleem Sy Insaan Buhaat Ziada Kuch Seekhta Hai.....jesy Rozz Marra Ki Dealing,baroon Ka Ehtiraam N Much More :)

lakin Ager Uni Level Ki Perhae Ya Colleges Ki Baat Ki Jae
to Kiya Ik Lerki Ko Ye Sb Shaadi K Baad Continue Krna Chahye?
ager Usky Hubby N Family Ko Aitiraaz Na Ho To?
or Ager Is Tarah Uska Ghar 10% Ignore Ho Rha Ho N 90% Acchy Sy Chal Rha Ho To???

اس بات کا جواب میں دے چُکا ہوں کہ پڑھائی کوئی بھی ہو، اگر حالات اجازت دیں تو ضرور کرنی چاہیئے۔

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Aanchal sumtimes aisa hoota hai k Family n Hubby ki full support hooti hai.....pr lerki kahin khud unsatisfied hooti hai q k studiez ki waja sy mayb 10% ghar ignore ho rha hota hai
to is mai lerki ko kiya krna chahye?? 372-shock

agar degree ki baat ki jaye to koon sa 10,20 saal degree leenay main lagtay hian :D .sirf chand saal ki to baat hoti hai :eye:

wesay ilm to har insaan sari zindagi hasil karta rehta hai ...

larki parhna chaye to zaror parahye ..yeh parhai us kay kaam aye gee...baki jo kehta hai kehta rehya :D...

baki batian bad main ...to be continue ....abhi mujhay neand ai hai

[tauruskhan]

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Assalam o Alikum Peghamianz!!!

Ummid hai k ap sb INSHALAH kharyat sy hoongy or Pakistani Peghamianz Barsaat enjoy kr rahy hoon gy.:phool:


Aj jo social mubahisa start ho raha hai wo koi tensed political discussion nahi balky ik social mubahisa hai,,,,,,or is per ap sab ny apny views ko defend krna hai.:thmbup:

MUBAHISA: Kiya Shadi K Baad Lerki Ko Apni Education Continue Krni Chahye Ya Nahi?


2 B Noted: Prefference,Enviroment,Responsibility,Timings,Mana gement (u can add more)



Ummid hai k ap is MUBAHISY mai tension free discussion ko enjoy kr sakin gy INSHALLAH.

KHUSH RAHYYE

pehlay to yeh explain kareen key perhai sey app lay kia rahi haan
degree lena ya perhai kerna
perhai kernay ka jis ko shok ho us ko to koi naeen rok sakta

[ummid]

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waalikumasalam larki... khush raho...:rose

@ topic...

[*khushi*]

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Walikumsalam....
i thk karni chay3...iss m3i koi burayi nai hai....but iss shart p3 k3 wo studi3s k3 sath sath ghar ko bi handl3 kar sak3...apn3 husband ki r3sponsibiliti3s aur kids ka bhi dehan rakh saki3n...agar y3 sab karti hain th3n koi masla nahi..coz shadhi k3 baad ph3l3 ghar:)
aur baaat apk3 in laws aur husband p3 bhi d3p3nd karta hai k3 wo loag allow kart3 hain k3 nai....
:)

[vajiha]

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w salam WB:rose
shaim u've started gud topic !:thmbup:
YeS!
taleem hasil karne har muslim par farz kar diya gya or is meiN koi time period mention nahiN kiya gya .
bila shuba ghar pehli tarjeeh hota he larkion k liye lakin agr wo manage kar sakti heiN or sabko equaly satisfy bhi kar sakti heiN to unheiN zaror jari rakhna chahye .....
as xenya said they should continue through corespondance ...
meiN ye kahungi k agar waqai karna chahti'n heiN to .......bohat se or ways bhi heiN ... like weekly n evening classes ya phir esi classes jo specially working girls k liye organiz kiye jate hieN lakin parhte zaroor rehna chahye is silsile ko rukna nahiN chahye buS .. taleem her her lamha hameN aik behter insaN banane meiN madadgaar sabit hoti he ! :)

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as xenya said they should continue through corespondance ...
meiN ye kahungi k agar waqai karna chahti'n heiN to .......bohat se or ways bhi heiN ... like weekly n evening classes ya phir esi classes jo specially working girls k liye organiz kiye jate hieN lakin parhte zaroor rehna chahye is silsile ko rukna nahiN chahye buS ..

yep jo taleem hasil karna chahtay hain un kay leye rastay buhat hain :thmbup:
or jo masla bana deytay hian larkeoo ki taleem ko un kay leye bhi maslaye buhat hain :)
shadi kay bad itni pabandian yeh na karian wo na karian , yeh nahi kar sakti time nahi day sakian gee ghar ko waghera waghera ....larkiyan insaan hain ya kia hain ?

larkoo ko shadi say pehlay aik parhi likhi biwi chaye hoti hai ....or shadi kay bad jab parhnay ki baat a jaye to basssssssss maslaye masily lay atay hain .....pehlay larki kay aama abba kay pesay kharach hoo rehye hotay they ab un kay jo houn gay :D..

larkiyan khud sab manage kar sakti hian to zaror parhai karian ...:thmbup:

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jo loog kehtay hain shadi kay bad nahi parhna chaye ..to yeh batia kay jin larkeoo ki shadiyan jaldi hoo jati hain woh kia karian ? aap unhay taleem say mehroom rekhian gay ...or islam main is baray main kia hai ?

[ummid]

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jo loog kehtay hain shadi kay bad nahi parhna chaye ..to yeh batia kay jin larkeoo ki shadiyan jaldi hoo jati hain woh kia karian ? aap unhay taleem say mehroom rekhian gay ...or islam main is baray main kia hai ?

yeah... education tu must hai... pata nahi log kyun larkiyon ko shaadi baad parhne se mana karte hain... :donno:... or reason itne foolish dete hain ke bus...:fuming:

[Shaim]

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agar degree ki baat ki jaye to koon sa 10,20 saal degree leenay main lagtay hian :D .sirf chand saal ki to baat hoti hai :eye:

wesay ilm to har insaan sari zindagi hasil karta rehta hai ...

larki parhna chaye to zaror parahye ..yeh parhai us kay kaam aye gee...baki jo kehta hai kehta rehya :D...

baki batian bad main ...to be continue ....abhi mujhay neand ai hai

lolzZz ok :D :p
mujeh lgta hai Shaadi k baad Hubby k sath perhna chahye :p
wat a golden period to enjoy studiez after marraige ;)

[Shaim]

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pehlay to yeh explain kareen key perhai sey app lay kia rahi haan
degree lena ya perhai kerna
perhai kernay ka jis ko shok ho us ko to koi naeen rok sakta

Degree lena....

[Shaim]

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waalikumasalam larki... khush raho...:rose

@ topic...

wat a buck up sis :p :D

pr sis kuch degrees through correspondence ho nahi saktiin like M.Phill PHD etc......372-scare
hmmm nicee gallo :p :D
thx 4 participation :rose

[Shaim]

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Walikumsalam....
i thk karni chay3...iss m3i koi burayi nai hai....but iss shart p3 k3 wo studi3s k3 sath sath ghar ko bi handl3 kar sak3...apn3 husband ki r3sponsibiliti3s aur kids ka bhi dehan rakh saki3n...agar y3 sab karti hain th3n koi masla nahi..coz shadhi k3 baad ph3l3 ghar:)
aur baaat apk3 in laws aur husband p3 bhi d3p3nd karta hai k3 wo loag allow kart3 hain k3 nai....
:)

Hmmmm sahiii :)
thx sis apny sabhi points ko discuss kr k ik nice conclusion dia hai :)
thx 4 ur gud participation :rose
i think net conclusion yahi hai k "Management" sbsy imp hai.......ager wo hai to offcourse u can go ahead :)

[Shaim]

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w salam WB:rose
shaim u've started gud topic !:thmbup:
YeS!
taleem hasil karne har muslim par farz kar diya gya or is meiN koi time period mention nahiN kiya gya .
bila shuba ghar pehli tarjeeh hota he larkion k liye lakin agr wo manage kar sakti heiN or sabko equaly satisfy bhi kar sakti heiN to unheiN zaror jari rakhna chahye .....
as xenya said they should continue through corespondance ...
meiN ye kahungi k agar waqai karna chahti'n heiN to .......bohat se or ways bhi heiN ... like weekly n evening classes ya phir esi classes jo specially working girls k liye organiz kiye jate hieN lakin parhte zaroor rehna chahye is silsile ko rukna nahiN chahye buS .. taleem her her lamha hameN aik behter insaN banane meiN madadgaar sabit hoti he ! :)

mera bhi yahi khyal hai k management sabsy zaroori cheez hai
ager apki Family apko allow kr rahi hai to it depends on a gal k wo kis tarah sb cheezin manage krti hai :)

Thx 4 ur participation Dear :)
Nice 2 c New Visiters @ BM n HH :rose