debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

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Assalamalikum
hamari Next debate shuru ho chuki hai ...or topic hai achay rishtay kio nahi miltay ?

aaj kal larkay kay parents houn ya larki kay sub achay rishtoo kay leye parishan rehtay hian ....to kia reasons hain is kay ? achay rishtay kio nahi miltay ? ya miltay lekan logo ko achoo ki pehchan nahi ? ya logoo ki demands zaida barh gai hain ? ya aisay larkay hi nahi jo jaheez kay bagheer shadi karaian ..agar aisay hian to phir kio larkiyaan jaheez na honay ki waja say kanwari bethi rehti hain ? ...aisay dheer saray sawal hain jo aaj ki society ka bara masla ban gay hian ...

aap log apni raye daian ....open debate : d

[u_r]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

phir aa ke rtumein jwaab deti huhn.....is waqt mein jaa rhi huhn!!!!!!

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

Bohat broader topic he, kafi saaray pehlu hein jin per discuss kia ja sakta he. mein apni raye kuch youn doon ga:

Sub se pehlay to baat yeh ke Achay rishtay ka criteria different loogon ki nazar mein different he. Various elements like sharm-o-heya, pakeezgi, naiki and parallel ethical points, khoobsoorati, business, doolat, zameen jaidaad ko achay rishtay se mansoob kia jata he. Different loogon k nazdeek is achay rishtay ki description different he. Lehaza achay rishtay ki tashreeh he sub se mushkil kaam he.

Baki baat aa jati he search pe yani Rishta dhoondne mein. Different people have different approaches. Mere khyaal mein acha larka dhoondna ya achi larki dhoondna itna mushkil nahi jitna bana dia gaya he. Most of the time parents remain idle aur wo kuch ziada baag door nahi kerte apne resources ko utilize nahi kerte aur at the end of the day wo accuse kerte hein k acha rishta he nahi mil raha. Aur jub koi acha rishta milta he to loog presume ker lete hein ke larkay ki maan aisi lagti he baap aisa lagta he or so on. Is per bhi mein yeh kahoon ga k ager aap larki k liye larka dhoond rahe hein to aap ziada focus larkay per karein aur us se baat karein k wo kis zehniyat ka malik he na ke aap larkay ko choor ker sirf us ke ghar walon ko focus karein. Isi tarah larki dhoondtay waqt ager aap ko larki pasand aa gai he to us ke ghar walay bohat ziada matter nahi kerte. Aap ko larki ki aadat-o-atwaar shakl-o-soorat se pasand ker lete hein to that should be enough. Jitni ziada peechedgiyoon mein jaein ge utna ziada uljein ge.

Aakhir mein itna he kahoon ga ke aap kesa he rishta chahtay hoon ager aap thooray se paisay kharch ker ke 2, 3 rishtay kerwanay walon ko yeh task de dein to wo aap ke paas her 2, 3 din mein kuch options le ker hazir ho jaein ge. Baat he walidain ki management ki. Ager wo thooray se paisay bacha ke beth jaein ge to phir yeh baat waqee sahi ho jaye gi k achay rishtay nahi miltay, bulke rishtay he nahi miltay :p

[.]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

phir aa ke rtumein jwaab deti huhn.....is waqt mein jaa rhi huhn!!!!!!

ok theek :thmbup:

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Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

Bohat broader topic he, kafi saaray pehlu hein jin per discuss kia ja sakta he. mein apni raye kuch youn doon ga:

Sub se pehlay to baat yeh ke Achay rishtay ka criteria different loogon ki nazar mein different he. Various elements like sharm-o-heya, pakeezgi, naiki and parallel ethical points, khoobsoorati, business, doolat, zameen jaidaad ko achay rishtay se mansoob kia jata he. Different loogon k nazdeek is achay rishtay ki description different he. Lehaza achay rishtay ki tashreeh he sub se mushkil kaam he.

Baki baat aa jati he search pe yani Rishta dhoondne mein. Different people have different approaches. Mere khyaal mein acha larka dhoondna ya achi larki dhoondna itna mushkil nahi jitna bana dia gaya he. Most of the time parents remain idle aur wo kuch ziada baag door nahi kerte apne resources ko utilize nahi kerte aur at the end of the day wo accuse kerte hein k acha rishta he nahi mil raha. Aur jub koi acha rishta milta he to loog presume ker lete hein ke larkay ki maan aisi lagti he baap aisa lagta he or so on. Is per bhi mein yeh kahoon ga k ager aap larki k liye larka dhoond rahe hein to aap ziada focus larkay per karein aur us se baat karein k wo kis zehniyat ka malik he na ke aap larkay ko choor ker sirf us ke ghar walon ko focus karein. Isi tarah larki dhoondtay waqt ager aap ko larki pasand aa gai he to us ke ghar walay bohat ziada matter nahi kerte. Aap ko larki ki aadat-o-atwaar shakl-o-soorat se pasand ker lete hein to that should be enough. Jitni ziada peechedgiyoon mein jaein ge utna ziada uljein ge.

Aakhir mein itna he kahoon ga ke aap kesa he rishta chahtay hoon ager aap thooray se paisay kharch ker ke 2, 3 rishtay kerwanay walon ko yeh task de dein to wo aap ke paas her 2, 3 din mein kuch options le ker hazir ho jaein ge. Baat he walidain ki management ki. Ager wo thooray se paisay bacha ke beth jaein ge to phir yeh baat waqee sahi ho jaye gi k achay rishtay nahi miltay, bulke rishtay he nahi miltay :p

ok ..yani aap pesa kharach kar kay rishta karanay waleoo kay hathoo future ko mehfooz samjhtay hoo ..

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Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

sirf 2 members aye hain baki loog kaha hoo :p

[Masood]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

sirf 2 members aye hain baki loog kaha hoo :p

باقی اپنے لیے بہتر رشتہ لبھنے گئے ہوئے ہیں 372-haha

[saraah]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

یار یہ کام بالکل مشکل نہیں اس لیے میں کیا جواب دوں :rew:

[u_r]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

باقی اپنے لیے بہتر رشتہ لبھنے گئے ہوئے ہیں 372-haha

aap ne bhi to topic per koi jwaab nhi diya....to kiyaa aap apne liye behter rishta dhoond ker aai hehn:think:

[saraah]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

aakhir kitni baar dhoondain ge yeh :hairdrayer:

[crystal_thinking]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

Aakhir mein itna he kahoon ga ke aap kesa he rishta chahtay hoon ager aap thooray se paisay kharch ker ke 2, 3 rishtay kerwanay walon ko yeh task de dein to wo aap ke paas her 2, 3 din mein kuch options le ker hazir ho jaein ge. Baat he walidain ki management ki. Ager wo thooray se paisay bacha ke beth jaein ge to phir yeh baat waqee sahi ho jaye gi k achay rishtay nahi miltay, bulke rishtay he nahi miltay :p

:kr:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

ok ..yani aap pesa kharach kar kay rishta karanay waleoo kay hathoo future ko mehfooz samjhtay hoo ..

Chalo tum rishta kerwanay walon ko rishta dhondney per laga do aur baad mein unhein paisay na dena, mujay to koi aitraz nahi is per :donno:


Baat aap ke mindset ki he k aap ki approach kitni positive he aur kitni negative he. Ager rishta apne khandan gali mohalay mein nahi milta, to kia aap kisi chowk pe banner lagao gay?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

:kr:

:shyy:

[crystal_thinking]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

:shyy:

tmki tu shyness b fake hy

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: debate 2..."achay Rishtay kio nahi miltay?"

tmki tu shyness b fake hy

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