*saraah and Aanchal de....!!

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Aanchal de... you yahan aajao :P

main us thread main na jaoun kia :shyy:

[ummid]

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main us thread main na jaoun kia :shyy:

me ne wahan abhi reply kiya... wohi reply yahan bhi copy paste kar deti ho :P

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me ne wahan abhi reply kiya... wohi reply yahan bhi copy paste kar deti ho :P

me nay parh lia tha :rew:
me yaha ati houn to tum vohan :p

[ummid]

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me nay parh lia tha :rew:
me yaha ati houn to tum vohan :p

me yahan bhi aaongi.. ab me akeli ho or baat karne waale itne log... me aakhir kahan kahan jaaon :$

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me yahan bhi aaongi.. ab me akeli ho or baat karne waale itne log... me aakhir kahan kahan jaaon :$

abhi tum sirf Saz bajaoo :p me khana khanay ja rahi houn :lol:

[ummid]

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abhi tum sirf Saz bajaoo :p me khana khanay ja rahi houn :lol:

theek hai : (

[saraah]

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@ your Question:

Motivation is something i.e. related to Action... and Inspiration is related to Feelings... the simplst definition I have ever read for Motivation and Inspiration was "Inspiration gets you started. Motivation keeps you going"
or jo tum keh rahi ho ke koi apni life mein in dono ki absecne feel kar raho tu kya kare... inspiration is not selfesteem ya self confidance jis ki kami se personality traits mein koi error aaye... its a choice....
and in case of Motivation: it is a decision making process, through which one chooses the desired outcomes for his/her set goals.... yups, is kumi aap ke set goals ko affect kar sakti hai... but as a second person no one can help u in getting motivated... External motivation is not as long lasting and as good as internal motivation... the inside PUSH helps u more than outside PUSH.. to improve ur inside PUSH.. first u need to train ur mind by working on ur slef talk... self talk bauaht important role play karti hai humari life mein... if u have ur self talk in ur control u can do wonders...! : )

ummid yeh self talk se kya murad hai....khud kalami tou achi cheez nae smjhi jati....tou phir?

[ummid]

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ummid yeh self talk se kya murad hai....khud kalami tou achi cheez nae smjhi jati....tou phir?

self talk is the conversation we have consciously or unconsciously with our self... our self talk is usually based on our past experiences or memory or perception... for eg: if someones hurt you... your first thought possibly would be... how could he/she do this to me?? or thats so unfair of him/her... this words u may not say loudly but it will come directly to ur mind.... words based on ur thinking and belief... if u change ur belief by saying... "people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave.. "
humara self talk humare ikhtyaar mein hosakta hai... ager hum is per continues kaam karein tu aap ki personality mein kaafi changes aa sakte hain...

[saraah]

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hmm...yani soch ko zuban dena jo soch kisi b action k nateejay me aati hai ....me ne bohat arsa pehlay nafsiat k kisi mazmoon me ek term parrhi thi alqaa nafsi......khud ko mashwray dena...is it smthing like that?

[ummid]

[saraah]

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hmm got it....simply yeh tou koi b optimistic banda esay hi kre ga pessimist iss k bar aks kre ga....tou baat motivation ki hui thi....iss trah ka case nae hai....case kuch esa smjh lain k aap k pas wasayal b hon opportunity b ho but u r doing nothing....yeh kesa ajeeb o gareeb case hai yani u dnt feel from ur heart tht u should do smthing.,or u do....but still u are unable to do anything...even if of ur own choice.???

me leaving now......phir baat hogi...thanks alot :rose

[Jamil Akhter]

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self talk is the conversation we have consciously or unconsciously with our self... our self talk is usually based on our past experiences or memory or perception... for eg: if someones hurt you... your first thought possibly would be... how could he/she do this to me?? or thats so unfair of him/her... this words u may not say loudly but it will come directly to ur mind.... words based on ur thinking and belief... if u change ur belief by saying... "people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave.. "
humara self talk humare ikhtyaar mein hosakta hai... ager hum is per continues kaam karein tu aap ki personality mein kaafi changes aa sakte hain...

wow kitni khobsorti say describe kiya...

[Jamil Akhter]

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excellent kitnay intelligent aur qualified members hain yahan...pegham is really luckiest one...

[ummid]

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hmm got it....simply yeh tou koi b optimistic banda esay hi kre ga pessimist iss k bar aks kre ga....tou baat motivation ki hui thi....iss trah ka case nae hai....case kuch esa smjh lain k aap k pas wasayal b hon opportunity b ho but u r doing nothing....yeh kesa ajeeb o gareeb case hai yani u dnt feel from ur heart tht u should do smthing.,or u do....but still u are unable to do anything...even if of ur own choice.???

me leaving now......phir baat hogi...thanks alot :rose

@ your Question:

it happens because of lack of purpose in Life... when people fail to realize what exactly the purpose of their life... they show lack of self motivation....
tum ne dekha hoga...kuch log bina soche sumjhe khoob charity karte hain... for self satisfaction... woh sources per dhyaan nahi dete... un ki raqam sahi jagah istemaal ho rahi hai ya nahi is se bhi unhe koi lena dena nahi hota.. woh bus charity karte rehte hain.... or kuch log... sources ho ya kuch bhi un ka istmaal nahi karte bus pare rehte hain or khud ko motivate karne ki nakaam koshish karte hain ke yeh kaam kar lena chahiye per lar nahi paate... in both the cases... people lack the purpose.... this is because in words of victor frankl : "people have means to live but no meaning to live for"...

purpose in life is very important.... first try to figure out whats ur purpose in life... than inner motivation that inside push will come automatically... as victor frankl said: 'Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how.'

P.S: Victor Frankl is one of the fav. therapist of mine... he gave "Existential Therapy" ... if u ever get a chance read his book "man's search for meaning" ; )

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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u dono yahan aao jaldi :$

Bohat achi tehreer he be'sakhta daad dene ko ji chahta he