Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

[sarfraz_qamar]

asalam o alaikom....


Kehttay hain keh "Mohabbat" kayy mammllay main
Pehall karnaa behttarr hotaa haii etc......


aorr iss "mohabbat" kay opposite laazff hai


"Naffratt"


isss main kia karna chahieyy..........


Pehall yaa phirr aakhiirrrrrrr

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

waalikum asslam

mohabbat b khud bakhud hojati hai aur nafrat b ,ab aapko koi jawaaz mil jaye nafrat ka tou aap kya nafrat nae kren gay..... koi aapko dhoka de cheat kray mohabbat me tou aap aasani se iss baat ko hazam kar jayen gay...... kam az kam i cant do that...yeh ek feeling hai jab feel hogi tabhi hogi na pehal ya aakhir kya baat hua bhala

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

waalikum asslam

mohabbat b khud bakhud hojati hai aur nafrat b ,ab aapko koi jawaaz mil jaye nafrat ka tou aap kya nafrat nae kren gay..... koi aapko dhoka de cheat kray mohabbat me tou aap aasani se iss baat ko hazam kar jayen gay...... kam az kam i cant do that...yeh ek feeling hai jab feel hogi tabhi hogi na pehal ya aakhir kya baat hua bhala

i think keh naa to mohabbat khodd ba khood hotii hai aor naa hii nafrratt,,,, khasoosan nafrat kay piechay koi na koi solid reason zaroor hoti hai...

2nd main kisi aor context main bat kar raha thaa..bazzurg kehtay hain,dosti ka rishta ho yaa mohabat etc ka,iss main pehal ikhtyarr karnii chahiey jabkeh nafrat kay mamllay main pehall karnaa kisi b soorrat daroost nai,jitna hoo sakay talkat ko kaim rakhnay ki efforts ki jain,aor agar rishtoo main drarr partti b hai to pehall hamarii janib say naa hoo..

I hope keh ab ap mera point of view samjh gai ho gi jiss par main batt karnaa chahh rahaa thaaa

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

i think keh naa to mohabbat khodd ba khood hotii hai aor naa hii nafrratt,,,, khasoosan nafrat kay piechay koi na koi solid reason zaroor hoti hai...

2nd main kisi aor context main bat kar raha thaa..bazzurg kehtay hain,dosti ka rishta ho yaa mohabat etc ka,iss main pehal ikhtyarr karnii chahiey jabkeh nafrat kay mamllay main pehall karnaa kisi b soorrat daroost nai,jitna hoo sakay talkat ko kaim rakhnay ki efforts ki jain,aor agar rishtoo main drarr partti b hai to pehall hamarii janib say naa hoo..

I hope keh ab ap mera point of view samjh gai ho gi jiss par main batt karnaa chahh rahaa thaaa

welll me ne ek misaal di mohabbat ki..... mohabbat b baqi rishton ki trah ek rishta hai...so.....
khair bazurgon ki baat theek hai.....aala zarfi darkar hoti hai bas...... rishtay me darrarr tou tabhi parr jati hai jab nafrat k liye reasons wajood me aati hain...phir taluq tou nae samjhota ya murawwat ya majboori hi reh jati hai.....

haan yeh baat aap pe depend krti hai k aap kitnay great hain....k pehal aap ki taraf se nae hoti tou waqai u r great...isska matlab yeh hua k sabar shukar wagera wgera ki khoob ghuutti mili hui hai hamen.

[ummid]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

Nafrat ke bauaht Intense word hai.... ek aam Insaan ka kisi aam Insaan se nafrat karna me ko waqai weird hai.... aap dislike keh sakte ho... lakeen me ko "Nafrat" ek bauaht hi cruel word lagta hai... Nafrat bauaht extreme level per aata hai... jaise aap gunaah se nafrat karo ya shaitaan se ya kisi na pasndeedah kaam se... yeh abstract cheezo ke liye use ho tu better hai... !!

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

welll me ne ek misaal di mohabbat ki..... mohabbat b baqi rishton ki trah ek rishta hai...so.....
khair bazurgon ki baat theek hai.....aala zarfi darkar hoti hai bas...... rishtay me darrarr tou tabhi parr jati hai jab nafrat k liye reasons wajood me aati hain...phir taluq tou nae samjhota ya murawwat ya majboori hi reh jati hai.....

haan yeh baat aap pe depend krti hai k aap kitnay great hain....k pehal aap ki taraf se nae hoti tou waqai u r great...isska matlab yeh hua k sabar shukar wagera wgera ki khoob ghuutti mili hui hai hamen.

i think jab koi shakhas hamri expectation par poraa naa utrray aor morrawat main ya kisi aor waja say wo tallak nibhanaa par jaiey tabb hii tallkkat majbori etc ban jattay hain,,
aor iss sb kay liey aalaa zarf hona bht zaroorii haii,,,
but hota iss kay balikol hi ullt hai,practical life main ham inn sab batoo ko ignore karttay hoo just apni aanna ko ahmiet daitay hain,jo keh ghallat bat haiii

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

Nafrat ke bauaht Intense word hai.... ek aam Insaan ka kisi aam Insaan se nafrat karna me ko waqai weird hai.... aap dislike keh sakte ho... lakeen me ko "Nafrat" ek bauaht hi cruel word lagta hai... Nafrat bauaht extreme level per aata hai... jaise aap gunaah se nafrat karo ya shaitaan se ya kisi na pasndeedah kaam se... yeh abstract cheezo ke liye use ho tu better hai... !!

ummid me ne kisi se nafrat ki hai tou kya me khas insaan hogayi ab :shyy:

[ummid]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

ummid me ne kisi se nafrat ki hai tou kya me khas insaan hogayi ab :shyy:

Lolz... aam Insaan se me ka matlab the one who is same like you a fallible human being.... :$

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

Nafrat ke bauaht Intense word hai.... ek aam Insaan ka kisi aam Insaan se nafrat karna me ko waqai weird hai.... aap dislike keh sakte ho... lakeen me ko "Nafrat" ek bauaht hi cruel word lagta hai... Nafrat bauaht extreme level per aata hai... jaise aap gunaah se nafrat karo ya shaitaan se ya kisi na pasndeedah kaam se... yeh abstract cheezo ke liye use ho tu better hai... !!

valid point keh naffrrat gunahh yaa phirr napasandeeda chezain etc kay liey use hoo....

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

i think jab koi shakhas hamri expectation par poraa naa utrray aor morrawat main ya kisi aor waja say wo tallak nibhanaa par jaiey tabb hii tallkkat majbori etc ban jattay hain,,
aor iss sb kay liey aalaa zarf hona bht zaroorii haii,,,
but hota iss kay balikol hi ullt hai,practical life main ham inn sab batoo ko ignore karttay hoo just apni aanna ko ahmiet daitay hain,jo keh ghallat bat haiii

tou wohi na.....kitabi batain khud pe apply krna great logon ka kaam hai....... wese b bazurg log jo keh gaye unn baton se murawwat rawadari wazadari wgera wgera ki khushboo aati hai...... ab wo batain kahan.....
.aap ne anaa ki baat ki...... anaa ka muzahra chahay me hi kiyon na karoon anaa parast banday na kabhi sakoon nae paaya .

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

Lolz... aam Insaan se me ka matlab the one who is same like you a fallible human being.... :$

achaa achaa yani me aam insaan hi hoon good good

[saraah]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

valid point keh naffrrat gunahh yaa phirr napasandeeda chezain etc kay liey use hoo....

should syndrome :lol

[ummid]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

achaa achaa yani me aam insaan hi hoon good good

aam Insaan me ne pata nahi kyun use kar liya :$.... Insaan tu bus Insaan hote hain.. : )

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

tou wohi na.....kitabi batain khud pe apply krna great logon ka kaam hai....... wese b bazurg log jo keh gaye unn baton se murawwat rawadari wazadari wgera wgera ki khushboo aati hai...... ab wo batain kahan.....
.aap ne anaa ki baat ki...... anaa ka muzahra chahay me hi kiyon na karoon anaa parast banday na kabhi sakoon nae paaya .

kissi b baat ko apnay ooper apply karna dunia ka sab say mushkil kam haii,,,
ham great logoo kay naksh e kadam par chalnnay ki koshish hii kar saktay hain magar un jaisay nai ban saktay...
Aorr mjay lagtaa hai aaj kay iss nafssaa nafssii kay door main mohbttain naaa paid aorr nafratain barhtii jaa rahii hain,

[ummid]

Re: Pehhall yaa aakhirrrr

valid point keh naffrrat gunahh yaa phirr napasandeeda chezain etc kay liey use hoo....

etc??