Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

[thefire1]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

District ka naaam?

takreeban aik b nahi

[thefire1]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Kia hua kuch ghalat likh dia kia behna:) yaa iss baar phir kuch ziyada likh dia :lol

@Ali bhai...

[BhaTaktii RooH]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Kia hua kuch ghalat likh dia kia behna:) yaa iss baar phir kuch ziyada likh dia :lol

pata nai abhi tuk poora parrha nai....:shyy:

[thefire1]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

:)

pata nai abhi tuk poora parrha nai....:shyy:

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

correction chachoo...

me ne mangnii nai Nikaah kar rakha hai...:shyy:

acha beta

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

District ka naaam?

gujrat

[thefire1]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Assalaam-O-alaikum Khalil

Meri study kay mutaabiq fact and figure kuch yoon hain kay, Gujraat is a district jiss ki abaadi 20 Lakh say bhi ziada hay, Gujrat city ki population 3 say 4 lakh hay aur baaqi jo ilakay hain woh non-district ilaqay hain aur rural area kheltay hay jaisay Jalalpoor jattan, Kanja, saraye-e-aalamgeer, bank of river chanab, waziarabaad waghaira jinn main TALAAQ ki figures NGO's kay paas bhi nahin hain aur yeh ilaaqay meeloon tak pehlay huway hain tou humaray paas kahan say aayain gain!

Barhaal PAKISTAN main koi bhi district/tehseel, gaoo waghaira aisa nahin hay jahan baqaida TALAAQ registered nahin ki gayi hoo pichlay 20 saloon main!

May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN

FI amaan ALLAH

[D@y W@lk3r]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

i think is main koi galat baat to nahi hain.. ager app ki life apnay partner kay saat achi nahi guzar rahi aur app happy nahi hain to i think apni life ko turn karnay main bura nahi is ka haq Islam bhi deta hain...zindagi aik baar milti hain aur usko bhar por jina chahay. so enjoy and be happy with one or two three:hugs:

[_Dard_Aashna_]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

assalamalikum
aaj ham suntay hian kisi ki shadi hovi hai dhoom dhaam say (love ya arrange koi bhi)..pher kuch arsay bad kay Talaq hoo gai ....panay ki bhi jaldi or chornay ki bhi jaldi :think:
aap kay khayal main kia kia wajoohat hoo sakti hai or in pay control kesay kia ja sakta hai ?

walekumasslam

meray khayal say is ki bari waja farzana raja ka chhora hoa shosha hay :hii:
jis main unho nay kaha k mard ko 2 shadi ki ijazat honi chahye

khud to bol kar wo hat gain hongi

(kia pata ghar ja kar khush hotay hoye husband ko mara peeta b ho :garmi:)

lekin fir yon hoa hoga k kuch hazrat nay apni begmaat ko ye misal di hogi
begmat akar gai hongi k meray jeetay ji tum kahen or shadi nah kar saktay

to un ko divorce day di hogi un k hazrat nay , chalo sayapay he muka do



. ye wajohat b ho sakti hain is say milti julti bhi,. zarori nahi her case ki zimeydar farzana raja he ho :hohe:

[thefire1]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Assalaam-O-alaikum

My dear sir, thank you for your kind comments and I fully agree with you kay iss main koi buri baat nahin agar aap apni wife say khush nahin hain tou you should look for alternative wife... laikin what about if wife is not happy with you, will you also give her the same RIGHT to leave you and find another husband?

Jitni zindagi aap ko aziz hay utna hi ikhtiyaar aik aurat ko bhi hona chayeh.

Nabi-e-Karim SAW nay aik jaga farmaya tha kay aik aisa HALAL kaam hay jiss ki ISLAM nay ijaazat tou dee hay magar woh ALLAH SWT kay nazdeek sab say Takleef day fayl hay aur woh hay TALAAQ!!! Jab kisi aurat ko TALAAQ hoti hay naa tou naa srif uski balkay uskay saath saath usskay ghar waloon ki zindagi main jo toofan aata hay woh lafzoon main bayan karna bohat hi mushkil kaam hay!

Mera zaati nazarya yehi hay kay TALLAQ dainay say behtar hay mard aurat ki ijaazat say dosri shaadi kar lay if you can afford to have two, three or four wives!

May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN

Fi amaan ALLAH

i think is main koi galat baat to nahi hain.. ager app ki life apnay partner kay saat achi nahi guzar rahi aur app happy nahi hain to i think apni life ko turn karnay main bura nahi is ka haq Islam bhi deta hain...zindagi aik baar milti hain aur usko bhar por jina chahay. so enjoy and be happy with one or two three:hugs:

[D@y W@lk3r]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Assalaam-O-alaikum

My dear sir, thank you for your kind comments and I fully agree with you kay iss main koi buri baat nahin agar aap apni wife say khush nahin hain tou you should look for alternative wife... laikin what about if wife is not happy with you, will you also give her the same RIGHT to leave you and find another husband?

Jitni zindagi aap ko aziz hay utna hi ikhtiyaar aik aurat ko bhi hona chayeh.

Nabi-e-Karim SAW nay aik jaga farmaya tha kay aik aisa HALAL kaam hay jiss ki ISLAM nay ijaazat tou dee hay magar woh ALLAH SWT kay nazdeek sab say Takleef day fayl hay aur woh hay TALAAQ!!! Jab kisi aurat ko TALAAQ hoti hay naa tou naa srif uski balkay uskay saath saath usskay ghar waloon ki zindagi main jo toofan aata hay woh lafzoon main bayan karna bohat hi mushkil kaam hay!

Mera zaati nazarya yehi hay kay TALLAQ dainay say behtar hay mard aurat ki ijaazat say dosri shaadi kar lay if you can afford to have two, three or four wives!

May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN

Fi amaan ALLAH

app nay shaid mairay comments ko sahi read nahi kiya main bothside ki baat ki...........mujhay two three shadi ka koi shoq nahi. iam one women guy. wo hain to main hoon.:hugs:
:alhamd: we are very happy and enjoy the life.
aur jab insaan payaar karta hain to uski khishi kay liyah sab kuch kar deta hai...........

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waalikum asslam

ek larrki ko janti hoon shadi k 1 saal baad talaq ho gayi wo larrki agrchay bohat achi hai magar wo shuru din se susral me apni marzi se chalnay ki koshish me rahi aur uss k qareebi log b ussay iss pe encourage krtay thay ,aur saas uss ki pooray khandan me chalak mashoor thin ,larrka iklota aur bilkul b wife se cooprate nae krta thaa ,aur yeh sagay taya k ghar shadi hui thi ,tou taqrreban saal baad beti ki pedayesh k foran baad talaq de di uss ne ...........

ek aur sayyad gharanay ki parrhilikhi khatoon ko janti hoon ,kisi k tawwasat se out of family rishta hua 2maah baad khulaa leli unhon ne k fraud nikla larrka

digest me ek kahani parrhi office k do coleagues love marriage krtay hain ,larrka apnay maa baap se saperate rehnay pe israr krta hai ,kuch arsay baad chotti chotti baton pe larrka larrnay lgta hai wife se ,dono soch lete hain k mil k rehna mumkin nae phir larrkay k ghar walay beech me parrtay hain tou dono ko apni ghalti ka ehsaas hota hai specially shohar ko tou sab set hojata hai



in misalon se aap andaza kr skti hain thorra bohat k kya kya wajoohat ho skti hain

yeh maslay har har shadi main a saktay hian pher talaqaian hoti rehian gee kia

[.]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Walaikum Assalaam

Main apna khayalaat ka izhaar karna chahoon ga.

Pakistan main waqayi talaaq ka ratio bohat taizi say baRhta jaa raha hay aur iss ki aik do nahin kayii wajoohaat hain.

Sab say pehli waja hay logon kay ma'ashi halaat, rozgaar na hona aur sahi amdani ghar main na aanay ki wajah say FRUSTRATION develop hoti hay, ghar main aurat ghar main rashan kay na honay, bachoon ki paRhayi sahi na honay waghaira ki waja say frustrate rehti hay tou mard bayrozgaari, ayay din bomb blast waghaira ki waja say frustrate ghar lout-ta hay aur yehi aksar tasadum ka bayis banti hay jis ka nateeja extreme per pohanch kar aksar auqaat TALAAQ hota hay yaa shohar ki MAAR PETAYEE say tang aakar aurat khudh hi yeh rah ikhtiyaar karna behtar samajhti hay.

Dosri waja AULAAD ka na hona bhi hoskati hay, kay agar aulaad na ho tou waldain ya shohar khudh aksar TALAAQ ko behatar zarya samajh kar dosti shaadi ki rahain humwaar kartay hay.

Teesi waja extra marital affairs hosaktay hain jo aaj kal bohat aam hogayay hain, pata nahin yaa films waghaira dekh kar yaa jitna ziyada maashray ko azaadi mili hay utna ziyada yeh beemaari phaiti jaa rahi hay!!

Choti waja couples ka TRUST hay umooman talaaq ghalatfehmiyon ki bunyaad per bhi hojaati hain isi liye miyaa biwi ka aapas main aik dosray per TRUST karna bohat zaroori hota hay.

Paanchwii wajah TOLERATION bhi hoskati hay, miyaa biwi main itni MOHABBAT honi chayeh kay woh aik dosray ki choti choti cheezon ko tolrate kar dain, jaisay mard dair say ghar aaya tou uss ki ziyda baaz puras na ho, aurat nay khanay main namak kam daal diya tou uss per hangama na barpa ho, mehaz choti moti ghaltiyon ko nazarandaaz na karnay ki waja say aapas main TANAYOO baRh jaata hay jo kay aksar-O-baishtar talaaq ki noubat tak hi poohanchta hay.

Aik study kay mutaabiq bichlay 10 salaoon main TALAAQ ka ratio Middle and lower class main ziyada baRh raha hay aur Upper class jo kay ayaash tabiyat maanay jaatay thay aur yeh kaha jaata tha kay yeh aik aurat kay saath ziyada arsa nahin reh saktay ab TALAAQ say ijtinaab kar rahay hain.

Mazeed discuss hosakta hay, magar aksar members ko meri posts ki tawaalat ki shikayat rehti hay isi liye main yehi per mehdood karta hoon, khush rahyeh :)

Fi amaan ALLAH

ok theek ....par masla yeh bhi hai na kay dosri , tesree shadi main bhi yeh issues a saktay hian to inhay hal karnay ki bajaye Talaq ka rasta hi kio ikhteyar kia jata hai ...:donno:


agay bhi aap post kar saktay hian is topic pay lekan qistoun qistoun main :lol:

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

Assalaam-O-alaikum Khalil

Meri study kay mutaabiq fact and figure kuch yoon hain kay, Gujraat is a district jiss ki abaadi 20 Lakh say bhi ziada hay, Gujrat city ki population 3 say 4 lakh hay aur baaqi jo ilakay hain woh non-district ilaqay hain aur rural area kheltay hay jaisay Jalalpoor jattan, Kanja, saraye-e-aalamgeer, bank of river chanab, waziarabaad waghaira jinn main TALAAQ ki figures NGO's kay paas bhi nahin hain aur yeh ilaaqay meeloon tak pehlay huway hain tou humaray paas kahan say aayain gain!

Barhaal PAKISTAN main koi bhi district/tehseel, gaoo waghaira aisa nahin hay jahan baqaida TALAAQ registered nahin ki gayi hoo pichlay 20 saloon main!

May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN

FI amaan ALLAH

yaar ap meri baat theek samj gay?

[.]

Re: Talaq ki barhti hovi sharha ki wajoohat kia hain ?

walekumasslam

meray khayal say is ki bari waja farzana raja ka chhora hoa shosha hay :hii:
jis main unho nay kaha k mard ko 2 shadi ki ijazat honi chahye

khud to bol kar wo hat gain hongi

(kia pata ghar ja kar khush hotay hoye husband ko mara peeta b ho :garmi:)

lekin fir yon hoa hoga k kuch hazrat nay apni begmaat ko ye misal di hogi
begmat akar gai hongi k meray jeetay ji tum kahen or shadi nah kar saktay

to un ko divorce day di hogi un k hazrat nay , chalo sayapay he muka do



. ye wajohat b ho sakti hain is say milti julti bhi,. zarori nahi her case ki zimeydar farzana raja he ho :hohe:

:lol: