Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

[Mr.Khan]

Assalaam Alaikum WR WB :salam:


Aap zara mujhy ek baat bataye.....

ye ek insaani fitrat hai ke " Jub hume koi shakhs na pasand ho to ..... we directly tell him/her without any Fear "

aur

Jub hum kisii ko pasand karte hen then we feel fear to tell her/him....


Aisa kyun hota hai :hhh:

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

han han pouchain pouchain mu py kiu nahe kehty me k he he he (kidding)
shayd log is lia kisi sy napassandnedgi ka izhar nahe kerty k usy bura na lag jaye aur un ka ser na phar day :)

Shayad aap ne mere msg ko sahi se nahi parha... :)

Mai ne likha hai k jub hum kisi ko na pasand karte hen to usay bol dete hen ke mai tumhy pasand nahi karta ya karti........

magar jub hum kisi ko pasand karte hen to phir hume usay ye kehne me itna darr kyun mehsoos hota hai ........

I think u would get my point

[chaand_nager]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Shayad aap ne mere msg ko sahi se nahi parha... :)

Mai ne likha hai k jub hum kisi ko na pasand karte hen to usay bol dete hen ke mai tumhy pasand nahi karta ya karti........

magar jub hum kisi ko pasand karte hen to phir hume usay ye kehne me itna darr kyun mehsoos hota hai ........

I think u would get my point

[chaand_nager]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Meri dost kehti the k ayesha main ne humasha aysa rishta chaha hai jahan muje kuch kehna na paray belkay kud hd samuj jaye aur main kehti the k muhabat chay lafzo ke muhtaj nahe hoti mager is ka izhar kia bina apne wajood ke teskeen b nahe hoti passand ho ya na passand izhar ker dayna chaye .main to ker daiti hun

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

thmbup:

[chaand_nager]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

thmbup:

wayse ap ny kis sy izhar kerna hain :shyy::shyy::shyy::shyy::shyy:

372-haha

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

wayse ap ny kis sy izhar kerna hain :shyy::shyy::shyy::shyy::shyy:

372-haha

Hum ne ab kisi se izhaar kar k shaheeed nahi hona hai 372-scare

[BhaTaktii RooH]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Hum ne ab kisi se izhaar kar k shaheeed nahi hona hai 372-scare

372-haha372-haha

[chaand_nager]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Hum ne ab kisi se izhaar kar k shaheeed nahi hona hai 372-scare

:lol:lol main is liya pouch rahi the k shyed u ko abi b izhaar e muhabat main kut shut lgny ka der ho un sy kia pata aj kal di kuriya daan bohat gusay wali hoti hain:lol:lol

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

:lol:lol main is liya pouch rahi the k shyed u ko abi b izhaar e muhabat main kut shut lgny ka der ho un sy kia pata aj kal di kuriya daan bohat gusay wali hoti hain:lol:lol

Nahi jee , jahan itne saalon sabar kiya hai wahan kuch months or sahi :donno:

izhaar - e - muhabbat k liye to umar pari hai :ekek:

woh kehte hen na k .......

Aah ko chahye ek umar asar hone tuk
Koun jeete hai tere zulf ke sar hone tuk,
Hum ne maana ke taghaful na karo ge lekin,
Khaak ho jaayen ge hum tum ko khabar hone tuk

[chaand_nager]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Nahi jee , jahan itne saalon sabar kiya hai wahan kuch months or sahi :donno:

izhaar - e - muhabbat k liye to umar pari hai :ekek:

woh kehte hen na k .......

Aah ko chahye ek umar asar hone tuk
Koun jeete hai tere zulf ke sar hone tuk,
Hum ne maana ke taghaful na karo ge lekin,

Khaak ho jaayen ge hum tum ko khabar hone tuk

muje is shair ki aj tak kabi b samjh he nhe ayi:donno:

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

muje is shair ki aj tak kabi b samjh he nhe ayi:donno:

Aap please humare Urdu daan janab WASI ANJUM se raabta karen :lol

[ummid]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Assalaam Alaikum WR WB :salam:


Aap zara mujhy ek baat bataye.....

ye ek insaani fitrat hai ke " Jub hume koi shakhs na pasand ho to ..... we directly tell him/her without any Fear "

aur

Jub hum kisii ko pasand karte hen then we feel fear to tell her/him....


Aisa kyun hota hai :hhh:

wasalam

yeh Insaani Nafsiyaat hai... jisey hum log "fear of Rejection" kehte hain......

in first case as you said kisi ko na pasnd karne per hum saaf saaf keh dete hain at that time we dont have this fear... coz we are rejecting someone..... and we think that we are free to do so...

where as in second case... liking someone and informing or telling him/her is a tuff task... coz wahan per fear of Rejection aa ajat hai ke what if he/she rejects me....
isi liye second option mein hum batate hoye darte hain... :

[.]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Assalaam Alaikum WR WB :salam:


Aap zara mujhy ek baat bataye.....

ye ek insaani fitrat hai ke " Jub hume koi shakhs na pasand ho to ..... we directly tell him/her without any Fear "

aur

Jub hum kisii ko pasand karte hen then we feel fear to tell her/him....


Aisa kyun hota hai :hhh:

pehlay case main napasendida shakash say koi expectation bhi to nahi hoti na ..jo bolna hota hai bool deyta hai banda takay ainda wo banda shakal na bhi deekhye to kis ko faraq parna hai :lol:
or 2nd case main , pasand, expectations zaida hoti hain ...dosray banday kay jawab ki surat main aap ki life pay acha/bora asar par sakta hai ...so is leye banda dair kar deyta hai kehnay main ..so yehi fear rehta hai ..

[MeemSheenAlif]

Re: Aisa Kyun Hota Hai Bar Bar ......

Assalaam Alaikum WR WB :salam:


Aap zara mujhy ek baat bataye.....

ye ek insaani fitrat hai ke " Jub hume koi shakhs na pasand ho to ..... we directly tell him/her without any Fear "

aur

Jub hum kisii ko pasand karte hen then we feel fear to tell her/him....


Aisa kyun hota hai :hhh:

Walaikum Assalam....

pehle case me hum mentally prepare hote he larai k lie...

dosre case me lar nahi sakte....is lie chapiar khane ka dur lagta he