~Wabastagi~

[saraah]

asslamoalikum respected members :rose

hope u wl b fine shine :toini:

waqt guzrta hai ...zindagi guzrti hai ... zindagi k taqazay waqt k sath badltay jatay hain ... purani riwayteain dam torrti hain ... nayi janam leti hai.....jeenay k andaaz badltay hain...rehan sehan ka tareeqay badlnay lagtay hain ....soch badlti hai....
kuch logon k liye ''naya pan'' qabool krna chandaan mushkil nae hota ...jab k kuch logon ki wabastagi ...''puranay pan'' k sath itni hoti hai , k zra waqt lagta hai adjust honay me.... yeh koi mayoob baat b nae hai ...

kiyon k
2 mukhtalif pehloun se dekha jaye tou dono k haqq me dalayal diye ja saktay hain... ek ka taluq dil se hai ek ka taluq dimagh se.... :)
so behas yeh nae k kya krna chahiye

purani cheez b radd nae kr saktay k kuch cheezain jitni purani hon utnmi umdah aur mazboot hoti hain
aur nayi cheez ko b qabool krna chahiye k tarraqi k liye zaroori hota hai

sawaal yeh hai k aap iss hawalay se khud ko kis muqam pe rakhtay hain...?
aap k liye roz marra zindagi me purani cheezon/MAAHOL/LOGON ko chorrna aur nayi cheez/MAAHOL/LOGON ko qabol krna kitna aasaan aur kitna mushkil hai ?

zra soch k jawaab dijiye ga

[AbgeenA]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

walekumsalam
haan kuch cheezen purani hon to apni apni si lagti hen lekin me cheezon se zeada attach nahi hoti...insan se wabastagi kia kam dukh deti he k cheezon se bhi dil laga lia jaey:)

[saraah]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

Rita edit kiya hai .... Missing thaa kuch :)

[AbgeenA]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

Rita edit kiya hai .... Missing thaa kuch :)

sawaal yeh hai k aap iss hawalay se khud ko kis muqam pe rakhtay hain...?
aap k liye roz marra zindagi me purani cheezon/MAAHOL/LOGON ko chorrna aur nayi cheez/MAAHOL/LOGON ko qabol krna kitna aasaan aur kitna mushkil hai ?

mere leay in me se kisi ko bhi chorna or new mahol..logon k sath adjust karna zeada mushkil nahi:D:

[BUS U HE]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

asslamoalikum respected members :rose

hope u wl b fine shine :toini:

waqt guzrta hai ...zindagi guzrti hai ... zindagi k taqazay waqt k sath badltay jatay hain ... purani riwayteain dam torrti hain ... nayi janam leti hai.....jeenay k andaaz badltay hain...rehan sehan ka tareeqay badlnay lagtay hain ....soch badlti hai....
kuch logon k liye ''naya pan'' qabool krna chandaan mushkil nae hota ...jab k kuch logon ki wabastagi ...''puranay pan'' k sath itni hoti hai , k zra waqt lagta hai adjust honay me.... yeh koi mayoob baat b nae hai ...

kiyon k
2 mukhtalif pehloun se dekha jaye tou dono k haqq me dalayal diye ja saktay hain... ek ka taluq dil se hai ek ka taluq dimagh se.... :)
so behas yeh nae k kya krna chahiye

purani cheez b radd nae kr saktay k kuch cheezain jitni purani hon utnmi umdah aur mazboot hoti hain
aur nayi cheez ko b qabool krna chahiye k tarraqi k liye zaroori hota hai

sawaal yeh hai k aap iss hawalay se khud ko kis muqam pe rakhtay hain...?
aap k liye roz marra zindagi me purani cheezon/MAAHOL/LOGON ko chorrna aur nayi cheez/MAAHOL/LOGON ko qabol krna kitna aasaan aur kitna mushkil hai ?

zra soch k jawaab dijiye ga

acha soach loo pehlay:D

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

asslamoalikum respected members :rose

hope u wl b fine shine :toini:

waqt guzrta hai ...zindagi guzrti hai ... zindagi k taqazay waqt k sath badltay jatay hain ... purani riwayteain dam torrti hain ... nayi janam leti hai.....jeenay k andaaz badltay hain...rehan sehan ka tareeqay badlnay lagtay hain ....soch badlti hai....
kuch logon k liye ''naya pan'' qabool krna chandaan mushkil nae hota ...jab k kuch logon ki wabastagi ...''puranay pan'' k sath itni hoti hai , k zra waqt lagta hai adjust honay me.... yeh koi mayoob baat b nae hai ...

kiyon k
2 mukhtalif pehloun se dekha jaye tou dono k haqq me dalayal diye ja saktay hain... ek ka taluq dil se hai ek ka taluq dimagh se.... :)
so behas yeh nae k kya krna chahiye

purani cheez b radd nae kr saktay k kuch cheezain jitni purani hon utnmi umdah aur mazboot hoti hain
aur nayi cheez ko b qabool krna chahiye k tarraqi k liye zaroori hota hai

sawaal yeh hai k aap iss hawalay se khud ko kis muqam pe rakhtay hain...?
aap k liye roz marra zindagi me purani cheezon/MAAHOL/LOGON ko chorrna aur nayi cheez/MAAHOL/LOGON ko qabol krna kitna aasaan aur kitna mushkil hai ?

zra soch k jawaab dijiye ga

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Acha topic he. Thooray lafzon mein apna mud'aa beyaan karon ga.

Angreezi proverb he "survival of the fittest" i.e. the only the fittest individual survives while the unfit individuals disappear from the face of the earth.

So positive change ko mein kabool kerta hoon, aur negative ko nahi. Its so simple. :lpop:

[saraah]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

mere leay in me se kisi ko bhi chorna or new mahol..logon k sath adjust karna zeada mushkil nahi:D:

right :D:

acha soach loo pehlay:D

:tauba

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Acha topic he. Thooray lafzon mein apna mud'aa beyaan karon ga.

Angreezi proverb he "survival of the fittest" i.e. the only the fittest individual survives while the unfit individuals disappear from the face of the earth.

So positive change ko mein kabool kerta hoon, aur negative ko nahi. Its so simple. :lpop:

well survival of the fittest me positive negative ki gunjayesh nae hoti mr u have to accept each n every change

baqi jawaab darust hai :thmbup:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

right :D:



:tauba



well survival of the fittest me positive negative ki gunjayesh nae hoti mr u have to accept each n every change

baqi jawaab darust hai :thmbup:

survival of the fittest mein her positive change ke accordingly apnay aap ko change kerna parta he.

aur baki jawaab ke liye mera water cooler kahan he 372-haha

[saraah]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

survival of the fittest mein her positive change ke accordingly apnay aap ko change kerna parta he.

aur baki jawaab ke liye mera water cooler kahan he 372-haha

:mm:thorra explain tou kijye issay
phir milay ga watercooler

[*Samra*]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

asslamoalikum respected members :rose

hope u wl b fine shine :toini:

waqt guzrta hai ...zindagi guzrti hai ... zindagi k taqazay waqt k sath badltay jatay hain ... purani riwayteain dam torrti hain ... nayi janam leti hai.....jeenay k andaaz badltay hain...rehan sehan ka tareeqay badlnay lagtay hain ....soch badlti hai....
kuch logon k liye ''naya pan'' qabool krna chandaan mushkil nae hota ...jab k kuch logon ki wabastagi ...''puranay pan'' k sath itni hoti hai , k zra waqt lagta hai adjust honay me.... yeh koi mayoob baat b nae hai ...

kiyon k
2 mukhtalif pehloun se dekha jaye tou dono k haqq me dalayal diye ja saktay hain... ek ka taluq dil se hai ek ka taluq dimagh se.... :)
so behas yeh nae k kya krna chahiye

purani cheez b radd nae kr saktay k kuch cheezain jitni purani hon utnmi umdah aur mazboot hoti hain
aur nayi cheez ko b qabool krna chahiye k tarraqi k liye zaroori hota hai

sawaal yeh hai k aap iss hawalay se khud ko kis muqam pe rakhtay hain...?
aap k liye roz marra zindagi me purani cheezon/MAAHOL/LOGON ko chorrna aur nayi cheez/MAAHOL/LOGON ko qabol krna kitna aasaan aur kitna mushkil hai ?

zra soch k jawaab dijiye ga

nice topic:thmbup:
kitna asaan he.. yeh to nahi kaih sakte.. lekin yeh he kai mushkil nahi he.

Mai her mahol.. chiez .. aur logou me apne aapko adjust kerleti hoon. Mujhe allah ke fazal se kabhi koi mushkil nahi hoti. Yeh zaroor he.. ke apne NAFS ko bohaat taiyaar kerna parta he.. aur apne aapko manwaane ki bhi koshish kerni parti he.
insaan khud postive soch rakhta ho.. to doosre bhi usko postive hi lete hain.

[saraah]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

nice topic:thmbup:
kitna asaan he.. yeh to nahi kaih sakte.. lekin yeh he kai mushkil nahi he.

Mai her mahol.. chiez .. aur logou me apne aapko adjust kerleti hoon. Mujhe allah ke fazal se kabhi koi mushkil nahi hoti. Yeh zaroor he.. ke apne NAFS ko bohaat taiyaar kerna parta he.. aur apne aapko manwaane ki bhi koshish kerni parti he.
insaan khud postive soch rakhta ho.. to doosre bhi usko postive hi lete hain.

hmmmmm good
esi situations kitni handle kr chuki ho aur kis noyiyat ki thin?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

:mm:thorra explain tou kijye issay
phir milay ga watercooler

Let me explain it with a couple of examples.


Kuch virus hotay hein jo jinhein talaf kerna aasan hota he, jub ke kuch virus aisay hotay hein jo apnay ouper cyst bana lete hein, yani apnay aap ko aik hard substance se overlap ker lete hein, jin se un ke survival ke chances ziada ho jatay hein. Wo heat ko bhi bardasht ker lete hein aur cold ko bhi. Aur jub bhi favourable conditions aati hein wo cyst ko break ker ke bahir nikal ker apni tehreeb'kaariyoon mein lag jatay hein.

You keh lo jo tehni apnay ander lachak paida ker leti he wo tootnay se buch jati he, aur jo tehni sakht rehti he wo toot jati he.

Jo bhi individuals apnay andar positive reforms lati hein wo zamanay ki tangdastiyoon ko jailnay mein mahir ho jati hein, so simple 372-shed

[aabi2cool]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

Let me explain it with a couple of examples.


Kuch virus hotay hein jo jinhein talaf kerna aasan hota he, jub ke kuch virus aisay hotay hein jo apnay ouper cyst bana lete hein, yani apnay aap ko aik hard substance se overlap ker lete hein, jin se un ke survival ke chances ziada ho jatay hein. Wo heat ko bhi bardasht ker lete hein aur cold ko bhi. Aur jub bhi favourable conditions aati hein wo cyst ko break ker ke bahir nikal ker apni tehreeb'kaariyoon mein lag jatay hein.

You keh lo jo tehni apnay ander lachak paida ker leti he wo tootnay se buch jati he, aur jo tehni sakht rehti he wo toot jati he.

Jo bhi individuals apnay andar positive reforms lati hein wo zamanay ki tangdastiyoon ko jailnay mein mahir ho jati hein, so simple 372-shed

372-haha tum konsay virus ho

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

372-haha tum konsay virus ho

sahi kahan tum ne, mein to insaan hoon, mein koonsa virus hoon

[aabi2cool]

Re: ~Wabastagi~

sahi kahan tum ne, mein to insaan hoon, mein koonsa virus hoon

hainnnnnnnnnnn tum insaaan ho ??????? ye kaya GEO par patti chal rahi hy . .. ye kab ki khabar hy ye kab pata chala yar khuch to batao :donno: