larkoun say sawaal....

[RulzZ]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

achaaa ato pehly kion naheen dasaaa:slap::slap::slap:

hun tay dass ditta nay, sorry kar hun khala jee say :slap:

[aabi2cool]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

hun tay dass ditta nay, sorry kar hun khala jee say :slap:

khala kon ay pehlay ye we daso:slap:

[raafi]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

aap sunna chahtay hi nahi
yeh such hai ..ankhian khool kaya pnay mushray ko deekhian :a stick:
or khutem karian yeh sab ...

yeh dandi mujhe bhi dikhanay aati hai....... wese mein dowry lanay walon per la'anat bejta hoon lakin jab lakay walay dowry ki demands kartay hain tu phir larki walay kyun wahan rishta kartay hain???

[GumShuda]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

chalian us waqat dulhay sahab ko pata na chalta hoo ...jab pata chalta hai tab to yeh cheezian wapas ki ja sakti hain na ?:)

Yahan per mana karain tu larki walay ulta samajh laitay hain kah humein ghareeb samjha howa hai ? khandaan mein humari bezti karwani hai ? yeh aisay kaam larki walay khudhi kartay hain chahay jo bi hoon. mei'n ne aj tak koi aisa nai daikha jo ek list thama dai keh humein yeh chezein chahiye albata yeh daikha hai ghareeb logoo'n mein wo larki ki shadi kartay hain tu larkay waloo'n se paisay laitay hain jaisay beti baich rahay hoon. ya phir youn keh lein keh unkay paas itnay paisay nahi hotay keh apni beti ka sab kuch banwa sakain tu larkay walay hi paisay dai daitay hain.

Rahi baat mein ne normal daikha hai sabhi rishta daar larki waloo'n ki help kartay hain ek ek cheez wo gift kar daitay hain aisay hi hota hai jab unki beti waghaira ki shadi hoti hai tu loog phir unko gift dai daitay hain. es se yeh hota hai larki larkay ki zaroorat ki sab chezein bana daitay hain, yeh humara cultura hai u gotta accept it. kabhi kabhi bura bi hota hai lekin moslty mein ne daikha hai acha hi hota hai os se larki larkay ki zaroorat ki chezein ban jati hain aur rahi baat Larkay kay parents ki tu wo loog apni khushi se gift daitay hain ya kuch loog es lye keh lein keh apni SHAAN oonchi rakhnay kay lye. dikhawa bi ho sakta hai.
Lekin agar dosray maktab-e-fikar ki taraf daikhain tu wo ek tarah ki khushi hoti haai aur tuhfay diye jatay hain tuhfay daina achi baat hoti hai es se payar bharta hai logo'n mein.
phir bhi yeh sara niyat per inehsaar karta hai kah apki niyat daitay waqat ya laitay waqat koi tuhfa kia thi. Jo loog es ki hasiyat rakhtay hain unko dai daina chahiye ya lai laina chahiye kisi ka tuhfa thukrana bi achi baat nahi hoti yaa baad mein wapis karna... Lekin majboori mein nahi daina chahiye yeh ab kaafi hadh tak change ho raha hai lekin phir bi looog majboor hain dainay per na dain tu loog kia kahain gai ???

aur rahi baat mein ne shadiyoon per daikha hai jab wo Bari waghaira ( Larkay walay dehaij mein cheezein laa kar dikhatay hain dulhan kay ) tu sabhi aurtain hi hoti hain wahan per aur comments dai rahi hoti hain yeh acha hai yeh payar hai yeh tu aisay hi hai blah blah.... aur batain karnay wali aurtain hi hoti hain humari apni aurtain keh flaan ne achay kapray nahi diye flan ne acha zewar nahi diyaaa.................... aur end per sari baat mardoon per aa jati hai ???? jabkah sari shopping aurtain karti hain unko mana karo keh eski zaroorat nahi hai phir bhi kahain gi kah nahi laina hai.

Qisa mukhtasir Qasoor kisi ka nahi hai yeh humari saqafat ka ek hisa ban chuki hai jis se chutkara hasil kia jaa sakta hai lekin waqat lagay ga , jazbaatiyaat se kaam nahi lia jaa sakta na hi zabardasti se. so try to get over it :D

Best Regards
Wasalam

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

us nay LARKON say sawal kia tha baray miyaan :slap:

Aur Aamir to lArkay hee nahin :kr::kr:

bulkay Aadmi bulkey us bhi baray Budhay Khoosat aadmi hain:kr::kr:

[musaddaq]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

main nay deekha hai or isi leye thread shuru kia hai ...main larki waloo ko janti houn woh yeh sab cheezian khareed rehye they ...un ka dil pooray khandan ko deenay ko nahi tha woh sirf apni beeti ko deena chahtay they ...lekan bas majbooran deena parta hai unhay .....larkay walye un ki beeti ko sunian gay pher...............

yeh to phir exceptional case hua na,werna in cheezoon se kissi ki izat na ban sakti hai na khatam ho sakti hai, kion keh susraal main larki k tor-tareeka dekha jate hain, ager woh acha hain to phir in cheezoon ki i beleive koi value nahi hai,or ager tor tareeka hi theek nahi hain to phir chahe jo bhi de do usss larki ki susraal mian izat nahi ho sakti

[AbgeenA]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

chalian jo bhi karta hai ab khutem to karna hai na isay :)

is ko serf wohi oraten khatam kar sakti hen jo ye sab karti hen.kuch din pehle me ne bhi aik shadi attend ki jis me dulhen ki sisters is baat par dhula walon se khafa ho rahi then k nath,teeka or jhoomer larke walon ki taraf se hota he wo kion bhool gaey:donno:asal me pakistan me shadi larke ki ho ya larki ki ye aik race hoti he har fazool rasam ki,apni amaarat show karne ki,larkian bhi jab jahez le kar ati hen to susral me esi esi show bazi karti hen k bas.phir jab 2/3 bhaion ki wives milti hen ya sath me rehti hen to aik dusre ko neecha dikha rahi hoti hen k wo zeada rich family se aei hen:khi:

[raafi]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

is ko serf wohi oraten khatam kar sakti hen jo ye sab karti hen.kuch din pehle me ne bhi aik shadi attend ki jis me dulhen ki sisters is baat par dhula walon se khafa ho rahi then k nath,teeka or jhoomer larke walon ki taraf se hota he wo kion bhool gaey:donno:asal me pakistan me shadi larke ki ho ya larki ki ye aik race hoti he har fazool rasam ki,apni amaarat show karne ki,larkian bhi jab jahez le kar ati hen to susral me esi esi show bazi karti hen k bas.phir jab 2/3 bhaion ki wives milti hen ya sath me rehti hen to aik dusre ko neecha dikha rahi hoti hen k wo zeada rich family se aei hen:khi:

bilkul sahi hakeekat ko likha hai.... very nice and beautiful comments based on reality......

[musaddaq]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

Yahan per mana karain tu larki walay ulta samajh laitay hain kah humein ghareeb samjha howa hai ? khandaan mein humari bezti karwani hai ? yeh aisay kaam larki walay khudhi kartay hain chahay jo bi hoon. mei'n ne aj tak koi aisa nai daikha jo ek list thama dai keh humein yeh chezein chahiye albata yeh daikha hai ghareeb logoo'n mein wo larki ki shadi kartay hain tu larkay waloo'n se paisay laitay hain jaisay beti baich rahay hoon. ya phir youn keh lein keh unkay paas itnay paisay nahi hotay keh apni beti ka sab kuch banwa sakain tu larkay walay hi paisay dai daitay hain.

Rahi baat mein ne normal daikha hai sabhi rishta daar larki waloo'n ki help kartay hain ek ek cheez wo gift kar daitay hain aisay hi hota hai jab unki beti waghaira ki shadi hoti hai tu loog phir unko gift dai daitay hain. es se yeh hota hai larki larkay ki zaroorat ki sab chezein bana daitay hain, yeh humara cultura hai u gotta accept it. kabhi kabhi bura bi hota hai lekin moslty mein ne daikha hai acha hi hota hai os se larki larkay ki zaroorat ki chezein ban jati hain aur rahi baat Larkay kay parents ki tu wo loog apni khushi se gift daitay hain ya kuch loog es lye keh lein keh apni SHAAN oonchi rakhnay kay lye. dikhawa bi ho sakta hai.
Lekin agar dosray maktab-e-fikar ki taraf daikhain tu wo ek tarah ki khushi hoti haai aur tuhfay diye jatay hain tuhfay daina achi baat hoti hai es se payar bharta hai logo'n mein.
phir bhi yeh sara niyat per inehsaar karta hai kah apki niyat daitay waqat ya laitay waqat koi tuhfa kia thi. Jo loog es ki hasiyat rakhtay hain unko dai daina chahiye ya lai laina chahiye kisi ka tuhfa thukrana bi achi baat nahi hoti yaa baad mein wapis karna... Lekin majboori mein nahi daina chahiye yeh ab kaafi hadh tak change ho raha hai lekin phir bi looog majboor hain dainay per na dain tu loog kia kahain gai ???

aur rahi baat mein ne shadiyoon per daikha hai jab wo Bari waghaira ( Larkay walay dehaij mein cheezein laa kar dikhatay hain dulhan kay ) tu sabhi aurtain hi hoti hain wahan per aur comments dai rahi hoti hain yeh acha hai yeh payar hai yeh tu aisay hi hai blah blah.... aur batain karnay wali aurtain hi hoti hain humari apni aurtain keh flaan ne achay kapray nahi diye flan ne acha zewar nahi diyaaa.................... aur end per sari baat mardoon per aa jati hai ???? jabkah sari shopping aurtain karti hain unko mana karo keh eski zaroorat nahi hai phir bhi kahain gi kah nahi laina hai.

Qisa mukhtasir Qasoor kisi ka nahi hai yeh humari saqafat ka ek hisa ban chuki hai jis se chutkara hasil kia jaa sakta hai lekin waqat lagay ga , jazbaatiyaat se kaam nahi lia jaa sakta na hi zabardasti se. so try to get over it :D

Best Regards
Wasalam

nice :)

[musaddaq]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

is ko serf wohi oraten khatam kar sakti hen jo ye sab karti hen.kuch din pehle me ne bhi aik shadi attend ki jis me dulhen ki sisters is baat par dhula walon se khafa ho rahi then k nath,teeka or jhoomer larke walon ki taraf se hota he wo kion bhool gaey:donno:asal me pakistan me shadi larke ki ho ya larki ki ye aik race hoti he har fazool rasam ki,apni amaarat show karne ki,larkian bhi jab jahez le kar ati hen to susral me esi esi show bazi karti hen k bas.phir jab 2/3 bhaion ki wives milti hen ya sath me rehti hen to aik dusre ko neecha dikha rahi hoti hen k wo zeada rich family se aei hen:khi:

very much true

[shahid_naman]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

Assalamalikum
yeh sawaal saray larkoo say hia ..sab nay is ka jawaab deena hai
sawal to buhat hain aik aik kar kay pouchoun gee

mere aik jannay wali ki shadi the kuch din pehlay ...woh apni shopping say zaida apnay susraal waloo ki shopping main busy the...saas ko soonay kay kangan(omer hai yeh sonna pehnay ki :tauba) , susar ko qeemti ghari ..or jitnay bhi dewaar, nanand or un kay bachay or peda honay walye hian un ki bhi cheezian in ko deeni parti hian RASM hai:tauba

sawal yeh kay kay aisay moukay pay dulhay sahab koi chup hotay hian ?
woh mana nahi kar saktay kay yeh fazool rasmian ab khutem honi chaian ?


kuch familes main aisa nahi hota ...aisa is leye nahi kay woh is cheez ko acha nahi samjhtay balkay is leye nahi kartay kay un kay baap, dada aisa nahi kartay they....
kafi sari families main aisa hota hai ...
yeh kab khutem hoo ga sab?
jawaab doo saray larkoun serious hoo kay.....

sawal too app ka theak ha lakin ma es ka javab nahi da sakta keyu ka abi tak too mari shadi nahi hui

aur jab ho ge too ma mana kar doon ga

[Shaim]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

main nay deekha hai or isi leye thread shuru kia hai ...main larki waloo ko janti houn woh yeh sab cheezian khareed rehye they ...un ka dil pooray khandan ko deenay ko nahi tha woh sirf apni beeti ko deena chahtay they ...lekan bas majbooran deena parta hai unhay .....larkay walye un ki beeti ko sunian gay pher...............

Hmm sahii
actually mere Bhaion ki jb shadi hoi to meri Mom ny khud hi Engagement time pr hi mana kr diya tha....or meri apni Family mai koi bhi isky Haqq mai nahi + now mery In Laws ki taraf sy bhi yahi baat hoi k wo bhi Jahez k against hain + surroundings mai jo bhi log mainy dekhy hain wo sab bhi jahez k haqq mai nahi hooty.......

pr i know aisy ko exist krty hain....or surely Dulha ko step lena chahye.....
ik mazzy ki baat btaon kuch Dulha Log mazzy k hooty hain unhy to Eid pr girl k haan sy EIDI aany pr bhi aitiraaz hoota hai k "Accha nahi lgta"....:D lolzZzz na :blush: :blush:

[Shaim]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

Aisa hi hai , I think :)

apk sath bhi aisa hai?
me ny bhi aisy log nahi dekhy......pr suna buhat hai so exist to wo krty hi hongy

[GumShuda]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

apk sath bhi aisa hai?
me ny bhi aisy log nahi dekhy......pr suna buhat hai so exist to wo krty hi hongy

Ek baar kehnay per yaqeen nai aya kia sis :d , aisa hi hai meray saath bi :\
aur suni sunayee batoo'n per yaqeen nai karna chahiye jab tak khud na daikh lain.

[GumShuda]

Re: larkoun say sawaal....

nice :)

Thanks Bro :$