Bardasht!!!

[Z.]

Re: Bardasht!!!

Zindagee mein boht baar Aisee situations ka dsaamna karna para ...Lekin Is Year mein kuch months pehlay to is hadd tak naaqabil e berdasht Situation aaey k kuch sujhhaey nahin deta tha ..aur us waqt humnay ye soch k khud ko samjhaya aur us naaqabil e berdasht siatuation ko handle kiya k JO Hona hay Wo to ho k hee rehta hay ..........................Aur WO ZAAT PAAK jo karay Behter hee hota hay ..chahay humein us mein bazahir behtaree nazar na aaey ...

So Aisee siatuation mein WAZUU kar k kuch nawafil perh k SABAr ki duaa maangtay hain :)Aur US KI RAZA mein razai honay ki duaa...........................................N i think it is the best way to handle it .................kiun k na bhi berdasht kiya jaaey jaey to waqt guzar jata hay lekin bht mnushkil So sabr ka daaman thaam k guzar lein to Aasan ho jata hay waqt guzarna:)

inshAllah :rose
thanks Esha :)

aur Allah T'ala aap ko hamesha apni Amaan mey rakheiN ameen :rose

Walaykumsalam.
itni dair baad mujhe ye topic nazar aya :donno:. koi acha topic start kia karo tu PM kar dia karo :D

Acha mein bhi es pe apnay comments doon ga lekin baad mein inshAllah :)

Zaroor inshAllah :thmbup:

bohat baar aisa hota hai.hua hai aur yaqeenan hoga bhi kiyun k her cheez zindagi mein hamari soch ya marzi k mutabiq nahin ho sakti.bohat baar bardasht jawab dey jati hai.lekin phir bhi main chup hee rehti hoon.kiyun k ghussa kernay say amooman munn say aisi batein nikal sakti hain k baad mein banda khud bhi pachtata hee hai.is liye khamoshi hee ikhtiyar kerni chiye.bohat say masail ka hal khamoshi he hai.

sab sey pehley Nisha..... khushAmdeed on pegham

aur phir aap ka bohot sa shukriya hamarey sath itni achi baat share kerney key liye .. khush raheiN :rose

[Mind hackeR]

Re: Bardasht!!!

Array wah aap ki itni khoobsoorat daleel tu meinn ay parhi hee nahi :):):) BILI AUR KABOOTAR WALI ....I dont think k aap ka tasawar meri iss post per kahin b poora aata ho...Hum nay zindgee ka jo time guzara and problems deykhein oss ki detail har ek k pass ho gee and har kisi ko problems hoti hein ....os ka samna hamein BILI ban kar tu har giz nahi karna naa jee....SIRF AUR SIRF HIKMAT Se karna hai....And by the way ALLAH jeee nay kahan aisa kaha hai ....so mein nay red kia hai .? Aap BHRAOSAY KI BAAT KARTAY HEIn .....janab....ALALH PER TRUST k bina Panadol ki tablet b asar nahi karti ...ser dard k liyay ...aur kabhi kabhi Bharosa aik misri ki piece mein b asar daal deyta hai ..kamal kartay hein aap ...ALLAH per bharosay ko kabootar aur bili wali baat kehtay hai ..so strange ....! Mera khena and man-naa ,,and mera personal experience hai ..k mein nay jin mushkilaat a b mujhay saman hwa ..Mein ALALH PER BHAROSA kia and mein allah mailk hai dil se mana....tu mujhay Allah nay sakoon diya ...aur jo b end result howa oss per b sakoon diya...ZIKAR ULLAH ....behtareen cheez hai dil ko sakoon k liyay and then TRUST IN ALLAH AND TRUST IN URSELF k aap koi SHIKWA nahi karein gay ....ALLAH SE sirf har haal mein shukar adaa karein gay ....Tab ...AAP KO SAKOON haasil ho ga .....!

hmm...!!!
mohterma lagta hai aap ne ghor se nai perhi meri post...!!!
janab pehli baat yeh k "bili aur kabooter" wali "daleel" nai hai balkeh "zarb-ul-missal" hai...ab yeh aap ki post per fit kesey bethiti hai iss k liye aap apni post ko hi dobara perh len jiss mai aap ne hi kaha hai k aap woh place hi chor deti hain jahan koi mushkil ho aur agar kuch bhi na ban perey tu washroom chali jatti hain...mohterma yeh place chorna ya kaheen bhi khud ko gum ker lena kiya yeh chupney k mutradif nai hai...???aur isi ko me ne "billi kabooter" wala khel kaha hai...!!!

doseri baat yeh k jo aap ne panadol ki goli aur ALLAH ji per bharosey ki baat ki hai tu let me correct u...hadees shareef ka mafhoom hai k koi bhi medicine jab hum khatey hain, inhale kertey hain ya inject kertey hain tu woh humari body mai enter honey k baad ALLAH ji k agey sajdey mai per jaati hai aur poochti hai ALLAH ji se k AI ALLAH agar TERI ijazat ho tu me iss insaan per apna asar dikhaon...???aur jab ALLAH ji ki manzoori hoti hai tu woh medicine apna asar dikhati hai aur result k tor per insaan ko sehat hasil hoti hai...kai baar esa hota hai k mareez ko medicine regular di jaati hai lekin mareez sehat-yaab nai hota...kiyon nai hota...???iss liye nai hota k uss medicine ko ALLAH ji ki teraf se ijazat nai hoti apna asar dikhaney ki...rahi baat trust ki tu janab aap zehar khaa len aur yeh trust rakhen k nai me zinda rahoon gee tu merey khayal mai yeh trust nai bewaqoofi ho gi...yaa phir aap yeh trust rakhen ALLAH ji per k aap ko mout nai aye gee...lekin mout tu barhaq hai aur woh tu anni hi anni hai...lekin chalen trust ker leney mai tu koi harj nai hai na...!!!

teesri baat yeh k yahan baat bhrosey ki nai ho rai berdasht ki ho rai hai aur bharosey aur berdasht mai zameen aasman ka faraq hai...kiya faraq hai woh yahan bayan kerna maqsad nai hai...!!!

chothi baat ALLAH ji ka ziker beshak dillon ko sakoon bakhshta hai bcz yeh tu ALALH ji ne khud quran mai ferma diya hai so iss per tu koi behas hai hi nai...sakoon k saath saath ALLAH ji ka ziker imaan ko pukhta kerta hai...aur yeh sakoon ka ana aur imaan ka pukhta hona tab hi mumkin hai jab aap ko iss baat ka ALLAH ji per trust ho k ALLAH ji ka ziker kerney se ALLAH ji sakoon atta fermayen gey aur mera imaan mazboot keren gey...lekin farz kijiye k aap ka trust ALLAH ji per bohut pukhta hai aur phir aap medan-e-jang mai hain aur dushman aap per fire kerta hai tu kiya esey mai ALLAH ji ne kahan fermaya hai k sirf MUJH (yaani ALLAH ji) per trust rakho k fire nai lagey ga aao ko aur ussi jagah bethey raho...???yaqeenan kaheen esa nai fermaya ALLAH ji ne...aap ko apney bachao k liye sirf trust k saharry nai hona perta bulkry harkat bhi kerni perti hai...!!!

paanchveen baat aur sab se aham baat woh yeh k me ne kaheen bhi ALLAH ji per bharosey ya trust ko naoz billah billi kabooter se nai milaya...infact yeh aap ilzaam laga rai hain mujh per...behter hai aap apni post per nazar saani keren aur munasib ilfaaz ka istamal keren...!!!

i hope aap mind nai keren gee... :)
ahoo...!!!

[Mind hackeR]

Re: Bardasht!!!

haqooq ul ibaad ka aap nay zikr kia ....Aap jab DEEN ko sahi samjhein gay tu aap ka yaqeen har cheez per ...mazboot hota hai ....

jo ALLAH KI TARAF SE TAKLEEF YA PROBLEM AATI HAI iss ka matlab har giz yeh nahi k wo sab se ziyada gunahGaar hai .....ALLAH imtehan se bacha kar rakhay ....magar Allah k peghambar aap sab islamic history otha kar deykhein k onn k liyay kitnay kitnay problems .. aa-ay ..and onn nay har waqt Alhamdolillah .... kaha aur Alalh nay onn per aasaani ki ...kia Onhoun nay .....Apnay loagoun se sahi salook nahi kia ....haqooq ul ibaad adaa nahi kiyay ?????????????

:mm:

hmm...!!!
pehli baat meri post ko aap ne quote kiya hai...mohterma aap nishandahi keren gee k me ne kahan ziker kiya hai k muskalat un per aati hain jo gunahgaar hotey hain...???

doseri baat aap ne pehamber sww ja ziker kiya hai tu janab iss mai me sirf itna kahon ga k plz peghamber sww ko aap hum se ya khud se compare nai keren...hum log tu APP sww k sahab-e-karam rzu aur agey unn k taba tabieen k peroon ki bhi khaak k beraber nai hain...APP sww ko tu ALLAH ne iss dunya mai har makhlooq k liye namona bana ker bheja tha jis ka ziker ALLAH ji khud quran mai fermaya hai...hum unn ka muqabla kahan ker saktey hain...!!!

ALHUMDULILLAH ba hesiyat-e-muslim mera iss baat per mukamal bharosa aur itimaad hai k jo bhi kuch iss kainaat mai ho raha hai woh ALLAH ji k hukum se hi ho raha hai even aik sookha pata bhi intahai sookh janey k baad bhi tab tak shaakh se alag nai hota jab tak ALLAH ji ka hukum na ho jaye uss k liye...!!!

tu mohterma aap meri post per ghor kijiye aur mujhey yeh samjhaiye k me ne kahan ALLAH per bharosey se inkaar kiya hai...???me ne tu sirf berdasht k barey mai bataya hai k koi bhi baat kab naqabil-e-berdaasht hoti hai...!!!

i hope u don mind... :)
ahoo...!!!

[raafi]

Re: Bardasht!!!

kabhi kabhi aisa bhi hota hai lakin kis tarah handle karte hain yeh situation per depend karta hai.....

[**NISHA**]

Re: Bardasht!!!

sab sey pehley Nisha..... khushAmdeed on pegham

aur phir aap ka bohot sa shukriya hamarey sath itni achi baat share kerney key liye .. khush raheiN :rose

thanks xenya

and welcome. b happy always

[Gul]

Re: Bardasht!!!

hmm...!!!
mohterma lagta hai aap ne ghor se nai perhi meri post...!!!
janab pehli baat yeh k "bili aur kabooter" wali "daleel" nai hai balkeh "zarb-ul-missal" hai...ab yeh aap ki post per fit kesey bethiti hai iss k liye aap apni post ko hi dobara perh len jiss mai aap ne hi kaha hai k aap woh place hi chor deti hain jahan koi mushkil ho aur agar kuch bhi na ban perey tu washroom chali jatti hain...mohterma yeh place chorna ya kaheen bhi khud ko gum ker lena kiya yeh chupney k mutradif nai hai...???aur isi ko me ne "billi kabooter" wala khel kaha hai...!!!

doseri baat yeh k jo aap ne panadol ki goli aur ALLAH ji per bharosey ki baat ki hai tu let me correct u...hadees shareef ka mafhoom hai k koi bhi medicine jab hum khatey hain, inhale kertey hain ya inject kertey hain tu woh humari body mai enter honey k baad ALLAH ji k agey sajdey mai per jaati hai aur poochti hai ALLAH ji se k AI ALLAH agar TERI ijazat ho tu me iss insaan per apna asar dikhaon...???aur jab ALLAH ji ki manzoori hoti hai tu woh medicine apna asar dikhati hai aur result k tor per insaan ko sehat hasil hoti hai...kai baar esa hota hai k mareez ko medicine regular di jaati hai lekin mareez sehat-yaab nai hota...kiyon nai hota...???iss liye nai hota k uss medicine ko ALLAH ji ki teraf se ijazat nai hoti apna asar dikhaney ki...rahi baat trust ki tu janab aap zehar khaa len aur yeh trust rakhen k nai me zinda rahoon gee tu merey khayal mai yeh trust nai bewaqoofi ho gi...yaa phir aap yeh trust rakhen ALLAH ji per k aap ko mout nai aye gee...lekin mout tu barhaq hai aur woh tu anni hi anni hai...lekin chalen trust ker leney mai tu koi harj nai hai na...!!!

teesri baat yeh k yahan baat bhrosey ki nai ho rai berdasht ki ho rai hai aur bharosey aur berdasht mai zameen aasman ka faraq hai...kiya faraq hai woh yahan bayan kerna maqsad nai hai...!!!

chothi baat ALLAH ji ka ziker beshak dillon ko sakoon bakhshta hai bcz yeh tu ALALH ji ne khud quran mai ferma diya hai so iss per tu koi behas hai hi nai...sakoon k saath saath ALLAH ji ka ziker imaan ko pukhta kerta hai...aur yeh sakoon ka ana aur imaan ka pukhta hona tab hi mumkin hai jab aap ko iss baat ka ALLAH ji per trust ho k ALLAH ji ka ziker kerney se ALLAH ji sakoon atta fermayen gey aur mera imaan mazboot keren gey...lekin farz kijiye k aap ka trust ALLAH ji per bohut pukhta hai aur phir aap medan-e-jang mai hain aur dushman aap per fire kerta hai tu kiya esey mai ALLAH ji ne kahan fermaya hai k sirf MUJH (yaani ALLAH ji) per trust rakho k fire nai lagey ga aao ko aur ussi jagah bethey raho...???yaqeenan kaheen esa nai fermaya ALLAH ji ne...aap ko apney bachao k liye sirf trust k saharry nai hona perta bulkry harkat bhi kerni perti hai...!!!

paanchveen baat aur sab se aham baat woh yeh k me ne kaheen bhi ALLAH ji per bharosey ya trust ko naoz billah billi kabooter se nai milaya...infact yeh aap ilzaam laga rai hain mujh per...behter hai aap apni post per nazar saani keren aur munasib ilfaaz ka istamal keren...!!!

i hope aap mind nai keren gee... :)
ahoo...!!!

hmm...!!!
pehli baat meri post ko aap ne quote kiya hai...mohterma aap nishandahi keren gee k me ne kahan ziker kiya hai k muskalat un per aati hain jo gunahgaar hotey hain...???

doseri baat aap ne pehamber sww ja ziker kiya hai tu janab iss mai me sirf itna kahon ga k plz peghamber sww ko aap hum se ya khud se compare nai keren...hum log tu APP sww k sahab-e-karam rzu aur agey unn k taba tabieen k peroon ki bhi khaak k beraber nai hain...APP sww ko tu ALLAH ne iss dunya mai har makhlooq k liye namona bana ker bheja tha jis ka ziker ALLAH ji khud quran mai fermaya hai...hum unn ka muqabla kahan ker saktey hain...!!!

ALHUMDULILLAH ba hesiyat-e-muslim mera iss baat per mukamal bharosa aur itimaad hai k jo bhi kuch iss kainaat mai ho raha hai woh ALLAH ji k hukum se hi ho raha hai even aik sookha pata bhi intahai sookh janey k baad bhi tab tak shaakh se alag nai hota jab tak ALLAH ji ka hukum na ho jaye uss k liye...!!!

tu mohterma aap meri post per ghor kijiye aur mujhey yeh samjhaiye k me ne kahan ALLAH per bharosey se inkaar kiya hai...???me ne tu sirf berdasht k barey mai bataya hai k koi bhi baat kab naqabil-e-berdaasht hoti hai...!!!

i hope u don mind... :)
ahoo...!!!

Bhai Sahib actually TOPIC BARDASHT per hai ............Iss liyay ....

Yeh AHO aur IZZAT AFZAI by saying The Red Lettered WORD ko ek tarf rakhiyay ...:) ....mujhay jo kehna tha keh diya ...!

Ab koi kahan tak kisi ko samjha-ay :) ....!
SO ALL THE BEST.............!! for ANYTHING..!

[Aania]

Re: Bardasht!!!

WHAT U CANNT BEAR ... JUST ignore THAT ... :lol
apna har dhyan kisi aur dhyan mein laga dou .. jahan se kuch bardasht na ho wo thikana jala do ... :D

western life mein kuch words bohat common hain .. since 12 or 13 yrs .. as I am into this life too ... aur barey hotey hotey realize ho hi jata hai kia sehna hai kia nahen .. jin logon se baat ker ke mujhey sirf tension milna hai .. un logon ke liye hum time mein kami rakhney ke aadi ho gaye koi 2 ya 3 saal se .. same in eevrything ...

jitna aap ki sehat ke liye acha hai utna bardashto .. us se ziada seedhey hospital le jata hai :(

sorry but its true ..
well mind mein changes kesey layee ja sakti hain .. I mean how u can change your thought .. best tip is .. recite Surah Ikhlas ... lil loudly - so you can hear .. keep reciting till ur attention is diverted by the grace of Allah ..

another tip: music ... no doubt bhangra beats ... make u feel freshy
funny movies do same

third and kool tip .. brisking walk or running for atleast 2 hours .. give you fresh mind .. ur sites are diverted u would not know when this happend ..
plus .. keep thinking everybody is yours .. but be cheap to trust ...
kaafi hain naa abi ke liye?

werna larayee jhagra ke baad sakoon to hota nahen
thats another tension ...

biggest key is "AVOID"
wot u cannt bear ... avoid strictly ...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Bardasht!!!

mein jazbaati bhi bohat hoon aur apnay pe kaabu bhi khoob kerna janta hoon