Bardasht!!!

[Z.]

[Masood]

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Pehley pehal main socha karta tha kah aisi situations mein kya karna chahiyey - magar jab aisi soorat-e-haal mein parrey to patah chala keh what matter you do, what matter you think, you cannot change the reality - Jo ho chuka - ho chuka us per apney sabar ka daman chhorrney sey aur bardasht sey bahir honey sey kuchh nahin ho ga - shayid sabar jitna mushkil hai, utna hi meetha hai...

[Shaka]

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Main aisi cheezon se ab doori ikhtiyar karleta hon jo mujhe is had tak pohancha dain ke main bardasht hi na kar paon.

[Z.]

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Main aisi cheezon se ab doori ikhtiyar karleta hon jo mujhe is had tak pohancha dain ke main bardasht hi na kar paon.

right.... wat if doorie ki option na ho??

[Shaka]

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right.... wat if doorie ki option na ho??

It really depends Xenya what kind of a situation it is. Agr baat zulm ki horahi hai maslan .. then agar wo zulm ek apna day raha hai phir tu bardasht ke ilava aur kar hi kia sakte hain kionke kabhi kabhi khamooshi bohat bara hatyaar hota hai.

[Gul]

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Sometimes aap jitni b koshish karein situations aisi az khud ban jaati hein k ..Jo aap k liyay bardasht se bahir ho jaati hein .....SOEMTIMES kisi ka behavior ....kisi ki Dealings ...But
wahi k inn situations k liyaya aap kabhi b mentally prepare nahi hotay ...Taa AAN k ....Wesay situation dobara ho jaa-ay ..
Tu naturally Temperament lose nahi karna chahiyay ..aur jis hadd tak b hai aap oss place se gurez karein ..( jo k mein aksar karti hoon .:) ...) I JUST leave the place ......and kuch deyr mein normal...But if problem ...qaim hai Tu sirf khamoshi.......aur agar kabhi ziada lambi baat ho ..tu ..gahr se bahir tu nahi ....But ....tu WASHROOM mein ghuss jaati hoon :) .
Haan aur DARD kabhi bataa kar nahi atay oss k liyay KHUD APNAY ALLAH K SATH TIME BITANAY ki zaroorat hai..tab bardasht aa jaati hai:rose

[Z.]

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It really depends Xenya what kind of a situation it is. Agr baat zulm ki horahi hai maslan .. then agar wo zulm ek apna day raha hai phir tu bardasht ke ilava aur kar hi kia sakte hain kionke kabhi kabhi khamooshi bohat bara hatyaar hota hai.

Right...

Aur meyrey khayal mey agar iss type ki koi situation ho to apnoN ki taraf sey bardasht kerna kafi mushkil hota hai ba nisbat idher udher key logoN key ....

aur agar ye maan leiN key khamoshi hatyaar hota hai .... leykin kab tak khamoshi?? any time limit :d ?

Sometimes aap jitni b koshish karein situations aisi az khud ban jaati hein k ..Jo aap k liyay bardasht se bahir ho jaati hein .....SOEMTIMES kisi ka behavior ....kisi ki Dealings ...But
wahi k inn situations k liyaya aap kabhi b mentally prepare nahi hotay ...Taa AAN k ....Wesay situation dobara ho jaa-ay ..
Tu naturally Temperament lose nahi karna chahiyay ..aur jis hadd tak b hai aap oss place se gurez karein ..( jo k mein aksar karti hoon .:) ...) I JUST leave the place ......and kuch deyr mein normal...But if problem ...qaim hai Tu sirf khamoshi.......aur agar kabhi ziada lambi baat ho ..tu ..gahr se bahir tu nahi ....But ....tu WASHROOM mein ghuss jaati hoon :) .
Haan aur DARD kabhi bataa kar nahi atay oss k liyay KHUD APNAY ALLAH K SATH TIME BITANAY ki zaroorat hai..tab bardasht aa jaati hai:rose

sab sey ziada count shayad logoN ka attitude hi kerta hai ..... as you said

aur aik insaan iss baat ka adi ho key apni her baat, her mushkil sirf Allah T'ala key sath share kerni hai magar phir aik waqt aeysa aye key uss ko ye lagey key Allah bhi shayad naraaz ho gaye hein?? phir wo insaan kya ker sakta hai???

[Shaka]

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Right...

Aur meyrey khayal mey agar iss type ki koi situation ho to apnoN ki taraf sey bardasht kerna kafi mushkil hota hai ba nisbat idher udher key logoN key ....

aur agar ye maan leiN key khamoshi hatyaar hota hai .... leykin kab tak khamoshi?? any time limit :d ?

True...and no specific time limit Xenya ..yeh tu bande bande per depend karta hai us main kitna bardasht hai kabhi kuch cheezain itni choti hoti hai aur wo bardasht nahi hoti bayshak apno se hon ya gheron se.

Khair i would say we should learn to tolerate and sacrifice. :D:

[Gul]

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sab sey ziada count shayad logoN ka attitude hi kerta hai ..... as you said

aur aik insaan iss baat ka adi ho key apni her baat, her mushkil sirf Allah T'ala key sath share kerni hai magar phir aik waqt aeysa aye key uss ko ye lagey key Allah bhi shayad naraaz ho gaye hein?? phir wo insaan kya ker sakta hai???

Sweetooo.................:rose
ALLAH TAALAH KO KHUSH KARANA BUHAT AASAAN HAI .....jab ahadess se hamein pata chalta hai ,...K agar ek bachay ki 70 mothers houn ....aur wo oss bachay se jitna piyaar karein ....TU ALLAH APNI Favorite Creation se itna ziadaa piyaar karta hai Tu seochein kia ALLAH KO KHUSH karna koi mushkil hai ...AAP ALLAH KI EBADAT ko apna asloob banan Lein ..Oth-tay beyth-tay Alhamdolillah kahain ..cha-ay PAIN HO YA GAIN ...... aap Ko jitna sakoon milay gaa Samjhein ALlah aap se raazi hai ....aur ek baat ..

QURAN-EPAK mein aik ayat ka hissa hai
*LA TAQNATU MIN REHMATU ALLAH.*.... yani mafhoom yeh k ...Allah ....Ki rehmat se mayoos nahi Hoan chahiyay ....
yeh hum jaisay loagoun k liyay hee jo TOUBA ka rasta chahtay hein aur mayoos hotay hein k ALLAH taalah tu hum se Naaraz hai ...wo kaisay hamarti baat sunay gaa,,! Tu ....JANOO....ALLAH TAALH nay tu oss b bukhsh diya ....Jiss 99 qatal kiyay thay ..KION K oss ki niyat RAJOOO....yani REPENTANCE . ki niyat thee...bass itni see bat :)

Aap agar yeh samjhi hein k ....AAAP SE ALLAH TAALH KHUSH NAHI ...( yeh tu ALLAH hee behtar janta hai ) Tu aap Toba ka rasta Khalooss-dil se apna-ein ...Mayoosi haqeeqatan kufar hai (kion iss ka matlab hai Aap ka bharosa NAOO ZU BILLAH ALLAH per nahi raha....) Tu JAB AALLH PER BHAROSA HAI tu ..janOOO kahay ka ghum :) hmm?

[~*Baila*~]

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jab maseebat aati hai toh koi na koi rasta bhi saath nikal he ata hai..:D:

[Shaka]

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Sweetooo.................:rose
ALLAH TAALAH KO KHUSH KARANA BUHAT AASAAN HAI .....jab ahadess se hamein pata chalta hai ,...K agar ek bachay ki 70 mothers houn ....aur wo oss bachay se jitna piyaar karein ....TU ALLAH APNI Favorite Creation se itna ziadaa piyaar karta hai Tu seochein kia ALLAH KO KHUSH karna koi mushkil hai ...AAP ALLAH KI EBADAT ko apna asloob banan Lein ..Oth-tay beyth-tay Alhamdolillah kahain ..cha-ay PAIN HO YA GAIN ...... aap Ko jitna sakoon milay gaa Samjhein ALlah aap se raazi hai ....aur ek baat ..

QURAN-EPAK mein aik ayat ka hissa hai
*LA TAQNATU MIN REHMATU ALLAH.*.... yani mafhoom yeh k ...Allah ....Ki rehmat se mayoos nahi Hoan chahiyay ....
yeh hum jaisay loagoun k liyay hee jo TOUBA ka rasta chahtay hein aur mayoos hotay hein k ALLAH taalah tu hum se Naaraz hai ...wo kaisay hamarti baat sunay gaa,,! Tu ....JANOO....ALLAH TAALH nay tu oss b bukhsh diya ....Jiss 99 qatal kiyay thay ..KION K oss ki niyat RAJOOO....yani REPENTANCE . ki niyat thee...bass itni see bat :)

Aap agar yeh samjhi hein k ....AAAP SE ALLAH TAALH KHUSH NAHI ...( yeh tu ALLAH hee behtar janta hai ) Tu aap Toba ka rasta Khalooss-dil se apna-ein ...Mayoosi haqeeqatan kufar hai (kion iss ka matlab hai Aap ka bharosa NAOO ZU BILLAH ALLAH per nahi raha....) Tu JAB AALLH PER BHAROSA HAI tu ..janOOO kahay ka ghum :) hmm?

Aray aap tu bohat acha likhti hain .. :D: aap ki posts per tu ab hamesha meri nazar rahaygi :D:

[Gul]

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jab maseebat aati hai toh koi na koi rasta bhi saath nikal he ata hai..:D:

Beyshak...Jab problem aati hai issi mein kahin Solution chupa hota hai:)

[~*Baila*~]

Re: Bardasht!!!

chupa na bhi ho..magr dhoondany say toh khuda b mil jata hai....:)

[Gul]

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Aray aap tu bohat acha likhti hain .. :D: aap ki posts per tu ab hamesha meri nazar rahaygi :D:

Nazar he rakhna bhiya jee :P ..Laaga nahi deyna :) .....

[Shaka]

Re: Bardasht!!!

Nazar he rakhna bhiya jee :P ..Laaga nahi deyna :) .....

Aray nahi my Sister... meri nazar nahi lagti .. :D: