Aap Kya Kartey Hain?

[GumShuda]

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yups... i am with ma family..:alhamd:.. lakeen jub word I aata hai na life mein tub aap akele hote hain.. no family.. no frnd nothing... :).. so i am struggling alone...
you know what.... you... the only you is the person.. after Allah... who now yourself very well.. not even your mother.. not father.. no one.. ppl can pridict.. but sure answer to that high xtent koi nahi de sakta.... isi liye khud ko janne ka amal zaroori hai... aur is mein khud se hi bauaht sturggle karna parta hai... kyun khud-shanasi... Allah ki pehchaan karwaati hai...:)...
so better ke aap apne problem kisi aur se discuss karein... discuss it with your self only... as a counsellor.. i first asked my client after knowing his/her problem... what you want to do???
the basic thing is that ke be fair with yourself first...:thmbup:

Yahan mein ap se thora ikhtilaaf karta hoon.
Insaan kabhi bhi akaila nahi hota :)
atleast mein nahi hoon, kuynkah mera taulaq Sufism se hai. Roohaniyat mein Aisa nahi hota, Manzil tu Allah hay lekin beech mein bohat saray loog aa jatay hain jo apko pakar kay Allah kay paas lay janay ka saman kartay hain.
Apko ek misaal sunata hoon Ashfaq Ahmad ( Writer thay Bohat Baray Allah unko Jannat Naseeb Karay Ameen ), unka ek Prgrm ata tha PTV pe "Zaviya" ( Angle). Tu Os mein Unhoon ne Ek misaal di thi. Kuch Aisay hai..

Ek Guru Hota hai aur ek Cheela ( Naukar ) wo kisi Jungle mein rahtay hain. Ek Saath rahtay howay unko kafi waqat ho jata hai. Ek din aisa hota hay kah Chelay ko pata nai kia Sojti hai Guru ki Changli ungli ( choothi finger ) jisko Cheechi bhi kahtay hain wo Kha jata hay, Guru ko Chelay se Payar hota hay tu wo Kuch nahi kahta. Doosray din Chelay Haath Khaa jata hay apnay Guru ka aur Aisa Kartay Kartay Chela Guru ko Mukamal taur pe Kha jata hay. Guru tu bohat Pakbaaz hota hay aur Achay Kaam Karta tha. Tu Ab Guru Ka Khoon Chelay Ki Ragoo'N mein Daurnay laga, tu Chelay ne Wohi Karna Shero Kar diya Jo Guru Karta tha. Es lye Zindagi mein Ek Roohani Teacher Ki Zaroorat Hoti hai Jo Dhondnay Se Milta hay jo apko Allah tak Pohnchnay mein Madad karta hay kuynkah wo Loog Allah tak Pohanch Chukay Hotay hain.

Agar Insaan ko Zindagi Mein ek Rehnuma Mil Jay tu Bohat Acha Rahta hai warna Naikiyoon kay lye ya Jannat kay lye tu Sabhi ibadat kartay hain, Lekin Mohabbat mein aisa nahi hota aur na hi insaan Tanha Rahta hay.
Jazak'Allah
I hope apko mera point samajh aa jai ga inshAllah :)

[ummid]

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Yahan mein ap se thora ikhtilaaf karta hoon.
Insaan kabhi bhi akaila nahi hota :)
atleast mein nahi hoon, kuynkah mera taulaq Sufism se hai. Roohaniyat mein Aisa nahi hota, Manzil tu Allah hay lekin beech mein bohat saray loog aa jatay hain jo apko pakar kay Allah kay paas lay janay ka saman kartay hain.
Apko ek misaal sunata hoon Ashfaq Ahmad ( Writer thay Bohat Baray Allah unko Jannat Naseeb Karay Ameen ), unka ek Prgrm ata tha PTV pe "Zaviya" ( Angle). Tu Os mein Unhoon ne Ek misaal di thi. Kuch Aisay hai..

Agar Insaan ko Zindagi Mein ek Rehnuma Mil Jay tu Bohat Acha Rahta hai warna Naikiyoon kay lye ya Jannat kay lye tu Sabhi ibadat kartay hain, Lekin Mohabbat mein aisa nahi hota aur na hi insaan Tanha Rahta hay.
Jazak'Allah
I hope apko mera point samajh aa jai ga inshAllah :)

agreed... ustad ke bagair manzil nahi milti.. per is ka yeh matlab bhi nahi hota ke aap her raah chalte ko ustad bana lein.... ke mujhe monitor karo... self monitor is best monitor....
aap sufism se taloq rakhte hain... tu hum psychology se... ab tak jo bhi baatein hoi.. us mein ager daikha jaaye tu bauaht si baatein same hi thi... bus kaihne ka andaz dora tha... aik baat ko kai tarequ se kaha ja sakta hai.. famous xample of glass adha bhara hai.. and second one is... glass aadah khali hai....
aap ne jo kaha i do agree.. waise bhi hume bauaht ikhtelaf hota hai kisi se bhi... kyun ke life ko daikhne ka aur usey baratne ka sub ka tajruba alag hota hai....
any wayzz... be blessed...:)

[GumShuda]

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agreed... ustad ke bagair manzil nahi milti.. per is ka yeh matlab bhi nahi hota ke aap her raah chalte ko ustad bana lein.... ke mujhe monitor karo... self monitor is best monitor....
aap sufism se taloq rakhte hain... tu hum psychology se... ab tak jo bhi baatein hoi.. us mein ager daikha jaaye tu bauaht si baatein same hi thi... bus kaihne ka andaz dora tha... aik baat ko kai tarequ se kaha ja sakta hai.. famous xample of glass adha bhara hai.. and second one is... glass aadah khali hai....
aap ne jo kaha i do agree.. waise bhi hume bauaht ikhtelaf hota hai kisi se bhi... kyun ke life ko daikhne ka aur usey baratne ka sub ka tajruba alag hota hai....
any wayzz... be blessed...:)

lolss.. :)
thanks kay ap agreed hain.
jab ustaad kay baghair manzil nahi milti tu phir self monitoring se kaisay mil sakti hai?
apko psychology yeh sikhati hoo gi kah self monitor raho :( lekin mein ne shaid pahlay bi kaha tha " hum jab ghalti karain gai ya rasta bhatak jain gai ( insaan ghalti ka putla hai ) tu Ehsaas kaisay ho ga kah hum Rasta bhool gai hain aur hum ne Kuch ghalat kar dia ya kahain samajh nahi aye gi tu phir kia karain gai " ?
Kabhi ap ne ek baat note ki hai pagal jo hota hai wo sari bongiyaa'n marta hai lekin oskay paas agar koi cheez ho tu osko haath nahi laganay daita kuyn coz osko pata hota hai kah wo oski hai ? apne shaid daikha ho lekin mein ne pak mein aksar daikaa hai buses mein jab un se karaye ka kaha jata hai tu wo ooon aaaaan kartay hain lekin agar koi insaan ghalti se unkay samaaan ko choo bhi lay tu wo ghusay se bhipar jatay hain ? akhir aisa kuyn ? Yahan apki Psychology kia kahti hay ? :)

Aur apne jaisay kaha tha kah ap ukta jati hain tu kahain ki kahain pohanch jati hain ? Philosophy mein pata nahi chalta kia eska ?:blush:

Humaray haan Rohaniyat mein pata chal jata hay jab insaan jahan bhi ho. Even Sotay mein bhi kahein hoo aur wo Khawab bi yaad Rahtay hain. Aur aisa koi expression nahi hota kah express na ho :)

Ap ek kaam karna jab agli baar khoo jain aur kahain se kahain pohnchain tu oskay baad jab relax ya thora behtar ho chukain tu ghaur se sochna kah ap kahan pohanch gain thein umeed hay apko jawab mil jai ga inshAllah :).

Mein ne Ekhtilaaf apki baat se kia tha kah ap ne kaha maa'n baap ya dost koi es duniya mein saath nai daita ? :)
tu phir Allah ne en sab koo banaya kuyn hai ?
Chalain maan laitay hain kay maa'n baa'p ka Rishta Allah ne banaya majboori sahi banana para ( Jo kay aisa bhi nahi hay wo bi ek maqsad hay). Tu phir hum dost kuyn banatay hain ? lolsss..
Yeh saray Rehanumayee ( Guidance ) Kay Tareeqay hain Allah ne humaray lye banaye hain. tu yeh Sochna kay Insaan akaila hay yeh sahi nahi hai :( aur dosray loog maa'ni nahi rakhtay :).
Aur rahi baat glass aur pani ki tu har baat ko karnay kay soo tareeqay mil jatay hain. yeh Samjhanay walay pe bhi depend karta hay wo kaisay Samjhata hay :).
Mein ne etni sari batain zaati ikhtilaaf se nahi kein yeh tu ek behas ka hisa tha tu mein ne bool diya agar koi baar buri lagi ho tu pls dar guzar se kaam laina. Mein apna point of view samjhanay ki koshish kar raha tha bas :)
anway :jazak:. Mein aisay ikhtilaaf se guraiz karoon ga ainda :).

[Gul]

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Assalamo allaikum

Agar aap ko kisi baat sey dil uktaa jaey to aap kya kartey hain? :donno:

mein nay tu yeh thread ab hee deykha...interesting one ...!

Mein bohat jald kisi cheez se oktaa jaati hoon .....sab kamoun se ..sab chezoun ..siwa-ay IBN-E_aadam :)k har cheez se buhat jaldi tang ho jaati hoon...tu os ko kuch arasa k liyay chore deyti hoon jaiasy ek zamany mein mujhay black color buhat hee pasand tha wo b plain black so har dresss BLACK....kuch zara c changes k sath black ..tu ...kuch din tu itna dil tang raah k ..k full year wo color ka dress nahi pehna .......jo thay wo b ..BOX mein band kar k rakh diyay ..phir kafi arsay baad jab pehnay tu buhat acha lagA ..:)
Kaam mein kasar kisi kaam se tang ho jaati hoon like embroidery , shoro kar k aadhay mein chore diyaa ..aik taraf rakh dee phir kuch arsay baad dobaar nikal k karti hoon ...KAM khatam zaroor karti hoon by hook or crook ..magar chages kar kar k :)
ek TALWAN hai ....mizaj mein .:pagal:..oss ko balnce karti hoon ..:embarasse

[GumShuda]

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mein nay tu yeh thread ab hee deykha...interesting one ...!

Mein bohat jald kisi cheez se oktaa jaati hoon .....sab kamoun se ..sab chezoun ..siwa-ay IBN-E_aadam :)k har cheez se buhat jaldi tang ho jaati hoon...tu os ko kuch arasa k liyay chore deyti hoon jaiasy ek zamany mein mujhay black color buhat hee pasand tha wo b plain black so har dresss BLACK....kuch zara c changes k sath black ..tu ...kuch din tu itna dil tang raah k ..k full year wo color ka dress nahi pehna .......jo thay wo b ..BOX mein band kar k rakh diyay ..phir kafi arsay baad jab pehnay tu buhat acha lagA ..:)
Kaam mein kasar kisi kaam se tang ho jaati hoon like embroidery , shoro kar k aadhay mein chore diyaa ..aik taraf rakh dee phir kuch arsay baad dobaar nikal k karti hoon ...KAM khatam zaroor karti hoon by hook or crook ..magar chages kar kar k :)
ek TALWAN hai ....mizaj mein .:pagal:..oss ko balnce karti hoon ..:embarasse

Ap tu bhat zidi lagti hain waisay :embarasse

[aquari]

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Assalamo allaikum

Agar aap ko kisi baat sey dil uktaa jaey to aap kya kartey hain? :donno:

Ager yeh baat main apni hobbies k lya consider karoo tu woh mainey already itni sarii rakhi hoi hain k main un main kabhi bore nahi hoti bulk un k lya khas kr apney bz routine main sey time nikalti hoo...khas kr books parhney sey.
Baqi daily kamoo main kabhi kabhi stiching sey uktaa jati hoo tu aisey main thori dair ko fresh honey ki gharz sey uth kr 1 cup tea peeti hoo thora TV dekhti hoo ya music sunti hoo or phr sey mood bana kr stiching krney beth jati hoo.Office k kaam sey mujhey nahi yaad parta k main kabhi uktai hoo kunk shayed main janti hoo main aisa nahi krsakti.Is k ilawa bachi parhaii tu woh bhi jub bauht zayda thak jaoo dil uchat honey lagey tu yehi krtii hoo k waqti tur pr choor kr ek cup tea ley leti hoo phr mind fresh hojata haii or phr sey us main lag jati hoo.

[AbgeenA]

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waaao yeh bhi kya hobby hai uski :lol :lol

Waisey Hamzad aap ney jitni baton ko misaal di hai, woh sab qudrat ka khail hai - agar aisa na ho to zindagi ruk jaey - lekin kya insaan ko bhi aisi hi ghair'mustaqil mizaaj hona chahiyey ya saal mein chaar baar apney hobbies, apni sochein, apney amal, apney kaam, apney rishtey badalney chahiyey???

gher mustakil muzaj hona kuch zeada achi baat nahi he or bohat sari baton me time ke sath insan mustakil mizaj hota jata he lekin hobbies waghera me to dil ukta jane se koi khas fark nahi parta lekin zindagi me kuch baten hoti hen jinhe seriously lena chaey jese job,apni koi zimadari waghera.ese hi dosti ya rishte yani insan ka dusre insan se nata.in moamlat me uktahat kisi solid waja se honi chaey wese nahi.warna apne sath sath ham dusron ke leay bhi pareshani ka baes banta he:)

[shahid_naman]

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Assalamo allaikum

Agar aap ko kisi baat sey dil uktaa jaey to aap kya kartey hain? :donno:

hmmmmmm........
agar us kam sa koi faida na ho to chor datay haan aur agar faida ho to usay bar bar karta hoon ta ka dil lag jaya......
yani bat faiday pa ay jate ha......:donno:

[BUS U HE]

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me ka kisi cheez say dil okta jaye tu....us ko chor ker kuch or try kerti hoon....ager wo b pasand na aye tu wapis usi cheez per a jati hoon jis ko chora tha....waisay me ik tarha ki routine say ukta jati hoon jeld he....

its mean k u mstakil mizaj kuri nahi ho:khi:

[Life is Alone]

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hmmm

hmm mere sath problem yeh hai ke mera kisi bhi cheez se dil nahi uktaa`ta..

meri zindagi mai aj tek koi asi cheez hi nahi ay ya hoi ho..ke mera dil ukta gya ho us se...

kuch bhi nahi hai...:)

[ε�з � ΰ T T Є ŗ f Ł � ε�з]

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ager mera dil kisi cheez se ukhta jaye ...tou mai usay chorna hi zarori samjhti hun :)

[Pehli``Barish]

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agar mera dill kisi cheez say ukta jaye to koshish karti hon isy chor don...

[ε�з � ΰ T T Є ŗ f Ł � ε�з]

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aww mere pay gaye ho na :comfort:

agar mera dill kisi cheez say ukta jaye to koshish karti hon isy chor don...

[Shaka]

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Mere dil nahi uktaa ta main bohat dheeth insaan hon :D

[ε�з � ΰ T T Є ŗ f Ł � ε�з]

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Lagta bhi kuch ayse he hay :D

Mere dil nahi uktaa ta main bohat dheeth insaan hon :D