Aap Kya Kartey Hain?

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

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sahi kaha de... aisa hota hai.. in my case.. aisa hi hai... i cant xpress it... kai kai baar tu hum totally blank hote hain... ird gird se be-khaber itna ke bus...:).. pata bhi nahi chalta ke kis raste per jaa rahe hain.. aur kahin ka kahin pohanch jaate hain.... :donno:

hmm humaray saath bas ye hota hay k hum khamosh ho jatay hain itna khamosh k ek simple word yes or no tak kehnay ko mann nahin hota aur agar mann ho bhi to bhi kaha nahin jaata :)

[GumShuda]

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sahi kaha de... aisa hota hai.. in my case.. aisa hi hai... i cant xpress it... kai kai baar tu hum totally blank hote hain... ird gird se be-khaber itna ke bus...:).. pata bhi nahi chalta ke kis raste per jaa rahe hain.. aur kahin ka kahin pohanch jaate hain.... :donno:

Lekin phir bi i think aisa koi expression nahi hota jisko express na kia ja sakay. ap ne kaha kahin ka kahin pohanch jati hain.
Tu apko yeh kaisay pata chalta hay kah ap kahin ka kahin pohanch jati hain ? :)
yeh bhi thori wazahat farma dain. thanks

[ummid]

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hmm humaray saath bas ye hota hay k hum khamosh ho jatay hain itna khamosh k ek simple word yes or no tak kehnay ko mann nahin hota aur agar mann ho bhi to bhi kaha nahin jaata :)

yeah....:)

[GumShuda]

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hmm humaray saath bas ye hota hay k hum khamosh ho jatay hain itna khamosh k ek simple word yes or no tak kehnay ko mann nahin hota aur agar mann ho bhi to bhi kaha nahin jaata :)

yeh baat kisi haddh tak acceptable hai, i think :)

[ummid]

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Lekin phir bi i think aisa koi expression nahi hota jisko express na kia ja sakay. ap ne kaha kahin ka kahin pohanch jati hain.
Tu apko yeh kaisay pata chalta hay kah ap kahin ka kahin pohanch jati hain ? :)
yeh bhi thori wazahat farma dain. thanks

aise bauaht xpression hote hain jinhe xpress nahi kiya ja sakta... for eg.. split person's xpression... any wayz.. its a psychologycal thing...
ji.. aur rahi baat kahein ka kahein pohanchne ki tu aisa huamre saath bauaht hota hai.. hum ya tu bauaht kuch sochte hoye chal rahe ho'n ya totally balnk mind... then i loss my way.. aur pata us waqt chalta hai jub all of sudden kuch ho.. for eg.. peeche se koi zor se gaari ka horn bajaye.. ya jub hum apne sub-conscious se conscious ki taraf loat aaye......

[GumShuda]

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aise bauaht xpression hote hain jinhe xpress nahi kiya ja sakta... for eg.. split person's xpression... any wayz.. its a psychologycal thing...
ji.. aur rahi baat kahein ka kahein pohanchne ki tu aisa huamre saath bauaht hota hai.. hum ya tu bauaht kuch sochte hoye chal rahe ho'n ya totally balnk mind... then i loss my way.. aur pata us waqt chalta hai jub all of sudden kuch ho.. for eg.. peeche se koi zor se gaari ka horn bajaye.. ya jub hum apne sub-conscious se conscious ki taraf loat aaye......

umm.. aisa tu tab hota hai jab damagh maoo'f ho jai, aur i think jab insaan zindagi se ukata hai tabi aisa ho sakta hai warna koi tuk nai banta itna unconcious hona :S
Tu rahi baat split personality ki baat oska uktahat se koi taulaq nahi. Mera ek cousion hay oskay saath yeh problem thi osko ek dam achanak kuch ho jata tha aur osko yaad nahi rahta tha os ne kia kiya ya kia howa. Lekin Psychological problem thi wo sahi ho gai aur mazay ki baat wo os waqat bacha tha koi 6th grade mein parhta tha i think os waqat :).

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

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yeh baat kisi haddh tak acceptable hai, i think :)

sirf kisi hadd tak nahin ....

[GumShuda]

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sirf kisi hadd tak nahin ....

Acha thori si Zayada kar lain agar apkay dil ko tasali milay gi tu lolssss..

[ummid]

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umm.. aisa tu tab hota hai jab damagh maoo'f ho jai, aur i think jab insaan zindagi se ukata hai tabi aisa ho sakta hai warna koi tuk nai banta itna unconcious hona :S
Tu rahi baat split personality ki baat oska uktahat se koi taulaq nahi. Mera ek cousion hay oskay saath yeh problem thi osko ek dam achanak kuch ho jata tha aur osko yaad nahi rahta tha os ne kia kiya ya kia howa. Lekin Psychological problem thi wo sahi ho gai aur mazay ki baat wo os waqat bacha tha koi 6th grade mein parhta tha i think os waqat :).

ji.. hum ne paihle hi kaha tha ke hum khud se ukta gaye hain...
aur rahi abat split ki... tu hum ne yeh kub kaha ke us ka uktahat se talooq hai??? i just gave you the xample di thi aik....
anywayz... :)

[GumShuda]

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ji.. hum ne paihle hi kaha tha ke hum khud se ukta gaye hain...
aur rahi abat split ki... tu hum ne yeh kub kaha ke us ka uktahat se talooq hai??? i just gave you the xample di thi aik....
anywayz... :)

Daikhain Mayoosi Gunah hay :)
aur ukatana aisa hi hay bilkul jaisay Mayoos Ho jana.
Bas Allah pe choorh Daina Chahye InshAllah wo Behtar Karain gai.
@ Ap ne split personality ka zikar kiya tha na es lye mein ne kaha
yeh bhi imtehan hota hai Allah ki taraf se jab Allah humain kisi cheez se ukta daita hai :)
Mera khayal hay Bas insaan ko Sabar karna chahye.

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

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Acha thori si Zayada kar lain agar apkay dil ko tasali milay gi tu lolssss..

No, baat sirf satisfaction ki nahin:) ..... (aur is baat se aapka agree hona bhi zaruri nahin) cuz sab ek jessay nahin hotay .

[GumShuda]

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No, baat sirf satisfaction ki nahin:) ..... (aur is baat se aapka agree hona bhi zaruri nahin) cuz sab ek jessay nahin hotay .

lolsss.. aisi koi baat nahi hai ap dil pe mat loo, i was jus messin :)

[ummid]

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Daikhain Mayoosi Gunah hay :)
aur ukatana aisa hi hay bilkul jaisay Mayoos Ho jana.
Bas Allah pe choorh Daina Chahye InshAllah wo Behtar Karain gai.
@ Ap ne split personality ka zikar kiya tha na es lye mein ne kaha
yeh bhi imtehan hota hai Allah ki taraf se jab Allah humain kisi cheez se ukta daita hai :)
Mera khayal hay Bas insaan ko Sabar karna chahye.

listen dude.. i am not mayoos... my name is ummid... ummid means hope.... uktana in a sense.. now a days i am struggling with ma self... ke where i am stand in this world?? what i am?? what i am doing here??? this type of questions.. and when someone is reaching to his or her subconscious na yeh sub hota hi hota hai... :)..
aur Allah... kub Us ne hume raah nahi dikhai... Woh huamre liye humesha humare saath hi raha hai :alhamd:.... aur InshAllah rahega... :)

[GumShuda]

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listen dude.. i am not mayoos... my name is ummid... ummid means hope.... uktana in a sense.. now a days i am struggling with ma self... ke where i am stand in this world?? what i am?? what i am doing here??? this type of questions.. and when someone is reaching to his or her subconscious na yeh sub hota hi hota hai... :)..
aur Allah... kub Us ne hume raah nahi dikhai... Woh huamre liye humesha humare saath hi raha hai :alhamd:.... aur InshAllah rahega... :)

Exactly mein bhi yahi sunana chahta tha kah apka nick tu Umid hai phir mujhe aisa kuyn laga mayosi jaisa:)
Mera bhi yahi haal hay ajkal ....... but thoray scene different hai as im alone out here but ap ki i think family ho gi ap share karain un se akailay kabi insaan sochta hai kah osne kuch achieve nahi kia lekin bohat kuch kar chuka hota hai, jaisay insaan koi ghalti karta hai tu osko pata nahi chalta ( i.e bachpan mein aksar essay likhtay thay aur check katay thay tu koi ghalti nahi nikalti thi lekin jab koi aur check karta tha tu ghalti nikal hi ati thi ) aisa hi maum'la yahan bhi hai.
Waisay ek hal hai aisi Halat mein Quraan Ki Sorah " Waqiya" Parhni Chahiye aur Dua Karni Chahye. :)

[ummid]

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Exactly mein bhi yahi sunana chahta tha kah apka nick tu Umid hai phir mujhe aisa kuyn laga mayosi jaisa:)
Mera bhi yahi haal hay ajkal ....... but thoray scene different hai as im alone out here but ap ki i think family ho gi ap share karain un se akailay kabi insaan sochta hai kah osne kuch achieve nahi kia lekin bohat kuch kar chuka hota hai, jaisay insaan koi ghalti karta hai tu osko pata nahi chalta ( i.e bachpan mein aksar essay likhtay thay aur check katay thay tu koi ghalti nahi nikalti thi lekin jab koi aur check karta tha tu ghalti nikal hi ati thi ) aisa hi maum'la yahan bhi hai.
Waisay ek hal hai aisi Halat mein Quraan Ki Sorah " Waqiya" Parhni Chahiye aur Dua Karni Chahye. :)

yups... i am with ma family..:alhamd:.. lakeen jub word I aata hai na life mein tub aap akele hote hain.. no family.. no frnd nothing... :).. so i am struggling alone...
you know what.... you... the only you is the person.. after Allah... who now yourself very well.. not even your mother.. not father.. no one.. ppl can pridict.. but sure answer to that high xtent koi nahi de sakta.... isi liye khud ko janne ka amal zaroori hai... aur is mein khud se hi bauaht sturggle karna parta hai... kyun khud-shanasi... Allah ki pehchaan karwaati hai...:)...
so better ke aap apne problem kisi aur se discuss karein... discuss it with your self only... as a counsellor.. i first asked my client after knowing his/her problem... what you want to do???
the basic thing is that ke be fair with yourself first...:thmbup: