Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

koi baat nahi....hum tauseef bhai se apni tauseef karwana bhi nahi chahte...

ary ary rona nahin...... mujh sey kisi ka ronaa nahin dekhaa jataa

"tusi waqi gr8 ho".. ummid sis.......:thmbup: :thmbup:

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Taj mahal "per"...tu baithne ki koi jagah nahi...:khi:
han albatta taj mahal "mein" zaror ho sakti hai.....:shh:
waise aap TM hotel ki baat ker rahe hain ya mumtaaz wale TM ki????????:cc:

.... uffffffff tum bhi sadi ho sis :hathora .......
per...... yahan "mein" key meaning mein hi istemaal howa hai.....

:khi: ........ mein mumtaaz+shahjahan waly taj mehal ke hi baat ker rehaa hoon
:khi:
bayta nahin app nein ke app tashreef lein ge ya nahin......:cc: :cc:

[ummid]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

.... uffffffff tum bhi sadi ho sis :hathora .......
per...... yahan "mein" key meaning mein hi istemaal howa hai.....

:khi: ........ mein mumtaaz+shahjahan waly taj mehal ke hi baat ker rehaa hoon
:khi:
bayta nahin app nein ke app tashreef lein ge ya nahin......:cc: :cc:

aaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww....
mumtaz+shahjahan wale taj mahal mein aap aap do shadi kareinge.....ufffff!!:tauba kyun un ki muhabbat ko sharmindah ker rahe hain aap.......
khair hum zaror aayenge....lakeen yeh TASHREEF kaun hai jise saath mein lana hai....:lpop:

[*Roomi*]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

:)

[shy]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

:)

the mask aap ne bohat ache tareeke se baat samjhaei:thmbup: ab Allah kare na samjhon ko samjh aa jaey:khi:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Well said khuram...aap ki baat se kisi had tak mujay itfaak he...lekin doosri shadi kerne ki aur bhi wajoohaat ho sakti hein

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

:)

here are answers................ to ur comments

1. mashlat ka hona zaroori nahin....... kai baar bataa chukaa hoon............. so ab tu samjh lein as ko.. aur "lailaa majnoo"
wali muhbbat na hona bhi zaroori nahin sirf pasand bhi kafi hai

2 kiyon ijaazat di hai 4 ke.. us ke mukmul detail nahin di app nain..

3.shadi ke baad jo muhbat kertaa hai us ka kerdaar achaa nahin hotaa????????????? yeh 100 % wrong hai...
dil pey kis ko ikhtiyar hai......
aur kuch logon ke gher waly zaberdesti shaidi apni pasand
sey kerwaa letyaa hain......... ab woh baad min agher apni merzi sey shadi kery tu kiya us ka kirdaar sahi nahin..
thats not fair............... agher yeh case na bhi hoo tu yeh baat
nahin drust....... arab ke kai ulma e akram nain 4 shadiyan ki
jin ke books sey hum aur app deen ko samjhty hain
tu app un ke bary mein kiya khain gey?????????

4. jis ke salry 50,000 hoooooooo????
yeh mein pehly bhi bataa chuka hon key insaaf zaroori hai .. dono ke "aish pasand" zingai denaa zaroori nahin.....
agher 10,000 kamanin wala bhi 2 shadian kery key dono biwion ke ko ek jaisi chezin dey.. tu phir agher woh dono
ko daal roti bhi khliaay tu yeh jaiz hai..
try tu understand the basic rule.....

5.ek achi biwi ke baad... no need for anything?......
yeh app ke soch hai... shariyat ka usool nahin...

6. 4 shadiyan hawas ???
yeh kehnaa galat hai......... jaisaa key mein nain as sey pehly kuch ulma e akram ke misaal di hai
..... ass ka ek answer hai...... jo mein as thread per post nahin
ker saktaa.......


7.i hope ke mein nein app key questions ke jawab de diye
hon gey.........

[ummid]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

ary ary rona nahin...... mujh sey kisi ka ronaa nahin dekhaa jataa

"tusi waqi gr8 ho".. ummid sis.......:thmbup: :thmbup:

hume jhoote tauseef bhai pasand nahi.........:na:

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

4 shadiyon ke ijaazat per akser non muslim bhi itraaz kerty hain..... as per dr.zakir ke ek tehreer mili thi
jis ko mein pori dyant dari sey complete post ker rehaa
hon.. as mein app ko ayat e nikah bhi mil jay gi jis ka
anya nein khaa tha....... aur as hukum ke kuch hikmatin bhi
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Most Common Questions asked by Non-Muslims

POLYGAMY

Question:
Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam? i.e. why is polygamy allowed in Islam?

Answer:
Definition of Polygamy
1. Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy can be of two types. One is polygyny where a man marries more than one woman, and the other is polyandry, where a woman marries more than one man. In Islam, limited polygyny is permitted; whereas polyandry is completely prohibited.

Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife?
2.


Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. King Dashrat, the father of Rama, had more than one wife. Krishna had several wives.
In earlier times, Christian men were permitted as many wives as they wished, since the Bible puts no restriction on the number of wives. It was only a few centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one.

Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had three wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom ben Yehudah (95% C.E to 1030 C.E) issued an edict against it. The Jewish Sephardic communities living in Muslim countries continued the practice till as late as 1950, until an Act of the Chief Rabbinate of Israel extended the ban on marrying more than one wife.
3. Hindus are more polygynous than Muslims



Let us now analyse why Islam allows a man to have more than one wife.
4.


"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."


In the same chapter i.e. Surah Nisa verse 129 says:
"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."

Therefore polygyny is not a rule but an exception. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to have more than one wife.

• i.e. compulsory or obligatory
• Mustahab
• Mubah
• Makruh
• Haraam

Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife.
5. Average life span of females is more than that of males

By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. A female child has more immunity than a male child. A female child can fight the germs and diseases better than the male child. For this reason, during the pediatric age itself there are more deaths among males as compared to the females.

During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. More men die due to accidents and diseases than women. The average life span of females is more than that of males, and at any given time one finds more widows in the world than widowers.
6. India has more male population than female due to female foeticide and infanticide

India is one of the few countries, along with the other neighbouring countries, in which the female population is less than the male population. The reason lies in the high rate of female infanticide in India, and the fact that more than one million female foetuses are aborted every year in this country, after they are identified as females. If this evil practice is stopped, then India too will have more females as compared to males.

7. World female population is more than male population

In the USA, women outnumber men by 7.8 million. New York alone has one million more females as compared to the number of males, and of the male population of New York one-third are gays i.e sodomites. The U.S.A as a whole has more than twenty-five million gays. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Germany has five million more females as compared to males. Russia has nine million more females than males. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males.

8. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical

Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million females in U.S.A who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). There would be more than four million females in Great Britain, 5 million females in Germany and nine million females in Russia alone who would not be able to find a husband.
Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. The only two options remaining for her are that she either marries a man who already has a wife or becomes public property. There is no other option. All those who are modest will opt for the first.
In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life.
Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become public property. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second.
There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women.

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Khawateen ko 4 shadiyon ke ijaazat kiyon nahin?
anya ke sawal ka jawab.....yeh rahaa...... again dr.zakir ke tehreer

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Most Common Questions asked by Non-Muslims
POLYANDRY

Question:
If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?
Answer:

Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created men and women as equal, but with different capabilities and different responsibilities. Men and women are different, physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not identical.


The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam:
1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present.

2. Man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman.

3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle.

4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several sexual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or sexually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital sex. This is not the case in a man having more than one wife, and none of them having extra-marital sex.

The above reasons are those that one can easily identify. There are probably many more reasons why Allah, in His Infinite Wisdom, has prohibited polyandry.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Tauseef...yeh jo tum ouper beyaan kia he...Yeh Dr. Zakir Naik ki speech ka part he na...cuz, mein ne QTV mein Dr. Zakir Naik ke yeh speech suni thi...

[*Roomi*]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

:)

[*Roomi*]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Dr.Zakin Naik

1. wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
2. wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
3. Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
4. Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna

[ummid]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Dr.Zakin Naik

1. wo Aalim-e-deen nahe hain Scoral Zaroor hain
2. wo such be kahain gay meray Eilam may wo bat na hogi to mein Dr.Naik ki bat per Yaqeen nahe keroon ga Reason jo shaks ( Islamic Law ) may Chage kerta hai us say Suchai ki kia Umeed ker sakta Hoon.
3. Dr.Naik ki Ive suna kay ( Talaq ) ( 3 Time ) nahe ( 9 Time ) kehnay say Hoti hai so Dr.Naik ko yahan mat lahain....
4. Dr.Naik ( Kafiron ) wala Libas Tan-zaib kertay hain jab kay ( HADIS ) Mujood hai ( Kufrar ) jesa Hulya Mat bano Apna

:thmbup: even hum bhi un ki speeches nahi sunte.......hume un ki kuch baatein hazam nahi hoti thi..........isi liye aik se zayad baar sunne ka dil hi nahi kiya unhein....kuch baatein had se zyada hi alag karte hain woh...

[*Roomi*]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

:thmbup: even hum bhi un ki speeches nahi sunte.......hume un ki kuch baatein hazam nahi hoti thi..........isi liye aik se zayad baar sunne ka dil hi nahi kiya unhein....kuch baatein had se zyada hi alag karte hain woh...

koi Gunjaish nahe shaq ki