Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

[attitude girl]

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slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua

[shy]

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dekhin dosri shadi bilaa zaroorat bhi ke ja sakti hai........ app ke akser
batoon ka answer app ko asi page per
yarm bhai ko jo main nain reply kiya hai...... i think comments no 42 ya 43 hai
us main mil jayin ge.....
ke dosri shaid bilaa zaroorat ker sakty hain.....

dosri aur sub sy iham baat ke agher insaf na ker sakty tu hon tu aram
sey behtin koi zaroort nahin 2nd shaid ke :khi: ..
per jo ker sakty hon woh ker lein (mera apna irdaa 2 ka hai.. per abhi pehli bhi nahin whoi):khi:

aur sunaat pori kernain ke liye "wajib" tark nahin ker sakty.....
insaaf kernaa wajib hai............ i kow it........
so jo sunnat samjh ker kerin ........ tu insaaf pehli cheez hai ....

i hope ,,,, ab app samjh jain ge......

haan g samjh gai hun:mm:

[ummid]

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Rab-e-Kareem aap ka yeh jazba salamat rakhay..:rose, ta'hayat yeh jazbat qaim rahain, aur yoon he in chopi hoi chingariooN main hararat qaim rhay... agar yeh silsila qaim rhaa to InshaAllah hum islam ko apni pasand main dhalnay kay bajaiy haqiqatan islam kay ain usoolooN main khud ko dhaal kar bay niaaz hojain gaiy.. :rose,
Khush raheay, isi jazbay kay sath..:)

tu kya aap ko humari baat sahi lagi...
hme dar lag raha tha keh kahein aap tauseef bhai ki tarah hume bhi aik be intehai baaaaaaaaaaaaaaadaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sa mazmoon na padha dein..(kidding)..:tauba
Aap bhi khush rahiye...her naik jazbe ke saah...:phool:

[tauseeftariq]

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jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua

oh jee araam sey araam sey......... .....
itnaa naraaz kiyon ho rahin hain app ......... koi reason tu lekhin
app nain tu bhut sari bad duain dey din:tauba
na .. na as tarah nahin kehtey :na: :na: ......:khi:
achaa tu app ko 2nd shadi per itraaz hai.hummmmm :cc:
app nain page 1 per ummed jee key comments nahin padhy kiya..?

aisa kerin app jo pehly reply diye hain sub nain un ko padhin
phir apni ray zaraa wazahat sey din....
aur please itnaa gusaa sahit ke liye achaa nahin:lol

[tauseeftariq]

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haan g samjh gai hun:mm:

tu phir khsuh kiyon nazer nahin a rahin..... ?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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jys ky dil myn doosry muhabbat ka khyal aa sukta hy
ous ky lye muhubat ayk game hy
aysy logoun ka elaj ye hy ky oun ky bivi by doosry lurkoun kou jan boujh ky apny janwar shohur ky samny dykhy aour dosry lurkoun ky taryf kury takyh aysy murdon kou puta chaly
ky khud py beety tou kya hou
sooly py hy lutka dyna chahyy aysy murdoun kou
bulken zyhr dey ky mar dou
auor jou lurkyan shady shoda admy py nuzur rukhy
ous kou bhy zyhr dy ky mar dou foren sy pyhly.
aysy loug pyda kyon hou jaty hyn?
society ka nasour ban kur?
God sub ky sath ensaf kurta hy
tou hashur ky dyn sy kyun nuhyn durty aysy loug ?
myn tou kuhoun gy aysy loug jub tuk zynda ruhyn
mur mur ky jyen
nah sukon sy jyen na chyn sy muryn amen :dua

If islam allows this all, then where does you stand.
Bibi...mazhab ka ilm hasil karo...isay samajnay ki kooshish karo.....there is no use of beating about the bushes...be logical and come up with a solid proof.

[Mishi]

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[Mr. Sialkoty]

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aap saab kai jawaab baade interesting hain. iss topic per 2 tarah ki bataou se Mohabat kisi aur Larki se hone ka amkaan ziada hai.
1. wo aadmi apni biwi se kisi bih haal mai Khush nahi hai.
2. Wo aadmi mohabat ka matlab nahi smajhta ...aur her shaitaani Khiyaal ko Mohabat samjh raha hota hai.

lekin ager wo typ no.2 hai to wo Ghalat kere ga...aur aik DIN ZAROOR Pashtaey ga...(inshallah)

ager khuda naa khawasta mere saath kabih aisy soorat paish aiy, to mai saab se pehle yeh jaanne ki koshish keroongi kai mere Husband mujhse kiou khush nahi..mai apni kamiyaa jaldi door kerongi, un ko mazeed khushiyaa dene ki koshish keroongi... aur ager pihr bih mujhse mutasir naa huey..to gir giraa ker duain maangou gi...aur pihr bih kuch naa hua... to pihr muskraate huey ...Khuda hafiz kerdoongi, aur kahoongi kai ..."aap jaha raheiy, khush rahiey...saari khushiya naseeb hou "...(kiouke mai kabih ye bardasht nahi kersakoongi kai mere hotey huey mere husband kisi aur biwi ko le aiein. )
Aur...aur aur.. kiya pihr baqi rahe ga...siwaey kuch ansoou kai...ussi kai sahare pihr mai jiou gi aur marou gi...

OMG u so sensitive

Aap ka reply perh ker inthai khushi hui...aap ba-wafa larki hein...inshallah aap ko hubby bhi wafa-daar milay ga :)

[tauseeftariq]

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aap saab kai jawaab baade interesting hain. iss topic per 2 tarah ki bataou se Mohabat kisi aur Larki se hone ka amkaan ziada hai.
1. wo aadmi apni biwi se kisi bih haal mai Khush nahi hai.
2. Wo aadmi mohabat ka matlab nahi smajhta ...aur her shaitaani Khiyaal ko Mohabat samjh raha hota hai.

lekin ager wo typ no.2 hai to wo Ghalat kere ga...aur aik DIN ZAROOR Pashtaey ga...(inshallah)

ager khuda naa khawasta mere saath kabih aisy soorat paish aiy, to mai saab se pehle yeh jaanne ki koshish keroongi kai mere Husband mujhse kiou khush nahi..mai apni kamiyaa jaldi door kerongi, un ko mazeed khushiyaa dene ki koshish keroongi... aur ager pihr bih mujhse mutasir naa huey..to gir giraa ker duain maangou gi...aur pihr bih kuch naa hua... to pihr muskraate huey ...Khuda hafiz kerdoongi, aur kahoongi kai ..."aap jaha raheiy, khush rahiey...saari khushiya naseeb hou "...(kiouke mai kabih ye bardasht nahi kersakoongi kai mere hotey huey mere husband kisi aur biwi ko le aiein. )
Aur...aur aur.. kiya pihr baqi rahe ga...siwaey kuch ansoou kai...ussi kai sahare pihr mai jiou gi aur marou gi...

hummmmmmmmmmm.......:cc: :cc: :cc:
1. agher koi apni pasand sey 2sri shadi kery jab key
us ke pehli biwi ke saath achi zindgai guzer rehi hai
tu Jaiz hai us ke liye....

2. han yeh baat sochnain ke hai ke mukhtalif
womans as tarah ke haalat mein mukhtalif terah
key raviye ka muzhara kerti hain..... jay sy app nein
lekhaa hai key....app try kerin ge ke woh ruk jain
phir kuch na howa tu chode dein ge......

khair ALLAH na kary app ke saath aisaa ho.. per
kiya app ko yeh nahin legtaa key agher wife ko
apney husband sey muhbat hai.... tu us ke khater woh
yeh bardsh ker sakti hai...??

wy sy yeh baat mein accept kertaa hon... ke ladkiyon
ke liye yeh cheez kafi takleef dey hoti hai...
per merey khiyal mein agher tumam muamilat
sahi andaaz sey hon tu as takleef key ahsaas ko kuch
kam kiya jaa saktaa hai.....

any ways nice comments mishel.........

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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hope for the best but prepare for the worst

[Aania]

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hummmmmmmmmmm.......:cc: :cc: :cc:

1. agher koi apni pasand sey 2sri shadi kery jab key
us ke pehli biwi ke saath achi zindgai guzer rehi hai
tu Jaiz hai us ke liye....



2. han yeh baat sochnain ke hai ke mukhtalif
womans as tarah ke haalat mein mukhtalif terah
key raviye ka muzhara kerti hain..... jay sy app nein
lekhaa hai key....app try kerin ge ke woh ruk jain
phir kuch na howa tu chode dein ge......

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khair ALLAH na kary app ke saath aisaa ho.. per
kiya app ko yeh nahin legtaa key agher wife ko
apney husband sey muhbat hai.... tu us ke khater woh
yeh bardsh ker sakti hai...??
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wy sy yeh baat mein accept kertaa hon... ke ladkiyon
ke liye yeh cheez kafi takleef dey hoti hai...
per merey khiyal mein agher tumam muamilat
sahi andaaz sey hon tu as takleef key ahsaas ko kuch
kam kiya jaa saktaa hai.....

aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???
haqeeqat main zindagi ko bhi to bardasht hi kertey hein .. ke zindagi hai to jiye jaao ... to theek hai doosri shadi ke bhi rules hain laws hain according to Islam
1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se
2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero
3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao
4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..
I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!

[*Roomi*]

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Asalam o Alikum

1. B.V 2nd Shadi kernay nahe Deyti
2. Koi Lerki Sharing Bar-dasht nahe ker sakti
3. Islam nay 4 ki Ijaazat di hain Hum yeh Yaad ker letay hain Q Dee hai yeh Q nahe Yaad Hum logoon koo ?????
4. B.V kay Haqooq Door-e-Hazir may kon Porey kerta hai ?
5. Nabi Pak Hazrat Mohammad (s.a.w ) kee Seerat Mubarika ka Mutalia kerian us may ( Izwaj ) kay Haqoq Ka mutalia kerian fer wo Haqooq App porey kerian to Ap keh saktey hain kay Ap Haqooq Porey kertay hain.
6. Mera Sawal Ap Nay 2 Tarbooz Lay hain 2 B.V,s Hain kis Terhan say Taqsim hogi ????????

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Welcome to western world hon... to ye batao
ye aadmi log tv pe aankhen phaar phaar ke goriyon ko aur indian actresses ko kion dekhtey hein ?? un ki biwi ne fashion kia to wo gunnah ?
aur doosri bani thani aurten dekh ke apni biwion ka la'n ta'n karen to ye to sawab hai naa?? ye to hadith hai naa?? ye to Qur'an main hai naa?? ke chal merey mo'min bandey doosrey ki aurat pe nazar daal ??

bachu fact mano na aadmi doosri aurat ko dekh ke apni biwi ko behan ko maan ko bura bhala aur haqeer jaaney na aurat .. is terah modernize ho !!!

ab is ke baad merdon ki side li naa... yaa apni biwi pe zulm kia naa to teri to ... :fuming:

dekho aur suno aur ghoor karo

Kudrat ne insaan ko hawas parast banaya he...bilkul doosray janwaron ki tarah...Mazhab insaan ko rookta he...baaz aukaat insaan mazhat ke dairay se bahir nahi nikal pata aur kai kabahatoon se buch jata he...lekin akswer aukaat aisa hota he ke insaan naturally react kerta he...yani wohi kerta he jo nature usay kerne pe majboor kerti he...jub koi merd TV set on kerta he aur wo apne saamne semi-naked costumes mein larkiyoon ko naachta hua dekhay ga to jins-e-mahalaf ko is halat mein dekh ke us ke jazbaat zaroor bharkein ge...aur nature kuch na kuch usay zaroor wohi cheez dekhtay rehna pe majboor karay gi...ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu he to wo channel change ker de ga...aur ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu nahi he to wo naturally usi cheez ko dekhay ga...yeh to sari nafs ki jang he aur sanf-e-mahalf her waqt merdon ke nafs ka hi imtehaan leti hui dikhai de rahi he ...aakhir koi kitna bachay :tauba

Tum fiker na karo...me apni bivi ke saath kabi zulm nai karon ga...me to aik shareef insaan hon na...aur mujay haqook ada kerne ka bakhoobi pata he :blush:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???
haqeeqat main zindagi ko bhi to bardasht hi kertey hein .. ke zindagi hai to jiye jaao ... to theek hai doosri shadi ke bhi rules hain laws hain according to Islam
1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se
2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero
3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao
4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..
I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!

Objection Milord :lpop:

Islam mein doosri shaadi ki kai aur sooratein bhi ho sakti hein...ager aik insaan shadi shuda honay ke baad bhi kisi doosri larki ko pasand kerta he to us se najaiz marasam istawaar kerne se behtar he ke wo usay apne nikkah mein le le aur badi na pheelay...lekin shadi ke baad Islam ki rooh se us shakhas per un tamam islami sharait ka itlaak hota he jo islam ne wazah ki hein...jin mein doono biviyoon ke hakook mein aitdaal sub se pehli shart he :lpop:

Waise bhi ager koi bivi yah samajti he ke us ka shoher us ke hakook puray nahi ker sakta to wo legal action le sakti he...through court :lpop:

[tauseeftariq]

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aik baat bataye kia Prophets ne bina maslihat ke shauq ke tehat 2sri 3sri shadyaan ki theen ???

1) maslihat lao ?? deen ke hisaab se

Piyrey Nabi (s.a.w) nein jo shadian ke woh bilaa shuba
maslihat ke tehat thein.....
per yeh as baat ke dalil nahin key 4 sahdian maslhat
ke tehat hi kernaa zaroori hai..
agher aisa hotaa tu baad ke adwar mein sahba e akram (r.t.a) aur tabien (r.t.a) bhi as ko lazam kerty..
per aisa nahin..... 4 shadian apni pasand sey kerny ke
ijazat hai.... mein nein pehley bhi as baat ka jawab
as thread per dey chuka hon.... kai baar.. ab tu woh
ayat aur us ke tafseer post kernaa baqi reh giaya hai
quran mein merd ko us ke pasand ke mutabiq 4 shadiyon ke ijazat hai........ per insaaf kerna lazmi hai

2) haqooq poorey kerney ke liye legal notice n letters sign up kero

yeh kis nin khaa?? yeh usool tu nikah ke waqat
tey ho jaty hain..... allag sey 2nd sahdi sey pehly
yeh documentaion sharan lazmi nahin
huqooq denaa lazmi hai kei baar keh chukaa hon yeh

3) mehr adaa kero as according to our Deen its due ... to pay right now when u get nikah or as soon as possible ye nahen ke zor zabardasti ... usi ko force kero later on dvc ke liye n then ... us ke rights kha jao

Mehr...... on of my fav topics.....
Mehr woh cheez his ke bary mein logon ko Allim bhut kum hai... Mehr aurt ka haq hai quran ke mutabik
mehr sey hi aurtain merdoon per hillal hoti hain.....
mehr hansi khushi adaa kernaa chahiye......
Mehr rekhty waqat bhi yeh cheez bhi dhiyan mein rekhni
chahiye.. ke meher itnaa ho ke ladkaa araam sey adaa
ker saky itnaa na ho ke woh behan kery ...
khair mehr dena lazmi hai agher shohar mer jay
tu us ke Miraas mein sey aurt ko aus ka mehr
adaa kiya jay gaa......... i know this issue in detial
per dosri shadi ka meher sey kiya taluq??????
meher tu her shadi shudaah aurt ka haq hai.....
koi na dy tu yeh us ke jahaalat hai.... us ke waja
sey sub ko bura nahin kehnaa chahiye.......
and zabeerdsti meher maaf nahin kerwana chahiye.. aurt apni merzi sey apni khushi sey maaf kary tu alaag baat hai

4) come to the western world ... u gotta see ..
woman rights cannt be dead after dvcd whether she is alone or wid kids... to Islam main to rehmaten barasti hain ... phir muslim man's heart mein insaaf kion nahen ??
neways..

please anya sis yon tu na khain.... i know ke western world mein aurt key saat kiya salook hotaa hai.....
us ko apney shohar ka kuch pataa nahin ke raat khaan guzri....... and same for husband..... woh apni
wife ke mutaliq nahin jantaa
akhlaqi aqdaar baqi naihn...... sirf naam ke had tek
ek sahdi hoti hai haqeeqat mein tu bhut hi worst condition hoti hai........ as sey behter tu 4 shadiyan hain..
islam aurt ko huqooq detaa hai.... yeh log tab kuch
sadi pehly tahzeeb yataa howy hain..... islam nein tu
aurt ko us waqat sey hooqaq dey rkehy hain jab europ bhi "dark ages" mein thaa.......
agher koi muslim mar galti kertaa hai tu yeh us ke galti hai...... sub ko buraa na kahin.......kai muslim khawteen ko un ke shohar pory haqoo dety hain.....

I dont like this topic...

koz for mens.. aurat sach /haq ke liye bhi larrey to ghalat aurat hi hai rahey gi...

bhens ke aagey been bajaney se koi faiida nahen
** bhens= So-called men of ne-society!!!

again...... achy bury loog sub jaga hoty hain..
jin ka app baat ker rehi hain un mein aksriyat un padh logon ke hai..... jo deeen ke taleemat sey bhi kooson door
hoty hain...... aur kuch jan bhi lein tu us ko samjhty nahin
ya amal nahin kerty....
ALL mens are not like this......

mein bhi apni wif ko us key sub rights don ga ...
:khi: