Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

[*Samra*]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

surah e nisa key ayat 2 aur 3 paish ker di hai tafisr ky sath

yeh tarjuma e quran imam ahamd Raza (R.TA) ka hai aur tafsir
ka naam "khazain ul irfan hai" ..

app thnady dil sy parhin tu wazh ho jaty hai ky ayat sy kiya maqsood hai

ahadith bhi hain is mein..

behtar hai ky apni aqal ky ghory doranin ky bajy quran ky hukum ky mutabiq
jis ka mufhom hai ky "agher tum nahin janty to un sy pocho jo ahle zikar hain"
per amal kerty howay ulma e akram ke ray ko mana jay

ummid hei bat waizh ho gi ho gi

jee, quran majeed mai jo bhi allah tallah ne hukam diye hain wo her Zamaane aur halaat ke mutaabiq hain. Mai is baat ko samjhti hoon.

Mere zehan me yehi baat ati he, ke Insaan ka her qadam uski Niyat per "depend" kerta he. Koi shakhs koi kaam kis Niyaat se keraha he...


ager niyat... yateem larkiya ya Bewaa aurto ki madad kerna maqsad he is waja se shadi keraha he...to yeh achi baat he.
Koi is waja se shadi keraha he... ke wo apne shoq poore ker sake (nafsani) to yeh bilkul bhi jayez nahi he. balqe allah tallah ko sakht na passand hai.

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

jee, quran majeed mai jo bhi allah tallah ne hukam diye hain wo her Zamaane aur halaat ke mutaabiq hain. Mai is baat ko samjhti hoon.

Mere zehan me yehi baat ati he, ke Insaan ka her qadam uski Niyat per "depend" kerta he. Koi shakhs koi kaam kis Niyaat se keraha he...


ager niyat... yateem larkiya ya Bewaa aurto ki madad kerna maqsad he is waja se shadi keraha he...to yeh achi baat he.
Koi is waja se shadi keraha he... ke wo apne shoq poore ker sake (nafsani) to yeh bilkul bhi jayez nahi he. balqe allah tallah ko sakht na passand hai.

1.Quran mein bewa ya yateem ke "shart" nahin...
tu app bhi na rekhin... per agher koi aisa kery (bewa ya yatim sy sahdi) aur phir un ko wohi respect dy jo apni pehli biwi ko deta hai tu bhut hi achi bat hai

2. agher nikah mein niyat yeh hai ky gunah sy bachy ga.. tu phir bhi jaiz hai... app nain jo "shook" ky bary mein lekha hai.. us ke kai sortain hain..
agher us ko dar ho ky nikah nahin kery ga tu gunah mein mubtlia ho jay ga.. tu nikah behtar aur jaiz hai...
per biwiyon k dermyan adal kerna lazmi hai.. her sorat mein

app ko ky sy laga ky na jaiz hai?

3. 4 shadiyan "jaiz" hain.. aisa kerna zarori nahin.. tu is bary mein negative nain sochin.. ALLAH ky ahkamat mein jo hikmat hai.. us ko hum mukumal samjh pain aisa zarori nahin... per jinta insan samjh sakta hai.. us ky mutabiq ulma nain tafsil sy iss "ijazat" ke hikmaton ky bary mein likha hai...

[Mr.Khan]

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[Sawabiwal]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

slam to all pg friends:salam:

aj ek new topic hai .....:rose

app kiya samjhty hain ke agher shadi ke baad app ko kisi aur ladki sey muhbbat ho jay... aur
woh bhi app ko pasand kery tu....
app kiya kerin gey?:cc:

A. us sey dosri sahdi ker lein gey..:rose :rose
B. Apni pehli biwi ke daar sey aisa nahin kerin ge..
per chup chup ke miltey rahin gey:khi: :khi:


aj kal huamry han 2nd shadi ko kafi bura samjhaa jataa hai
even girls bhi yah chahti hain un ka husbband 2nd shadi na kery ...
"herkatin".. chahey jitni kery..:lol

so what u think... :) :cc:

uhmmm ...cool question....:)

mei t bas yahi kahonga ...well agar larki pasand ajaye ...... aur ossay shadi karnay ka irada naik ho ......tho khiyon nhi direct oss' say nikah kar lay.... bas ekk shart per ...agar tum apnay app ko iss qabil samajthay ho kay tum dono wifes ki zaroriyat pori kar sakhtay ho .....

aur aisi koi baat nahi kai insaan ko koi dosri shaadi sai rok sakhta hai ....mard hazrat hamesha apnay faislay khud laina jantay hain .... ossay kissi sai poch tach ki zarorat nahi parti.....:thmbup:

[Shula_G]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

kio na karain shadian:dance5: 60 saal tak ek hi budhi nu dekde revo:fight:

[Mr.Khan]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

Muhabbat or Attraction me farq hota hai, Attraction insaan ko umar ke kisi bhi hissay me kisi sey bhi ho sakti hai Magar Muhabbat zindagi me sirf aik baar hoti hai................It's my belief

Baaqi logon ka nahi pata.....

[mhashmat1967]

Re: Shadi ke baad kisi aur sey Muhbbat ho tu..

ye guna ho ga