Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

:kr:Shadi sey pehly bhi aur baad main bhi :kr:

haqeeqat aur sach tu yeh hai key aj kal ke door
main her shakis .. shadi sey pehley muhabat kerta hai
aur agher "ausi " person sey shadi na hoo tu
jis sey shaid hoti hai phir us sey muhbbat kertaa hai :khi:

so question yeh banta hai key and dono main sey
kon sey muhabat ziyda behtar hai... mery khiyal main
shadi ke baad wali muhbbat ziyda mazboot aur ihaam
hoti hai.........

[.]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

:kr:Shadi sey pehly bhi aur baad main bhi :kr:

haqeeqat aur sach tu yeh hai key aj kal ke door
main her shakis .. shadi sey pehley muhabat kerta hai
aur agher "ausi " person sey shadi na hoo tu
jis sey shaid hoti hai phir us sey muhbbat kertaa hai :khi:

so question yeh banta hai key and dono main sey
kon sey muhabat ziyda behtar hai... mery khiyal main
shadi ke baad wali muhbbat ziyda mazboot aur ihaam
hoti hai.........

lo jo pehlay bhi bad bhi or beach wali bhi koi hoo gee itni muhabbtain kahan sanbhaal kay reakhian gay :p :kr:

yes shadi kay bad wali zaida behtar sabit hoo jati hai ...:thmbup:
is ki aik misal daiti houn ...2 saal pehlay ham aik shadi pay gay ...woh shadi us larkay ki pasand say nahi hovi the....woh shuru hi say apni aik cousin ko pasand karta tha.donoo kay ghar bhi aik sath they....woh donoo hi aik doosray ko buhat pasand kartay they ....baat shadi tak pounchi to khanadan main koi nachakian hoo gai to donoo taraf say waldeen ki taraf say inkaar hoo gia...........larkay nay kafi kushish ki vohan shadi ki lekan kuch na howa.....larki kay parents nay us ki shadi kahi or kar do.............................
woh larka buhat dishearted howa...ghar main bhi kisi say baat na karta ...or mulk choor kay doosray mulk chala gia.............
youn chand saal beet gay ,woh jab bhi pak ata ghar walye shadi ka kehtay woh humesha inkaar kar daita.........ghar waloun nay zaida zoor dia to bas han kar di...usay us larki main koi interest nahi tha jis say shadi hovi ........baat baat pay usay danta tha ......lagta tha apni nakamai kay saray badlay us pay utaar raha hai :lol ....
lekan us larki nay sab kuch bardasht kia..woh ahesta ahesata say usay badlnay lagai ...us ki har cheez ka khayal reakhti, ghar saaf suthra reakhti, us ki pasand kay kahanay banatai ...jab mulk say bahir jata woh khud hi usay call karti , us ki pasand ki cheezian usay bheejti.....pak anay pay us ka or zaida khayal reakhti ..................youn ahesta ahesta woh larka bhi badalnay laga..................usay bad main woh achi lagna shuru hoo gai the ...woh larka asal main apni pehli muhabbat ki nakami pay buhat dishearted howa tha , us ka sukh chain sab barbaad hoo gia tha......aisay waqat main in logoo ko aik muklhis doost ki zarorat hoti hai jo un ki baat ko sunaian, samjhian, mehsoos karain .....youn woh larki hi us ki zindagi main us ki achi doost ban kay ai .....:) or larka ahesta ahesta apni kushhaal zindagi main loot aya ...ab woh apni biwi ko buhat pasand karta hai ..shadi ko 2 saal honay ko aian gay ab to un kay han aik baby bhi anay wala hai :D: ...ab woh donoo aik doosray ki buhat care kartay hain ....or aik kushaal zindagi guzaar rehaye hain ....

shadi say pehlay ki muhabbat nay usay nakamiyan di, ruswaai di, us ka sukh chain sab kharaab kar dia ...
shadi kay bad ki muhabbat nay usay woh sab kuch wapas louta dia :rose

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

lo jo pehlay bhi bad bhi or beach wali bhi koi hoo gee itni muhabbtain kahan sanbhaal kay reakhian gay :p :kr:

yes shadi kay bad wali zaida behtar sabit hoo jati hai ...:thmbup:
is ki aik misal daiti houn ...2 saal pehlay ham aik shadi pay gay ...woh shadi us larkay ki pasand say nahi hovi the....woh shuru hi say apni aik cousin ko pasand karta tha.donoo kay ghar bhi aik sath they....woh donoo hi aik doosray ko buhat pasand kartay they ....baat shadi tak pounchi to khanadan main koi nachakian hoo gai to donoo taraf say waldeen ki taraf say inkaar hoo gia...........larkay nay kafi kushish ki vohan shadi ki lekan kuch na howa.....larki kay parents nay us ki shadi kahi or kar do.............................
woh larka buhat dishearted howa...ghar main bhi kisi say baat na karta ...or mulk choor kay doosray mulk chala gia.............
youn chand saal beet gay ,woh jab bhi pak ata ghar walye shadi ka kehtay woh humesha inkaar kar daita.........ghar waloun nay zaida zoor dia to bas han kar di...usay us larki main koi interest nahi tha jis say shadi hovi ........baat baat pay usay danta tha ......lagta tha apni nakamai kay saray badlay us pay utaar raha hai :lol ....
lekan us larki nay sab kuch bardasht kia..woh ahesta ahesata say usay badlnay lagai ...us ki har cheez ka khayal reakhti, ghar saaf suthra reakhti, us ki pasand kay kahanay banatai ...jab mulk say bahir jata woh khud hi usay call karti , us ki pasand ki cheezian usay bheejti.....pak anay pay us ka or zaida khayal reakhti ..................youn ahesta ahesta woh larka bhi badalnay laga..................usay bad main woh achi lagna shuru hoo gai the ...woh larka asal main apni pehli muhabbat ki nakami pay buhat dishearted howa tha , us ka sukh chain sab barbaad hoo gia tha......aisay waqat main in logoo ko aik muklhis doost ki zarorat hoti hai jo un ki baat ko sunaian, samjhian, mehsoos karain .....youn woh larki hi us ki zindagi main us ki achi doost ban kay ai .....:) or larka ahesta ahesta apni kushhaal zindagi main loot aya ...ab woh apni biwi ko buhat pasand karta hai ..shadi ko 2 saal honay ko aian gay ab to un kay han aik baby bhi anay wala hai :D: ...ab woh donoo aik doosray ki buhat care kartay hain ....or aik kushaal zindagi guzaar rehaye hain ....

shadi say pehlay ki muhabbat nay usay nakamiyan di, ruswaai di, us ka sukh chain sab kharaab kar dia ...
shadi kay bad ki muhabbat nay usay woh sab kuch wapas louta dia :rose

Main bhut sari muhbatin rakh satkaa hon apny dil main
bhut badi jagaa hai mery dil main.... sub
sunbhaal ker rekhoon ga......:khi:

ab yeh su sachi baat hai key sub pehly aur baad
main muhbbat kerty hain.. chahy woh as baat ko
manin ya na main..:khi:

App ke misaal bhut achi thi..:thmbup:

1.wy sy gher waloon ko chahiy ke woh ladka ladki
ki marzi ko ihmiyat dein.
2. ladky nain shro main galti ke thi.. agher main
us ke jagaa hotaa tu apni "wife" ko bhut piyar detaa:kr:
.. kiyon ky sary qasy main us becahri masoom ka koi kasoor nahin thaa
3.us ladki nain bhut himat sey kaam liya.. well done :clap::clap:.....grea8
mujy bhi aisi hi ladkiyan achi lagti hainjo samjdar hoon
warna ...aj ke girls tu zara zara sey baat per alaag honain ya talaaq ke baat kerti hain..
us khatoon ke azamt ko slam......... ALLA un donon ko khsh rakhy

tu as sub baat sey yeh sabit howy key
1.shadi ke baad wali muhbat strong hoti hai
2.per muhbat shadi sey pehley aur baad
donon baar hoti hai:kr: :kr: :kr:
wy sy agher us ladky ke shadi us ladki sey ho jati
jis ko woh like kertaa thaa tu ,,,,,, shaid woh ladki bhi
itni care kerti....(per chance nahin milaa becahri ko:tauba )

[RulzZ]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

lo jo pehlay bhi bad bhi or beach wali bhi koi hoo gee itni muhabbtain kahan sanbhaal kay reakhian gay :p :kr:

yes shadi kay bad wali zaida behtar sabit hoo jati hai ...:thmbup:
is ki aik misal daiti houn ...2 saal pehlay ham aik shadi pay gay ...woh shadi us larkay ki pasand say nahi hovi the....woh shuru hi say apni aik cousin ko pasand karta tha.donoo kay ghar bhi aik sath they....woh donoo hi aik doosray ko buhat pasand kartay they ....baat shadi tak pounchi to khanadan main koi nachakian hoo gai to donoo taraf say waldeen ki taraf say inkaar hoo gia...........larkay nay kafi kushish ki vohan shadi ki lekan kuch na howa.....larki kay parents nay us ki shadi kahi or kar do.............................
woh larka buhat dishearted howa...ghar main bhi kisi say baat na karta ...or mulk choor kay doosray mulk chala gia.............
youn chand saal beet gay ,woh jab bhi pak ata ghar walye shadi ka kehtay woh humesha inkaar kar daita.........ghar waloun nay zaida zoor dia to bas han kar di...usay us larki main koi interest nahi tha jis say shadi hovi ........baat baat pay usay danta tha ......lagta tha apni nakamai kay saray badlay us pay utaar raha hai :lol ....
lekan us larki nay sab kuch bardasht kia..woh ahesta ahesata say usay badlnay lagai ...us ki har cheez ka khayal reakhti, ghar saaf suthra reakhti, us ki pasand kay kahanay banatai ...jab mulk say bahir jata woh khud hi usay call karti , us ki pasand ki cheezian usay bheejti.....pak anay pay us ka or zaida khayal reakhti ..................youn ahesta ahesta woh larka bhi badalnay laga..................usay bad main woh achi lagna shuru hoo gai the ...woh larka asal main apni pehli muhabbat ki nakami pay buhat dishearted howa tha , us ka sukh chain sab barbaad hoo gia tha......aisay waqat main in logoo ko aik muklhis doost ki zarorat hoti hai jo un ki baat ko sunaian, samjhian, mehsoos karain .....youn woh larki hi us ki zindagi main us ki achi doost ban kay ai .....:) or larka ahesta ahesta apni kushhaal zindagi main loot aya ...ab woh apni biwi ko buhat pasand karta hai ..shadi ko 2 saal honay ko aian gay ab to un kay han aik baby bhi anay wala hai :D: ...ab woh donoo aik doosray ki buhat care kartay hain ....or aik kushaal zindagi guzaar rehaye hain ....

shadi say pehlay ki muhabbat nay usay nakamiyan di, ruswaai di, us ka sukh chain sab kharaab kar dia ...
shadi kay bad ki muhabbat nay usay woh sab kuch wapas louta dia :rose

shokar hai woh laRka sambhal gaya aur larki nay osay sambhal lia, warna kuch muhabbat kay maray, shadi kay baad bhi nahee badaltay, mard cigrate peetay rehtay hain :D, aur agar larki ho to sar par dopat'ta bandhay paRi rehti hai :tauba, aur bach'chay aas paroos kay loog paal rhay hotay haiN

[RulzZ]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

mery khiyal main shadi ke baad wali muhbbat ziyda mazboot aur ihaam hoti hai....

:thmbup:, to phir loog kamzoor aur ghair aiham kaam kioN kartay haiN :lol

[Shaim]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

:thmbup:, to phir loog kamzoor aur ghair aiham kaam kioN kartay haiN :lol

:kr: :kr: :kr:

[neelum]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

:)

tumhari topic selection achi hai.
shadi kay baad baton gi k shadi say pehlay muhabbat honi chahiye ya nahi.

[RulzZ]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

tumhari topic selection achi hai.

shadi kay baad baton gi k shadi say pehlay muhabbat honi chahiye ya nahi.

:lol, yeh bhi theek hai..

[tauseeftariq]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

:thmbup:, to phir loog kamzoor aur ghair aiham kaam kioN kartay haiN :lol

bhai mery........ muhbbat ke nahin jati ho jati hai
....... aisa ho nahin saktaa key koi yeh sochy ke
mujy shadi ke baad muhbat ho gi aur as "ass "
per woh kisi ko like na kary.....:khi:
and 2ndly shaid ke baad wali muhbaat ko ziyda
strong as liye khaa hai ke woh phir umer bhar ka sath
ban jati hai......... it dos not mean key jo log
pehly muhbbat kerty hain.... woh mazboot nahin ho
sakti....... bady bady DIL waly :rose hain ........
jo sachi muhbbat kerty hain un ke muhbbat kisi ko
pay beghar bhi wysi hi rehti hai..........

and again.....
per muhbat sahdi sey pehly aur sahdi ke baad..
dono dafaa hoti hai........:kr:

[tauruskhan]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

bilkul theek :thmbup:, aap nay islam ka hawala dia, to aik aur simple si baat hai jab dil kisi cheez ko chah rhaa hoo aur islam os ki ijazat na dayta hoo to phir wo islam ka tazkira he nahee karta, warna to sab he ko islam say muhabbat hai, ya kam az kam dawa zaror hai.... and shadi say pehlay ki mohabbat sirf attraction hoti hai i agree with u... muhabbat janwar say bhi hosakti hai, laikin woh muhabbat jo sirf attraction ho, wo waqai bachpana hota hai..

muhabat to hay hi sirf attraction ka name

for example : ik larkey ko ik larki acchi lagti hay and wo kehna shorow ker deta hay key mujeh is sey mohabat hay etc etc
and kehnay lagta hay , mohabat ho jati hay , etc etc
ager larki mil jaey , us sey dosti ho jaey , to dosray din hi
wo kisi aur lakri ko dehk ker pir wohi sochnay lag jata hay

and ager na milay, to buland bang dawey kerta hay and us wakat tak kerta hay jab tak us ko wo mil na jaeey.

kabi socha , akhir love marriages key baad itni talakeen keeon hoti haan
sirf yahi waja hay key.

mohabat key azeem jazbey jis main app yeh naeen keh saktey key sirf larkay and larkee key dermian mohabat hoti hay
to ghalat hay

larkey and lakri key dermian kabi mohabat naeen hoti, sirf filmi darama hota hay :D

[Shaim]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

muhabat to hay hi sirf attraction ka name

for example : ik larkey ko ik larki acchi lagti hay and wo kehna shorow ker deta hay key mujeh is sey mohabat hay etc etc
and kehnay lagta hay , mohabat ho jati hay , etc etc
ager larki mil jaey , us sey dosti ho jaey , to dosray din hi
wo kisi aur lakri ko dehk ker pir wohi sochnay lag jata hay

and ager na milay, to buland bang dawey kerta hay and us wakat tak kerta hay jab tak us ko wo mil na jaeey.

kabi socha , akhir love marriages key baad itni talakeen keeon hoti haan
sirf yahi waja hay key.

mohabat key azeem jazbey jis main app yeh naeen keh saktey key sirf larkay and larkee key dermian mohabat hoti hay
to ghalat hay

larkey and lakri key dermian kabi mohabat naeen hoti, sirf filmi darama hota hay :D

Ap aisa kertey hain isse liye mere paros ki nani ne inkaar ker dia

waasey mohabbat ager 1 boy n girl k darmiaan nahii hooti to dunya aagey kese chalti????
parents main mohabbat hooti hai n wahi mohabbat aagey childern main n her rishte main tranfer hooti hai,,,,,,
HAI NA?:pagal:

[Shaim]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

mohabat esa jazba hay key her acchey insan , plus peary sey janwar ko dehktay bi ho jata hay .
yeh wo naeen jis ko filmoon main uchala jata hay key shadi sey pehlay ki mohabat ya shadi key baad ki mohabaat.

yeh sirf talab hoti hay . her insan key ander jo chota sa bacha chuppa hota hay , jo khobsorat khilona dehktay hi , zid ker ker key walden sey lenay ki kohish kerta hay , same yahi adat us ki barey ho ker hoti hay

shadi sey pehlay ki mohabat sirf attraction hoti hay against opposite sex
and nothing else.
her acchi personality , zaheen person ko dehk ker dosray key dil main us key liya pasandedgi ka jazba peda ho jata hay.
its natural.

lakin hamara media us pasandedgi ko ghalat side per hmm ko dal deta hay

is ka simple sa hal islam nay dia hay

early age main shadi , means key teanage hi main insan ki shadi ho jani chayeh
pir wo na to shadi sey pehlay ya baad ki mohabat ko sochay ga and na hi
is fazool cheeze main apna time zaya karey ga.

us ka zehan sirf o sirf +ve direction main kaam keray ga

lakin hmm nay her kam ulta kia hoa hay , ik late shadi , pir pehly ki mohbat and baad ki mohabat

TRUE
media ne hi bigaraa hai logon ko:pagal: ise liye me TV nahi dekhti:lpop:

Nice point.....per early age mai hamarey haan shaadi q nahi ki jaati....buhat se factors hain iskey peeche......ap chaahin to ik new thread bana lijiye tab alag se hum early age marriages per discussion karin gey benefits n drawbacks k saath ok?

[Shaim]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

aisi muhabbat bohat say logooN say hosakti hai, jab kay waisi (aisi waisi :khi:) muhabbat aik say he hoti hai, jahaan tak maiN nay suna hai :blush:, aur aisi waisi muhabbat main khayalat baad maiN sun'nay jatay haiN pehlay shakal he daikhi jati hai .. :tauba

aise waase mohabbat main shakal wo log dekhte hain na jo aise waasey hote hain:khi: jo aise waase nahi balke waase waase hootey hain wo begher dekhe bhi mohabbat ker lete hain q k main ne aisa suna hai n dekha hai thatz y bata rahi hoon

[tauruskhan]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

Ap aisa kertey hain isse liye mere paros ki nani ne inkaar ker dia

waasey mohabbat ager 1 boy n girl k darmiaan nahii hooti to dunya aagey kese chalti????
parents main mohabbat hooti hai n wahi mohabbat aagey childern main n her rishte main tranfer hooti hai,,,,,,
HAI NA?:pagal:

bahi meray kehnay ka matlab hay
key meian bewi main bi mohabat us wakat hoti hay jab wo aktey rehtay haan
us sey pehlay sirf pasandedgi hoti hay

app dehk lain key man ko jitnay apnay bachey sey mohabat hoti hay dosron key bachon sey itni mohabat naeen hoti keeon, is leya key wo us ka apna hota hay and wo us key sath hota hay.

kher mujeh is wakat ilfaz naeen mil rahey key kesay samjhaoon

kher
der sey shadi wali jo app ney baat ki hay , to itna bata doon , yeh sirf west ki waja sey hmm ko majbor kia gia hay
werna 16 to 19 age key dermian shadi ho jani chayeh
is ki waja sey insan ka zehan naeen bhtakta, sirf and sirf perhai ki taraf concentration jati hay.
and meray kheal main aj kal key waldein ko itna to modern hona chayeh key bachoon ki jald shadi kerain , and apney bachey key sath , us ki bewi ki perwerish bi ker lain, wo koi un key liya gher to naeen , un ki apni bahoo ho gi

and second jald shadi ka matlab yeh naeen key bachi ko ghar beta dia jaeey.
shadi key baad bi study jari raki jani chayeh.
etc etc etc

[Shaim]

Re: Piyar, Ishq aur Muhabbat ...!!

bahi meray kehnay ka matlab hay
key meian bewi main bi mohabat us wakat hoti hay jab wo aktey rehtay haan
us sey pehlay sirf pasandedgi hoti hay

app dehk lain key man ko jitnay apnay bachey sey mohabat hoti hay dosron key bachon sey itni mohabat naeen hoti keeon, is leya key wo us ka apna hota hay and wo us key sath hota hay.

kher mujeh is wakat ilfaz naeen mil rahey key kesay samjhaoon

kher
der sey shadi wali jo app ney baat ki hay , to itna bata doon , yeh sirf west ki waja sey hmm ko majbor kia gia hay
werna 16 to 19 age key dermian shadi ho jani chayeh
is ki waja sey insan ka zehan naeen bhtakta, sirf and sirf perhai ki taraf concentration jati hay.
and meray kheal main aj kal key waldein ko itna to modern hona chayeh key bachoon ki jald shadi kerain , and apney bachey key sath , us ki bewi ki perwerish bi ker lain, wo koi un key liya gher to naeen , un ki apni bahoo ho gi

and second jald shadi ka matlab yeh naeen key bachi ko ghar beta dia jaeey.
shadi key baad bi study jari raki jani chayeh.
etc etc etc

:pagal: :pagal: :pagal:
accha...

per early ages mai shaadi na kerney ki or bhi wajoohaat hain
like immatureness + TARBIYAT.....
lerki ki jesi PERWARISH uski apni MAAN kerti hai...usko accha bura bataati hai wasa koi or nahi ker sakta chaahey wo jitni bhi koshish ker ley
+ lerki ko apna ghar choor ker jaana hoota hai ye koii asaan kaam nahi hai to ager wo 14/15 mai hi ghar ko bye bye keh dey to ye to koi bat na hoi .......20/23 saal tak to apni family mai guuzar ley ye alagg bat hai koi rehney nahi deeta