Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

[Shaim]

Aj kal ye baat buhat aam hai k after engagement girl n boy fone per baat kerte hain (in order 2 understand each other)





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KHUSH RAHIYYE!
WASALAM

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

Aj kal ye baat buhat aam hai k after engagement girl n boy fone per baat kerte hain (in order 2 understand each other)





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Take Care:rose

KHUSH RAHIYYE!
WASALAM

kab hui aap kee Mangni????:cc:

[Shaim]

Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

kab hui aap kee Mangni????:cc:

:cc: ......Me ki.......????
abhi to nahii hoi:eye: per usse k liye abhi se prepare ker rahi hon na:lpop:

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Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

kabhi khabar theek hai lekan zaida nahi karni chaian :wk
sari batain shadi say pehlay kar li to shadi kay bad kia dewaaroun say batain karain gay :khi:
main nay samjahti aap apni har baat mangater say share karoo ....

shadi say pehlay milna julna to mujhay bilkul pasand nahi .......

aik to itni dhoom dhaam ki manginyan hoti hain , larka larki bhi kuch zaida hi free hoo jatay hain aik doosray kay sath , bad main koi na masla hoo jata hai to magnai toot jati hai ..............
aaj kal to magni tootna bhi aik waba ki taraha pheelta ja raha hai :tauba

mangani zaida dair nahi rehni chaye (matlab yeh nahi kay zaida dair hoo jaye to toor doo :lol ) shadi say zaida say zaida aik saal theek hai ..is say zaida nahi , magnai kay bad shadi jaldi hoo jani chaye :rose

[ummid]

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engagement yani mangni ki koi sharaai-w-deeni hasiyat nahi hai..............
isi liye awal tu muslim maashare mein is ka chalan hi theek nahi....
aur ager kahin baat paki ho jaye aur ladka, ladki se mehaz understanding badhane ke liye ya phir kisi aur wajah se milna chahe tu kum az kum ghar ke buzurgon ko is baat ki mukhalefat karni chahiye...:)

[Shaim]

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kabhi khabar theek hai lekan zaida nahi karni chaian :wk
sari batain shadi say pehlay kar li to shadi kay bad kia dewaaroun say batain karain gay :khi:
main nay samjahti aap apni har baat mangater say share karoo ....

shadi say pehlay milna julna to mujhay bilkul pasand nahi .......

aik to itni dhoom dhaam ki manginyan hoti hain , larka larki bhi kuch zaida hi free hoo jatay hain aik doosray kay sath , bad main koi na masla hoo jata hai to magnai toot jati hai ..............
aaj kal to magni tootna bhi aik waba ki taraha pheelta ja raha hai :tauba

mangani zaida dair nahi rehni chaye (matlab yeh nahi kay zaida dair hoo jaye to toor doo :lol ) shadi say zaida say zaida aik saal theek hai ..is say zaida nahi , magnai kay bad shadi jaldi hoo jani chaye :rose

Thx 4 ur opinion Anchal sis!!:thmbup: :phool:

[Shaim]

Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

engagement yani mangni ki koi sharaai-w-deeni hasiyat nahi hai..............
isi liye awal tu muslim maashare mein is ka chalan hi theek nahi....
aur ager kahin baat paki ho jaye aur ladka, ladki se mehaz understanding badhane ke liye ya phir kisi aur wajah se milna chahe tu kum az kum ghar ke buzurgon ko is baat ki mukhalefat karni chahiye...:)

:thmbup: :thmbup:
Thx 4 ur opinion sis!:)

[Shaim]

Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

The pretence to develope understanding between a boy and a girl is a complete farce. Its just a PLOY to get around the taboo. I fully agree with Ummeed that since engagement means NOTHING in islam so its inception is meaningless and should NOT bear any weight. in the sight of Islam, until and unless the nikaah is solemnised, nothing else gives any credence to non islamic meeting between the boy and the girl. its the western way which we are DYING to adopt. its a shere shame. i strongly DIS-AGREE with this notion of islamization of western ways...shame on All those who do it! Allah kii la'nat un par jo deen e islaam ko masaKh karte haiN. May Allah guide us thru the difficult pathways leading to success in the hereafter. aameen

Thx 4 the xplanation:salam:
n 4 ur opinion!:thmbup:

[shy]

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kabhi kabhi baat kar lene me koi harj nahi he.or anchal ne ye bata bilkul theek kahi ke zeada der tak mangni nahi rehni chaey,mangni n us ke baad jald shadi.ta ke masail na barhen.

[*Roomi*]

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Mangne Kee RASAM Islam say Sabit Nahe so Aawal to yehi Thik nahe es RASAM k bad Lerki Lerka AIk dosray k-liye Halal nahe Hotey Hain so yeh Islam ki Rooh say Durast nahe Hai..............

NIKHA kay Bad Bat ho sakti hai q kay Halala Ho jata hai Lakin Nikha kay bad Jald ruksati Honi Chaye ;)

[Shaim]

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kabhi kabhi baat kar lene me koi harj nahi he.or anchal ne ye bata bilkul theek kahi ke zeada der tak mangni nahi rehni chaey,mangni n us ke baad jald shadi.ta ke masail na barhen.

Hmmmm:shh:
ok shy sis:)
thx 4 sharing ur RAI wid us:phool:

[Shaim]

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Mangne Kee RASAM Islam say Sabit Nahe so Aawal to yehi Thik nahe es RASAM k bad Lerki Lerka AIk dosray k-liye Halal nahe Hotey Hain so yeh Islam ki Rooh say Durast nahe Hai..............

NIKHA kay Bad Bat ho sakti hai q kay Halala Ho jata hai Lakin Nikha kay bad Jald ruksati Honi Chaye ;)

ok ji :thmbup:
main ne point note ker liya hai:shh:
aisa kerte hain MANGNI ko NIKKAH se replace ker dete hain:pagal:
thx 4 sharing ur rai wid us
KHUSH RAHIYYE:phool:

[Shaim]

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lagtaa hai AaNchal aur SHY klo apni shaadii kii baRii jaldii paRii hai...yeh baat maiN ne NOTE kar li hai aur maiN unkaa msg unke vaalidai'n tak pahoNchaa duuNgaa...URGENTLY!!!

:na: :na:

[Eshaa Chaudhry]

Re: Apki Rai.....After Engagement.....???

Aj kal ye baat buhat aam hai k after engagement girl n boy fone per baat kerte hain (in order 2 understand each other)





Waiting 4 ur opinion
Take Care:rose

KHUSH RAHIYYE!
WASALAM

Engagement yani mangni ki deeni ru se koi hesiyat nahin ..... ye hamaray haan sirf aur sirf mazhab se duuri hai jisey hum aaj kal k trend ka naam de k istemaal kartay hain ..........jab kisi rishtay ki koi ehmiyat nahin Islam ki roo se ... ehmiyat means aissay k un ka milna julna munasib nahin Islam ki nazar mein to phir usey kerna bhi ghalat hai .......log kehtay hain understanding .. ho jatee hai ..kia puranay waqton k log engagement k baad mila kertay thay ...kabhi nahin milsy thay aur phir bhi ...un k relationship mein aisee koi baat nahin thi jo ye show lkeray k un mein understanding nahin ....................to ye aajkal understanding k naam per sab dhakoslay baazi hai .......aur jo parents is sab k haq mein hain wo apnay bachon ko khud aag ki taraf dhakel rahay hain ..aur kuch ....... Allah hum sab ko hidayat de ...Aur deeni ru se is rishtay ki hesiyat ko samajhnay ki taufeeq aata farmaey (Ameen)

[Shaim]

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Engagement yani mangni ki deeni ru se koi hesiyat nahin ..... ye hamaray haan sirf aur sirf mazhab se duuri hai jisey hum aaj kal k trend ka naam de k istemaal kartay hain ..........jab kisi rishtay ki koi ehmiyat nahin Islam ki roo se ... ehmiyat means aissay k un ka milna julna munasib nahin Islam ki nazar mein to phir usey kerna bhi ghalat hai .......log kehtay hain understanding .. ho jatee hai ..kia puranay waqton k log engagement k baad mila kertay thay ...kabhi nahin milsy thay aur phir bhi ...un k relationship mein aisee koi baat nahin thi jo ye show lkeray k un mein understanding nahin ....................to ye aajkal understanding k naam per sab dhakoslay baazi hai .......aur jo parents is sab k haq mein hain wo apnay bachon ko khud aag ki taraf dhakel rahay hain ..aur kuch ....... Allah hum sab ko hidayat de ...Aur deeni ru se is rishtay ki hesiyat ko samajhnay ki taufeeq aata farmaey (Ameen)

Esha apne buhatt acchi c xplanation k sath apne point ko defend kiyaa....:thmbup:
really nice..:phool: or ye to sach hai k jo cheez ISLAM mai nahii usko kerne ki her logic illogical hai + us mai benefit nahi hai...wasey i like TheMask's point k engagement nahi direct NIKKAH ker deena chahiye!
thx 4 ur precious RAI:rose
KHUSH RAHIYYE ALWAYS:salam: