Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

[shy]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

shadi to aik bohat muqadas bandhan he or shadi se pehle sab kuch acha acha is leay dikhta he ke us waqt koi zimadari nahi hoti.shadi ke bad aik dusre ki zimadari ban jate hen.khubeyon ke sath sath khameyan(jo har insan me hi hoti he)nazer ane lagti hen.bohat sari baton par compromise karne parte hen.tab apas me larai jhagre bhi hote hen lekin larai jhagra is normal:khi: kisi ne kia khoob kaha he ke jahan bartan nahi tootate wahan ghar toot jate hen.to shadi zawal nahi he mohabat ka.halki phulki larayan to mohabat ko barhati hen.lekin kahin kahin moamla zeada gar bar bhi ho jata he to wahan yhi kaha ja sakta he ke tawakoat zeada rakhi gaei hen.ksi insan me ager 2 burayan hen to lazmi aik achai bhi ho gi us achai par bhi to nazer rakhni chaey na is tarah mere khyal me shadi me mohabat kaim rehti he:cc:

[shummu]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Assalam-o-alaikom

Jo kuch Shammo jeee nay kaha hai bilkul sahih kaha hai main bhi is main share karna chah rahi thi lakin shammu jee kay views hi tu mere views bhi hain...
shammu jee u r abs right lakin main yeh bhi kehna chahon gi keh agar keh shadi mohabbat ka zawal hergiz nahin yeh mazeed gehri ho sakti hai agar laog is rishtay ki ehmiyat ko samjhain.... yeh insaanon kay darmiyaan banaaye janay wala pehla rishta hai Allah taalaa aur banday kay baad dosra rishta..... jaisa keh hadees hai keh agar kisi aur ko sajda karna jaaez hota tu Allah Talaa shohar ko sajda karnay ka hukm daita agar is rightay ki azmat ka andaza sahih tarah laga liya jae aur aik dosray kay hoqooq-o-faraaiz ko samjha or poora kiyaa jaaai tu nah yeh rishta aur na hi muhabbat kabhi zawal pazeer honay ki baaat ho..............................
is kay ilawa aik aur baat hai keh jab loag aik dosray ko pasand kartay hain kisi educational institute main ya kahin aur tu aik dosray kay saath waqt guzarnay kay bawajood woh aik dosray ko samajh nahin patay kiun keh aksar aisa hota hai keh insaan apna behavior aur priorities ko jaga aur mahool kay lihaaz sau set karta hai kisi kay saath din main 6 ya 8 ghantay guzarnay or saari zindgee saath guzarnay main buht farq hai buht si aadat say laog shaadi kay baad waqif hotay hain.....
isi waja say shadi kay baad aisi batain hoti hain keh tum shadi say pehlay aisay thay aur tum shadi say pehlay tu aisay nahin karti theeeen ... aisi sorat main bhi unhain sabar ka daman haath say nahin chorna chahiye aur thora compromising behavior rakhna chahiyee

Thanx meri baat ko support karne ke liye..aap ki baat bhi bilkul durust hai.....I agree with ur view too :thmbup:

[rehman]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Assalam-o-ALikum WR WB

Well ! Marreid to main bhi nhi ... per albta aap ki aik baat main wazan hay kay ahmiyat ka andaza jhgro aur pyaar dono sey ho jaata hay per aik sawal nay preshan kar diya hy :cc: kya shadi kay baat bhi koi biwi I Love U khati ho gi lolzz:khi:

FeamanAllah :lpop:

married main bhi nahi..... :)

[rehman]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Assalamalikum

shadi say pehlay loog aik doosray ko buhat pasand kartay hain....pher shadi honay kay bas aik saal hi main laraian shuru .........muhabbat kahi gum hoo jati hai ........aisi shadiyan bhi jin main long term ishq chalye hotay hain :lol lekan shadi kay bad ......:donno:
aisa kayoun hota hai kia yeh samjha jaye shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

issliye tu kahtay hai jis nay shadi ki uss nay bhi pashtaya jis nahi ki uss nay bhi pashtaya.....

[Aania]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Married hona life ko BYE BYE kehna hai Bas... Mohabbat kuch nahen hoti... Aadat hoti hai... aik doosrey ke sath time spent kereny ki kisi bhi terah like phone calls chat or enthing.. thats it... !! :rose :lol

[D@y W@lk3r]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Mohabbat kay liyah shadi karna zarori nahi hain. mainay yah galati ki hain. app is say bachay. shadi life ko khatam kar deti hain. kuch nahi rehta is main. no more enjoy. duty say der say aao to begum naraz kay der kiyun hoi yah kiyun hoya so so answer do. my GOD:tauba
Kiya faida aisi life ka aur mazeed tension life main kiya kam hoti hain kay shadi kar kay aur barha looo:mm:
So save life without wife

[Bheegi-Palkain]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Asslam-o-Alikum WR WB

Shadi kay baat muhbat ka zawal ho jaana ... ya baat mumkin nahi hoti .. drasal Aanchal hum ab tak muhbat ko samjh hi nahi sakay hy ky muhbat hy kya ... logo nay muhbat ka wajood apni socho kay mutabik bana liya hay ... agr aap dekhy to jis ko us ki pasnd ki cheez hasil ho jay chay wo aik Aurat ho ya chay wo koi aik cheez like Bangla car any type .. wo us ko ya khata phirta hay kay Muhabt azeem hay .. aur agr kisi ko nakami ho jay to wo Muhabt ky khalaf ho jaata hy...

Lafz muhbat ko samjhna bhot zaroori hay ... per afsoos samjh koi nahi pata hay ... like me .. may nay jab muhbat ko samjhna shuru kya to us waqt mery ahsaas meri feelings sab khatam ho gai ... shyad ya kha liya jay ky Flirt bhot kar liya .... dosro ki nazr main Flirt hi hy ... per meri nazr main nhi .. laykin hasil ya hua ky still Muhbat ko samjha nahi gya ...

Kisi kay saath Shadi kar lyna .. ya Date per chalay jaana . ya chatting ya Phone man lagay rahna ... that is not Muhabt ... haan ya kha sakty hay kay sab flirt hay ... her aik flirt hi karta hy aur sab hi kar rhay hay aur ya karaty jay gy ....

baat rahi shadi ki baat to is ka jawab simple hay Aanchal kay Zawal muhbat us waqt payda ho gi jab aap gunha ki zad main ho gy ... ya mera Iman hy kay agr aap ki shadi Sunaty Rasool kay mutabik ho to zawal mumkin nahi hy ... kya aaj tak aap nay suna kay Huzor PBUH ki muhbat zawal main ai ho ya kisi bhi PBUH ki Wife nay ya shikwa kya ho kay PBUH ki muhbat zawal hay .... balky may nay jhaan tak study ki hy mujhy yahi hasil hua kay sari hi Biwiya PBUH ki un sey razi thi jab kay PBUH ki 12 wife thi ...

Hum main bhot si gals abhi unmarried hay ... ya shayd aagy is forum main ai gi ... is topic ky thrugh aik mashwara zaroor du ga ... kay Muhbat , Pyaar aur ISHQ ya alag alag hy .. aik cheez nahi hay ...

Bass agr kabhi zindagee main muhabat ho bhi jay to sab sey pahaly apnay Parenets ko aagha kary .. Muhbat karna jurm nahi hay .. haan muhbat main chupa lyna aur us ko gupt rakhy rahna ya Jurm hay .. aur Jurm burai hy

FeamanAllah

[*Rida*]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?


Assalam-o-alaikom,

i got some thing related to this topic so sharing here wid all u members :)
After a quarrel, a husband said to his wife, "You know, I was a fool when I married you." She replied, "Yes, dear I know, but I was in love and didn't notice."[/B]

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Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Laila majnoo, heer Ranjha , sassi punno ki shadi hoo jati na to woh bhi itnay mashoor na hotay jitnay ab hain :lol

['SamRazi']

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Shayed hotey, oun waqto'n ki mohabbat ka aaj ki mohabbat se kya muqabla Aanchal.

Ek baat yaad aayi, kiu na yeh love stories PG per share ki jayein :D:

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Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Shayed hotey, oun waqto'n ki mohabbat ka aaj ki mohabbat se kya muqabla Aanchal.

Ek baat yaad aayi, kiu na yeh love stories PG per share ki jayein :D:

jin kay paas hain yeh stories detail main woh share kar daian :lpop:

[Bheegi-Palkain]

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Laila majnoo, heer Ranjha , sassi punno ki shadi hoo jati na to woh bhi itnay mashoor na hotay jitnay ab hain :lol

Asslam-o-ALikum WR WB

jabhi kho me mashor kuo hu :wk

FeamanAllah :lpop:

['SamRazi']

Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

jin kay paas hain yeh stories detail main woh share kar daian :lpop:

Me ka pass jin ki hain oun ke naam yeh hain,

Sohni Mahiwaal
Heer Ranjha
Mirza Sahiba
Sassi punoo

Baqi nahi hain abhi, In ke liyeh "Mohabbat kadah" ka section best rahey ga na ??

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Me ka pass jin ki hain oun ke naam yeh hain,

Sohni Mahiwaal
Heer Ranjha
Mirza Sahiba
Sassi punoo

Baqi nahi hain abhi, In ke liyeh "Mohabbat kadah" ka section best rahey ga na ??

yeh woh section best rehaye ga :D:
yeh inpage par hain ya Roman main hai ??/

agar inpage pay hoo to pher zaida acha lagay ga :phool: zaida lambi stories roman main nahi parhi jati :embarasse

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Re: Kia shadi muhabbat ka zawaal hai ?

Asslam-o-ALikum WR WB

jabhi kho me mashor kuo hu :wk

FeamanAllah :lpop:

han "Bheegi" or "palkaian" new love story :zuban: