MUBAHISA: Now where is the Right!

[Z.]

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Walikum Assalam!:salam:


nice topic
sis kuch jaga lerke or lerki dono ko hi ijazat nahi hooti k wo apni pasand zahir karin........i ve seen many cases....
kuch jaga Parents dono ki hi pasand ko prefer kerte hain yani boy k ghar waly bhi razi n gal k bhi raazi:)
or kuch jaga albatta lerke per koi restriction nahi per lerki per hoti hain.........

lerki ki tarbiyat is tarah se honi chahye k wo kabhi limits cross nahi kary......or phir ISLAM is cheez ki poori ijazat deta hai k shadi dono ki raza mandi se hoo......

phir jo log limits mai rehte hoe begher kise reason k lerki ko restrict rakhte hain to wo yaqeenan discrimination show kerte hain gal n boy main jabk ISLAM ne shadi k bary main dono ko kabhi discriminate nahi kara.......

this is infact wrong........per kuch lerkian bhi limits ka khyal nahi rakhtiin n that is very much common now a days per us main qasoor Parents ka bhi hoota hai wo khud enviroment bhi sumtimes provide kerte hain........

KHUSH RAHYEE!

I totally agree with you Barish and thanks for taking my Q correctly :)

sirf aik baat mey aur karun gi key kuch parents shayad apney bachon ko itna confidence hi nahi deytey hein....im not in favor of any dating type of things...never ever .......magar jo RIght Islam ney diya hai kam sey ussey to wo accept karein na

[abdulwahab]

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Aap ki sari reply mein siraf yeh aik baat qabil-e-ghaur hai aur yehi baat ABDULWAHAB per bhi sach sabit hoti hai - bura na maniyey ga :)

KION MASOOD BHI BAQI OOPER SAY GUZAR GAIN.
YANI AAP KEHNA CHAHTAY HAIN KEH IS AIK BAAT KAY ILAWA HER BAAT GALAT HAI TOO AAP BATANA PASAND KARAIN GAY KEH
''AORAT KIA HAI AUR AORAT KION BANAI GAI AUR IS KA SAB SAY BARA FARZ KIA HAI''?
AAP KO AIK BAAT BATANA CHAHTA HON
''PEHLAY TOOLOO PHIR BOLO''
bura na maniyey ga FPRIVATE "TYPE=PICT;ALT="

[sccorpion81]

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Walikum Assalam!:salam:


nice topic
sis kuch jaga lerke or lerki dono ko hi ijazat nahi hooti k wo apni pasand zahir karin........i ve seen many cases....
kuch jaga Parents dono ki hi pasand ko prefer kerte hain yani boy k ghar waly bhi razi n gal k bhi raazi:)
or kuch jaga albatta lerke per koi restriction nahi per lerki per hoti hain.........

lerki ki tarbiyat is tarah se honi chahye k wo kabhi limits cross nahi kary......or phir ISLAM is cheez ki poori ijazat deta hai k shadi dono ki raza mandi se hoo......

phir jo log limits mai rehte hoe begher kise reason k lerki ko restrict rakhte hain to wo yaqeenan discrimination show kerte hain gal n boy main jabk ISLAM ne shadi k bary main dono ko kabhi discriminate nahi kara.......

this is infact wrong........per kuch lerkian bhi limits ka khyal nahi rakhtiin n that is very much common now a days per us main qasoor Parents ka bhi hoota hai wo khud enviroment bhi sumtimes provide kerte hain........

KHUSH RAHYEE!

Yes u r right

[Spy009]

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Asalam alaikum,

hamari society aur hamara damagh dono hi kharab hotey ja rahey hein :hehe:

agreed...

mera bhi dimagh ka kuchh aisa hi haal hai...log kahtey hain main BADMASH hota ja raha hoon.

[Z.]

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''AORAT KIA HAI AUR AORAT KION BANAI GAI AUR IS KA SAB SAY BARA FARZ KIA HAI''?

aap is ka jawab dein gey khudi?

[Z.]

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agreed...

mera bhi dimagh ka kuchh aisa hi haal hai...log kahtey hain main BADMASH hota ja raha hoon.

Badmash logon ki do types hein aik wo jo bas sirf badmash hotey ehin aur aik wo jo sahih rastey per hon aur log unhien badmash kahein

and i hope you are on the right path:thmbup:

[Muhammad Khalil]

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:cc: :cc: :cc: :cc: :cc:
wow kharian...........k sab log ik jese hooty hain?:blush:
meri ik fellow hai she also belong 4om kharian......or wo bhi aise hi baatin kerti hai......ik baat mai 2 opinions ik against or ik FOR main:kr:

or aise hi baaatin........:D

sary kharian wali Nahi sirf akela main hee hun.

[abdulwahab]

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yaani jin bacchon ki maayen daar e faani se kooch kr gai... woh bacche JANWAR hote hain?????????

JIS BACHAY KI MAAN NAHI US KI TERBIYYAT KI ZEMADAARI ''BAQI KHANDAAN '' PER HAI
MAIN NAY MAAN KI BAAT INFARAADI TOOR PER NAHI KI BALKEH IJTAMAI TOOR PER KI HAI. LAKIN US BACHAY MAIN LAZMI KOI NA KOI BARI KHARAABI HO GI YEH BAAT MUKHTALIF TAJZIAAT SAY SABIT HAI.
KION KEH
MAAN KEHTAY HAIN ''PALNAY WALI''
AUR IS PALNAY MAIN HER CHEZ AA JATI HAI YANI BACHAY KAY AQAID,US KI SHAKSIYYAT AUR BHEE BUHAT KUCH.

[abdulwahab]

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aap is ka jawab dein gey khudi?

MERI BAHAN BAQOOL AAP LOGON KAY MAIN JAHIL HON MERAY PAAS ILM KI KAMI HAI AAP LOG MUJH SAY ZIADA AKALMAND HAIN AUR MERI BAHAN AIK BAAT YAAD RAKHO KEH
''JAHIL SAY KUCH POOCHA NAHI JATA BALKEH JAHIL KO KUCH BATAYA JATA HAI''
MAIN JAHIL INSAAN AAP LOGON SAY AORAT KAY MUTALLAK SWAAL KER CHUKA HON AAP LOG IS KA JAWAAB DAIN
ZARA JALDI
PHIR MILLAIN GAY
INSHAALLAH

[sarfraz_qamar]

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islam main mard kee sathh aourt see bhee uss kee marzee poochnayy kaa hukam diaa giaa haii aorr baqool khalil sahib hamm ghalat hoo sakte ehainn islam kabhee ghalt nahee hoo saktaa iss cheeze ko samjhnayy kee zaroorat haii....................
aorr jahan tak care kee baat haii main samjhtaa hoo kehh muasharayy main balance kee lieyy aisaa honaa zarooree haiii kunkehh aorttt shorroo see hee
Naqs ul aqal mashahoor haiii aorr isss lieyy aisaa karnaa zarooree haii

[.]

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Asalam alaikum,

hamari society aur hamara damagh dono hi kharab hotey ja rahey hein :hehe:
Pata nahi aap logon ney ye baat note ki ho gi ya nahi magar ajeeb baat ye hai key jab aik larka apni pasand ki shadi kerta hai to nobody cares aur jab key aik larki apni pasand ki shadi kerti hai to ......it becomes an issue......aur phir jitney munh utni baatein

Aeysa kyun hai? Kya Islam ney ye haq nahi diya aik larki ko?

donoo ko shadi kay mamlay main pasand ka ikhteeyar hai ....
yeh baat sahi hai larki ki pasand ko zaida issue banaya jata hai , ab jo loog isay ghalat samjhtay hian vohi is ka jawab daian :D:
agar larki pasand ki shadi karna chahti hai to is ka matlab yeh nahi kay woh koi ghalat qadam uthana chahti hai jis pay issue banaian loog.....

Islam main bhi hai yeh larki ko bhi shadi main pasand ka ihkteyaar hai ....:lpop:

[Z.]

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donoo ko shadi kay mamlay main pasand ka ikhteeyar hai ....
yeh baat sahi hai larki ki pasand ko zaida issue banaya jata hai , ab jo loog isay ghalat samjhtay hian vohi is ka jawab daian :D:
agar larki pasand ki shadi karna chahti hai to is ka matlab yeh nahi kay woh koi ghalat qadam uthana chahti hai jis pay issue banaian loog.....

Islam main bhi hai yeh larki ko bhi shadi main pasand ka ihkteyaar hai ....:lpop:

[Z.]

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MERI BAHAN BAQOOL AAP LOGON KAY MAIN JAHIL HON MERAY PAAS ILM KI KAMI HAI AAP LOG MUJH SAY ZIADA AKALMAND HAIN AUR MERI BAHAN AIK BAAT YAAD RAKHO KEH
''JAHIL SAY KUCH POOCHA NAHI JATA BALKEH JAHIL KO KUCH BATAYA JATA HAI''
MAIN JAHIL INSAAN AAP LOGON SAY AORAT KAY MUTALLAK SWAAL KER CHUKA HON AAP LOG IS KA JAWAAB DAIN
ZARA JALDI
PHIR MILLAIN GAY
INSHAALLAH

okay mey bata deyti hun

Aik muslim woman ki most imp. duty apney bachon ko deen plus dunyawi dono leyhaaz sey behtareen perwarish kerna...(ye aik deep topic hai issey hum sirf aik line mey khatam nahi ker saktey hein--leykin outline is ki yahi hai)

ab mey ney aap ko bilkul bhi kam ilm nahi kaha hai ---Ilm show hota hai aik insaan key attitude aur behaviour sey aur phir us key baat key andaaz sey

ab NO. 1 aap apna font size normal rakhein aur doosra ye key block letters mey baat mat kiya karein ....this shows your anger ---seriously

[Z.]

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islam main mard kee sathh aourt see bhee uss kee marzee poochnayy kaa hukam diaa giaa haii aorr baqool khalil sahib hamm ghalat hoo sakte ehainn islam kabhee ghalt nahee hoo saktaa iss cheeze ko samjhnayy kee zaroorat haii....................
aorr jahan tak care kee baat haii main samjhtaa hoo kehh muasharayy main balance kee lieyy aisaa honaa zarooree haiii kunkehh aorttt shorroo see hee
Naqs ul aqal mashahoor haiii aorr isss lieyy aisaa karnaa zarooree haii

Aap key jitney bhi points hein in sab ko explain karein and if possible in the light of Qurani Ayah and Hadith

thanks:thmbup:

[abdulwahab]

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okay mey bata deyti hun

Aik muslim woman ki most imp. duty apney bachon ko deen plus dunyawi dono leyhaaz sey behtareen perwarish kerna...(ye aik deep topic hai issey hum sirf aik line mey khatam nahi ker saktey hein--leykin outline is ki yahi hai)

ab mey ney aap ko bilkul bhi kam ilm nahi kaha hai ---Ilm show hota hai aik insaan key attitude aur behaviour sey aur phir us key baat key andaaz sey

ab NO. 1 aap apna font size normal rakhein aur doosra ye key block letters mey baat mat kiya karein ....this shows your anger ---seriously

BIKUL SAHI .AUR YAHI BACHAY BARAY HO KER ''MUASHRAY KA HISSA BANAIN GAY''
YANI MUASHRAH IN SAY HO GA.
TOO PHIR MERI ''AKALMAND BAHAN'' AB AAP HEE BATAIN KEH MUASHRAH AORAT SAY HAI KEH NAHI.
ZAHIR HAI IN BACHON KI TERBIYYAT BHEE AORAT HEE KARAY GEE AUR YEH BACHAY MUASHRAY MAIN WOHI KARAIN GAY JO APNI MAAN SAY SEKHAIN GAY.
TOO MAIN NAY KIA ''PHARSII'' MAIN KAHA THA