MUBAHISA: Now where is the Right!

[Z.]

Asalam alaikum,

hamari society aur hamara damagh dono hi kharab hotey ja rahey hein :hehe:
Pata nahi aap logon ney ye baat note ki ho gi ya nahi magar ajeeb baat ye hai key jab aik larka apni pasand ki shadi kerta hai to nobody cares aur jab key aik larki apni pasand ki shadi kerti hai to ......it becomes an issue......aur phir jitney munh utni baatein

Aeysa kyun hai? Kya Islam ney ye haq nahi diya aik larki ko?

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Now where is the Right!

sab sy pehli baat k Islam siraf AMMAN ka naam hay aur yehi os ka pegham hay.....Hum sab ghalt hay Islam ghalt nahi.......mera khiyal hay aap ko samaj agai hugee......................kaheen hum koi ghalti ker rahy huty hain aur hamara Elam kamzoor huta hay aur hum Na janty huy keh daity hian k Islam main shaid aisa na hu.

Beherhal main aik baat janta hun k Islam main aurtoon ko buhat bada makam hasil hay lakin mardoon ko os sy ziyada

aur mujy umeed hay k yeh reply aap k ooper sy balky buhat hee ooper sy guraz gia huga:kr:

[Z.]

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sab sy pehli baat k Islam siraf AMMAN ka naam hay aur yehi os ka pegham hay.....Hum sab ghalt hay Islam ghalt nahi.......mera khiyal hay aap ko samaj agai hugee......................kaheen hum koi ghalti ker rahy huty hain aur hamara Elam kamzoor huta hay aur hum Na janty huy keh daity hian k Islam main shaid aisa na hu.

Beherhal main aik baat janta hun k Islam main aurtoon ko buhat bada makam hasil hay lakin mardoon ko os sy ziyada

aur mujy umeed hay k yeh reply aap k ooper sy balky buhat hee ooper sy guraz gia huga:kr:

barhey afsoss ki baat hai

[Muhammad Khalil]

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barhey afsoss ki baat hai

lagta hay aap kuch bhool rahi hain:lpop:

[Z.]

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lagta hay aap kuch bhool rahi hain:lpop:

:tauba


:tasali:

[abdulwahab]

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Asalam alaikum,

hamari society aur hamara damagh dono hi kharab hotey ja rahey hein :hehe:
Pata nahi aap logon ney ye baat note ki ho gi ya nahi magar ajeeb baat ye hai key jab aik larka apni pasand ki shadi kerta hai to nobody cares aur jab key aik larki apni pasand ki shadi kerti hai to ......it becomes an issue......aur phir jitney munh utni baatein

Aeysa kyun hai? Kya Islam ney ye haq nahi diya aik larki ko?

WASALLAM.
SAB SAY PEHLI BAAT TOO YEH HAI KEH
''YEH MUASHRAH BHEE AIK AORAT KA BANAYA HUA HAI WOH IS TERHAN KEH MUAASHRAH AFRAAD SAY BANTA HAI, AIK CHOOTA LARKA YA AIK CHOTI LARKI BARAY HO KER MUASHRAY KA AIK FARD BANTAY HAIN JAB WOH CHOTAY HOTAY HAIN TOO UN KI TERBIYYAT KI ZEMADAARI AORAT KAY ZEMAY HAI IS LIYAE JAISI MAAN WAISI AOLAAD KI BUNYAAD HOTI HAI''
AAJ KAY ''ZALIM MARD'' JO KEH KAL KAY CHOTAY BACHAY THAY
LAZMI UN KI MAOON NAY UN KI TERBIYYAT MAIN KOI KAMI RAKHI HO GI YA TERBIYYAT HE NAHI KI HO GAI.''
AUR JIS AMAARAT KI BUNYAAD HE KAMZOOR HO WOH ZIADA ARSA NAHI KHARI REHTI.ISI TERHAN JIS MARD YA AORAT KI BUNYAADI TERBIYAT HEE SAHI NA HO US SAY KABHI BHEE ACHAY KAM KI TAWAQOH NAHI KI JA SACTI''.
AORAT KI KAISI HATDHARMI HAI KEH
''TERBIYYAT BHEE NAHI KERTI AUR PHIR JAB WOH CHOTA BACHA BINA TERBIYYAT KAY BARA HO KER MARD BAN JATA HAI TOO KEHTI HAI KEH
''MARD ZALIM AUR AORAT MAZLOOM HAI''
DOOSRI BAAT YEH HAI KEH
''ISLAM NAY LARKA AUR LARKI DOONOO KO APNI MARZI SAY SHADI KA IKHTIAR DIYA HAI LAKIN SAATH HEE SAATH WALLI(PARENTS) KA BHEE OPINION KA HISSA RAKHA HAI ,CHAND ASOOL BHEE DIYAY HAIN KEH IN MAIN REH KER SHAADI KI JAY''
LAKIN IS KA MATLAB YEH NAHI KEH
''LARKIAN RAAT KI TAREEQI MAIN APNAY ASHNAOON KAY SAATH GHAROON SAY FARAAR HO JAIN''
MASLA YEH NAHI KEH
''AISA HAMARAY MUASHRAY MAIN KION HO RAHA HAI MASLA YEH HAI KEH IS KA QASOORWAR KON HAI''?
''MAAN YA MUHABBAT''
YA PHIR DONOO.
AIK AUR BAAT APNAY KAHI KEH
''JAB KOI LARKA SHAADI KERTA HAI TOO KOI KUCH NAHI KEHTA LAKIN JAB KOI LARKI SHAADI KERTI HAI TOO SAB BOL PERTAY HAIN''
TOO AAP KIA KEHTAY HAIN KEH
''HUM LARKION KO YONHI RAAT KAY ANDHARON MAIN BAGNAY DAIN''?
AIK BAAT BATAIN ZARA
''WAISAY TOO ISLAM NAMEHRAM LARKAY AUR LARKI KI APAS MAIN BAAT CHEET PER BHEE PABANDI LAGATA HAI TOO KIA YEH DOONOO NAMEHRAM HOTAY HUAY BHEE GHAR SAY BHAAG SACTAY HAIN''?
MAZAY KI BAAT YEH BHE HAI KEH
''AAJ KAL AISAY DRAMAS BAN RAHAY HAIN JIN MAIN HUM KHUD IS QOOM KI BATTION KO YEH SABAK DAITAY HAIN KEH GHER SAY BHAAG JAO LAKIN JAHAN MAAN BAAP KEHTAY HAIN WAHAN SHAADI NA KARO''
WAH RAY PAKISTAN TERI QISMAT AUR OOPER SAY TERAY YEH JAWAAN

[Z.]

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kia?

:cc:

[ummid]

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WASALLAM.
SAB SAY PEHLI BAAT TOO YEH HAI KEH
''YEH MUASHRAH BHEE AIK AORAT KA BANAYA HUA HAI WOH IS TERHAN KEH MUAASHRAH AFRAAD SAY BANTA HAI, AIK CHOOTA LARKA YA AIK CHOTI LARKI BARAY HO KER MUASHRAY KA AIK FARD BANTAY HAIN JAB WOH CHOTAY HOTAY HAIN TOO UN KI TERBIYYAT KI ZEMADAARI AORAT KAY ZEMAY HAI IS LIYAE JAISI MAAN WAISI AOLAAD KI BUNYAAD HOTI HAI''
AAJ KAY ''ZALIM MARD'' JO KEH KAL KAY CHOTAY BACHAY THAY
LAZMI UN KI MAOON NAY UN KI TERBIYYAT MAIN KOI KAMI RAKHI HO GI YA TERBIYYAT HE NAHI KI HO GAI.''

Apart from topic... one question for you.........
Kya TARBEEYAT aur PARWARISH hi Insaan ki zindagi ko banate aur bigarte hain.....????

[abdulwahab]

Re: Now where is the Right!

Apart from topic... one question for you.........
Kya TARBEEYAT aur PARWARISH hi Insaan ki zindagi ko banate aur bigarte hain.....????

KISI INSAAN KI PERWARISH MAIN MAAN KA KIRDAAR AIK ASOOLI HASIYAT RAKHTA HAI JIS PER ETIMMAD KER KAY LOG MUASHRAY KI TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN JAISA KEH MAAN AFRAAD KO JANAM DAITAI HAI AUR UN KI PERWARISH KERTI HAI AUR WOH AFRAAD ACHI PERWARISH KAY NATEEJAY MAIN AIK ZINDA QOOM BANATAY HAIN AUR YEH QOOM APNA MUSHRAH JO KEH ZINDA MUASHRAH HOTA HAI KO TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN AGER MAAN NA HO TOO HER TARAF INSAAN NAMA JANWER HOTAY HAIN MAAN KAY BEGAIR HER CHEZ ADHOORI HAI ZINDAGI ,HALAAT,KUSHIAN ,AZAADI,GULAAMI GARZ KEH HER CHEZ JAISA KEH TERBIYAT BHEE .

[Shaim]

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sab sy pehli baat k Islam siraf AMMAN ka naam hay aur yehi os ka pegham hay.....Hum sab ghalt hay Islam ghalt nahi.......mera khiyal hay aap ko samaj agai hugee......................kaheen hum koi ghalti ker rahy huty hain aur hamara Elam kamzoor huta hay aur hum Na janty huy keh daity hian k Islam main shaid aisa na hu.

Beherhal main aik baat janta hun k Islam main aurtoon ko buhat bada makam hasil hay lakin mardoon ko os sy ziyada

aur mujy umeed hay k yeh reply aap k ooper sy balky buhat hee ooper sy guraz gia huga:kr:

:cc: :cc: :cc: :cc: :cc:
wow kharian...........k sab log ik jese hooty hain?:blush:
meri ik fellow hai she also belong 4om kharian......or wo bhi aise hi baatin kerti hai......ik baat mai 2 opinions ik against or ik FOR main:kr:

or aise hi baaatin........:D

[Z.]

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@ abdul wahab

mey in saari baaton ka jawab deyti hun---leykin filhaal meyra waqt bohot qeemti hai ....so later inshAllah...........apni post edit mat kijiye ga plz

[ummid]

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KISI INSAAN KI PERWARISH MAIN MAAN KA KIRDAAR AIK ASOOLI HASIYAT RAKHTA HAI JIS PER ETIMMAD KER KAY LOG MUASHRAY KI TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN JAISA KEH MAAN AFRAAD KO JANAM DAITAI HAI AUR UN KI PERWARISH KERTI HAI AUR WOH AFRAAD ACHI PERWARISH KAY NATEEJAY MAIN AIK ZINDA QOOM BANATAY HAIN AUR YEH QOOM APNA MUSHRAH JO KEH ZINDA MUASHRAH HOTA HAI KO TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN AGER MAAN NA HO TOO HER TARAF INSAAN NAMA JANWER HOTAY HAIN MAAN KAY BEGAIR HER CHEZ ADHOORI HAI ZINDAGI ,HALAAT,KUSHIAN ,AZAADI,GULAAMI GARZ KEH HER CHEZ JAISA KEH TERBIYAT BHEE .

yaani jin bacchon ki maayen daar e faani se kooch kr gai... woh bacche JANWAR hote hain?????????

[Shaim]

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Asalam alaikum,

hamari society aur hamara damagh dono hi kharab hotey ja rahey hein :hehe:
Pata nahi aap logon ney ye baat note ki ho gi ya nahi magar ajeeb baat ye hai key jab aik larka apni pasand ki shadi kerta hai to nobody cares aur jab key aik larki apni pasand ki shadi kerti hai to ......it becomes an issue......aur phir jitney munh utni baatein

Aeysa kyun hai? Kya Islam ney ye haq nahi diya aik larki ko?

Walikum Assalam!:salam:


nice topic
sis kuch jaga lerke or lerki dono ko hi ijazat nahi hooti k wo apni pasand zahir karin........i ve seen many cases....
kuch jaga Parents dono ki hi pasand ko prefer kerte hain yani boy k ghar waly bhi razi n gal k bhi raazi:)
or kuch jaga albatta lerke per koi restriction nahi per lerki per hoti hain.........

lerki ki tarbiyat is tarah se honi chahye k wo kabhi limits cross nahi kary......or phir ISLAM is cheez ki poori ijazat deta hai k shadi dono ki raza mandi se hoo......

phir jo log limits mai rehte hoe begher kise reason k lerki ko restrict rakhte hain to wo yaqeenan discrimination show kerte hain gal n boy main jabk ISLAM ne shadi k bary main dono ko kabhi discriminate nahi kara.......

this is infact wrong........per kuch lerkian bhi limits ka khyal nahi rakhtiin n that is very much common now a days per us main qasoor Parents ka bhi hoota hai wo khud enviroment bhi sumtimes provide kerte hain........

KHUSH RAHYEE!

[Masood]

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WAH RAY PAKISTAN TERI QISMAT AUR OOPER SAY TERAY YEH JAWAAN

Aap ki sari reply mein siraf yeh aik baat qabil-e-ghaur hai aur yehi baat ABDULWAHAB per bhi sach sabit hoti hai - bura na maniyey ga :)

[Z.]

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WASALLAM.
SAB SAY PEHLI BAAT TOO YEH HAI KEH
''YEH MUASHRAH BHEE AIK AORAT KA BANAYA HUA HAI WOH IS TERHAN KEH MUAASHRAH AFRAAD SAY BANTA HAI, AIK CHOOTA LARKA YA AIK CHOTI LARKI BARAY HO KER MUASHRAY KA AIK FARD BANTAY HAIN JAB WOH CHOTAY HOTAY HAIN TOO UN KI TERBIYYAT KI ZEMADAARI AORAT KAY ZEMAY HAI IS LIYAE JAISI MAAN WAISI AOLAAD KI BUNYAAD HOTI HAI''
AAJ KAY ''ZALIM MARD'' JO KEH KAL KAY CHOTAY BACHAY THAY
LAZMI UN KI MAOON NAY UN KI TERBIYYAT MAIN KOI KAMI RAKHI HO GI YA TERBIYYAT HE NAHI KI HO GAI.''
AUR JIS AMAARAT KI BUNYAAD HE KAMZOOR HO WOH ZIADA ARSA NAHI KHARI REHTI.ISI TERHAN JIS MARD YA AORAT KI BUNYAADI TERBIYAT HEE SAHI NA HO US SAY KABHI BHEE ACHAY KAM KI TAWAQOH NAHI KI JA SACTI''.
AORAT KI KAISI HATDHARMI HAI KEH
''TERBIYYAT BHEE NAHI KERTI AUR PHIR JAB WOH CHOTA BACHA BINA TERBIYYAT KAY BARA HO KER MARD BAN JATA HAI TOO KEHTI HAI KEH
''MARD ZALIM AUR AORAT MAZLOOM HAI''
DOOSRI BAAT YEH HAI KEH
''ISLAM NAY LARKA AUR LARKI DOONOO KO APNI MARZI SAY SHADI KA IKHTIAR DIYA HAI LAKIN SAATH HEE SAATH WALLI(PARENTS) KA BHEE OPINION KA HISSA RAKHA HAI ,CHAND ASOOL BHEE DIYAY HAIN KEH IN MAIN REH KER SHAADI KI JAY''
LAKIN IS KA MATLAB YEH NAHI KEH
''LARKIAN RAAT KI TAREEQI MAIN APNAY ASHNAOON KAY SAATH GHAROON SAY FARAAR HO JAIN''
MASLA YEH NAHI KEH
''AISA HAMARAY MUASHRAY MAIN KION HO RAHA HAI MASLA YEH HAI KEH IS KA QASOORWAR KON HAI''?
''MAAN YA MUHABBAT''
YA PHIR DONOO.
AIK AUR BAAT APNAY KAHI KEH
''JAB KOI LARKA SHAADI KERTA HAI TOO KOI KUCH NAHI KEHTA LAKIN JAB KOI LARKI SHAADI KERTI HAI TOO SAB BOL PERTAY HAIN''
TOO AAP KIA KEHTAY HAIN KEH
''HUM LARKION KO YONHI RAAT KAY ANDHARON MAIN BAGNAY DAIN''?
AIK BAAT BATAIN ZARA
''WAISAY TOO ISLAM NAMEHRAM LARKAY AUR LARKI KI APAS MAIN BAAT CHEET PER BHEE PABANDI LAGATA HAI TOO KIA YEH DOONOO NAMEHRAM HOTAY HUAY BHEE GHAR SAY BHAAG SACTAY HAIN''?
MAZAY KI BAAT YEH BHE HAI KEH
''AAJ KAL AISAY DRAMAS BAN RAHAY HAIN JIN MAIN HUM KHUD IS QOOM KI BATTION KO YEH SABAK DAITAY HAIN KEH GHER SAY BHAAG JAO LAKIN JAHAN MAAN BAAP KEHTAY HAIN WAHAN SHAADI NA KARO''
WAH RAY PAKISTAN TERI QISMAT AUR OOPER SAY TERAY YEH JAWAAN

KISI INSAAN KI PERWARISH MAIN MAAN KA KIRDAAR AIK ASOOLI HASIYAT RAKHTA HAI JIS PER ETIMMAD KER KAY LOG MUASHRAY KI TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN JAISA KEH MAAN AFRAAD KO JANAM DAITAI HAI AUR UN KI PERWARISH KERTI HAI AUR WOH AFRAAD ACHI PERWARISH KAY NATEEJAY MAIN AIK ZINDA QOOM BANATAY HAIN AUR YEH QOOM APNA MUSHRAH JO KEH ZINDA MUASHRAH HOTA HAI KO TAKHLEEK KERTAY HAIN AGER MAAN NA HO TOO HER TARAF INSAAN NAMA JANWER HOTAY HAIN MAAN KAY BEGAIR HER CHEZ ADHOORI HAI ZINDAGI ,HALAAT,KUSHIAN ,AZAADI,GULAAMI GARZ KEH HER CHEZ JAISA KEH TERBIYAT BHEE .

issi liye kehtey hein "little knowledge is dangerous"...

go and learn true Islam phir tabhi kuch quote karein....

and I am v serious!!!