Mubahisa: Moun Per Tareef Kerna?

[ummid]

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Wow nice Ummid sis!:)

Tareef ik hadd tak kerni chahiye + bar bar nahi kerni chahiye yani repeatition ik insaan ko mutakabbir bana deti hai

WASALAM!:salam:

thanxxxxxx Me Here.........:)
hum ne aap hi ke liye itna bada reply diya tha ke phir kahein koi question na poach lein aap..... .(kidding )
nice to know dear ke aap k humare points acche lage........:lpop:
khush rahiye......:rose
Allahfaiz.....

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Hmmmmmm thiik hai nahi Karin ge khush-amaad:lol
Thx 4 ur comments
KHUSH RAHIYYE!:salam:

Waise aik point jo aap loog bhool rahay ho, me yaad delata chaloon :lpop:

wo yeh ke kisi shareef insaan ko sharminda kerne ka ba-izat zariya bhi tareef he...jub aik shareef insaan ki us ke moun pe bohat ziada tareef ker di jaye to us ka chehra aisa :embarasse ho jata he :khi:

P.S. ub aap yeh nuskha hum pe na aazmaiye ga, kyoon ke hum sharminda honay walon mein se nahi hein

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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jeetay rho jani....:wk, aik he jumla mara magar kia khoob mara :hehe:, waqai tanqeed ki tarha tareef bhi koi koi sehh pata hai, is leay limit zarori hai...:rose

meri jaan murgi ke anday

kahin tu meri tareef to nahi ker raha :embarasse

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Me Here nice topic ...

Amooman aisa hota hai keh insaan feedback mangta hai. Ziyada tar achha hi suneney ka khawahaan hota hai. A clap on shoulder is sometimes a change of mind for that person. Tareef key bhi bohat sarey dhang hotey hain - woh tareef jo aap munh per kar do to magar peeth peechey usi per burai kar do - to uska koi faidah nahin. Encouragement is very valuable and important for many persons. Isi tarha achha aur sacha insan woh hota hai jo tareef aur tanqeed dono aik aisey andaz mein karey aur samney karey keh suneney waley ki dil'aazari na ho (tareef mei bhi dil'aazari ho sakti hai agr us mein tanqeed ki aamezash ho). Lehaza andaz aisa hona chahiye keh dil na dukhey :)

Aap ne aik point uthaya, mein usay thoora wazeh kerta chaloon. Tareef se kisi ki dil aazaari nahi hoti, haan aisa zaroor hota he ke jis ki tareef ki ja rahi ho aur wo yeh samjay ke wo is tareef ka haq-daar nahi to wo us tareef se kuch na kuch disturb zaroor ho ga chahay wo show na bhi karay.

Apne school college life mein mein hameesha prominant raha, school mein 2nd or 3rd standard mein tha to mujay special protocol diya jata tha. Meri mam muj se bohat mohabat kerti thein...Kisi buchay ke parents aatay to meri note-books us buchay ke parents ko dikhatay, meri writting ko bohat pasand kia jata tha. Buchon ke parents mujay bula ke mera interview kerte :khi: meri class mein aik larki thi, us ki writting bohat zabardast thi, meri writting se kahin ziada achi thi, lekin us ki writting pe kisi ki nazar nahi perti thi, aur mujay yeh sooch ker bohat sharmindagi hoti thi yeh sooch ker ke us larki ko ziada exposure nahi diya ja raha jo muj se ziada behtar he.

[Shaim]

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thanxxxxxx Me Here.........:)
hum ne aap hi ke liye itna bada reply diya tha ke phir kahein koi question na poach lein aap..... .(kidding )
nice to know dear ke aap k humare points acche lage........:lpop:
khush rahiye......:rose
Allahfaiz.....

np.com sis!:wk
lollllllllz:D
u bhi always KHUSH RAHIN:)

[Shaim]

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Waise aik point jo aap loog bhool rahay ho, me yaad delata chaloon :lpop:

wo yeh ke kisi shareef insaan ko sharminda kerne ka ba-izat zariya bhi tareef he...jub aik shareef insaan ki us ke moun pe bohat ziada tareef ker di jaye to us ka chehra aisa :embarasse ho jata he :khi:

P.S. ub aap yeh nuskha hum pe na aazmaiye ga, kyoon ke hum sharminda honay walon mein se nahi hein

ji nice point!
waaasey ye point to kise shareef like mujhe yaad ana chahiye tha....:D
ye nuskha shareefon per azmaya jata hai to hum ap per kese azma sakte hain:pagal:
KHUSH RAHIYE

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ji nice point!
waaasey ye point to kise shareef like mujhe yaad ana chahiye tha....:D
ye nuskha shareefon per azmaya jata hai to hum ap per kese azma sakte hain:pagal:
KHUSH RAHIYE

reply kerne se pehlay aap ne yeh kyoon nahi soocha ke aap yeh reply aik musalsal shareef aur lagataar masoom insaan ko ker rahi hein :embarasse

[Muhammad Khalil]

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Thx 4 ur comments!:salam:
Or hum apki moun per tareef kerte hoe kehte hain k KHL bhai ne acche comments diyye:)
KHUSH RAHIYYE!:lpop:

aap b khush rahain:masha

[RulzZ]

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Or ap kahaan bhaag gae hain bhai widout xplaining ur point????

innay saray point k baad bhi mery point ki zarorat hai kia :lpop:, sab he nay achi achi aur sachi sachi batain kaheeN hain, ab main unhain repeat karoon kia , chalo dee dee kay pur zoor israr par aik nai baat keh dayta hoon.. :wk, mery khayal main tareef zaror karni chaheay aur monh par he karni chaheay laikin tareef kartay waqat yeh bhi kehna chaheay kay tumhari yeh salahiyat Allah ki taraf say hain, Allah inhain mazeed taq'viyat day... yani yeh bhi usay bata dayna chaheay kay us ki salahiyat asal main kis ki ata karda hai, is k baad bhi agar woh takab'bur main mubtila hota hai to yeh us ki fan'ni kharabi hai :budhu:

[Shaim]

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reply kerne se pehlay aap ne yeh kyoon nahi soocha ke aap yeh reply aik musalsal shareef aur lagataar masoom insaan ko ker rahi hein :embarasse

soocha tha:hb:
tab hi to u ko karaa

[Shaim]

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aap b khush rahain:masha

Shukerya!:)

[Shaim]

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innay saray point k baad bhi mery point ki zarorat hai kia :lpop:, sab he nay achi achi aur sachi sachi batain kaheeN hain, ab main unhain repeat karoon kia , chalo dee dee kay pur zoor israr par aik nai baat keh dayta hoon.. :wk, mery khayal main tareef zaror karni chaheay aur monh par he karni chaheay laikin tareef kartay waqat yeh bhi kehna chaheay kay tumhari yeh salahiyat Allah ki taraf say hain, Allah inhain mazeed taq'viyat day... yani yeh bhi usay bata dayna chaheay kay us ki salahiyat asal main kis ki ata karda hai, is k baad bhi agar woh takab'bur main mubtila hota hai to yeh us ki fan'ni kharabi hai :budhu:

Her kiseey ka apna nazarya hoota hai na ise liye
maine socha k ho sakta hai ap alag tareeqe se soochte hoon
per u bhi aise hi nikle

Hmm nice addition or shukran bhai
lollllllllz ok:lol

[Masood]

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Aap ne aik point uthaya, mein usay thoora wazeh kerta chaloon. Tareef se kisi ki dil aazaari nahi hoti, haan aisa zaroor hota he ke jis ki tareef ki ja rahi ho aur wo yeh samjay ke wo is tareef ka haq-daar nahi to wo us tareef se kuch na kuch disturb zaroor ho ga chahay wo show na bhi karay.

Apne school college life mein mein hameesha prominant raha, school mein 2nd or 3rd standard mein tha to mujay special protocol diya jata tha. Meri mam muj se bohat mohabat kerti thein...Kisi buchay ke parents aatay to meri note-books us buchay ke parents ko dikhatay, meri writting ko bohat pasand kia jata tha. Buchon ke parents mujay bula ke mera interview kerte :khi: meri class mein aik larki thi, us ki writting bohat zabardast thi, meri writting se kahin ziada achi thi, lekin us ki writting pe kisi ki nazar nahi perti thi, aur mujay yeh sooch ker bohat sharmindagi hoti thi yeh sooch ker ke us larki ko ziada exposure nahi diya ja raha jo muj se ziada behtar he.

Aap ki is baat sey mujhey bhi apney bachpan ki baat yaad aai jab main Pakistan mein abhi parhta tha meri doosri aur teesri jumaat mein handwriting bohat umdah thi aur takhti bohat khoobsurat likha karta tha to zahir hai tareef bhi hoti. Magar meri usatza ko maloom tha keh merey badey bhai ki handwriting aisi aala huwa karti thi jaisey aik aala class ka calligrapher hota hai, to usatza jab meri takhti ki tareef kartey to saath mein merey bhai ka naam zaroor letey aur kehtey keh "... yeh khandan ka asar hai, iska bhai bhi bohat aala likhta hai" - to yeh merey liye double satisfication huwa karti thi...

[tauruskhan]

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Assalam-o-Alikum pegham.net!


Kese hain ap sab?:)
aj ka jo topic hai wo kaafi confusing sa hai
kuch log kehte hain k moun per kise ki tareef nahi kerni chahiye warna wo person takabbur kerne lagta hai
or ye bhi kaha jata hai k jab tak ap ik insaan ki acchi quality ki tareef hi nahi karo ge to ap usko appreciate kese karo ge?

ab yahan pegham per hi dekh lain.........ager hum koi thread dekhin humin wo accha lage per hum usko appreciate nahi karin to mumkin hai k thread writer discourage ho or ainda wo likh hi na sakey....?

tareef hosla bandhaati hai......aagey berhne ki taraf raghib kerti hai......per on the other side mumkin hai ik insaan ko mutakabbir bhi bana de:cc:

to apka kia khiyal hai k kise ki tareef moun per kerni chahiye ya nahi?

Waiting 4 ur replies
KHUSH RAHIYYE:rose
WASALAM!:salam:

Moun per tareef and moun per jhoti tareef main faraq hay
moun per jhoti tareef khushamad hoti hay jo key takabur barhati hay
jab key shai tareef hosla barhati hay

[Shaim]

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Moun per tareef and moun per jhoti tareef main faraq hay
moun per jhoti tareef khushamad hoti hay jo key takabur barhati hay
jab key shai tareef hosla barhati hay

ahaaan:na:
kuch log Muon per tareef kerte hain taakey doosron ko encourage karin
like kise k thread ko appreciate kerna usko encourage kernaa hota hai na bhai?:)
to apke khiyal main sahee tareef mouh per ker deni chahiye ya peeche se?:pagal:
N welcome back bhai:salam: