Mubahisa: Moun Per Tareef Kerna?

[Shaim]

Assalam-o-Alikum pegham.net!


Kese hain ap sab?:)
aj ka jo topic hai wo kaafi confusing sa hai
kuch log kehte hain k moun per kise ki tareef nahi kerni chahiye warna wo person takabbur kerne lagta hai
or ye bhi kaha jata hai k jab tak ap ik insaan ki acchi quality ki tareef hi nahi karo ge to ap usko appreciate kese karo ge?

ab yahan pegham per hi dekh lain.........ager hum koi thread dekhin humin wo accha lage per hum usko appreciate nahi karin to mumkin hai k thread writer discourage ho or ainda wo likh hi na sakey....?

tareef hosla bandhaati hai......aagey berhne ki taraf raghib kerti hai......per on the other side mumkin hai ik insaan ko mutakabbir bhi bana de:cc:

to apka kia khiyal hai k kise ki tareef moun per kerni chahiye ya nahi?

Waiting 4 ur replies
KHUSH RAHIYYE:rose
WASALAM!:salam:

[RulzZ]

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Assalam-o-Alikum pegham.net!

Tareef aur Tanqeed donooN he munh par karni chaheay, jaisay k aap humaisha apnay thread main koi nai baat kehti hain :rose, yeh to ho gai tareef..... aur aap humaisha light color ka he intekhab karti hain yeh ho gai tanqeed :a stick:, kinni baar kaha hai font color dark rakha karo, bhaya ko anna karna hai kia

[Shaim]

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Tareef aur Tanqeed donooN he munh par karni chaheay, jaisay k aap humaisha apnay thread main koi nai baat kehti hain :rose, yeh to ho gai tareef..... aur aap humaisha light color ka he intekhab karti hain yeh ho gai tanqeed :a stick:, kinni baar kaha hai font color dark rakha karo, bhaya ko anna karna hai kia

per kia moun per tareef kerne se next person mutakabbir nahi ho jata???
to wo kia reasons hain jo u ne tareef ko moun per kerne ko prefer kia???

n thx 4 tareef now main mutakabbir ho gae to? :lol
or font colour change ho gaya.......now ur eyes 6/6 hi rahin gi INSHALLAH!:)

[Masood]

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Me Here nice topic ...

Amooman aisa hota hai keh insaan feedback mangta hai. Ziyada tar achha hi suneney ka khawahaan hota hai. A clap on shoulder is sometimes a change of mind for that person. Tareef key bhi bohat sarey dhang hotey hain - woh tareef jo aap munh per kar do to magar peeth peechey usi per burai kar do - to uska koi faidah nahin. Encouragement is very valuable and important for many persons. Isi tarha achha aur sacha insan woh hota hai jo tareef aur tanqeed dono aik aisey andaz mein karey aur samney karey keh suneney waley ki dil'aazari na ho (tareef mei bhi dil'aazari ho sakti hai agr us mein tanqeed ki aamezash ho). Lehaza andaz aisa hona chahiye keh dil na dukhey :)

[zeeshan]

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walikum Salam :rose
tareef muin per kerne bhi chiye aur nehi bhi yeani kie ek had tak kerne chiye baz dfa ham kisi kie tareef kerte ha tu etne ziada ker dete ha kie woh bnda yeh samjne lag jata ha kie yeh kam waqi mere bas mein tha aur koi ker hi nehi sakta tha jis se takubar ata ha tu mere khial mein tareef aur tanqeed dono ko lazmi muin per kerna chiye lekan ek had tak yeh na kie aap ne etne tareef ker dee kie woh apne aap ko kuch samjne lag jaie aur na hi etne ziada tanqeed kie jaie kie woh us bat se hurt ho jaie aur dobra esa na kare :)

[ummid]

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Wasalam.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Tareef karo (itni ke jisay agla hazam ker sakay)...khooshamad na karo

[Muhammad Khalil]

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mery khiyal main tareef huti hee munh per hay...
lakin \
kuch loag aisy huty hain jo apni tareef apny munh per sunnaa chahty hian.aur kuch nahi....
aur jo loag aisy huty hain wo creative mind k nahi huty .wo apny kaam sy tasalee hasel nahi krety aur pher esi liy apni tareef sunana chahty hain
mager jo loag creative huty hian unain kisi kee tareef kee zarorat nahi huti
jaisa k MAIN:mm:

[RulzZ]

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Tareef karo (itni ke jisay agla hazam ker sakay)...khooshamad na karo

jeetay rho jani....:wk, aik he jumla mara magar kia khoob mara :hehe:, waqai tanqeed ki tarha tareef bhi koi koi sehh pata hai, is leay limit zarori hai...:rose

[Shaim]

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Me Here nice topic ...

Amooman aisa hota hai keh insaan feedback mangta hai. Ziyada tar achha hi suneney ka khawahaan hota hai. A clap on shoulder is sometimes a change of mind for that person. Tareef key bhi bohat sarey dhang hotey hain - woh tareef jo aap munh per kar do to magar peeth peechey usi per burai kar do - to uska koi faidah nahin. Encouragement is very valuable and important for many persons. Isi tarha achha aur sacha insan woh hota hai jo tareef aur tanqeed dono aik aisey andaz mein karey aur samney karey keh suneney waley ki dil'aazari na ho (tareef mei bhi dil'aazari ho sakti hai agr us mein tanqeed ki aamezash ho). Lehaza andaz aisa hona chahiye keh dil na dukhey :)

Thx 4 appreciation Bhai!:salam:


Per tareef kese kise ki dil-azaari ker sakti hai?

U wanna say k tareef limits mai hooni chahiye per mouh per hi honi chahiye rite?
Thx 4 opinion
KHUSH RAHIYYE!:lpop:
N waiting 4 my ques!

[Shaim]

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walikum Salam :rose
tareef muin per kerne bhi chiye aur nehi bhi yeani kie ek had tak kerne chiye baz dfa ham kisi kie tareef kerte ha tu etne ziada ker dete ha kie woh bnda yeh samjne lag jata ha kie yeh kam waqi mere bas mein tha aur koi ker hi nehi sakta tha jis se takubar ata ha tu mere khial mein tareef aur tanqeed dono ko lazmi muin per kerna chiye lekan ek had tak yeh na kie aap ne etne tareef ker dee kie woh apne aap ko kuch samjne lag jaie aur na hi etne ziada tanqeed kie jaie kie woh us bat se hurt ho jaie aur dobra esa na kare :)

Hmmmmm:)
Means k boundries ko kise soorat cross nahi kerna chahiye or ap bhi tareef moun per kerne k haqq mai hain!
Kia ap tareef ki hadd ko define ker sakte hain?:cc:

KHUSH RAHIYYE!:lpop:
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[Shaim]

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Wasalam.

Wow nice Ummid sis!:)

Tareef ik hadd tak kerni chahiye + bar bar nahi kerni chahiye yani repeatition ik insaan ko mutakabbir bana deti hai

WASALAM!:salam:

[Shaim]

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Tareef karo (itni ke jisay agla hazam ker sakay)...khooshamad na karo

Hmmmmmm thiik hai nahi Karin ge khush-amaad:lol
Thx 4 ur comments
KHUSH RAHIYYE!:salam:

[Shaim]

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mery khiyal main tareef huti hee munh per hay...
lakin \
kuch loag aisy huty hain jo apni tareef apny munh per sunnaa chahty hian.aur kuch nahi....
aur jo loag aisy huty hain wo creative mind k nahi huty .wo apny kaam sy tasalee hasel nahi krety aur pher esi liy apni tareef sunana chahty hain
mager jo loag creative huty hian unain kisi kee tareef kee zarorat nahi huti
jaisa k MAIN:mm:

Thx 4 ur comments!:salam:
Or hum apki moun per tareef kerte hoe kehte hain k KHL bhai ne acche comments diyye:)
KHUSH RAHIYYE!:lpop:

[Shaim]

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jeetay rho jani....:wk, aik he jumla mara magar kia khoob mara :hehe:, waqai tanqeed ki tarha tareef bhi koi koi sehh pata hai, is leay limit zarori hai...:rose

Or ap kahaan bhaag gae hain bhai widout xplaining ur point????