Mubahisa: ~!~ Dosri Shadi Aur Hamara Moashra~!~

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[Muhammad Khalil]

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hahahah aabid yaar tum raja sahib kee baat ker rahy hu.....:)
Yaar waisy aik baat hay...ager banda es umer main Banda...Koi enjoy ker liy shadi kerna chahta hu to pher....Just for enjoy..na k koi islamic soch zehan main hu??

[aabi2cool]

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hahahah aabid yaar tum raja sahib kee baat ker rahy hu.....:)
Yaar waisy aik baat hay...ager banda es umer main Banda...Koi enjoy ker liy shadi kerna chahta hu to pher....Just for enjoy..na k koi islamic soch zehan main hu??

Aap pehly mujh ko ye bataiye k just injoy karna kia mutliqan bura amal hy?:wk

[Shaim]

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Walikum Assalam!




Or girl ki yahi feelings ka ehsaas aas paroos k logon ko hota hai to wo DOOSRI SHAADI ko ghalt consider kerte hain.


Ik bewa aurat ho 2/3 bachon k sath to mard us se dosri shadi nahi karey ga usko 18/22 yrs ki girl hi q chahiye hooti hai shadi k liye?




NICE DISCUSSION:thmbup: :thmbup:
KEEP SHARING & CARRY ON:salam:

WASALAM!

[zeeshan]

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hmmm ap ne ek acha sawal kiya ha:) hamre haaa kuch rasm-o-rawaj ese ha jo purane zamane se chle arehe ha or un ko es nazriye se dekha nehi jata kie Islam kiya kehta ha..bas agr hamre baro ne keh diya kie yeh galt ha tu galt ha es bat per log amal kerte ha...
hamre mashre mein ek biwi kie hote howe dosre shadi amoman tab kie jate ha jab bache kie khawish ho or ziada ter yehi smja jata ha kie es mein sra sar aurat kie ghalti ha or us ko khud hi pehle ham zor dete ha kie dosre shadi ker lo or yehi shadi jab koi dosra kerta ha tu wohi log buriya khul kie kerte ha...
mere zehan mein jo ek bat aae ha woh bhi shair ker do ham mein se baz log kehte ha kie Islam ne 4 shadi kie ejazt dee ha or ham char ker sakte ha chlo char na kare tu doo kare tu mere bahi hame Islam kie yeh bat tu nazer aa gaie kie 4 shadi kie ejazat ha baqi ka Islam kon samje ga... kiya baqi ka Islam kisi or kie liye ha ?? ya kiya Islam srif apne pasnd ka ha? jo dil ko ache lage woh Islam ha baqi ko choro ????


yehi kaho ga kie hamre ankho mein patii bnde howe ha or ham kuch nehi dekh sakte :)

[zeeshan]

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Walikum Assalam!




Or girl ki yahi feelings ka ehsaas aas paroos k logon ko hota hai to wo DOOSRI SHAADI ko ghalt consider kerte hain.


Ik bewa aurat ho 2/3 bachon k sath to mard us se dosri shadi nahi karey ga usko 18/22 yrs ki girl hi q chahiye hooti hai shadi k liye?




NICE DISCUSSION:thmbup: :thmbup:
KEEP SHARING & CARRY ON:salam:

WASALAM!

ap ne sehe kaha kie dosre shadi kerne se ek aurat kie liye sab kuch khtam ho jata ha.... lekan dosre bat per bhi zara gor kiejeye kiya dosre shadi kerane mein ek aurat ka hi hath nehi hota ??? chahe woh koi bhi wajh ho..hamre apne hi hame force kerte ha kie dosre shadi kero us mein apne hi bhn or maa hote ha ?? kiya us waqt un ko yeh khial nehi ata kie yeh bhi ek aurat ha.... fir woh esa kue kerte ha ???
kue pehle force kerte ha dosre shadi ka fir bad mein use bura smja jata ha kue ?

[Shaim]

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ap ne sehe kaha kie dosre shadi kerne se ek aurat kie liye sab kuch khtam ho jata ha.... lekan dosre bat per bhi zara gor kiejeye kiya dosre shadi kerane mein ek aurat ka hi hath nehi hota ??? chahe woh koi bhi wajh ho..hamre apne hi hame force kerte ha kie dosre shadi kero us mein apne hi bhn or maa hote ha ?? kiya us waqt un ko yeh khial nehi ata kie yeh bhi ek aurat ha.... fir woh esa kue kerte ha ???
kue pehle force kerte ha dosre shadi ka fir bad mein use bura smja jata ha kue ?

ik lerki jo shadi ho ker jaati hai ager wo ye sooche k wo bus ik hi person k liye ja rahi hai to ye ghalt soch hai......beshak specifically wo ik person k liye hi jaati hai per husband ki family bhi uskey liye imp honi chahiye jab wo husband ki family ko apni family samjhey gi un se accha bartao karey gi to koi SAAS ya NAAND ya JITHAANI ya DEWRAANI ya koi or kabhi uskey husband ko force nahi karein gi......

per chahey kuch bhi ho kabhi apne bete ya bhai ko dosri shadi k liye force nahi kerna chahiye per ager MOM ya BEHEN force karin bhi to boy ko aqal se kam lena chahiye.......

jo BAHO thiik se rehti hai susraal main wahan koi prob nahi hoota
per ik lerki sicere bhi ho.....phir bhi lerka khud apni marzi se doosri shadi ker ley to ye buhaat teasing hai

[zeeshan]

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ik lerki jo shadi ho ker jaati hai ager wo ye sooche k wo bus ik hi person k liye ja rahi hai to ye ghalt soch hai......beshak specifically wo ik person k liye hi jaati hai per husband ki family bhi uskey liye imp honi chahiye jab wo husband ki family ko apni family samjhey gi un se accha bartao karey gi to koi SAAS ya NAAND ya JITHAANI ya DEWRAANI ya koi or kabhi uskey husband ko force nahi karein gi......

per chahey kuch bhi ho kabhi apne bete ya bhai ko dosri shadi k liye force nahi kerna chahiye per ager MOM ya BEHEN force karin bhi to boy ko aqal se kam lena chahiye.......

jo BAHO thiik se rehti hai susraal main wahan koi prob nahi hoota
per ik lerki sicere bhi ho.....phir bhi lerka khud apni marzi se doosri shadi ker ley to ye buhaat teasing hai

aap kie bat blkl theek ha.. lekan agr esa ho tu fir hamre mashre mein yeh jhgre hi khtam ho jaie...agr ek larkie shadi kie bad apne susral mein sehe rehte ha tu use kisi or trh se tang kiya jata ha.. jese kie jahiz kue kam laie es kie elwa bhi bht sare bate hote ha...
asl swal tu yehi ha na kie mard ek aurt kie hote howe bhi dosre shadi kue kerta ha ?? agr pehle biwi kie hote howe bhi shadi kere tu yeh galt ha..lekan jesa kie ap ne kaha kie agr koi bewa se kare tu yeh ache bat ha us bat ko hamre mashre mein bht bura samja jata ha...mein tu yehi kaho ga kie mard kie dosre shadi mein ek aurat ka bhi hath hota ha..lekan jo log yeh keh ker dosre shadi kerte ha kie Islam ne ejazt de ha tu un per sewaie afsos kie or kuch nehi kaha ja sakta..

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Very nice topic aabi :thmbup:

Hum loogon mein kuch kabahatein yeh hein ke hum loogon islaam se ziada moaashra discuss kerte hein. Halan'ke aisa nahi hona chahiye. Nikkah aik mohar he, jo ke aap ke liye pehlay se aik haraam cheez ko aap per halaal karaar de deti he. Aap ke haan aik 60 saala bazurg ne aik 40 saala bewa se shadi ki to meri nazar mein us ne bohat acha kia. Yeh aik tarah ki mutual benificial deal he, yani doono ka faida he. awal yeh ke doono aik doosray ka burhapay mein sahara bun gaye aur doosra bewa aurat ko aik sahara mil gaya aur us shaks ki jaidaad mein hisay daar bun gai aur usay kisi had tak financial security mil gai.

Jesa ke Khalil ne nukta uthaya ke ager koi bunda enjoy ke liye shadi kerna chahta he to...mujay khalil ki is na-pukhta baat per hasi aati he. Mein us se yeh poochna chahta hoon ke kia islam ne enjoy kerne pe mana fermaya he. Kuch hadood-o-kayood ka khyaal rakha jaye to insaan enjoy karay jo bhi karay kisi ko kia. Think rashionally, aaj kul kitnay loog shadi farz samaj ke kerte hein aur kitnay loog enjoyment ke liye kerte hein...yani kitnay loogon ke zehan mein yeh hota he ke wo shadi ke baad enjoy karein ge...i think 99 percent. is mein ghalat baat bhi kuch nahi, yeh islaami fareeza aur insaani haq he.

Ager aik shaks apni do bewiyoon se insaaf ker sakta he...insaaf waisa jese islaam ne bataya he to mera nahi khyaal ke doosri shadi kerne mein koi harg he

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Aap ne bohat hi zabardast nukta uthaya mein aap ko is baat ka jawaab zaroor dena chahon ga. Aap mujay yeh bataiye ke kuch larkiyaan prostitution mein kyoon aa jati hein. Is ki bazahir do wajoohaat mere zehan mein aati hein...awal paisa...dooim jinsi hawas.

Ub aap yeh kahein gi ke larkiyaan halaat se majboor ho jati hein...un ke paas is ke ilawa koi aur hal nahi rehta to bhi aap ki baat maan lete hein. Majboor larkiyaan prositute banein, kuch kamaya lekin wo phir bhi prostitute rahein. laalach aur hawas ki koi na koi had to honi hi chahiye ke nahi honi chahiye.

Aik baat aap se yeh poochna chahta hoon ke kitni larkiyaan hein jo is dhanday mein mulawis hein aur kitni larkiyaan hein jo is dhanday se bahir nikalna chahti hein...i think un ki taadaas bohat rare ho gi...aur waise bhi jo larkiyaan prositute hoti hein wo apna zameer maar chuki hoti hein...aur zameer aik wahid cheez he jo aik jandar jism ko insaan banata he...

Aik hakeekat yeh bhi he ke is tarah ki lut jis larki ko per jaye wo churanay se nahi choot'ti..aur bhi is ke kai pehlu hein...koon koon sa pehlu dekhna chahein gi.

[ASAD]

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Aap pehly mujh ko ye bataiye k just injoy karna kia mutliqan bura amal hy?:wk

Aabi bhai shaid ap khalil ka matlab nae samjy.. enjoy mean sirf Hawas k liya.. os is kaam main Islami khukam ko dhal bana liya.. Dosre shadi karny sey pehly or dosre shadi karny k baad Islam kia kehta hay os ko to koee dekhta he nae.. yah to phir har kaam islami hukam ke teht hon phir to koee problem nae .. baat hamry Moashry ke ho rahe hay ( aik shohar ke pehly bewe jo k Nihayt sadhi. sharif..or gharyloo orat hy ) os ka shohar os per aik dosre orat passand karta hay jo k os ko dekhny main ache lage os ke seerat kia hay chal chalan.. dos,nt mater.... bas sirf yeh dekha k islam dosre shadi ke ijazt deta hy.. Islam to or b bohat kuch karny or na karny ka khukam deta hy.... or yeh kahan likha hy k ager kise ney 2 yah 4 shadiyan na keen to wo Janat main nae ja saky ga............. haan ager koe ase reason ho jate hay jiss per ap ke pehle wife razamand hay to phir theek hy....

haan ager pehly wife foot ho jaya to phir to main nae samjta ke koee esy bura samjta ho......

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Aabi bhai shaid ap khalil ka matlab nae samjy.. enjoy mean sirf Hawas k liya.. os is kaam main Islami khukam ko dhal bana liya.. Dosre shadi karny sey pehly or dosre shadi karny k baad Islam kia kehta hay os ko to koee dekhta he nae.. yah to phir har kaam islami hukam ke teht hon phir to koee problem nae .. baat hamry Moashry ke ho rahe hay ( aik shohar ke pehly bewe jo k Nihayt sadhi. sharif..or gharyloo orat hy ) os ka shohar os per aik dosre orat passand karta hay jo k os ko dekhny main ache lage os ke seerat kia hay chal chalan.. dos,nt mater.... bas sirf yeh dekha k islam dosre shadi ke ijazt deta hy.. Islam to or b bohat kuch karny or na karny ka khukam deta hy.... or yeh kahan likha hy k ager kise ney 2 yah 4 shadiyan na keen to wo Janat main nae ja saky ga............. haan ager koe ase reason ho jate hay jiss per ap ke pehle wife razamand hay to phir theek hy....

haan ager pehly wife foot ho jaya to phir to main nae samjta ke koee esy bura samjta ho......

Yeh tum ne khud likha he :khi:

Tumhari saari baatein sahi maan leta hoon...aik baat ka jawaab do, suppose insaan ki hawas puri nahi hoti, aur wo gair aurat ki taraf rujhaan rakhta he. Is surat mein tum kia kaho gi, ke wo kabi shadi na karay. Apne nafs ko control kerna bohat asaan nahi...ager wo koi gunnah kerne ka soochay to kia is se acha yeh na ho ga ke wo doosri shadi ker le aur aik ba-zaabta toor per apni hawas puri kerta rahay.

Meri baat bohat ajeeb si lagi ho gi, lekin bhai gunah kerne se to yeh baher-haal behtar he, aur is per wo ager doono biwiyoon ke saath insaaf ker pata he to wo apni doosri shadi ko justify bhi ker jaye ga.

[ASAD]

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Yeh tum ne khud likha he :khi:

Tumhari saari baatein sahi maan leta hoon...aik baat ka jawaab do, suppose insaan ki hawas puri nahi hoti, aur wo gair aurat ki taraf rujhaan rakhta he. Is surat mein tum kia kaho gi, ke wo kabi shadi na karay. Apne nafs ko control kerna bohat asaan nahi...ager wo koi gunnah kerne ka soochay to kia is se acha yeh na ho ga ke wo doosri shadi ker le aur aik ba-zaabta toor per apni hawas puri kerta rahay.

Meri baat bohat ajeeb si lagi ho gi, lekin bhai gunah kerne se to yeh baher-haal behtar he, aur is per wo ager doono biwiyoon ke saath insaaf ker pata he to wo apni doosri shadi ko justify bhi ker jaye ga.

. baat dosre shadi ke ho rahe hy.or yahe mera point tha. ager koe insaan apne pehle bewe ke hoty howy dosre orat per ase negah dalta hay.. or hawas pore karny k liya shadi ker ley.. is tara wo kitne shadiaan kary ga..?
or is baat ki kia qarunty hy ke dosre shadi karny ke baad wo kisee 3rd orat ko be asy he apne wife banany k liya Nahe sochy ga.. Sorry to say isee baat ko main ney or khalil ney NOTE kia hay..
haan ager ko beshara orat hay... koe yateem larki hay.. to yeh reason kuch munasib hay..

[Shaim]

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Aap ne bohat hi zabardast nukta uthaya mein aap ko is baat ka jawaab zaroor dena chahon ga. Aap mujay yeh bataiye ke kuch larkiyaan prostitution mein kyoon aa jati hein. Is ki bazahir do wajoohaat mere zehan mein aati hein...awal paisa...dooim jinsi hawas.

Ub aap yeh kahein gi ke larkiyaan halaat se majboor ho jati hein...un ke paas is ke ilawa koi aur hal nahi rehta to bhi aap ki baat maan lete hein. Majboor larkiyaan prositute banein, kuch kamaya lekin wo phir bhi prostitute rahein. laalach aur hawas ki koi na koi had to honi hi chahiye ke nahi honi chahiye.

Aik baat aap se yeh poochna chahta hoon ke kitni larkiyaan hein jo is dhanday mein mulawis hein aur kitni larkiyaan hein jo is dhanday se bahir nikalna chahti hein...i think un ki taadaas bohat rare ho gi...aur waise bhi jo larkiyaan prositute hoti hein wo apna zameer maar chuki hoti hein...aur zameer aik wahid cheez he jo aik jandar jism ko insaan banata he...

Aik hakeekat yeh bhi he ke is tarah ki lut jis larki ko per jaye wo churanay se nahi choot'ti..aur bhi is ke kai pehlu hein...koon koon sa pehlu dekhna chahein gi.

Kese wo is profession se chuutkaraa hasiil kariin?

[Shaim]

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aap kie bat blkl theek ha.. lekan agr esa ho tu fir hamre mashre mein yeh jhgre hi khtam ho jaie...agr ek larkie shadi kie bad apne susral mein sehe rehte ha tu use kisi or trh se tang kiya jata ha.. jese kie jahiz kue kam laie es kie elwa bhi bht sare bate hote ha...
asl swal tu yehi ha na kie mard ek aurt kie hote howe bhi dosre shadi kue kerta ha ?? agr pehle biwi kie hote howe bhi shadi kere tu yeh galt ha..lekan jesa kie ap ne kaha kie agr koi bewa se kare tu yeh ache bat ha us bat ko hamre mashre mein bht bura samja jata ha...mein tu yehi kaho ga kie mard kie dosre shadi mein ek aurat ka bhi hath hota ha..lekan jo log yeh keh ker dosre shadi kerte ha kie Islam ne ejazt de ha tu un per sewaie afsos kie or kuch nehi kaha ja sakta..

hamaara muash'ra kab kise acchi cheez ko encourage kerta hai?:)
kerna wahii chahiye jis se ap mut'main hoon per dil ki tasalli se imp ye hai k pehle ye judge kerna chahiye k jis cheez se hamare dil ko tasalli mil rahi hai kia woo cheez ISLAM k point of view se thiik hai.......ager sahee ho to continue kariin otherwise rokk jain or ager sahee ho to MUASH'RE ko concern kerne ki kia zaroorat hai??

ye wo muash'ra hai jo ager shaadi per mehndi na ki jai to BURA MANAATA HAI
ager kise k marne per QUL na kiyye jain jo k ISLAM main koi concept nahi to BURA MANAATA hai......yanii her sahee cheez se rookne wala muashra.......or her tarah se keerey nikaalne wala muashra.....
hum kabhi is muashre ko khush nahii ker sakte.......ye her haal main baatin banata hai so......wahi karin jo ISLAM main hai or jo apka dil karey......do not care of those who r themselve wrong!

n yes......jab ik mard sincere n caring wife ko thukra ker doosri shaadi kerne ka sochta hai to buhat takleef hooti hai
KHUSH RAHIYYE