Shaadi ke baad ??

['SamRazi']

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

Seedhi baat he, ager loog insaaf kerna seekh jaein ge to koi masla nahi rahay ga...ager koi apnay maan baap se acha salook karay ga wo apne buchon se bhi aisi ummid ker sakay ga...ager koi yeh baat samaj jaye ga to her koi sahi maanon mein rishtoon ki pehchaan aur kadar ker sakay ga.

kuljuk nahi kerjuk he yeh, yaan din ko de aur raat le
kya khoob sooda nakad he, is haath de us haath le

agreed

[Masood]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

maan baap ki khidmat, burhapey mei oun ki zarorton ka khayal kerna talkh hai ???? maan baap ka haq buhut bari demand hai ???? to phir humari paidaish, dekh bhal,behter perwarish, zindagi ka her sukh, kya tha ....... ofcourse hum logo ki nazar mei wo sab maan baap ka farz aur humara haq tha aur jab bari humarey farz aur maan baap ke haq ki aati hai to zamana badal jata hai ......... maan baap ek bojh lagney lagtey hain ..... hate the ppl who think this way .......... aap sab se kehti hoon kal ko aap sab ki aulad ho gi, wo shadi ek qabil ho gi to aap se kahey gi, Mama papa you have become really demanding now, and we cant take it any more then let us leave our live with peace then ?????

kuch kehney kerne se pehley soch lena chahiyeh

:tauba aap ney shayid meri baat ko bilkul bhi samajhney ki koshish nahin ki saima. Talkhi sey murad meri yehi to thi keh woh maan jo apni jaan per khail ker janam deti hai, aur phir sari umer saaibaan ki tarha hifazat karti hai, khud bhooki rehti hai magar aulad key munh mein nawala daalti hai, woh baap jo sari umer apney bachon key liye tag-o-do mein laga rehta hai, jab unki khidmat ka moqa aata hai to hamein dushwari honey lagti hai keh hamari apni life hai. Ham apni biviyon aur shohron key saath khush to ho jatey hain magar waldein key us haq ko bhool jatey hain jo talakh lagta hai. Saheeh Bukhari mein aik hadees raqqam hai keh waldein agar apney betey ko kahein keh apni bivi ko talaq dey do, bghair koi wajah key, to betey per farz hai keh woh apni bivi ko talaq dey dey. Yeh woh talk haq tha jiski taraf mera ishara tha.

['SamRazi']

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

:tauba aap ney shayid meri baat ko bilkul bhi samajhney ki koshish nahin ki saima. Talkhi sey murad meri yehi to thi keh woh maan jo apni jaan per khail ker janam deti hai, aur phir sari umer saaibaan ki tarha hifazat karti hai, khud bhooki rehti hai magar aulad key munh mein nawala daalti hai, woh baap jo sari umer apney bachon key liye tag-o-do mein laga rehta hai, jab unki khidmat ka moqa aata hai to hamein dushwari honey lagti hai keh hamari apni life hai. Ham apni biviyon aur shohron key saath khush to ho jatey hain magar waldein key us haq ko bhool jatey hain jo talakh lagta hai. Saheeh Bukhari mein aik hadees raqqam hai keh waldein agar apney betey ko kahein keh apni bivi ko talaq dey do, bghair koi wajah key, to betey per farz hai keh woh apni bivi ko talaq dey dey. Yeh woh talk haq tha jiski taraf mera ishara tha.

wht ever it is ...it cant be defined as "Talkh" :na:

[Masood]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

wht ever it is ...it cant be defined as "Talkh" :na:

hmm to phir aap kya kahein gi? Jab aulad yeh jantey huwey bhi keh waldein key haqooq ada karna ibadat sey behtar hai magar iskey bawajood us sey "naak charhatey" hon to phir ussey kya kahein gey? Talk hi to kahein gey....

['SamRazi']

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

hmm to phir aap kya kahein gi? Jab aulad yeh jantey huwey bhi keh waldein key haqooq ada karna ibadat sey behtar hai magar iskey bawajood us sey "naak charhatey" hon to phir ussey kya kahein gey? Talk hi to kahein gey....

issey ous aulad ki badbakhti kahein gai

[Masood]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

issey ous aulad ki badbakhti kahein gai

That much we agree - jissey woh talkhi samajhtey hain woh dar'haqeeqat unki bad'bakhti hai.

[Z.]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

:tauba

[arman007]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

shadi ke baad couple ko faamily(parents/everybody) ke saath rehna chahye

[notorious gujjar]

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

parents kay saath