Shaadi ke baad ??

['SamRazi']

Re: Shaadi ke baad ??

ahaan... DEPENDS... hmmm :cc:
there is no-such-attractive-charm in this relation... seems like :khi:
see ya ne-ways... :) :lpop:

Again as I said........... it depends on u u can fine chamr, attraction, and may be much more if you want to ........ when relations broke its not the relation which was wrong it was you who couldn't keep it right.

[tauseeftariq]

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Joint family...voted


1.maan aur baap ko tu chodnain ka koi sawal pedaa hi nahin hotaa.. hum sari
umer bhi un ke khidmat kerin tu baat wohi ho gi
'haq tu yeh hai ke haq adaa na howa'


2.baqi family ke bary mein depend kertaa hai kesy loog hain... per agher
thodi sey bardasht pedaa ker li jay tu sub mil ker reh sakty hain

3.for me.. zindagi mein sub sey iham Rishty hain...soo.. Rishty nebana zaroori
hai .. aur app ko as sey bhut khushi milti hai.. aur bhut sey logon ka piyar bhi

[.]

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aik baat kehna chaoun gee kay aksar logoo kay zehnoun main yeh tasawour hai kay separate family ka maltab maa baap ko choor deena hai ...
separate family main reh kar bhi maa baap or rishtadaroun say nata rehta hi hai .....saray rishtay choor deena ko separate family say mansoob karna sahi nahi hai ..

[Z.]

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voted

shaadi ke ba'ad couple ko separate aik hi city main rehna chahye?

and agreed with Aanchal key separate rehney ka ye hergiz matlab nahi hai key aap her aik sey cutoff ho jao

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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and i agree with u

[tauruskhan]

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aik baat kehna chaoun gee kay aksar logoo kay zehnoun main yeh tasawour hai kay separate family ka maltab maa baap ko choor deena hai ...
separate family main reh kar bhi maa baap or rishtadaroun say nata rehta hi hai .....saray rishtay choor deena ko separate family say mansoob karna sahi nahi hai ..

yeh kia kam hay key waldein ko chor ker alag gher main rehnay lageen
and un ki mohabat sirf dramai reh jaey
rakh rakhaoo wali
is sorat main relations sirf formality ban ker rah jatey haan

[.]

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yeh kia kam hay key waldein ko chor ker alag gher main rehnay lageen
and un ki mohabat sirf dramai reh jaey
rakh rakhaoo wali
is sorat main relations sirf formality ban ker rah jatey haan

Na woh muhabbat formality nahi hoti ..

deekhian jin ko parents say muhabbat nahi hoti , Ihtrama nahi kartay un ka woh joint family main reh kar bhi nahi kar saktay ....:rose

['SamRazi']

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yeh kia kam hay key waldein ko chor ker alag gher main rehnay lageen
and un ki mohabat sirf dramai reh jaey
rakh rakhaoo wali
is sorat main relations sirf formality ban ker rah jatey haan

strongly agreed ............. ab jin parents ka sirf ek hi baita aur baiti ho, baita shadi ke baad biwi ke sath ousi sheher mei sahi alga rehney lagey aur baiti bhi shadi ke baad apney ghar chali jayeh to yeh kaisi aqalmandi hai :donno: ....

maan letey hain kisi ka sirf ek hi nahi 2 bhi hon to shadi ker ke dono alag alag ghar mei rahein, ghar to bikher sa gaya na ??? boorhey maan baap alag ghar mei, yeh kaisi tukk hai , aur phir ounhin apni choti choti zarorton ke liyeh kabhi baitey kabho bahoo se rabta keren ki zaroorat paish aayeh ........ yeh kaisey rishtey yaan yeh kaisa pyar huwa :tauba

yeh to wo baat huwi na, hum aap se dour nahi hona chahtey (magar sath bhi nahi rehna chahtey) :tauba

I really wont support all that ....

[Z.]

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strongly agreed ............. ab jin parents ka sirf ek hi baita aur baiti ho, baita shadi ke baad biwi ke sath ousi sheher mei sahi alga rehney lagey aur baiti bhi shadi ke baad apney ghar chali jayeh to yeh kaisi aqalmandi hai :donno: ....

maan letey hain kisi ka sirf ek hi nahi 2 bhi hon to shadi ker ke dono alag alag ghar mei rahein, ghar to bikher sa gaya na ??? boorhey maan baap alag ghar mei, yeh kaisi tukk hai , aur phir ounhin apni choti choti zarorton ke liyeh kabhi baitey kabho bahoo se rabta keren ki zaroorat paish aayeh ........ yeh kaisey rishtey yaan yeh kaisa pyar huwa :tauba

yeh to wo baat huwi na, hum aap se dour nahi hona chahtey (magar sath bhi nahi rehna chahtey) :tauba

I really wont support all that ....

[.]

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strongly agreed ............. ab jin parents ka sirf ek hi baita aur baiti ho, baita shadi ke baad biwi ke sath ousi sheher mei sahi alga rehney lagey aur baiti bhi shadi ke baad apney ghar chali jayeh to yeh kaisi aqalmandi hai :donno: ....

maan letey hain kisi ka sirf ek hi nahi 2 bhi hon to shadi ker ke dono alag alag ghar mei rahein, ghar to bikher sa gaya na ??? boorhey maan baap alag ghar mei, yeh kaisi tukk hai , aur phir ounhin apni choti choti zarorton ke liyeh kabhi baitey kabho bahoo se rabta keren ki zaroorat paish aayeh ........ yeh kaisey rishtey yaan yeh kaisa pyar huwa :tauba

yeh to wo baat huwi na, hum aap se dour nahi hona chahtey (magar sath bhi nahi rehna chahtey) :tauba

I really wont support all that ....

aray baba jab maa baap ka koi na hoo tab aapp usay choor jaoo yeh alag baat hai ....har aik ki family situation aisi nahi hoti .....aik ghar main itniiiii bari family hoo bachoun kay bachay or un kay bachay sab aik hi ghar main ghar aap ko choota bhi par jaye aap ki zaroreyaat key leye nakafi hoo or aap yehi suchtay rahoo bas ji joint family main hi rehna hai to kia yeh theek hai ? hoo sakta hai woh jaga aisi hoo jahan aap ka carrer na ban raha hoo job kay leye aap ko kisi or shehar ya mulk jana parey to kia tab kia karain gay ? :D:

['SamRazi']

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aray baba jab maa baap ka koi na hoo tab aapp usay choor jaoo yeh alag baat hai ....har aik ki family situation aisi nahi hoti .....aik ghar main itniiiii bari family hoo bachoun kay bachay or un kay bachay sab aik hi ghar main ghar aap ko choota bhi par jaye aap ki zaroreyaat key leye nakafi hoo or aap yehi suchtay rahoo bas ji joint family main hi rehna hai to kia yeh theek hai ? hoo sakta hai woh jaga aisi hoo jahan aap ka carrer na ban raha hoo job kay leye aap ko kisi or shehar ya mulk jana parey to kia tab kia karain gay ? :D:

aanchal mei ne to yeh baat starting mei kahi thi ....... ek ager joint family already itni bari ho to behter hai alag rehna ........ aru jo reasons tum btaa rahi ho wo bhi theikh hai .... magar jahan yeh baat aaj kal humarey mulk mei ab fashion ban chuki hai mei ous ke khilaf hoon .......

['SamRazi']

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kya shadi ke baad ek mard ki zimedari sirf biwi bacho tak mehdood reh jati hai ?????? kya koi maan baap kabhi Dil se chahey ga ke ous ki aulad ousi sheher mei ho ker bhi oun ki nazron se dour ho ???? yeh kaisi soch hai jo aaj kal hum log apna rahey hain .. kya yeh khudgarzi ko indicate nahi kerta ??

[Masood]

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kya shadi ke baad ek mard ki zimedari sirf biwi bacho tak mehdood reh jati hai ?????? kya koi maan baap kabhi Dil se chahey ga ke ous ki aulad ousi sheher mei ho ker bhi oun ki nazron se dour ho ???? yeh kaisi soch hai jo aaj kal hum log apna rahey hain .. kya yeh khudgarzi ko indicate nahi kerta ??

Saima aap ki soch drust hai magar aaj kal key daur mein masla yeh hai keh aksar log akela rehna ziyada pasand kartey hain, aur yeh aik talakh haqeeqat hai keh aksar larkiyan apna ghar chahti hain. Lekin jahan tak waldein ka haq hai to woh to bohat hi badi demand karta hai, jo bohat talkh bhi hai. I still think keh in almost every aspect of a married life compromising is a need. Agar waldein ijazat ho to elahda ghar mein rehney sey koi farq nahin parta zaroorat is baat ki hai keh waldein sey rabta rahey... Aik sach to yeh hai keh insaan apnon sey door nahin ho sakta hai un sey jaisey bhi rabta rehta hai.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Saima aap ki soch drust hai magar aaj kal key daur mein masla yeh hai keh aksar log akela rehna ziyada pasand kartey hain, aur yeh aik talakh haqeeqat hai keh aksar larkiyan apna ghar chahti hain. Lekin jahan tak waldein ka haq hai to woh to bohat hi badi demand karta hai, jo bohat talkh bhi hai. I still think keh in almost every aspect of a married life compromising is a need. Agar waldein ijazat ho to elahda ghar mein rehney sey koi farq nahin parta zaroorat is baat ki hai keh waldein sey rabta rahey... Aik sach to yeh hai keh insaan apnon sey door nahin ho sakta hai un sey jaisey bhi rabta rehta hai.

Seedhi baat he, ager loog insaaf kerna seekh jaein ge to koi masla nahi rahay ga...ager koi apnay maan baap se acha salook karay ga wo apne buchon se bhi aisi ummid ker sakay ga...ager koi yeh baat samaj jaye ga to her koi sahi maanon mein rishtoon ki pehchaan aur kadar ker sakay ga.

kuljuk nahi kerjuk he yeh, yaan din ko de aur raat le
kya khoob sooda nakad he, is haath de us haath le

['SamRazi']

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Saima aap ki soch drust hai magar aaj kal key daur mein masla yeh hai keh aksar log akela rehna ziyada pasand kartey hain, aur yeh aik talakh haqeeqat hai keh aksar larkiyan apna ghar chahti hain. Lekin jahan tak waldein ka haq hai to woh to bohat hi badi demand karta hai, jo bohat talkh bhi hai. I still think keh in almost every aspect of a married life compromising is a need. Agar waldein ijazat ho to elahda ghar mein rehney sey koi farq nahin parta zaroorat is baat ki hai keh waldein sey rabta rahey... Aik sach to yeh hai keh insaan apnon sey door nahin ho sakta hai un sey jaisey bhi rabta rehta hai.

maan baap ki khidmat, burhapey mei oun ki zarorton ka khayal kerna talkh hai ???? maan baap ka haq buhut bari demand hai ???? to phir humari paidaish, dekh bhal,behter perwarish, zindagi ka her sukh, kya tha ....... ofcourse hum logo ki nazar mei wo sab maan baap ka farz aur humara haq tha aur jab bari humarey farz aur maan baap ke haq ki aati hai to zamana badal jata hai ......... maan baap ek bojh lagney lagtey hain ..... hate the ppl who think this way .......... aap sab se kehti hoon kal ko aap sab ki aulad ho gi, wo shadi ek qabil ho gi to aap se kahey gi, Mama papa you have become really demanding now, and we cant take it any more then let us leave our live with peace then ?????

kuch kehney kerne se pehley soch lena chahiyeh