Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Ummid & Aania,

Aap doono ke replies perhay...lambi behas ke mood mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon...sirf itna kahoon ga ke kuch percentage gareelu auratoon ki mazloom zaroor he...unhein un ke legal rights nahi mil rahay...which is due to lack of awareness and knowledge. Kuch percentage aisi bhi hein jo bohat typical life spend kerne ke bawajood reject ker di jati hein...Aik baat aap ko zehan nasheen zaroor kerni chahiye...ke shadi ke baad male hi dominent hota he...ager aik aurat yeh tay ker le ke wo apnay hubby ki baat maan ker chalay gi to wo bohat sari hassels se buch jati he...and in response husband bhi aisi wife ko apni good book mein rakhta he...aur you aik mutual understanding kaim ho jati he aur marital life aik ideal life bun jati he.

Jahan aap aurat ki zaroorat se ziada liberty aur freedom ki baat kerti hein to i am sorry to say mein is ke haq mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon :) merd aur aurat ki nature mein yahan faraq paya jata he...unlike males, females are more likely to approach the odd things...yeh aurat ki fitrat he...Media aap ka ustaad he...aap khud media ke through yeh bakhoobi dekh saktay hein ke jin auraton ko un ke ghar walon ne aazad kiya ya aazadi di aur aaj kahan khari hein...I know am not providing you the enough facts n figures, but still it is a public forum n i want to restrict myself to some limits :)

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Ummid & Aania,

Aap doono ke replies perhay...lambi behas ke mood mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon...sirf itna kahoon ga ke kuch percentage gareelu auratoon ki mazloom zaroor he...unhein un ke legal rights nahi mil rahay...which is due to lack of awareness and knowledge. Kuch percentage aisi bhi hein jo bohat typical life spend kerne ke bawajood reject ker di jati hein...Aik baat aap ko zehan nasheen zaroor kerni chahiye...ke shadi ke baad male hi dominent hota he...ager aik aurat yeh tay ker le ke wo apnay hubby ki baat maan ker chalay gi to wo bohat sari hassels se buch jati he...and in response husband bhi aisi wife ko apni good book mein rakhta he...aur you aik mutual understanding kaim ho jati he aur marital life aik ideal life bun jati he.

Jahan aap aurat ki zaroorat se ziada liberty aur freedom ki baat kerti hein to i am sorry to say mein is ke haq mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon :) merd aur aurat ki nature mein yahan faraq paya jata he...unlike males, females are more likely to approach the odd things...yeh aurat ki fitrat he...Media aap ka ustaad he...aap khud media ke through yeh bakhoobi dekh saktay hein ke jin auraton ko un ke ghar walon ne aazad kiya ya aazadi di aur aaj kahan khari hein...I know am not providing you the enough facts n figures, but still it is a public forum n i want to restrict myself to some limits :)

I agree with you...:)
hum khud hooq-e-niswan ke haq mein hain...Azadi-e-niswan hume bhi pasand nahi...
hum sirf yeh chahte hain ke her ladki apne basic rights se aware rahe...
aur phir zulm sahna sahi nahi hai...:na:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

I agree with you...:)
hum khud hooq-e-niswan ke haq mein hain...Azadi-e-niswan hume bhi pasand nahi...
hum sirf yeh chahte hain ke her ladki apne basic rights se aware rahe...
aur phir zulm sahna sahi nahi hai...:na:

Ager aisi baat he to hamara itfaak ho sakta he...bulke ho gaya he...hum bhi auraton ke hakook ke haq mein hein...lekin un ka kya jo sar-e-aam aur sar-e-bazaar be-hayaai ka irtakaab ker rahi hein...koi un ke khilaaf bhi to bolnay wala hona chahiye :lpop:

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Ager aisi baat he to hamara itfaak ho sakta he...bulke ho gaya he...hum bhi auraton ke hakook ke haq mein hein...lekin un ka kya jo sar-e-aam aur sar-e-bazaar be-hayaai ka irtakaab ker rahi hein...koi un ke khilaaf bhi to bolnay wala hona chahiye :lpop:

I am alwayz with you....hume khud yeh sub pasand nahi...
aap ki KKC mein party ware copm mein likhi hoi fire wali baat ager hum apni kisi college mate se kaih dein tu woh aik ada se kahe gi...
"oh my god!! such a narrow mind guy!! ummid yeh tu bilkul tumhare type ka hai"...:lol

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

I am alwayz with you....hume khud yeh sub pasand nahi...
aap ki KKC mein party ware copm mein likhi hoi fire wali baat ager hum apni kisi college mate se kaih dein tu woh aik ada se kahe gi...
"oh my god!! such a narrow mind guy!! ummid yeh tu bilkul tumhare type ka hai"...:lol

Kia aap ke college mein larkiyaan aisi dressing kerti hein??? I mean party warty pe???

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Kia aap ke college mein larkiyaan aisi dressing kerti hein??? I mean party warty pe???

party wear tu nahi kah sakte lakeen jo un ki dressing hoti hai woh kahein na kahein se less hoti hai yaani back less, slivez less..bla bla bla...:shh:
last time humari college mein aik ladki ke libaas ko daikh ker hum ne apni class mate se kaha aisa nahi lagta keh yeh Izaar (jise aap log shalwar kahte hain) paihna bhol gai:lol ..us per us ne kaha ummid ager is ne sun liya tu tum per hatq ka case dair ker daigi....:khi:

[Aania]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Ummid & Aania,

Aap doono ke replies perhay...lambi behas ke mood mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon...sirf itna kahoon ga ke kuch percentage gareelu auratoon ki mazloom zaroor he...unhein un ke legal rights nahi mil rahay...which is due to lack of awareness and knowledge. Kuch percentage aisi bhi hein jo bohat typical life spend kerne ke bawajood reject ker di jati hein...Aik baat aap ko zehan nasheen zaroor kerni chahiye...ke shadi ke baad male hi dominent hota he...ager aik aurat yeh tay ker le ke wo apnay hubby ki baat maan ker chalay gi to wo bohat sari hassels se buch jati he...and in response husband bhi aisi wife ko apni good book mein rakhta he...aur you aik mutual understanding kaim ho jati he aur marital life aik ideal life bun jati he.

Jahan aap aurat ki zaroorat se ziada liberty aur freedom ki baat kerti hein to i am sorry to say mein is ke haq mein bilkul bhi nahi hoon :) merd aur aurat ki nature mein yahan faraq paya jata he...unlike males, females are more likely to approach the odd things...yeh aurat ki fitrat he...Media aap ka ustaad he...aap khud media ke through yeh bakhoobi dekh saktay hein ke jin auraton ko un ke ghar walon ne aazad kiya ya aazadi di aur aaj kahan khari hein...I know am not providing you the enough facts n figures, but still it is a public forum n i want to restrict myself to some limits :)

Welcome to western world hon... to ye batao
ye aadmi log tv pe aankhen phaar phaar ke goriyon ko aur indian actresses ko kion dekhtey hein ?? un ki biwi ne fashion kia to wo gunnah ?
aur doosri bani thani aurten dekh ke apni biwion ka la'n ta'n karen to ye to sawab hai naa?? ye to hadith hai naa?? ye to Qur'an main hai naa?? ke chal merey mo'min bandey doosrey ki aurat pe nazar daal ??

bachu fact mano na aadmi doosri aurat ko dekh ke apni biwi ko behan ko maan ko bura bhala aur haqeer jaaney na aurat .. is terah modernize ho !!!

ab is ke baad merdon ki side li naa... yaa apni biwi pe zulm kia naa to teri to ... :fuming:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

party wear tu nahi kah sakte lakeen jo un ki dressing hoti hai woh kahein na kahein se less hoti hai yaani back less, slivez less..bla bla bla...:shh:
last time humari college mein aik ladki ke libaas ko daikh ker hum ne apni class mate se kaha aisa nahi lagta keh yeh Izaar (jise aap log shalwar kahte hain) paihna bhol gai:lol ..us per us ne kaha ummid ager is ne sun liya tu tum per hatq ka case dair ker daigi....:khi:

aap to larkiyoon ke saath hi rehti hein...aur is ke ilawa aap nafseyaat ki student bhi hein...kia aap kuch explain ker sakti hein ke larkiyaan aisay outfits kyoon pehanti hein...is it to allure and attact the boys...or something else...what do you think the reason behind such things

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Welcome to western world hon... to ye batao
ye aadmi log tv pe aankhen phaar phaar ke goriyon ko aur indian actresses ko kion dekhtey hein ?? un ki biwi ne fashion kia to wo gunnah ?
aur doosri bani thani aurten dekh ke apni biwion ka la'n ta'n karen to ye to sawab hai naa?? ye to hadith hai naa?? ye to Qur'an main hai naa?? ke chal merey mo'min bandey doosrey ki aurat pe nazar daal ??

bachu fact mano na aadmi doosri aurat ko dekh ke apni biwi ko behan ko maan ko bura bhala aur haqeer jaaney na aurat .. is terah modernize ho !!!

ab is ke baad merdon ki side li naa... yaa apni biwi pe zulm kia naa to teri to ... :fuming:

dekho aur suno aur ghoor karo

Kudrat ne insaan ko hawas parast banaya he...bilkul doosray janwaron ki tarah...Mazhab insaan ko rookta he...baaz aukaat insaan mazhat ke dairay se bahir nahi nikal pata aur kai kabahatoon se buch jata he...lekin akswer aukaat aisa hota he ke insaan naturally react kerta he...yani wohi kerta he jo nature usay kerne pe majboor kerti he...jub koi merd TV set on kerta he aur wo apne saamne semi-naked costumes mein larkiyoon ko naachta hua dekhay ga to jins-e-mahalaf ko is halat mein dekh ke us ke jazbaat zaroor bharkein ge...aur nature kuch na kuch usay zaroor wohi cheez dekhtay rehna pe majboor karay gi...ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu he to wo channel change ker de ga...aur ager usay apne nafs pe kaabu nahi he to wo naturally usi cheez ko dekhay ga...yeh to sari nafs ki jang he aur sanf-e-mahalf her waqt merdon ke nafs ka hi imtehaan leti hui dikhai de rahi he ...aakhir koi kitna bachay :tauba

Tum fiker na karo...me apni bivi ke saath kabi zulm nai karon ga...me to aik shareef insaan hon na...aur mujay haqook ada kerne ka bakhoobi pata he :blush:

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

aap to larkiyoon ke saath hi rehti hein...aur is ke ilawa aap nafseyaat ki student bhi hein...kia aap kuch explain ker sakti hein ke larkiyaan aisay outfits kyoon pehanti hein...is it to allure and attact the boys...or something else...what do you think the reason behind such things

pata nahi shaid fasion ke chaker mein.....:tauba
khair un ki marzi..waise humari college ke boyzzzz ka munh bhi aise hi khool jaata hai un ko daikh ker jaisa is waqt aap ka hai..:kr:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

lekin aap apna tajurba share nahi ker rahein...aap to larki hein na...larkiyoon ki nafseyaat ko samajti hein...aur aap to student bhi nafsiyaat ki hein...to bataiye na ke aisi kia cheez hoti he ke larkiyaan apna jism dikhanay pe majboor ho jati hein...ya wo apna jism dikhana chahti hein

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Is baare mein hum kya kaih sakte hain...:donno:
hum aisi hi ladkiyon ke saath utte baithte hain....hum saath mein hotelzzzzzz mein bhi jaate hai...lakeen hum hairat ka jhatka us waqt lagta hai keh log un ke exposes ko daikhne ki baajaye hume ghoor ghoor ker dikhte hain...:tauba

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Is baare mein hum kya kaih sakte hain...:donno:
hum aisi hi ladkiyon ke saath utte baithte hain....hum saath mein hotelzzzzzz mein bhi jaate hai...lakeen hum hairat ka jhatka us waqt lagta hai keh log un ke exposes ko daikhne ki baajaye hume ghoor ghoor ker dikhte hain...:tauba

:lol :lol :lol

Waise aik baat kahoon...beauty exposes mein nahi hoti...beuty perday mein hoti he :thmbup: aap ne aisi larkiyoon ko kabi mana nahi kia??? waise bhi kia feelings hoti hein aisi larkiyoon ki jub wo aisi dressing kerti hein...kuch to idea ho ga na aap ko

[ummid]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

:lol :lol :lol

Waise aik baat kahoon...beauty exposes mein nahi hoti...beuty perday mein hoti he :thmbup: aap ne aisi larkiyoon ko kabi mana nahi kia??? waise bhi kia feelings hoti hein aisi larkiyoon ki jub wo aisi dressing kerti hein...kuch to idea ho ga na aap ko

Aap hans rahe hain humare pasine chut rahe hote hain us waqt....:(
ajeeb logic hai...:tauba
khair mana karne ka sawal hi nahi..woh un ka clture hai...aur phir jub un ke parents ko koi aitraz nahi tu hum kyun khawa-m-khawa mein jhagde mol lein....(my majority college mates are non-muslims.....I think 95%) aur jahan tak feelings ka sawa hai aap ise great influence of media kaih sakte hain...heroin public demand per short kapde pahenti hain aur ladkiyan un jaisa nazar aane ke chaker mein....and nothing...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Why the life of a Pakistani woman/man cannt be balanced??

Aap hans rahe hain humare pasine chut rahe hote hain us waqt....:(
ajeeb logic hai...:tauba
khair mana karne ka sawal hi nahi..woh un ka clture hai...aur phir jub un ke parents ko koi aitraz nahi tu hum kyun khawa-m-khawa mein jhagde mol lein....(my majority college mates are non-muslims.....I think 95%) aur jahan tak feelings ka sawa hai aap ise great influence of media kaih sakte hain...heroin public demand per short kapde pahenti hain aur ladkiyan un jaisa nazar aane ke chaker mein....and nothing...

Jo aap ko ghoor se dekhta he to aap bhi us ki taraf dekh ker na-khushgawaari se ghoor diya karein...hope wo phir nahi ghoorein ge...

Yani aap ke kehnay ka matlab he ke aik heroin puray talaab ko ganda ker deti he...interesting :khi: