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Powerful Advice on Relationships
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Uhhh, February is approaching....the month of love! What better
time than now to think about relationships.
Are you in one?
Do you desire one?
Are you ending one?
Are you so focused on success that you don't have time for one?
Whatever your situation is, you can probably answer yes to at least
one of the above questions.
As humans, we desire understanding, warmth, and compassion. Often
we seek this in another. Ideally, this is a wonderful experience.
Difficulties sometimes occur when we find ourselves in a
relationship or looking for a relationship to fill a lack in
ourselves. It is common for people to be attracted to what they
lack. There is nothing wrong with this attraction. Problems arise,
however, when the lack is related to self esteem.
If we lack self esteem and look for it in another, we are looking
for trouble. You've seen it...the man or woman who feels inadequate
and draws to him or her a person who will make him/her feel
complete. We need to first feel that completeness in ourselves, and
then share it with another. This avoids the whole realm of problems
which arise from "clingy" partners who never seem to live their own
lives. We can either be one or be with one. Both of these
situations are potentially crippling.
"So, knowledgeable Guru.prof. Moiz Huusain, what is the answer?"... You may
be asking by now.
The answer, like all good answers, is simple. Be yourself. Simple
yet powerful advice. What I mean by this is you should accept who
you are, decide where you WANT to go in life, and live an
intentional life that fully embraces you and your chosen direction.
Stop reading for a moment and take a look around.
Go ahead...look around the room you are in.
What did you see?
Whatever it was, you created it. You are the author of your life.
You made all this happen. You are the artist. Did you like what you
saw? If so, good. If not, I give you permission to change it...all
of it...to re-write it from the ground up starting today. To live a
life worthy of YOU and your dreams.
Now, think about your present or last relationship. Is/was it
something that you are proud of and happy with? Are you taking more
than you give? Are you giving more than you take? Are you being a
crutch for someone? Is someone being a crutch for you?
These questions aren't always easy to answer, but answering them
can give you a new sense of freedom, determination, and purpose.
Let's focus on you now. I had you do that exercise so that you
could get a picture of what is going on in your life. YOU are the
only person you can ever change, so let's get really focused on YOU
right now.
Do you need more confidence? More feelings of self- worth? A new
relationship that works for you? Do you need to stop attracting to
you partners which are toxic? If not, that is wonderful and I
applaud you. If so, you can greatly benefit from the suggestions I
am about to make.
Try this simple exercise:
Purchase a tape player and some blank tapes. Make a recording for
yourself. The recording should have a few minutes of you telling
yourself to relax, and then the following:
"I give myself permission to be myself. Everything about me is
fine...the way I look, the clothes I wear, (fill in other details
about yourself here). These things contribute to making me a
wonderful and powerfully unique person. From now on, I will fully
embrace my power and live the life I choose to live. By doing so, I
will draw to me that special person who honors me for who I am. I
am a complete person. I allow complete people into my life. I help
others by helping myself...by being the best person I can be. I
also help people by honoring myself...by accepting only light and
love into my life. I am fully determined to move forward with all
of my dreams and live as an example of what others can be. I am
kind to myself. My life is an exciting adventure which I will share
with another self-realized person like myself."
Next, I suggest that you play this tape for yourself each night as
you go to sleep for 21 nights. This will really let those
suggestions get into your subconscious mind...permanently.
Would YOU like my help with making this powerful change in 2007 and
living the life you deserve right NOW?
Uhhh, February is approaching....the month of love! What better
time than now to think about relationships.
Are you in one?
Do you desire one?
Are you ending one?
Are you so focused on success that you don't have time for one?
Whatever your situation is, you can probably answer yes to at least
one of the above questions.
As humans, we desire understanding, warmth, and compassion. Often
we seek this in another. Ideally, this is a wonderful experience.
Difficulties sometimes occur when we find ourselves in a
relationship or looking for a relationship to fill a lack in
ourselves. It is common for people to be attracted to what they
lack. There is nothing wrong with this attraction. Problems arise,
however, when the lack is related to self esteem.
If we lack self esteem and look for it in another, we are looking
for trouble. You've seen it...the man or woman who feels inadequate
and draws to him or her a person who will make him/her feel
complete. We need to first feel that completeness in ourselves, and
then share it with another. This avoids the whole realm of problems
which arise from "clingy" partners who never seem to live their own
lives. We can either be one or be with one. Both of these
situations are potentially crippling.
"So, knowledgeable Guru.prof. Moiz Huusain, what is the answer?"... You may
be asking by now.
The answer, like all good answers, is simple. Be yourself. Simple
yet powerful advice. What I mean by this is you should accept who
you are, decide where you WANT to go in life, and live an
intentional life that fully embraces you and your chosen direction.
Stop reading for a moment and take a look around.
Go ahead...look around the room you are in.
What did you see?
Whatever it was, you created it. You are the author of your life.
You made all this happen. You are the artist. Did you like what you
saw? If so, good. If not, I give you permission to change it...all
of it...to re-write it from the ground up starting today. To live a
life worthy of YOU and your dreams.
Now, think about your present or last relationship. Is/was it
something that you are proud of and happy with? Are you taking more
than you give? Are you giving more than you take? Are you being a
crutch for someone? Is someone being a crutch for you?
These questions aren't always easy to answer, but answering them
can give you a new sense of freedom, determination, and purpose.
Let's focus on you now. I had you do that exercise so that you
could get a picture of what is going on in your life. YOU are the
only person you can ever change, so let's get really focused on YOU
right now.
Do you need more confidence? More feelings of self- worth? A new
relationship that works for you? Do you need to stop attracting to
you partners which are toxic? If not, that is wonderful and I
applaud you. If so, you can greatly benefit from the suggestions I
am about to make.
Try this simple exercise:
Purchase a tape player and some blank tapes. Make a recording for
yourself. The recording should have a few minutes of you telling
yourself to relax, and then the following:
"I give myself permission to be myself. Everything about me is
fine...the way I look, the clothes I wear, (fill in other details
about yourself here). These things contribute to making me a
wonderful and powerfully unique person. From now on, I will fully
embrace my power and live the life I choose to live. By doing so, I
will draw to me that special person who honors me for who I am. I
am a complete person. I allow complete people into my life. I help
others by helping myself...by being the best person I can be. I
also help people by honoring myself...by accepting only light and
love into my life. I am fully determined to move forward with all
of my dreams and live as an example of what others can be. I am
kind to myself. My life is an exciting adventure which I will share
with another self-realized person like myself."
Next, I suggest that you play this tape for yourself each night as
you go to sleep for 21 nights. This will really let those
suggestions get into your subconscious mind...permanently.
Would YOU like my help with making this powerful change in 2007 and
living the life you deserve right NOW?
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