Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

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Assalamalikum GS main to kafi debates chalti rehti hain khawateen section main bhi kuch topics honay chaye na debate walye :D:

sawal yeh hai kay shuk kio kia jata hai ?
yeh shak zaidatar friends, or miyan biwi main zaida hota hai ..or jin ki shadiyan honay wali hoti hian un main...

main aik misaal batatai houn ...aik friend ki jab manganai hovi the to us ka mangater us pay shak karta tha ....us kay messanger ka p/w us kay paas hota tha ..jo bhi Mail ata wo sab parhta tha ......kitnay ajeeb lagtay hian aisay loog :donno:....yeh or baat hai kay us ki shadi us say nahi hovi kisi or say hovi :khi:

is topic pay baat kartay hain .....Males bhi invite hain is debate main :thmbup:

[AbgeenA]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

shak or andha etmaad dono hi theek raweye nahi hen...or shak kion kia jata he shaed is leay k kuch insan apne past k tajurbaat ki bina par esa karte hon:mm:

[*Hala*]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

W.Salam
nice topic.. aanchal de.
meri khayal sy shak wo log karti hai jo apni app per itimaad nahi rakti ..to dosro ko be shak ki nazar sy dekhti hai. or yahi shak sy har relation mein darar hai ata hai.

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Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

shak or andha etmaad dono hi theek raweye nahi hen...or shak kion kia jata he shaed is leay k kuch insan apne past k tajurbaat ki bina par esa karte hon:mm:

yep andha itamad bhi sahi nahi hota .....is pay baat karian gay kisi thread main :thmbup:

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Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

W.Salam
nice topic.. aanchal de.
meri khayal sy shak wo log karti hai jo apni app per itimaad nahi rakti ..to dosro ko be shak ki nazar sy dekhti hai. or yahi shak sy har relation mein darar hai ata hai.

aisay loog kamyaab zindgai to nahi guzartay ..in ki sari zindagi shak main guzar jati hain ...


aap loog example bhi deytay jaian :D:

aik lady hain un kay husband jab bhi ghar dair say aye wo kehti hai aap kisi larki ko ghar drop karnay gay they isi leye late aye hian :lol


aik admi ko apni biwi pay shak tha wo to apni beeti ko apni beeti hi nahi mantay ....
is tarha say shak say na yeh loog khud sakoon main rehtay hian or na dosroo ko sakoon say rehnay day saktay hian ..

[Gul]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

Assalamalikum GS main to kafi debates chalti rehti hain khawateen section main bhi kuch topics honay chaye na debate walye :D:

sawal yeh hai kay shuk kio kia jata hai ?
yeh shak zaidatar friends, or miyan biwi main zaida hota hai ..or jin ki shadiyan honay wali hoti hian un main...

main aik misaal batatai houn ...aik friend ki jab manganai hovi the to us ka mangater us pay shak karta tha ....us kay messanger ka p/w us kay paas hota tha ..jo bhi Mail ata wo sab parhta tha ......kitnay ajeeb lagtay hian aisay loog :donno:....yeh or baat hai kay us ki shadi us say nahi hovi kisi or say hovi :khi:

is topic pay baat kartay hain .....Males bhi invite hain is debate main :thmbup:

Buhat Khoobsoorat baat !

aur nice social problem bhi hai ..!
Hope K achi batein samany aaein gee !
:insha:

[AbgeenA]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

yep andha itamad bhi sahi nahi hota .....is pay baat karian gay kisi thread main :thmbup:

okzz:)

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

lagta he ke yeh section bhi ub GS banay he banay :lol

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Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

lagta he ke yeh section bhi ub GS banay he banay :lol

han aap tashreef ka tokra lay aye hain na to isay GS bana daian gay :zuban:


topic kay baray main kia tasuuraat hain aap kay ?:lpop:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

han aap tashreef ka tokra lay aye hain na to isay GS bana daian gay :zuban:


topic kay baray main kia tasuuraat hain aap kay ?:lpop:

lolz,

mein is topic pe yeh kahon ga ke shak kerna aur na kerna insaan ke bus mein nahi hota, is ke peechay bohat si wajoohat hoti he, insaan ka mental structure, us ki surroundings, jis per shak kia ja raha he us ka behaviour aur us ki kuch mashkook activities wagaira wagaira. You see, you can't simply say which way train went by looking at the track. Shak koon ker raha he, kis per ker raha he, aur kyoon ker raha he hamein is ko bhi sort out kerna chahiye. Simply yeh keh dena ke falan banda shaki mazaaj he, to yeh justify nahi kerta. Shak koi bhi ker sakta he, us ka shak clarification de ke door kia ja sakta he. Ager shak door na kia jaye to maslay ziada peecheedgiyaan akhteyaar ker lete hein. So dialogue is the best way :wk

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

aisay loog kamyaab zindgai to nahi guzartay ..in ki sari zindagi shak main guzar jati hain ...


aap loog example bhi deytay jaian :D:

aik lady hain un kay husband jab bhi ghar dair say aye wo kehti hai aap kisi larki ko ghar drop karnay gay they isi leye late aye hian :lol


aik admi ko apni biwi pay shak tha wo to apni beeti ko apni beeti hi nahi mantay ....
is tarha say shak say na yeh loog khud sakoon main rehtay hian or na dosroo ko sakoon say rehnay day saktay hian ..

Ager bivi shoher per shak ker rahi he to is ki bhi koi waja ho gi. Shoher ko chahiye ke wo apni wife ko aitmaad mein le.

Ager admi apni bivi pe shak ker raha he to usay chahiye ke wo apni beti ka blood group check kerwaye, ager wo dono se match nahi kerta to simply us ka shak sahi he :lol aur ager match kerta he to further verification ke liye DNA test kerwaye. Ager DNA test mein wo larki usi ki beti sabat hoti he, to us aadmi ko chahiye ke wo apni beti se chitter khaye 372-haha

[lllife]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

Ager bivi shoher per shak ker rahi he to is ki bhi koi waja ho gi. Shoher ko chahiye ke wo apni wife ko aitmaad mein le.

aitmaad mein le kar shak door kar de ga magar ksii aur baat pe shak karne lage to.kuch log to kisi bhi daleel se satisfied nahin hote.aik baat chodi doosri pe shak karne lag jate hain.unke saath phir kya masla hota hai:donno:
mere khayal mein to shak woh log karte hain jinhe na khud pena doosron pe yaqeen hota hai.kabhi kabhar shak ho to aur baat jo log har waqt shak karte hain unse to Allah bachae:lahoul

[lllife]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

[quote=Aanchal;857978]aisay loog kamyaab zindgai to nahi guzartay ..in ki sari zindagi shak main guzar jati hain ...


aap loog example bhi deytay jaian :D:

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haan aise log doosron ki bhi sakoon se nahin jeene dete woh phir dare hi rehte hain k kis baat pe is ko shak ho jaye.
aik aadmi apni biwi jab woh ghar na ho koi bhi aaye to darwaza kholne ki ijzat nahin deta balke soda wagera lane k liye bhi bahir nahin jane deta k woh uske ilawa kisi bhi mard se koi bhi baat na kare.ab pata nahin yeh shak hai ya kya:lahoul

[musaddaq]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

Assalamalikum GS main to kafi debates chalti rehti hain khawateen section main bhi kuch topics honay chaye na debate walye :D:

sawal yeh hai kay shuk kio kia jata hai ?
yeh shak zaidatar friends, or miyan biwi main zaida hota hai ..or jin ki shadiyan honay wali hoti hian un main...

main aik misaal batatai houn ...aik friend ki jab manganai hovi the to us ka mangater us pay shak karta tha ....us kay messanger ka p/w us kay paas hota tha ..jo bhi Mail ata wo sab parhta tha ......kitnay ajeeb lagtay hian aisay loog :donno:....yeh or baat hai kay us ki shadi us say nahi hovi kisi or say hovi :khi:

is topic pay baat kartay hain .....Males bhi invite hain is debate main :thmbup:

in my view insan ka ander uc k actions ka mirror hota hai, or pata hota hi uc ko hai normally jo khud waisa kerta hai,
to shaq ki bhi yehi reasons hain, lakin jitna main en dekha hai keh shaq deemak ki tarah relations ko kha jata hai, insaan ko boradmind hona chahia, or jaise woh shaq ker keh sirf negative side ko dekhta hai ucce positive side bhi dekhni chahia,
or husband wife and frnds main yeh cheez zaroor honi chhaia keh woh ek doosre ko samjhte hoon, ab woh time to raha nahi keh aap keh sath opposite sex baat ker raha/rahi ho to uc ka sirf ek hi matlab hota hia, or ek cheez main ne jo life mian dekhi hai, aap apni life personal ho ya professional kissi doosre ko jitna trust level dain ge utna hi aap ka relation strong ho ga, or u will enjoy it, even work place bhi, or doosroon ka confidence bhi iss wajah se aap pe berhta hai,:)

[muneeb143]

Re: Shak ....kio kia jata hai ?

shak its human nature some has adpat it some not