Net-Friendship?

[Aania]

salam everybody..

I have some question need ur true thoughts...
So what do u guys think of Net-Friendship?

bothering you(sometimes) ?
time-pass?
chill out?
to share?
to listen ?
to tell?
to understand people of the world?
is it fake relation?
it has to be nice and in limits?
it has to be formal?
it has to be non-emotional?
it s learning?
its lesson?
its nothing?
its killing time?
it has to be sincere?
it has to be true and formal?
it has to be fun but nice?
it calms lonliness?
or anything else?
it gives happiness?
it gives troubles?
it is another way of teasing own personality?
is it really friendship?
is it a piece of enemity?

why we ignore real life for net-friendship?
what do you all think about it?
why we need net-friendship?
Do we have to get upset on these
kind of relations ?if yes then why?
why does it bother our real life?
why we get so serious in it?

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Net-Friendship?

salam everybody..

I have some question need ur true thoughts...
So what do u guys think of Net-Friendship?

bothering you(sometimes) ?
time-pass?
chill out?
to share?
to listen ?
to tell?
to understand people of the world?
is it fake relation?
it has to be nice and in limits?
it has to be formal?
it has to be non-emotional?
it s learning?
its lesson?
its nothing?
its killing time?
it has to be sincere?
it has to be true and formal?
it has to be fun but nice?
it calms lonliness?
or anything else?
it gives happiness?
it gives troubles?
it is another way of teasing own personality?
is it really friendship?
is it a piece of enemity?

why we ignore real life for net-friendship?
what do you all think about it?
why we need net-friendship?
Do we have to get upset on these
kind of relations ?if yes then why?
why does it bother our real life?
why we get so serious in it?

aap ny sara hee theek likha hay aisa hee hay sab

[Aania]

Re: Net-Friendship?

aap ny sara hee theek likha hay aisa hee hay sab

aaap apney khayaalaat ka bhi to in mein se aur in ke ilawa tafseelan izhar kero naa... :cc:

[جنیداختر]

Re: Net-Friendship?

Sub se pehlay tu aap yeh bataye ke aap ko kis cheez ne net-freindship ke baray mei aisa sochnay per majboor kiya?

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Net-Friendship?

main just time pass learning k liy use kerta hun net ..
waisy aaj tak time hee waist kia hay kuch nahi dia net ny..

[Aania]

Re: Net-Friendship?

Sub se pehlay tu aap yeh bataye ke aap ko kis cheez ne net-freindship ke baray mei aisa sochnay per majboor kiya?

just aiesey hi... kuch logon ke comments parhey .. ke wo upset ho jatey hein.. kisi ko kuch din online na dekh ker... to apney marney ki posts laganey lagtey hein.. different jaghon pe ... ya ajeeb se fake ways use ker ke kehtey hein... koi aur ban ker . ke wo mar chukey ya zakhmi hhain... baad main haqeeqat khulti hai... to .. shermindagi bhi nazar nahen aati...
is terah ki cheezen is terah ke logon ke mazaq dekh ke takleef hoti hai ke log aiesa kion kartey hein... itna kion involve hotey hein... net-buddies main... aur jhootey waswasey kion chorrtey hein?
isi liye ye list banayee hai.. ke har jagah ye problem kion hai..
is terah ki fazool harkaten karney se unhen kia taskeen milti hai?
is everything a joke for them? ya wo log dunya ke aur apni zaat ke mehwar main khud mazaq hain? apney aap se bhaag rahey hein? ya logon ko khud ki asliyyat apna jhooota-pan or apna aap dikha rahey hain?

[Aania]

Re: Net-Friendship?

main just time pass learning k liy use kerta hun net ..
waisy aaj tak time hee waist kia hay kuch nahi dia net ny..

hmmmm to is ka replacement kion nahen sochaa??
kion khud ko time barbad kerney se nahen roka?
no pain no gain...
has meanings ... naa..
khud ko force kerna parrta hai..
:cc: to be active n to get something..
dont worry... Allah aap ko khushyaan ataa farmaaye aameen

[khurram_shaikh]

Re: Net-Friendship?

Assalaam o alekum,


it has to be formal?
it has to be non-emotional?

[*Roomi*]

Re: Net-Friendship?

it s learning?

its killing time + Studies

[Aania]

Re: Net-Friendship?

Assalaam o alekum,


it has to be formal?
it has to be non-emotional?

nice to know abt ur thoughts.... :rose be happy always...

and welcome back...

[Aania]

Re: Net-Friendship?

it s learning?

its killing time + Studies

TheMask .... I m strongly agree with your explanation ..
is ka sad e baab kia ho sakta hai??
to be somehow formal with all?
to be caring ?
or to let everything go as it is?

[Withoutsoul]

Re: Net-Friendship?

salam everybody..

I have some question need ur true thoughts...
So what do u guys think of Net-Friendship?

bothering you(sometimes) ?
time-pass?
chill out?
to share?
to listen ?
to tell?
to understand people of the world?
is it fake relation?
it has to be nice and in limits?
it has to be formal?
it has to be non-emotional?
it s learning?
its lesson?
its nothing?
its killing time?
it has to be sincere?
it has to be true and formal?
it has to be fun but nice?
it calms lonliness?
or anything else?
it gives happiness?
it gives troubles?
it is another way of teasing own personality?
is it really friendship?
is it a piece of enemity?

why we ignore real life for net-friendship?
what do you all think about it?
why we need net-friendship?
Do we have to get upset on these
kind of relations ?if yes then why?
why does it bother our real life?
why we get so serious in it?

NET-FRIENDSHIP......
Achay buray log to har jagha hotay hain. friendship real wali bhee jhoot kay zair-e-asar aa jati hai aur net wali bhee. Net walay app k samnay nahi hotay lekin sometimes samnay walon sai ziada qareeb hotay hain. If u can share urself with a friend on net that is much better than a friend in real. Zabardasti to kisi k saath kahin bhee nahi... Haan itna zaroor hai keh insaan ko straight ho jana chahiye.... woh friendship hee kya jahan per insaan clear words mai baat na kar sakay. excuses paish karna, jhoot bolna iss sab sai behtar hai keh straight ho kar saaf baat kar dena. chahay app kisi bhee friend sai baat kar rahay hon.Me k friends (other than net) to straight enough hain keh jhoot nahi boltay excuses nahi detay coz i made them used to of it. But net walay friends ko shayad yeh baat samajhnay mai thori mushkil paish aati hai.... Experiences ki baat ho to mai nay net per abt 10% hee achay aur sincere relations dekhay hain...baqi 90% aisay hain jo dandi maarna shuru kar detay hain....Jhoot ka pata chal raha hota hai bolnay walay ko bhee aur sun-nay walay ko bhee lekin sun-nay walay shayad bharam rakhnay k liye khamosh ho jatay hain.
Net per achay log jin ko miltay hain woh log boht boht achay relations mai chaltay hain.jahan baat ban jae wahan per roknay wala kon ho ga.lekin qareeb aanay sai pehlay yeh sochna chahiye keh kya itna qareeb aana app ko suit karay ga ya nahi....
Friendship no emotional nahi ho sakti. Sometimes bothering hoti hai jab app kee marzi k khilaf kuch ho raha ho. app apnay andaz sai sochtay hain aur app ka dost apnay andaz sai sochta hai. Time-pass k liye kya friendship hee reh gae hai aur koi kaam nahi hai? chill out if u need someone to make u smile there should be a friend no matter he belongs to net or not.Share karna hee to friendship hai. If u cant share urself with ur friend then for what is ur friendship. To listen is the basic need of friendship. To tell suits the theme of friendship. To understand people of the world u want to use friendship as a tool.... howzat...
If it is friendship it should not be fake. Friendship has no limits. If it has limits it donot count to be friendship. Neither it can be formal. Formal is always just hello hye... nothing more. It should not be non-emotional. Prospects of learning are everywhere. friends make u learn more easily coz they understand u.

Ignoring real life just for net friendship is not a good thing to be said. We ignore real life for our other friends. Sometimes for business, sometimes for other matters.
We need friends not just net friends. Everyone has friends. If one has not, his life is worthless.simply dull life.
If there is a good relation, and something happening strange with ur relation, u should get upset. Its natural.
Bothering life is the feeling when u dont want one in the way he / she is behaving to u. It may be his/her style that is not suiting u or it can be ur way that is not going to let him feel relax. One should be careful in getting so close that their relation may not get converted into a bothering thing.
Do u think life to be a joke........??????


AND WHERE IS UR POINT OF VIEW....?????

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Nice post aany....and you asked too much bulke three much questions :hehe

Experience varies from person to person...lekin mera experience jo he wo so far so good he...kuch loogon ne hurt kia...lekin wo friends nahi thay...chooti si baat karon ga, friendship friendship hoti he, chahay wo net ke through ho ya face to face...wot about our friendship, isn't it real.

['SamRazi']

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just aiesey hi... kuch logon ke comments parhey .. ke wo upset ho jatey hein.. kisi ko kuch din online na dekh ker... to apney marney ki posts laganey lagtey hein.. different jaghon pe ... ya ajeeb se fake ways use ker ke kehtey hein... koi aur ban ker . ke wo mar chukey ya zakhmi hhain... baad main haqeeqat khulti hai... to .. shermindagi bhi nazar nahen aati...
is terah ki cheezen is terah ke logon ke mazaq dekh ke takleef hoti hai ke log aiesa kion kartey hein... itna kion involve hotey hein... net-buddies main... aur jhootey waswasey kion chorrtey hein?
isi liye ye list banayee hai.. ke har jagah ye problem kion hai..
is terah ki fazool harkaten karney se unhen kia taskeen milti hai?
is everything a joke for them? ya wo log dunya ke aur apni zaat ke mehwar main khud mazaq hain? apney aap se bhaag rahey hein? ya logon ko khud ki asliyyat apna jhooota-pan or apna aap dikha rahey hain?

Aany dear, tumhare kisi question ka jawab mere pass to nahi hai magar yeh sab jo tum ne kaha, buhut hadth tak sach ahi........ pata nahi log aisa kaisey ker letey hain ......... ek jhoot bolna aur phir ouse bachaney ke liyeh hazar herbey .... dosron ko khudh mei invlove kerna ..... dosro ke jazbat se khelna, oun ka mazaq banana ......... pata nahi kya maza aata hai aisey logo ko .....

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: Net-Friendship?

it s learning?

its killing time + Studies

nice one mask..