کیا سیکھتے ہیں

[ummid]

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I read lots of book... if I get convince about the quote, line, phrase or any paragraph... I follow it/ learn from it...!!

[azeem-ahmed]

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aqwal se mein kabhi amal nahi karta... nahi zindgi in per guzarta hoon... na yaad karta hoon wese yaad hojain tu aur baat hai

[*Rida*]

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mein :shyy:..huhn ke quotes se mein motivation le nhi paati......I should be ashamed of myself!

mein:garmi: huhn ..ke bass prrhte wqt uss quote se mutaasir hoti huhn...fir woh kaun aur mein kaun???

kuch bhi aisa nahin hota keh jo Aanchal ki tarah u ko bhi mutassir karay aur woh yaad rehay...::donno:

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Sis baat yeh hay ke hum rooz dheeron cheezein perhtay hein aur kai akwaal bhi pertay hein aur yeh wo cheezein hoti hein jin ka shaoor hamaray ander pehlay se moojood hota he jin ka adraak hamein already bohat acha hota he. Bus kool likhnay walay ne jis tarteeb se kool likha hota he wo tarteeb he bus nai hoti he mere nazdeek. Haan aisa he ke kuch akwaal aap ko yaad reh jatay hein jo aap timely kisi aur ke aagay deliver ker dete ho.

Kuch akwaal aisay hein jin ko mera dil validate kerta he aur yeh mujay kabi nahi booltay. Aur yeh kuch social life ko represent kerte hein. Jese...

If you help a needy person, he will always remember you when he is in need again.
It deals with the general mindset of people.

A ship in the port is safe and this is not what a ship is made for.
&
Whenever you see a successful businessman someone once made a courageous decision.
Yeh dono show kerti hein ke brave loog he life mein kuch achieve kerte hein. Yeh darpook loogon ki dunia nahi

I am going to think positive, but I know it wouldn't work
Sometimes you witness this very thing.

In three words, I can sum up everything I have learned about life. It goes on.


Is tarah kafi saari quotes hein jo yaad reh jati hein aur in ka kuch na kuch impact aap ke mindset pe perta he.

U r Right Bro.....:thmbup:
and quotes are superb.....

کچھ خاص نہیں


صرف کچھ پڑھنے کی نظر سے جو بھی نظر آجاتا ہے اُس پڑھ لیتے ہیں "صرف پڑھنے کی حد تک"


اگر ہم اتنے ہی پڑھ کر عمل کرنے والے اور غور و فکر کرنے والے ہوں تو


اس وقت سپر پاور ہوتے

کیونکہ

پڑھ کر عمل کرنے اور اس کو اپنی زندگیوں پر لاگو کرنے کے لئے "قرآن" سے بہتر کچھ نہیں


تو جب ہم اِس کلام عظیم کو صرف پڑھنے کی حد تک ہی رکھے ہوئے ہیں تو باقی چیزوں کی کیا حیثیت رہ جاتی ہے۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔؟؟؟؟؟

main is mein Hadees ka word bhi likh rahi thi ... lakin main nay nahin likhaa... kiun keh phir yeh topic koi aur rukh ikhtiyar kar jai ga..

I read lots of book... if I get convince about the quote, line, phrase or any paragraph... I follow it/ learn from it...!!

:)
کیا سیکھا۔۔۔۔۔۔ یا کیا تبدیلی آئی آپ میں ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ یہ بھی شئیر کریں۔۔

aqwal se mein kabhi amal nahi karta... nahi zindgi in per guzarta hoon... na yaad karta hoon wese yaad hojain tu aur baat hai

aisa bhi kiaaa... yeh koi maths kay theorem tu nahin :lol

[*Rida*]

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main share karti hon kuch.... main nay kahin perha tha keh

insaan apnay aadhay gham dosroon say ghalt tawaquaat wabasta kar kay kharidta hai....

yani aisi twaqauaat rakhna jin per loag pora na utar sakain... foran tu nahin lakin kuch jhatkay khanay kay bad main ab zyada expectations nahin rakhti her aik say....
hamari aik frnd hai married hai ... bhara pura susral hai us kaa... woh ab hamain zyada time nahin dai pati...... (aur main tu samajhti hoon... shadi kay bad larkiun ko frnds ko zyada time daina bhi nahin chahiye ...)....mujhay us kay halaat samajh aatay hain ... aur main us say expect nahin karti zyada time... lakin mairi kuch aur frnds hain jo buht badguman ho gai hain us married frnd say....time na dainay ki waja say ... aur mairay samjhany kay baqajoud bhi woh apnay dil mein us kay liye koi gunjaish nikalnayko tayar nahin....

so bila waja ki expections say dukh hi milta hai...jo aap nay khud apnay liye chuna hota hai....

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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main share karti hon kuch.... main nay kahin perha tha keh

insaan apnay aadhay gham dosroon say ghalt tawaquaat wabasta kar kay kharidta hai....

yani aisi twaqauaat rakhna jin per loag pora na utar sakain... foran tu nahin lakin kuch jhatkay khanay kay bad main ab zyada expectations nahin rakhti her aik say....
hamari aik frnd hai married hai ... bhara pura susral hai us kaa... woh ab hamain zyada time nahin dai pati...... (aur main tu samajhti hoon... shadi kay bad larkiun ko frnds ko zyada time daina bhi nahin chahiye ...)....mujhay us kay halaat samajh aatay hain ... aur main us say expect nahin karti zyada time... lakin mairi kuch aur frnds hain jo buht badguman ho gai hain us married frnd say....time na dainay ki waja say ... aur mairay samjhany kay baqajoud bhi woh apnay dil mein us kay liye koi gunjaish nikalnayko tayar nahin....

so bila waja ki expections say dukh hi milta hai...jo aap nay khud apnay liye chuna hota hai....

Sis insaano mein hum rehtay hein aur insaano se wabasta hein, insaano se he wasta he aur insaano ke he kaam aatay hein. Expectation bhi insaano se he rakhi jati he. Jis moaashray mein reh ker aap insaano se expectation nahi rakh saktay wo aik murdaar moaashray he. Aik friend jis ke saath aap ne school college ke 5, 7 saal guzaray. Us ki khushiyoon aur gham mein shareek huay aur us ne bhi reciprocate kia to shadi konsa dunia ka ajooba he ke aap apne dooston ko bula do, ya aap doost se expectations he khatam ker do. Aik fact he sis, Jis rishtay mein waqt guzarne ke saath saath aap ki expectation strong hoti hein aur agla banda aap ki expectation ko pura kerne ki achi kooshish kerta he wo rishta kabil-e-sataish he, aur jis rishtay mein waqt ke saath aap ko apni expectation minimize kerni perti he wo rishta reliable kabi na tha.

Jis rishtay mein expectation aap ko kum kerni perti he wo rishtay ki achi kisam hergiz nahi.

Haan albata aik baat zaroor he, ager aap per yeh ayaan ho jaye ke kuch loog aap ki expectation ko koi ehmiyat dene ko teyaar nahi, un se expectation waqt se pehlay withdraw ker lein. Kuch loog kabi bhi reliable nahi ho saktay. Yeh mera experience he.

[ummid]

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@ Rida

Jis cheez ko me apni saari zindagi ki learning sumjhti ho woh yeh hai:

"No matter how hard you try, people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave" - yeh cheez me ne apne ek professor se seekhi.... or ab yeh me ke andar itni baith gai hai ke I hardly get affected by people's behavior.... (except 1 person in my life - us ke towards bhi ab me indifferent hoti jaa rahi ho)...

I have learned that people will talk about you... might as well give them something to talk about.... so I never bothered what people talk about me... I live my life at fullest.

the third thing: I am hardcore believer of, is: "the more people that hate me, the less I have to get along with" - so, I never give second thought before showing people where actually they stand in my life or in reality... Jo sahi nahi woh sahi nahi... chahe woh me ke kitne bhi superior ho official life mein ya personal family mein....!!

and last but not least... I have learned to "forgive" and "forget" - and I have practiced it so much since last 4 or 5 years... ab me ki short term memory negative events ko le ker itni weak hogai hai ke me ko ab waqai yaad nahi rehta - kis ne me ke saath exactly kya bura kiya tha... coz once i forgive i forget too.. : )

so basically, I have become rude, harsh and annoying person in reality... me ne or bhi bauaht kuch seekha hai.... or sirf seekha nahi, me ne practice ki hai...!!

[azeem-ahmed]

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Sis insaano mein hum rehtay hein aur insaano se wabasta hein, insaano se he wasta he aur insaano ke he kaam aatay hein. Expectation bhi insaano se he rakhi jati he. Jis moaashray mein reh ker aap insaano se expectation nahi rakh saktay wo aik murdaar moaashray he. Aik friend jis ke saath aap ne school college ke 5, 7 saal guzaray. Us ki khushiyoon aur gham mein shareek huay aur us ne bhi reciprocate kia to shadi konsa dunia ka ajooba he ke aap apne dooston ko bula do, ya aap doost se expectations he khatam ker do. Aik fact he sis, Jis rishtay mein waqt guzarne ke saath saath aap ki expectation strong hoti hein aur agla banda aap ki expectation ko pura kerne ki achi kooshish kerta he wo rishta kabil-e-sataish he, aur jis rishtay mein waqt ke saath aap ko apni expectation minimize kerni perti he wo rishta reliable kabi na tha.

Jis rishtay mein expectation aap ko kum kerni perti he wo rishtay ki achi kisam hergiz nahi.

Haan albata aik baat zaroor he, ager aap per yeh ayaan ho jaye ke kuch loog aap ki expectation ko koi ehmiyat dene ko teyaar nahi, un se expectation waqt se pehlay withdraw ker lein. Kuch loog kabi bhi reliable nahi ho saktay. Yeh mera experience he.

mard jab shadi karta hai vo poranay rishtay nibhasakta hai yaa friendship continue rakh sakta hai lakin aik larki kayliye yeh muskhal zaroor hota hai kay vo puranay sub friends ko time day sakay... Rida ki baat se mein agree karta hoon..

doosra mein yah samjhta hoon kay zaroori nahi her waqt zindgi mein vo same friends hoon yaa un kay saath ho sirf... waqt kay saath dost bhi badaltay rahtay hain... dost bantay hain bichhartay hain koi ata hai koi thora time rah kar chala jata hai... yeh sub zindgi ka hissa hai.. school time kay dost kuch bichhar jataay hain kuch saath rahtay hain jub college mein hotay hain aur college walay bichhar jatay hain jub university puhnchtay hain aur vahan perr new friends ban jatay hain jub job kartay hain universiy kay friends sub apnay kaam mein lag jatay hain... lakin dost ko hamesha dil mein yaad karna chahiye aur agar dost kay pass time nahi tu theek hai dosti nahi torni chahiye hosakta hai koi ussay majboori ho...

[azeem-ahmed]

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@ Rida

Jis cheez ko me apni saari zindagi ki learning sumjhti ho woh yeh hai:

"No matter how hard you try, people will behave in the way they want to behave" - yeh cheez me ne apne ek professor se seekhi.... or ab yeh me ke andar itni baith gai hai ke I hardly get affected by people's behavior.... (except 1 person in my life - us ke towards bhi ab me indifferent hoti jaa rahi ho)...

I have learned that people will talk about you... might as well give something to talk.... so I never bothered what people talk about me... I live my life at fullest.

the third thing: I am hardcore believer of is: "the more people that hate me, the less I have to get along with" - so, I never give second thought before showing people where actually they stand in my life or in reality... Jo sahi nahi woh sahi nahi... chahe woh me ke kitne bhi superior ho official life mein ya personal family mein....!!

and last but not least... I have learned to "forgive" and "forget" - and I have practiced it so much since last 4 or 5 years... ab me ki short term memory negative events ko le ker itni weak hogai hai ke me ko ab waqai yaad nahi rehta - kis ne me ke saath exactly kya bura kiya tha... coz once i forgive i forget too.. : )

so basically, I have become rude, harsh and annoying person in reality... me ne or bhi bauaht kuch seekha hai.... or sirf seekha nahi, me ne practice ki hai...!!

ma'azrat kay saath mein arz karon ga... meinay nafsiyat ka subject parha hai aur herr roz beshumaar logon se milna julna bhi hota hai... logon kay masail sun kay eik report martab karni meri job ka hissa hai...jub mein logon se interview leta hoon tu vo khud ko eik different way se khud ko pesh kartay hain aur reality mein un ki personality un ki aapbeti se mukhtalif hoti hai aur kuch log tu aisay bhi hain jo kahtay kuch hain aur hotay kuch hain... jis tarah aap apni personality ko depict kiya hai mujhe khushi hai aisay log bhi hain jo khud ko badaltay rahtay hain aur kuch seekhtay rahtay hain... aur apni improvements per itni minutely nazar bhi rakhtay hain... insaan ko apni zindgi mein kuch seekhtay rahna chahiye... aap kay comments achay thay.... kuch pehlay bhi aap kay comments parhay hain vo bhi dosron se munfrid lagay thay...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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mard jab shadi karta hai vo poranay rishtay nibhasakta hai yaa friendship continue rakh sakta hai lakin aik larki kayliye yeh muskhal zaroor hota hai kay vo puranay sub friends ko time day sakay... Rida ki baat se mein agree karta hoon..

doosra mein yah samjhta hoon kay zaroori nahi her waqt zindgi mein vo same friends hoon yaa un kay saath ho sirf... waqt kay saath dost bhi badaltay rahtay hain... dost bantay hain bichhartay hain koi ata hai koi thora time rah kar chala jata hai... yeh sub zindgi ka hissa hai.. school time kay dost kuch bichhar jataay hain kuch saath rahtay hain jub college mein hotay hain aur college walay bichhar jatay hain jub university puhnchtay hain aur vahan perr new friends ban jatay hain jub job kartay hain universiy kay friends sub apnay kaam mein lag jatay hain... lakin dost ko hamesha dil mein yaad karna chahiye aur agar dost kay pass time nahi tu theek hai dosti nahi torni chahiye hosakta hai koi ussay majboori ho...

Sub se pehli baat yeh k meri her baat black & white mein nahi he, kuch flexibility / exceptions pe bhi mein believe kerta hoon. Sub ke halaat aik jese nahi hotay. Lekin jub hum aik concept ko generalize kerte hein to hamein apna viewpoint black & white mein he beyaan kerna perta he ta ke baat ka kuch asar rahay.

Aik larki jis ki shadi hui he, no doubt wo us tarah independent nahi rahi jese shadi se pehlay thi. Lekin yeh sooch ker ke us ne shadi ker li he aur ub waqt aa gaya he usay apni dooston ko good bye kerne ka yeh negativity he is se ziada kuch nahi. Her insaan ko apni capacity mein apne dooston ko available hona chahiye. Jese ager koi Canada chala gaya he to wo apne dooston ko week mein aik baar bhi call ker ke haal chaal pooch le ga to koi us per shikwa nahi karay ga. Aik week mein 5 se 10 minute to dooston ka haq banta he. Aur larki ager apne susral mein ja ker ziada apne dooston se interact nahi ker sakti to jub maikay aaye to pehli fursat mein apni dooston ko call karay. Ager aap mil nahi saktay to yeh 5 minute bohat matter kerte hein bhai.

Baat itni he ke aap dooston ko avoid karo gay to unhein pata chal jaye ga. Ager aap ko is se koi faraq nahi perta ke aap ke doost kia feel kerte hein to aap aik achay doost nahi ho. Simple.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ma'azrat kay saath mein arz karon ga... meinay nafsiyat ka subject parha hai aur herr roz beshumaar logon se milna julna bhi hota hai... logon kay masail sun kay eik report martab karni meri job ka hissa hai...jub mein logon se interview leta hoon tu vo khud ko eik different way se khud ko pesh kartay hain aur reality mein un ki personality un ki aapbeti se mukhtalif hoti hai aur kuch log tu aisay bhi hain jo kahtay kuch hain aur hotay kuch hain... jis tarah aap apni personality ko depict kiya hai mujhe khushi hai aisay log bhi hain jo khud ko badaltay rahtay hain aur kuch seekhtay rahtay hain... aur apni improvements per itni minutely nazar bhi rakhtay hain... insaan ko apni zindgi mein kuch seekhtay rahna chahiye... aap kay comments achay thay.... kuch pehlay bhi aap kay comments parhay hain vo bhi dosron se munfrid lagay thay...

Aray janab yeh hein bhi doosron se munfarid. Aap inhein nafseyaat ka sabaq na perhaein yeh aap nafseyaat ki lecturer hein :lol

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@Rida

shadi k bad larkeoo ka porani friends ko bhool jana ya link na rakhna sahi baat nahi hai ....
agar wo porani friend susral k jaan pehchan wali hoo ya nandoo main say kisi ki friend hoo ya husband k doost ki wife hoo ..to tub aap us say link rakhtay hoo ..or jis ka susraal say koi link na banaye us k baray main yeh tazaad k ub shadi ho gai to peechay bhool jaoo yeh koi munasib baat nahi ..: )
han yeh baat sahi hai k aap ki zimmdaria barh jati hain lekan kabhi kabhi milnay main ya phone karnay main koi haraj nahi ..: )

aksar larkiyaan aisa karti hai ..jesay friends ka aik group howa ,kisi ki shadi jaldi hoo gai us group main say to bus ji us k nakhrye k bara teer maar lia koi :lol: ..porani friends ko bhool jati hain ...or aik waqat aisa bhi ata hai k susral waloo say bhi jub jotaay khati hian ya wesay hi akeli reh jati hian to poranay links yaad atay hian or unhay dhoundti hian : )
dunia gool hain kuch rishtoo ko apna khamkha jitna ignore karoo gay ghoom phir k yehi phir aap k samnay aa hi jaian .tub aap kia feel karoo gay jub wo aisi larkeoo ko jo nakrye karti the ya ignore unhay ghaas bhi nahi dalian gee : )

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اچھی بات ہے
کیا سیکھا۔۔۔۔۔۔ یا کیا تبدیلی آئی آپ میں ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ یہ بھی شئیر کریں۔۔

jesay jesay yaad aya share karti jaoun gee
aik yeh k logoo ko judge karian gay to aap unhay love karna hi choor daian gay : d ..to me zaida judge nahi karti logoun ko :lol: ..achayan borayan sub main hain ..har kisi k sath main reh bhi nahi sakti ..jo sath hain un main bhi hain boraiyaan lekan me zaida keeray nahi nikalti : )

aik dur band hota hai to soo dur or khul jatay hian .

har darker side k aik bright side bhi hoti hai is pay bhi nazar rakhni abhi shuru ki hai :lol:

aik cheez abhi seekhni hai jis pay practical karna shuru kia hai ..balkay kushish karti houn k karoun ..k aap ,aap hoo ..dosray ki batoo main a k apnay aap ko down na karian ...aisay logoo ki batoo ko ignore kar daian jo aap ka husla tooraian .....balkay main to kehti houn inhay achi taraha suna deni chaye k phir na bolian :lol:

aik quote jis pay amal nahi karti wo yeh bhi hai k apportunity ko hath say na jaian gay ..me ko bus jo cheez sahi lagye wo karti houn har apportunity ko nahi pakarti ...

me ko jo jo yaad ata gaya likhti jaoun gee : )

[*Rida*]

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@ Aamir bhai

aap jis context mein baat kar rahay hain ,... you r right.....
woph rishta hi kia jis mein expectations na hoon... lakin baat hai fozzol expectations ki.... main nay yeh nahin kaha keh
woh frnd milti hi nahin ... kam milti hai aur yehi baat aap nay bhi ki keh rabta zuroor rakhain....
asal mein haal yeh hai keh agar chicken roast kha rahay hain tu woh frnd sab ko bachoon ki tarah botiyaan tor tor kar
plates mein daiti thi... tab dosri frnds khati hein .:kr:.. gol gappay bananay ka kaam woh karti hai baqi frnds khati hain...ab mujhay bataien itna expect karna ghalt hai ya nahin...ab kia woh sari zindgi yehi karti rehay....:rew:

Sis insaano mein hum rehtay hein aur insaano se wabasta hein, insaano se he wasta he aur insaano ke he kaam aatay hein. Expectation bhi insaano se he rakhi jati he. Jis moaashray mein reh ker aap insaano se expectation nahi rakh saktay wo aik murdaar moaashray he. Aik friend jis ke saath aap ne school college ke 5, 7 saal guzaray. Us ki khushiyoon aur gham mein shareek huay aur us ne bhi reciprocate kia to shadi konsa dunia ka ajooba he ke aap apne dooston ko bula do, ya aap doost se expectations he khatam ker do. Aik fact he sis, Jis rishtay mein waqt guzarne ke
saath saath aap ki expectation strong hoti hein aur agla banda aap ki expectation ko pura kerne ki achi kooshish kerta he
wo rishta kabil-e-sataish he, aur jis rishtay mein waqt ke saath aap ko apni expectation minimize kerni perti he wo rishta reliable kabi na tha.Jis rishtay mein expectation aap ko kum kerni perti he wo rishtay ki achi kisam hergiz nahi.
Haan albata aik baat zaroor he, ager aap per yeh ayaan ho jaye ke kuch loog aap ki expectation ko koi ehmiyat dene ko
teyaar nahi, un se expectation waqt se pehlay withdraw ker lein. Kuch loog kabi bhi reliable nahi ho saktay. Yeh mera

experience he.

Aur larki ager apne susral mein ja ker ziada apne dooston se interact nahi ker sakti to jub maikay aaye to pehli fursat mein apni dooston ko call karay. Ager aap mil nahi saktay to yeh 5 minute bohat matter kerte hein bhai.
Baat itni he ke aap dooston ko avoid karo gay to unhein pata chal jaye ga. Ager aap ko is se koi faraq nahi perta ke aap ke doost kia feel kerte hein to aap aik achay doost nahi ho. Simple.

@ Ummid

@ Rida

Jis cheez ko me apni saari zindagi ki learning sumjhti ho woh yeh hai:

"No matter how hard you try, people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave" - yeh cheez me ne apne ek professor se seekhi.... or ab yeh me ke andar itni baith gai hai ke I hardly get affected by people's behavior.... (except 1 person in my life - us ke towards bhi ab me indifferent hoti jaa rahi ho)...

I have learned that people will talk about you... might as well give them something to talk about.... so I never bothered what people talk about me... I live my life at fullest.

the third thing: I am hardcore believer of, is: "the more people that hate me, the less I have to get along with" - so, I never give second thought before showing people where actually they stand in my life or in reality... Jo sahi nahi woh sahi nahi... chahe woh me ke kitne bhi superior ho official life mein ya personal family mein....!!

and last but not least... I have learned to "forgive" and "forget" - and I have practiced it so much since last 4 or 5 years... ab me ki short term memory negative events ko le ker itni weak hogai hai ke me ko ab waqai yaad nahi rehta - kis ne me ke saath exactly kya bura kiya tha... coz once i forgive i forget too.. : )

so basically, I have become rude, harsh and annoying person in reality... me ne or bhi bauaht kuch seekha hai.... or sirf seekha nahi, me ne practice ki hai...!!

:thmbup: liked your reply a lot...:phool:
u kay saray points valid hain aur first one ka tajurba me ko bhi buht hota hai ... ksi ka amal us kay sath me ka mairay saath....
ALLAH TALA seekhnay mein tumhari madad karay aur harsh aur rude honay say bachaaye...AMEEN SUM AMEEN

[*Rida*]

Re: کیا سیکھتے ہیں

mard jab shadi karta hai vo poranay rishtay nibhasakta hai yaa friendship continue rakh sakta hai lakin aik larki kayliye yeh muskhal zaroor hota hai kay vo puranay sub friends ko time day sakay... Rida ki baat se mein agree karta hoon..

doosra mein yah samjhta hoon kay zaroori nahi her waqt zindgi mein vo same friends hoon yaa un kay saath ho sirf... waqt kay saath dost bhi badaltay rahtay hain... dost bantay hain bichhartay hain koi ata hai koi thora time rah kar chala jata hai... yeh sub zindgi ka hissa hai.. school time kay dost kuch bichhar jataay hain kuch saath rahtay hain jub college mein hotay hain aur college walay bichhar jatay hain jub university puhnchtay hain aur vahan perr new friends ban jatay hain jub job kartay hain universiy kay friends sub apnay kaam mein lag jatay hain... lakin dost ko hamesha dil mein yaad karna chahiye aur agar dost kay pass time nahi tu theek hai dosti nahi torni chahiye hosakta hai koi ussay majboori ho...

agreed with... dosti nahin torni chahiye...bad guman nahin hona chahiye... aglay banday ko margin daina chahiye...(sirf frndship mein nahin her mamlay mein)

@Rida

shadi k bad larkeoo ka porani friends ko bhool jana ya link na rakhna sahi baat nahi hai ....
agar wo porani friend susral k jaan pehchan wali hoo ya nandoo main say kisi ki friend hoo ya husband k doost ki wife hoo ..to tub aap us say link rakhtay hoo ..or jis ka susraal say koi link na banaye us k baray main yeh tazaad k ub shadi ho gai to peechay bhool jaoo yeh koi munasib baat nahi ..: )
han yeh baat sahi hai k aap ki zimmdaria barh jati hain lekan kabhi kabhi milnay main ya phone karnay main koi haraj nahi ..: )

aksar larkiyaan aisa karti hai ..jesay friends ka aik group howa ,kisi ki shadi jaldi hoo gai us group main say to bus ji us k nakhrye k bara teer maar lia koi :lol: ..porani friends ko bhool jati hain ...or aik waqat aisa bhi ata hai k susral waloo say bhi jub jotaay khati hian ya wesay hi akeli reh jati hian to poranay links yaad atay hian or unhay dhoundti hian : )
dunia gool hain kuch rishtoo ko apna khamkha jitna ignore karoo gay ghoom phir k yehi phir aap k samnay aa hi jaian .tub aap kia feel karoo gay jub wo aisi larkeoo ko jo nakrye karti the ya ignore unhay ghaas bhi nahi dalian gee : )

kehtay hain naa halaat chaltay hoye pahiye ki tarah hotay hain.... jab aap oper ki janib hoon tu neechay ki janib mojoud loagoon ko nahin bholain..... isi tarah woh bhi aap ko is ki ulat situation mein nahin bholain gay...:thmbup:
main nay aisa dekha hai waisay ...... jin kay mizaj aasman per pohanch gaye thay lakin makafat e amal jaisay kainati qanoon kay aagay bay bus ho gaye....

[*Rida*]

Re: کیا سیکھتے ہیں

jesay jesay yaad aya share karti jaoun gee
aik yeh k logoo ko judge karian gay to aap unhay love karna hi choor daian gay : d ..to me zaida judge nahi karti logoun ko :lol: ..achayan borayan sub main hain ..har kisi k sath main reh bhi nahi sakti ..jo sath hain un main bhi hain boraiyaan lekan me zaida keeray nahi nikalti : )

aik dur band hota hai to soo dur or khul jatay hian .

har darker side k aik bright side bhi hoti hai is pay bhi nazar rakhni abhi shuru ki hai :lol:

aik cheez abhi seekhni hai jis pay practical karna shuru kia hai ..balkay kushish karti houn k karoun ..k aap ,aap hoo ..dosray ki batoo main a k apnay aap ko down na karian ...aisay logoo ki batoo ko ignore kar daian jo aap ka husla tooraian .....balkay main to kehti houn inhay achi taraha suna deni chaye k phir na bolian :lol:

aik quote jis pay amal nahi karti wo yeh bhi hai k apportunity ko hath say na jaian gay ..me ko bus jo cheez sahi lagye wo karti houn har apportunity ko nahi pakarti ...

me ko jo jo yaad ata gaya likhti jaoun gee : )

yupp Aanchal share karti rehna... sab ka bhala hogaaa...:D:

Aanchal u kay reply say bhi buht khushi hoi....brighter side per nazar rakhnay ki trick bhi bata dain....kiun keh aksar sirf samnay ki hi cheez nazar aati hai....
n yes u r treu... dosroon ki batoon mein aa kay banda apna kabara hi karta hai...
opportunities ka jahan tak mamla hai .. sahi waqt per sahi kaam samajh nahin aata kabhi kabhar...aisa hota hai...:)