kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

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assalamlaikum

hamray aas paas kai loog hotay hian ...buhat say loog aap ko achay lagtay hian (chaye un say zaida baat cheet na bhi hoo) or kuch say aap ko ajeeb si beezari or nafrat si hoti hai ..chaye un say zaida mail jool na bhi hoo ...to aap kisi say nafrat kis waja say kartay hian ? aisi kia un ki adat hai jis ki waja say un say aap ko chirr ati hai ?

[Baniaz Khan]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Pehly tum batao phir mae batata hoon :hii:

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Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Pehly tum batao phir mae batata hoon :hii:

main nay yeh thread apnay leye nahi lagaya billo baji

[Baniaz Khan]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

main nay yeh thread apnay leye nahi lagaya billo baji

تو پھر تمھارا کیا مقصد تھا بلو رانی

[crystal_thinking]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

kuch logon sy nafrat nai balkay is sy b agay ki aik cheez hoti hy wo samjhti hn.. :shyy:

chir mjko chirya sy ati mehsoos hoti hy shaid yeh wahan sy he drive hoya hy...

[ummid]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

I suffer from "unreasonable disliking for people" disorder :lol

I dont have any particular reason ...

Na Muhabbat ki reason, Na Nafrat ki reason... bewajah ke avein se rishte..

[u_r]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

I suffer from "unreasonable disliking for people" disorder :lol

I dont have any particular reason ...

Na Muhabbat ki reason, Na Nafrat ki reason... bewajah ke avein se rishte..

Thanks ummid for giving it a name:lol........I sometimes too feel the same..
Most of the times , there is a reason why I hate the other person.At other times, it's un-explained, but I can't help but hate them

[saraah]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

@

''i dont hate u
im just not necessarily excited abt ur existance''

its my answer.........n ''u'' is not ''u'' aanchal :lol

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

assalamlaikum

hamray aas paas kai loog hotay hian ...buhat say loog aap ko achay lagtay hian (chaye un say zaida baat cheet na bhi hoo) or kuch say aap ko ajeeb si beezari or nafrat si hoti hai ..chaye un say zaida mail jool na bhi hoo ...to aap kisi say nafrat kis waja say kartay hian ? aisi kia un ki adat hai jis ki waja say un say aap ko chirr ati hai ?

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Interesting topic and potentially it allows to me a lot to say. I would hate habits, tendencies rather than hating people. People are mostly not what they actually pretend to be. I was in habit to judge people instantly but now is the revival of that habit. At times people behave different at different occasion to add oddness in the relationship and this is where something must be seriously wrong with them. This is a must thinking point. This is worst of relationship when you think the best for people and they think you are not. Sometime I am compelled the rethink that goodwill shouldn't be that much frequent that tempt people to take it as granted.

Furthermore I hate a frequent tendency especially related to this forum that members always want to see them or their stuff to be praised like hell even whatever the bullshit, illogical and non-sense they post. The responders to those threads (as most of them also frequent thread starter) keep agreeing them and facilitating them to post further bullshit that eventually decrease the quality of forum. If you have nothing in your mind or you have a picture in your screen that is enough to start a hell thread. They don't offend nothing and likewise want to be reciprocated in same fashion. I can't see enough people decently daring to argue or come up with counter comment to enforce their logical viewpoint with the exception of SAZ, Faustus and to a little Baniaz. If you dislike the posting of a same member at a couple of occasion that member will try to avoid you instead of rationalizing the matter. I just want to emphasize that there is a dire need of promoting fair atmosphere where members have enough courage to welcome counter comments with a smile.

Again telling, no hate for people but their bad habits.

[azeem-ahmed]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

mein nafrat nahi karta lakin kuch dosto ki adtain achi nahi lagti. kabhi un se un ki burri adat kay baray mein agaah karta hoon aur kabhi nahi kar pata.. yeh bhi hakeekat hai kay kuchh hamari burri adtain dosron ko bhi takleef deti hoon gi jese eik larki jis ko meinay thora cheat kiya tha olta ussay tang karnay kaylie seena taaan kay ghoomta tha vo bara chirti thi aur vo muj se bahut nafrat karti thi aur muje kahti thi kay mera bass nahi chalta varna tujhe kacha khaa jaon.. :lol

[crystal_thinking]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Aamir tumki post main shair kia kehta hy

[azeem-ahmed]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Interesting topic and potentially it allows to me a lot to say. I would hate habits, tendencies rather than hating people. People are mostly not what they actually pretend to be. I was in habit to judge people instantly but now is the revival of that habit. At times people behave different at different occasion to add oddness in the relationship and this is where something must be seriously wrong with them. This is a must thinking point. This is worst of relationship when you think the best for people and they think you are not. Sometime I am compelled the rethink that goodwill shouldn't be that much frequent that tempt people to take it as granted.

Furthermore I hate a frequent tendency especially related to this forum that members always want to see them or their stuff to be praised like hell even whatever the bullshit, illogical and non-sense they post. The responders to those threads (as most of them also frequent thread starter) keep agreeing them and facilitating them to post further bullshit that eventually decrease the quality of forum. If you have nothing in your mind or you have a picture in your screen that is enough to start a hell thread. They don't offend nothing and likewise want to be reciprocated in same fashion. I can't see enough people decently daring to argue or come up with counter comment to enforce their logical viewpoint with the exception of SAZ, Faustus and to a little Baniaz. If you dislike the posting of a same member at a couple of occasion that member will try to avoid you instead of rationalizing the matter. I just want to emphasize that there is a dire need of promoting fair atmosphere where members have enough courage to welcome counter comments with a smile.

Again telling, no hate for people but their bad habits.

nice comments:thmbup:

[crystal_thinking]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Mjko wapda walon sy chir nafrat sab kuch hy

[u_r]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Aamir tumki post main shair kia kehta hy

372-haha..nice one!!!!!!!!!

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: kisi say nafrat aap kis waja say kartay hian ?

Aamir tumki post main shair kia kehta hy

Hayar kehta he k crystal se kaho lux sabun se moun dho k aaye. Chalo ub shayar ko naraz nai kro :p