Dukh ki baat

[AbgeenA]

Aslamoalikum
parents kitne piyar mohabat se sab bachon ki tarbeyat karte hen...lekin ager wo na rahen to yehi bache kitne ajeeb ho jate hen...rupe pese maal k leay kitne lalach ajate hen in k dilon me...kabhi apna hisa keh kar...kabhi parents ki nishani keh kar...kia behen bhai bazat-e-khud aik doosre k leay maan baap ki nishani nahi hote....rishte kiun muqadam nahi rehte?maal o zar kiun ankhon par pati band deta he....bharosa maan sab kiun toot jata he?he koi jawab in sawalon ka?

[saraah]

Re: Dukh ki baat

waalikum asslam

hai inka jawaab wo yeh k in sawaloN k jawaab mat dhoonda karo.... yeh cheezain koi nayi nahi hain... maanti hoon k takleef hoti hai jab yeh sab aapki zaat k sath ho raha ho iss situation se aap khud guzar rahay hon aur Allah ne aap k senay me ek khoobsurat dil b daal diya ho,lakin khuda kisi par uski himmat se zayda bojh nae daalta ... yeh azmayeshain hoti hain jesa k quran me hai k maal aur aulaad fitna hai tou phir kis sawaal k jawaab ki gunjayesh reh jati hai???

bas dua yehi honi chahiye k Allah hamen aazmayeshon se duur rakhay .

aur meri dua hai k ALLAH tumein zindagi k har qadam pe aasaniyaan aata frmaye.... me tumein waqai khush aur mutmain dekhna chahti hoon

[thefire1]

Re: Dukh ki baat

Assalaam-O-alaikum Abgeena,

Mujhay bhi aap ka message paRh kar bohat dukh hua, infact yoon kahain jaisay dil taRap sa gaya!

Waqayi waldain ka asal asaasa unn ki aulaad hoti hay aur unko dee hoyee woh tarbiyat jo zindagi bhar uss ko INSAAN banayay rakhti hay....... kahin suna tha kay MUSALMAAN, ISAAYE, HINDHU banna asaan hay magar INSAAN banna bohat mushkil.

Yeh sab laalach, maal say lagan, ALLAH SWT nay khudh humaray diloon main paida ki hay taakay humara IMTIHAAN lay sakay, ab hum kitnay iss imtihaan per pooray utartay hain yeh humaray apnay character per munhasir hay.

Jiss nay dunyawi aish-o-araam aur daulat-o-shohrat ko tarjeeh dee woh aakhirat kay aiysh-o-araam aur aalat muqaam say mehroom rahay ga.

Aap bas apnay waldain ki bakhsish-o-maghfirat ki dua karti rahain, aur inn sab cheezon ko apnay zehan say jhatak dain......... kiyonki kisi ka bhi maal humesha nahin rehna, huemsha rehni waali srif aur srif aap kay woh amaal hain jo aap ko duniya-o-aakhrat main surkhuroo karain gain.

I am sorry for writing such a long message, I just couldnt control my thoughts and it just kept spreading on this screen...... be peaceful and be blessed.

ALLAH SWT aap ki mushkilaat door karay aur aap ko khushiyon say nawaazay.

Fi amaan ALLAH

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

waalikum asslam

hai inka jawaab wo yeh k in sawaloN k jawaab mat dhoonda karo.... yeh cheezain koi nayi nahi hain... maanti hoon k takleef hoti hai jab yeh sab aapki zaat k sath ho raha ho iss situation se aap khud guzar rahay hon aur Allah ne aap k senay me ek khoobsurat dil b daal diya ho,lakin khuda kisi par uski himmat se zayda bojh nae daalta ... yeh azmayeshain hoti hain jesa k quran me hai k maal aur aulaad fitna hai tou phir kis sawaal k jawaab ki gunjayesh reh jati hai???

bas dua yehi honi chahiye k Allah hamen aazmayeshon se duur rakhay .

aur meri dua hai k ALLAH tumein zindagi k har qadam pe aasaniyaan aata frmaye.... me tumein waqai khush aur mutmain dekhna chahti hoon

mere leay to sab naei hen....:shyy:

n thanx for ur duaz:rose

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

Assalaam-O-alaikum Abgeena,

Mujhay bhi aap ka message paRh kar bohat dukh hua, infact yoon kahain jaisay dil taRap sa gaya!

Waqayi waldain ka asal asaasa unn ki aulaad hoti hay aur unko dee hoyee woh tarbiyat jo zindagi bhar uss ko INSAAN banayay rakhti hay....... kahin suna tha kay MUSALMAAN, ISAAYE, HINDHU banna asaan hay magar INSAAN banna bohat mushkil.

Yeh sab laalach, maal say lagan, ALLAH SWT nay khudh humaray diloon main paida ki hay taakay humara IMTIHAAN lay sakay, ab hum kitnay iss imtihaan per pooray utartay hain yeh humaray apnay character per munhasir hay.

Jiss nay dunyawi aish-o-araam aur daulat-o-shohrat ko tarjeeh dee woh aakhirat kay aiysh-o-araam aur aalat muqaam say mehroom rahay ga.

Aap bas apnay waldain ki bakhsish-o-maghfirat ki dua karti rahain, aur inn sab cheezon ko apnay zehan say jhatak dain......... kiyonki kisi ka bhi maal humesha nahin rehna, huemsha rehni waali srif aur srif aap kay woh amaal hain jo aap ko duniya-o-aakhrat main surkhuroo karain gain.

I am sorry for writing such a long message, I just couldnt control my thoughts and it just kept spreading on this screen...... be peaceful and be blessed.

ALLAH SWT aap ki mushkilaat door karay aur aap ko khushiyon say nawaazay.

Fi amaan ALLAH

ameen
thanx:rose

[BhaTaktii RooH]

Re: Dukh ki baat

و عليكم السلام

Rita...:hug:

dekho me ne ab xindagi se aik cheez tu seekh li hai....If u believe dat U R Right tu doosroon ki parwaah karni hi nai chahye.....i know dukh hota hai jub is tarah k negative khayalaat ka samna karna parrey as Saraah api said..."Jub Allah ne ap k seenay mai khoobsorat dil bhi dala ho"...but still insaan ko enough strong hona chahye k kisi ki koi baat kabhi zor se lagey nai....Lalach is zar'o'zaivar ka....ye tu insaan ki fitrat mai hai....or us ka koi ilaaj nai kar saktey ap....(me doosroon k ilaaj ki baat kar rayi hoon)....but apney liye u can do alot.....so be strong n stick to ur beliefs....Allah ap k saath hai humesha...if u ki niyat achi hai tu...

Lots ov prayers...

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

و عليكم السلام

Rita...:hug:

dekho me ne ab xindagi se aik cheez tu seekh li hai....If u believe dat U R Right tu doosroon ki parwaah karni hi nai chahye.....i know dukh hota hai jub is tarah k negative khayalaat ka samna karna parrey as Saraah api said..."Jub Allah ne ap k seenay mai khoobsorat dil bhi dala ho"...but still insaan ko enough strong hona chahye k kisi ki koi baat kabhi zor se lagey nai....Lalach is zar'o'zaivar ka....ye tu insaan ki fitrat mai hai....or us ka koi ilaaj nai kar saktey ap....(me doosroon k ilaaj ki baat kar rayi hoon)....but apney liye u can do alot.....so be strong n stick to ur beliefs....Allah ap k saath hai humesha...if u ki niyat achi hai tu...

Lots ov prayers...

shaed jo cheez insan k sath nai nai hoti he wo zeada takleef deti he...ahista ahista adi ho jate hon ge insan..or wakai is zameen par serf Allah ki zaat hoti he jo shiru se insan k sath hoti he...or akher tak rehti he...bas ham notice der me karte hen...

[Baniaz Khan]

Re: Dukh ki baat

میں تو صرف اتنا کہوں گا کہ کسی نے کیا خوب کہا ہے کہ
اولاد کے لیے کچھ بھی جمع نہ کرو، اگر اولاد خراب ہوئی تو سب کچھ برباد کرلے گی۔ اور اگر صحیح ہوئی تو خود سب کچھ اپنے لیے بنالے گی۔

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Dukh ki baat

Waise Senorita mein bhi aksar aukaat loogon se aisi baatein kerta rehta hoon. Mujay apne maa baap aur un ke asaason (aulaad) ki bari kadar he. Lekin kia he ke kuch loogon ke cases mein paisa baazi le jata he

[Baniaz Khan]

Re: Dukh ki baat

waise senorita mein bhi aksar aukaat loogon se aisi baatein kerta rehta hoon. Mujay apne maa baap aur un ke asaason (aulaad) ki bari kadar he. Lekin kia he ke kuch loogon ke cases mein paisa baazi le jata he

agreed

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: Dukh ki baat

W sallam.....
Jo kuch aap nay bian kia iss hawallay say bara hi talkh expeiencs hoey hain mjhay,,agar waldain kay bad aoollad main aik dossrray kay liey iissar kar jazbaa hai to mamllat aassani say hall ho jattay hain,otherwise paissay ki Hawas insan ko gumrahh kr detii hai....
Meray Dada ki waffat kay baad jab property ki taksseem ka mamla aaya to mammllat aassani say tayy ho gaiey kiounkeh meray abu aor uncles aik dossrray kay liey iissarr aor mohabat ka jazba rakhtay thayy,,,
but

meraay Nana jan ki waffat kay badd merayy Mammoo property ki takseem kay mamllay main aapis main jhaagar paray,Dollat ki Hawas nay unn say Rishtoo kee pehchan b cheen li aor ab 3 saall say un kay cases addaltoo main chall rahhay hain.........

[saraah]

Re: Dukh ki baat

mere leay to sab naei hen....:shyy:

n thanx for ur duaz:rose

thts the point yar......apna daira wasee kro logon se mila kro tumein apna gham chota lagnay lagay ga baba farid kehtay hain

''farid dukh mujh kooN dukh sabhaa eh jagg
uchaa charrh k wekhya te ghar ghar ehaa agg''

matlab yeh hai k ''ay farid me smjhta thaa k dukh sirf muje hi hain lakin jab me ne apni zaat se bahir ho k dekhaa tou muje pata laga sari dunia dukhoN se bhari hui hai''.........

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

میں تو صرف اتنا کہوں گا کہ کسی نے کیا خوب کہا ہے کہ
اولاد کے لیے کچھ بھی جمع نہ کرو، اگر اولاد خراب ہوئی تو سب کچھ برباد کرلے گی۔ اور اگر صحیح ہوئی تو خود سب کچھ اپنے لیے بنالے گی۔

sahi kaha

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

Waise Senorita mein bhi aksar aukaat loogon se aisi baatein kerta rehta hoon. Mujay apne maa baap aur un ke asaason (aulaad) ki bari kadar he. Lekin kia he ke kuch loogon ke cases mein paisa baazi le jata he

ji bilkul

[AbgeenA]

Re: Dukh ki baat

W sallam.....
Jo kuch aap nay bian kia iss hawallay say bara hi talkh expeiencs hoey hain mjhay,,agar waldain kay bad aoollad main aik dossrray kay liey iissar kar jazbaa hai to mamllat aassani say hall ho jattay hain,otherwise paissay ki Hawas insan ko gumrahh kr detii hai....
Meray Dada ki waffat kay baad jab property ki taksseem ka mamla aaya to mammllat aassani say tayy ho gaiey kiounkeh meray abu aor uncles aik dossrray kay liey iissarr aor mohabat ka jazba rakhtay thayy,,,
but

meraay Nana jan ki waffat kay badd merayy Mammoo property ki takseem kay mamllay main aapis main jhaagar paray,Dollat ki Hawas nay unn say Rishtoo kee pehchan b cheen li aor ab 3 saall say un kay cases addaltoo main chall rahhay hain.........

Allah is had tak jane se bachaey372-scare