** blame game....!!

[ambreen_shaam]

Re: ** blame game....!!

Asalamaalaikum

ummid hai aap sub khairyat se honge...

Blame game ke baare mein aap ki kya raaye????

aap logo ko blame karte hain?? ya saari responsibility apne sir le lete hain :$

Have you ever faced it?? jahan aap ki ghalti na ho aap ko blame kiya gaya ho?? how does it feel???

yeh specially working envt. mein zyadah hota hai?? specially seniors or authority people more do it?? right??

Aap ne kabhi face kiya tu is cheez ko kaise handle kiya??? koi tips dein...??

Aap ne kabhi apni ghalti ke liye jaante bojhte dosre ko zimedar tharaya??? ya aap ek "zimedar" types bande/ bandi hain jis ne apni saari responsibilities us ke pros and con ke saath accept ki hai....??

filhaal itna hi... waiting for reply :thmbup:

agar koi blame lagata hai uss kay saath baat kar kay khadshaat door karna chahiye..... kabhi kabhi yeh bhi hota hai kay insaan galati kar jata hai lakin ussay pata nahi hota kay vo kahan galti kar gaya hai....khadshaat ko baat kay zariye hal karna chahiye.....

jahan tak mera sawal hai mein agar kahin galat hoti hoon koshash karti hoon kay dosray ko blame na karon.... agar kisi aur ki galati hoti hai aur vo feel bhi na karay aur khud ko barri zama bhi samjhay tu sirf tanz karti rahti hoon takay ussay feel ho kay mein kyun tanz kar rahi hoon........ bus dil hee dil mein ussay aina dekhati rahti hoon..... :yes

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me pehlay dosroo ko blame karti the zaida : d ..ub kam kar dia hai :lol: ..jo kaam ham kartay hain zindagi main jo step uthatay hian is kay zimmdari ham hotay hain ..acha howa us ka credit bhi hamra or agar bora ho gaya to us ki bhi zimmdari ham pay hoti hai ....ham hi zimmdar hotay hain apni cheezoo kay .....bus ahesta ahest ayehi seekha hai ...aksar auqaat ham dosroo ko ghalat blame nahi kartay ....lekan ham surat i haal ko sahi say handle nahi kar patay , kaam dosroo kay mashwarye pay choor deye ..kharab ho gay to dosray loog foran nikal jatay hian rastay say :lol: ...so dosroo ko blame karnay ki bajye sucha khudi souch samajh kay fasilye keye jaian or har cheez ki zimmdari khud laian ....

is say aik waqeya me ko yaad aya ..aik friend ki party pay gai ..us ki aik or best friend the lekan us nay usay party main nahi bulaya tha ...or us ka phone bhi nahi uthai the , usay ignore kar rahi the ..to pata chala kay dosri larki nay is larki kay mashwarye say shadi ki ...(us ka koi rishta aya tha wo nahi karna chahti the ..is nay kaha kar lo bad main khudi theek ho jata hai ,qismat ki baat hoti hai blah blah ) us nay kar li .....lekan ....wo larki apni life main set nahi hovi ..:d or sara blame is pay kay tum nay mujhay mashwara dia tha ..tum nay yeh kia blah blah ..wo ub isay blame kar rahi the ...or yeh usay ignore ........khair ....mashwara jo bhi day ankhian band kar kay mannay ki bajye khud say suchian or khudi zimmdari laian .....
to main nay bhi in sub cheezoo say buhat kuch seekha :lol:

or 2nd part ...kay koi dosra blame karye ....dil to karta hai aisay bandoo ko banda shot kar day ....!
is main bhi ham kahi na kahi ghalati kar jatay hian kay koi baat ham itna zaida serious nahi leytay kabhi kabhi jitna dosra banda lay raha hota hai ...ya ham buhat say kamoo main aik sath masroof hotay hian or sath sath kaam jari rakhtay hian to koi point kaha miss ho jaye is pay tawajoo nahi diti ...dosray loog to bahana dhound rehay hotay hian apni ghalati dosroo pay dalnay ka ..hamary paas koi saboot nahi hota ...to ham pay blame .......
koi saboot hona chaye ......
jis taraha say jhoot kay poun nahi hotay yeh cheezian bhi aisay pheelti hian ..blame games.....
apni memory ko acha banian takay batian yaad rehian ....: d
wesay jo banda zaida khamosh rehta hai apni baat ko sahi say nahi samjha sakta us pay zaida blames ka thappa lug jata hai ..wo apnay aap ko sahi say justify bhi nahi kar pata..
mera khayal hai agar koi ghalat blame lagye to theek taraha say us ki class laian ..ya samjhian jo bhi karye ..takay jo loog khamkhwa blame kartay hian wo baaz rehian ..
jahan apni ghalteyaan hain wo bhi khud suchian or sahi karnay ki kushish karaian kay aap kahan ghalati kar jatay hoo kay blame aap pay a jata hai ..koi na koi to point ho ga ?
or kuch logo ko wesay bhi har baat dosro pay dalnay ki adat hoti hai ....to bus apnay kaam say kaam rakhian wo jaian bhaar main or kia keh saktay hian :lol:

baki jub me job karoun gee pher bataoun gee kesay niptana chaye in cheezoo say : d

[ambreen_shaam]

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me pehlay dosroo ko blame karti the zaida : d ..ub kam kar dia hai :lol: ..jo kaam ham kartay hain zindagi main jo step uthatay hian is kay zimmdari ham hotay hain ..acha howa us ka credit bhi hamra or agar bora ho gaya to us ki bhi zimmdari ham pay hoti hai ....ham hi zimmdar hotay hain apni cheezoo kay .....bus ahesta ahest ayehi seekha hai ...aksar auqaat ham dosroo ko ghalat blame nahi kartay ....lekan ham surat i haal ko sahi say handle nahi kar patay , kaam dosroo kay mashwarye pay choor deye ..kharab ho gay to dosray loog foran nikal jatay hian rastay say :lol: ...so dosroo ko blame karnay ki bajye sucha khudi souch samajh kay fasilye keye jaian or har cheez ki zimmdari khud laian ....

is say aik waqeya me ko yaad aya ..aik friend ki party pay gai ..us ki aik or best friend the lekan us nay usay party main nahi bulaya tha ...or us ka phone bhi nahi uthai the , usay ignore kar rahi the ..to pata chala kay dosri larki nay is larki kay mashwarye say shadi ki ...(us ka koi rishta aya tha wo nahi karna chahti the ..is nay kaha kar lo bad main khudi theek ho jata hai ,qismat ki baat hoti hai blah blah ) us nay kar li .....lekan ....wo larki apni life main set nahi hovi ..:d or sara blame is pay kay tum nay mujhay mashwara dia tha ..tum nay yeh kia blah blah ..wo ub isay blame kar rahi the ...or yeh usay ignore ........khair ....mashwara jo bhi day ankhian band kar kay mannay ki bajye khud say suchian or khudi zimmdari laian .....
to main nay bhi in sub cheezoo say buhat kuch seekha :lol:

or 2nd part ...kay koi dosra blame karye ....dil to karta hai aisay bandoo ko banda shot kar day ....!
is main bhi ham kahi na kahi ghalati kar jatay hian kay koi baat ham itna zaida serious nahi leytay kabhi kabhi jitna dosra banda lay raha hota hai ...ya ham buhat say kamoo main aik sath masroof hotay hian or sath sath kaam jari rakhtay hian to koi point kaha miss ho jaye is pay tawajoo nahi diti ...dosray loog to bahana dhound rehay hotay hian apni ghalati dosroo pay dalnay ka ..hamary paas koi saboot nahi hota ...to ham pay blame .......
koi saboot hona chaye ......
jis taraha say jhoot kay poun nahi hotay yeh cheezian bhi aisay pheelti hian ..blame games.....
apni memory ko acha banian takay batian yaad rehian ....: d
wesay jo banda zaida khamosh rehta hai apni baat ko sahi say nahi samjha sakta us pay zaida blames ka thappa lug jata hai ..wo apnay aap ko sahi say justify bhi nahi kar pata..
mera khayal hai agar koi ghalat blame lagye to theek taraha say us ki class laian ..ya samjhian jo bhi karye ..takay jo loog khamkhwa blame kartay hian wo baaz rehian ..
jahan apni ghalteyaan hain wo bhi khud suchian or sahi karnay ki kushish karaian kay aap kahan ghalati kar jatay hoo kay blame aap pay a jata hai ..koi na koi to point ho ga ?
or kuch logo ko wesay bhi har baat dosro pay dalnay ki adat hoti hai ....to bus apnay kaam say kaam rakhian wo jaian bhaar main or kia keh saktay hian :lol:

baki jub me job karoun gee pher bataoun gee kesay niptana chaye in cheezoo say : d

behan aap nay aaj wakai kamal kar diya hai........... :lol jab se mein iss forum per aae hoon first time aap ki itni bari laaaaaaaaambi post parhnay ko milli hai........ :ys:

aap ka point of view such much bahut acha hai....... aur parh kar dil garden garden bhi hogaya....... :thmbup:


aap kay views parh kar aisa mujhe zaroor laga hai kay aap ki shakhsiat mein thehrao hai....... jo achi cheez hai....... :thmbup:

[ummid]

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baaaki parrhne ki mujh mein sikaat hi na rahi....highlight kiya huwa sentence perr ker!!!!!!!!

kesa feel hota he?????????mat poochein.......aag bhagola ho jaati huhn!!!!!!!!!1

aag bhaogla hone ke baad aap kya kartein hain??

[ummid]

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walekumsalam
bohat ghusa ata he...khoon k ghoont pi kar reh jati hun..zeada safaiyan nahi de pati...bas chup kar jati hun dil me ubalne(boil) k leay

dil mein ubalne ke liye??? is this helped you ever>??

[ummid]

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agar koi blame lagata hai uss kay saath baat kar kay khadshaat door karna chahiye..... kabhi kabhi yeh bhi hota hai kay insaan galati kar jata hai lakin ussay pata nahi hota kay vo kahan galti kar gaya hai....khadshaat ko baat kay zariye hal karna chahiye.....

jahan tak mera sawal hai mein agar kahin galat hoti hoon koshash karti hoon kay dosray ko blame na karon.... agar kisi aur ki galati hoti hai aur vo feel bhi na karay aur khud ko barri zama bhi samjhay tu sirf tanz karti rahti hoon takay ussay feel ho kay mein kyun tanz kar rahi hoon........ bus dil hee dil mein ussay aina dekhati rahti hoon..... :yes

TANZ???? difficult....

anywayz.. thanks for reply : )

[ummid]

Re: ** blame game....!!

me pehlay dosroo ko blame karti the zaida : d ..ub kam kar dia hai :lol: ..jo kaam ham kartay hain zindagi main jo step uthatay hian is kay zimmdari ham hotay hain ..acha howa us ka credit bhi hamra or agar bora ho gaya to us ki bhi zimmdari ham pay hoti hai ....ham hi zimmdar hotay hain apni cheezoo kay .....bus ahesta ahest ayehi seekha hai ...aksar auqaat ham dosroo ko ghalat blame nahi kartay ....lekan ham surat i haal ko sahi say handle nahi kar patay , kaam dosroo kay mashwarye pay choor deye ..kharab ho gay to dosray loog foran nikal jatay hian rastay say :lol: ...so dosroo ko blame karnay ki bajye sucha khudi souch samajh kay fasilye keye jaian or har cheez ki zimmdari khud laian ....

is say aik waqeya me ko yaad aya ..aik friend ki party pay gai ..us ki aik or best friend the lekan us nay usay party main nahi bulaya tha ...or us ka phone bhi nahi uthai the , usay ignore kar rahi the ..to pata chala kay dosri larki nay is larki kay mashwarye say shadi ki ...(us ka koi rishta aya tha wo nahi karna chahti the ..is nay kaha kar lo bad main khudi theek ho jata hai ,qismat ki baat hoti hai blah blah ) us nay kar li .....lekan ....wo larki apni life main set nahi hovi ..:d or sara blame is pay kay tum nay mujhay mashwara dia tha ..tum nay yeh kia blah blah ..wo ub isay blame kar rahi the ...or yeh usay ignore ........khair ....mashwara jo bhi day ankhian band kar kay mannay ki bajye khud say suchian or khudi zimmdari laian .....
to main nay bhi in sub cheezoo say buhat kuch seekha :lol:

or 2nd part ...kay koi dosra blame karye ....dil to karta hai aisay bandoo ko banda shot kar day ....!
is main bhi ham kahi na kahi ghalati kar jatay hian kay koi baat ham itna zaida serious nahi leytay kabhi kabhi jitna dosra banda lay raha hota hai ...ya ham buhat say kamoo main aik sath masroof hotay hian or sath sath kaam jari rakhtay hian to koi point kaha miss ho jaye is pay tawajoo nahi diti ...dosray loog to bahana dhound rehay hotay hian apni ghalati dosroo pay dalnay ka ..hamary paas koi saboot nahi hota ...to ham pay blame .......
koi saboot hona chaye ......
jis taraha say jhoot kay poun nahi hotay yeh cheezian bhi aisay pheelti hian ..blame games.....
apni memory ko acha banian takay batian yaad rehian ....: d
wesay jo banda zaida khamosh rehta hai apni baat ko sahi say nahi samjha sakta us pay zaida blames ka thappa lug jata hai ..wo apnay aap ko sahi say justify bhi nahi kar pata..
mera khayal hai agar koi ghalat blame lagye to theek taraha say us ki class laian ..ya samjhian jo bhi karye ..takay jo loog khamkhwa blame kartay hian wo baaz rehian ..
jahan apni ghalteyaan hain wo bhi khud suchian or sahi karnay ki kushish karaian kay aap kahan ghalati kar jatay hoo kay blame aap pay a jata hai ..koi na koi to point ho ga ?
or kuch logo ko wesay bhi har baat dosro pay dalnay ki adat hoti hai ....to bus apnay kaam say kaam rakhian wo jaian bhaar main or kia keh saktay hian :lol:

baki jub me job karoun gee pher bataoun gee kesay niptana chaye in cheezoo say : d

reply baad mein parhti ho.... pehle aap yeh bataiye aap ne itna likha aap thak gai hongi na aaj :$

Love you... :hug

[AbgeenA]

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dil mein ubalne ke liye??? is this helped you ever>??

haan itna zarur hota he k me fazool ki behes or safaiyaan dene se bach jati hun....

[ummid]

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haan itna zarur hota he k me fazool ki behes or safaiyaan dene se bach jati hun....

sirf is liye you hurt yourself by suppressing your feelings... :$.. .sounds weird to me... : )

[AbgeenA]

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sirf is liye you hurt yourself by suppressing your feelings... :$.. .sounds weird to me... : )

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Jis thread ka naam he ilzaam tarashi per ho aisay thread ke khoosha'e'gandum ko jala dena chahiye

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behan aap nay aaj wakai kamal kar diya hai........... :lol jab se mein iss forum per aae hoon first time aap ki itni bari laaaaaaaaambi post parhnay ko milli hai........ :ys:

aap ka point of view such much bahut acha hai....... aur parh kar dil garden garden bhi hogaya....... :thmbup:


aap kay views parh kar aisa mujhe zaroor laga hai kay aap ki shakhsiat mein thehrao hai....... jo achi cheez hai....... :thmbup:

reply baad mein parhti ho.... pehle aap yeh bataiye aap ne itna likha aap thak gai hongi na aaj :$

Love you... :hug

:shyy:
main nay apnay dil ki bhraas nikaali :shyy: