apni eslaah

[ambreen_shaam]

Assalam o Alaikum

kahtay hain duniya mein sub se mushkil kaam apni eslaah hai aur sub se asaan kaam dosron per nuktay cheenay karna...... arz yeh hai kay aap nay apni shakhsiat mein yaa apni life mein aisi eslaah ki ho jis se aap ko fakhar feel hota ho matlab aisi burri adat jis se aap nay khud ki eslaah ki ho vo kon se eslaah hai??? please aap share karien .......

[saraah]

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waalikum asslam

unforunately muje khud pe fakhar krnay ki aadat nae....baqi islaah Alhamdolilah chalti rehti hai...ehsaas hojaye ya dila diya jaye kisi kami beshi ka tou.

[AbgeenA]

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walekumsalam
fakhar to kabhi bhi nahi...kiun k fakhar karna bhi aik beemari he....or islah to zarur chalti rehti he..khud ko

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Life learning ka naam he aur mein learn ker ke apne ander chooti mooti modifications lata rehta hoon. Koi itni bari kharaabi nahi rahi muj mein jisay mein ne door kia ho aur jo ub mere liye bais-e-fakhar banay.

[ambreen_shaam]

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waalikum asslam

unforunately muje khud pe fakhar krnay ki aadat nae....baqi islaah Alhamdolilah chalti rehti hai...ehsaas hojaye ya dila diya jaye kisi kami beshi ka tou.

fakhar se meri muraad gharoor nahi hai.... balkay khushi feel hoti ho...... choti moti apni eslaah zaroor karti raho.... lakin agar deen kay hawalay hoon tu behtar hai.......:rose

[ambreen_shaam]

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walekumsalam
fakhar to kabhi bhi nahi...kiun k fakhar karna bhi aik beemari he....or islah to zarur chalti rehti he..khud ko

:thmbup: koi khaas eslaah jo abhi aap ko yaad ho ji recently ki ho....

[ambreen_shaam]

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Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Life learning ka naam he aur mein learn ker ke apne ander chooti mooti modifications lata rehta hoon. Koi itni bari kharaabi nahi rahi muj mein jisay mein ne door kia ho aur jo ub mere liye bais-e-fakhar banay.

her insaan apnay aap ko acha samjhta hai..... kharabiyan yaa khoobiyan agar koi aur log batain tu vo authentic hoti hain.....

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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her insaan apnay aap ko acha samjhta hai..... kharabiyan yaa khoobiyan agar koi aur log batain tu vo authentic hoti hain.....

Aisi baat nahi he Cheeti. Dekho jitna aap khud ko achay se understand kerte ho utna koi aap ko understand nahi ker sakta, agree? Aap ke dil mein jo baat he aap us per jo react ker rahay hein agla banda aap ke us act ki sense ko wrongly perceive bhi ker sakta he. Mera khyaal he ke ziada loog apne khoobiyoon aur khaamiyoon ko bohat achi tarah understand kerte hein. Wo apni khaamiyoon pe kaabu nahi paatay ya khoobiyoon per takabar mein aa jatay hein yeh alag baat he.

[AbgeenA]

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:thmbup: koi khaas eslaah jo abhi aap ko yaad ho ji recently ki ho....

islah aik musalsal karne wala kaam he....tabhi to din me 5 nazam parhni hoti he...wese me jis baat ki bohat koshish karti hun k wo na ho..wo gheebat he..ham bohat gher mehsoos andaz me is burai me mubtila ho jate hen...ager khud na bhi karen to doosron ki baten sunte sunte is me shamil ho jate hen...is se mujhe behad dar lagta he...puri koshish karti hun k koi kisi ki bata kare to baat badal doon....kabhi kamyab ho jati hun kabhi nahi ho pati to dil me bohat afsos bhara rehta he sara din:shyy:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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islah aik musalsal karne wala kaam he....tabhi to din me 5 nazam parhni hoti he...wese me jis baat ki bohat koshish karti hun k wo na ho..wo gheebat he..ham bohat gher mehsoos andaz me is burai me mubtila ho jate hen...ager khud na bhi karen to doosron ki baten sunte sunte is me shamil ho jate hen...is se mujhe behad dar lagta he...puri koshish karti hun k koi kisi ki bata kare to baat badal doon....kabhi kamyab ho jati hun kabhi nahi ho pati to dil me bohat afsos bhara rehta he sara din:shyy:

pagal na hoye tay

[AbgeenA]

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pagal na hoye tay

is me pagal ki kia baat he?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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is me pagal ki kia baat he?

suno sub ko maano dil ki. Tumharay mein itna bhi aitmaad nahi k kisi ki baat sun sako ;)

[AbgeenA]

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suno sub ko maano dil ki. Tumharay mein itna bhi aitmaad nahi k kisi ki baat sun sako ;)

jab kisi mehfil me kisi gher mojud ki burai ho rahi ho ap kia karte hen?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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jab kisi mehfil me kisi gher mojud ki burai ho rahi ho ap kia karte hen?

Dekho ager aap ko lagta he ke behaan kerne wala banda sahi beyaan nahi ker raha to aap us ki islaah karo. Kisi ki achai burai ko 2 insaan rational way mein discuss ker saktay hein, jub ke gheebat aik musalsal buri aadat ka naam he. Aap ka bhai koi ghalat baat kerta he aur aap apne doosray bhai ko us ki us ghalat baat ka batatay ho ta ke aap ka doosra bhai apne chotay bhai ki islaah ker sakay to yeh gheebat nahi he bulke is mein islaah ka pehlu moojood he. Gheebat mein islaah ka pehlu moojood nahi hota aur yeh aik planned targeting hoti he.

Samjo aur samaj ke jeo

[AbgeenA]

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Dekho ager aap ko lagta he ke behaan kerne wala banda sahi beyaan nahi ker raha to aap us ki islaah karo. Kisi ki achai burai ko 2 insaan rational way mein discuss ker saktay hein, jub ke gheebat aik musalsal buri aadat ka naam he. Aap ka bhai koi ghalat baat kerta he aur aap apne doosray bhai ko us ki us ghalat baat ka batatay ho ta ke aap ka doosra bhai apne chotay bhai ki islaah ker sakay to yeh gheebat nahi he bulke is mein islaah ka pehlu moojood he. Gheebat mein islaah ka pehlu moojood nahi hota aur yeh aik planned targeting hoti he.

Samjo aur samaj ke jeo

gheebat wo hoti he jo kisi ki gher mojudgi me esi baat ki jaey to ager kisi k samne ki jaey to us ko bura lage...islah wali baat to alag he...or log jab mil beth'te hen to yehi kaam sab se zeada karte hen....logon ko zer-e-behes late hen..jab k is k elawa bhi dheron baten hoti hen jo log kar sakte hen...