akela pan

[crystal_thinking]

Asalam-O-Alikum

pochna yeh hy k kabi aisa hoya k apko bhot akela pan feel hoya ho? sab k hotay vy aik perfect life spend krty vy kabi koi aik lamha jab apko laga ho k bas kuch fazul hy... apka dil bilawajha he udas honay ko chahy... kuch b na krny ka dil ho bas chup rehna chaho or bilawajha he roony ko dil karay or befazul k sad songs sun sun k rona shuru kar do??? kabi aisi feelings hoye? in feelings ko jaldi jaldi over come karna chahty ho k inko enjoy krty ho????? or aisi waqat mein kon sa song gungunaty ho??? ya koi shair ya any thing...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: akela pan

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Depression to kisi ko bhi ho sakta he, kabi kabi yeh overcome ker jata he lekin raat gai baat gai wali chaker hota he. Subha ka ujala zindagi mein aik nai ramak bhar deta he aur guzashta raat kay mood se bar'aks aik nai subhu ka aagaz hota he. Lehaza meri bad feelings mere saath aik raat to chal sakti hein per next day to chalna ya matwatar kai dino tak chalna yeh shayad he hota he. Kabi kabi akeela rehne ko dil kerta he per ronay ko dil to kabi nai kerta bulke mera khyaal he ronay ko dil kerna he nai chahiye. Mere aik cousin friend ki death hui tub kai dinoo/haftoon tak mein dukh ki halat mein raha tub yeh sub feelings bohat strong thein jese tum ne ouper beyan kia

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: akela pan

W sallam........
Pehlii batt to yeh tanahi yaa udassii billaa waja nai hotii,,koi na koi reason zaroor hotii hai jiss ki waja say yeh udasaii charroo sataf say ghairr saa laitii hai,meray sath b bht martaba aissa howa hai,aik bay nam si udasii dill koo jakkar say laitii hai,aisay main kuch b achaa naii lagtaa,,rona to khair nai aataa bas aik chup si lag jatii hai,, udassi ka yeh phase g
uzar janay kay bad sab phirr aik dam say normal hoo jata haiii

[AbgeenA]

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walekumsalam
haan esa hota he...normal he...pehle songs suna karti thi...or feelings worst ho jaya karti then...abhi Allah ko dheron yaad karti hun to jald sakoon ho jata he..last days ese hi lamhon me aik nazam parhi..to inpage me likhi...u bhi parho...us waqt kuch esi hi feelings hoti hen...baad me normal ho kar banda khud ko

[BhaTaktii RooH]

Re: akela pan

و عليكم السلام

Haan kabhi kabhi nai balkey aksar hi aisa feel hota hai...infact aj kul bhi shayad kuch aisi hi state hai....i donno why bus shayad i am just fedup....sub kuch aj kul zehar lagney lga hai....feel like kuch aisa nai jo mera hai ya merey liye hai.....sara time bus dil karta ro doon....laikin phir kisi ki khatir apney aansoo qaid karney hi parr jatey hain.....:- (
n jahan tuk baat hai overcome karney ki tu sochti hoon k kahin kisi waqt zoroon se ro'on or sari bharras nikal doon....laikin phir dar lagta hai kk kahin next time kuch or bura howa tu aisa na ho k bardasht hi na ho.....:- (

samaj nai araha kaisey express karoon khud ko....bus sub se itni hi request hai k kabhi agar fursat milley kisi farigh waqt mai tu plz merey liye dua' keejiye ga....
take care all
Allah hafiz..

[crystal_thinking]

Re: akela pan

Wa Alaikum Aslam,

Depression to kisi ko bhi ho sakta he, kabi kabi yeh overcome ker jata he lekin raat gai baat gai wali chaker hota he. Subha ka ujala zindagi mein aik nai ramak bhar deta he aur guzashta raat kay mood se bar'aks aik nai subhu ka aagaz hota he. Lehaza meri bad feelings mere saath aik raat to chal sakti hein per next day to chalna ya matwatar kai dino tak chalna yeh shayad he hota he. Kabi kabi akeela rehne ko dil kerta he per ronay ko dil to kabi nai kerta bulke mera khyaal he ronay ko dil kerna he nai chahiye. Mere aik cousin friend ki death hui tub kai dinoo/haftoon tak mein dukh ki halat mein raha tub yeh sub feelings bohat strong thein jese tum ne ouper beyan kia

han aisa he hota yeh feelings kuch dair k liya he hoti hn... per q hoti hein huh

[crystal_thinking]

Re: akela pan

و عليكم السلام

Haan kabhi kabhi nai balkey aksar hi aisa feel hota hai...infact aj kul bhi shayad kuch aisi hi state hai....i donno why bus shayad i am just fedup....sub kuch aj kul zehar lagney lga hai....feel like kuch aisa nai jo mera hai ya merey liye hai.....sara time bus dil karta ro doon....laikin phir kisi ki khatir apney aansoo qaid karney hi parr jatey hain.....:- (
n jahan tuk baat hai overcome karney ki tu sochti hoon k kahin kisi waqt zoroon se ro'on or sari bharras nikal doon....laikin phir dar lagta hai kk kahin next time kuch or bura howa tu aisa na ho k bardasht hi na ho.....:- (

samaj nai araha kaisey express karoon khud ko....bus sub se itni hi request hai k kabhi agar fursat milley kisi farigh waqt mai tu plz merey liye dua' keejiye ga....
take care all
Allah hafiz..

o my dearu rani:tasali: dont't be so sad chanda sab thek ho jae ga INSA ALLAH... u knw na ALLAH G apny pyary bando ko he azmata hy or u tu sab sy pyari bachi ho :hug: be strong n be brave INSHA ALLAH yeh waqat guzray ga tu bhot acha waqat u ka muntazir hoye ga INSA ALLAH...
or jahan lagny lagy k kuch tmhry liya nai hy tu chanda aise nai sochty qk waqat kbi kabi aisy halat hmry samny ly ata hy jis mein mirror thora apni position sy hil jata hy but iska matlab yeh nai hota k us mein nazar anay wala aqas hamesha aisa he rhy ga ya yehe reality hy bas thora sabar or hosla sy mirror ki original position ka wait karo har cheez thek ho jae ge bas hosla or sabar or dua bas yhe cheezen insan k hath mein hoti hn jitny ansu sajday mein dua krty wy niklen gy utna he ALLAH G har cheez ko tmk haq mein karen gy...

ham sab u k liya bhot dua karen gy..

ALLAH G ALWAYS BLESS U:rose

[crystal_thinking]

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walekumsalam
haan esa hota he...normal he...pehle songs suna karti thi...or feelings worst ho jaya karti then...abhi Allah ko dheron yaad karti hun to jald sakoon ho jata he..last days ese hi lamhon me aik nazam parhi..to inpage me likhi...u bhi parho...us waqt kuch esi hi feelings hoti hen...baad me normal ho kar banda khud ko

han sahi kaha yhe tareeka sab sy best hy... lolzzz thapar acha lagati ho

awesome such mein aise feelings he develop ho jati hn...

[crystal_thinking]

Re: akela pan

W sallam........
Pehlii batt to yeh tanahi yaa udassii billaa waja nai hotii,,koi na koi reason zaroor hotii hai jiss ki waja say yeh udasaii charroo sataf say ghairr saa laitii hai,meray sath b bht martaba aissa howa hai,aik bay nam si udasii dill koo jakkar say laitii hai,aisay main kuch b achaa naii lagtaa,,rona to khair nai aataa bas aik chup si lag jatii hai,, udassi ka yeh phase g
uzar janay kay bad sab phirr aik dam say normal hoo jata haiii

reason wali bat k mjko pata nai lekin kabi aisa hota hy k apka din bhot acha guzar ra hota hy or pher aik dam apka dil bhot udas ho jata hy aik dam khushi py khamooshi hawi ho jati hy... ronay sy mere murad ankho mein nami ka aa jana b hy some time ap roty nai per apki ankhen bilawajha sy nam hojati hn.... han sab normal tu ho jata hy per aisa insn k sath q hota hy aik dam sy khushi khamosi mein q badal jati hy?

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: akela pan

reason wali bat k mjko pata nai lekin kabi aisa hota hy k apka din bhot acha guzar ra hota hy or pher aik dam apka dil bhot udas ho jata hy aik dam khushi py khamooshi hawi ho jati hy... ronay sy mere murad ankho mein nami ka aa jana b hy some time ap roty nai per apki ankhen bilawajha sy nam hojati hn.... han sab normal tu ho jata hy per aisa insn k sath q hota hy aik dam sy khushi khamosi mein q badal jati hy?

shayyad isssi ka naam zindagi hai,,kabi khushi to kabi gham...
Bht sari chezzain hamaray bass say bahirr hotii hain,ham khushion kay sang jeena chahtay hain,but khushi hamesha sath nai rehti,,

so ham sirf koshish hi kar saktay hain,hota wai hai jo muqadar main hooooo

[crystal_thinking]

Re: akela pan

shayyad isssi ka naam zindagi hai,,kabi khushi to kabi gham...
Bht sari chezzain hamaray bass say bahirr hotii hain,ham khushion kay sang jeena chahtay hain,but khushi hamesha sath nai rehti,,

so ham sirf koshish hi kar saktay hain,hota wai hai jo muqadar main hooooo

thek hy tu pher aisa q bolty hn k muqadar k sikandar bano

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: akela pan

thek hy tu pher aisa q bolty hn k muqadar k sikandar bano

kehtay hain keh aisay banoo but hota wahi hai jo mukadar main hoo....

Actuallay jiss udassi ka ap zikar kar rai hoo uss kay liey urdu main lafzz "antarr hoot udassi" use hotaa haii,,iss type ki situation main ham bazahir to khush dikhai daitay hain,apnay dostoo,relatives etc kay sath zingai guzzar rahay hotay hainn...aor kisi khas waja say jo hamaray andar udasi phaili hotii hai,,aik dam say bahirr aa jatii haiii,,....aor wahi hota hai jo ap nay ooper likhaa hai,,phirrr ham isss udasii kay sath compromise kartay hoey khushii kaa khooll charhaa laitay hain...and yehi zindagi hai..

[crystal_thinking]

Re: akela pan

kehtay hain keh aisay banoo but hota wahi hai jo mukadar main hoo....

Actuallay jiss udassi ka ap zikar kar rai hoo uss kay liey urdu main lafzz "antarr hoot udassi" use hotaa haii,,iss type ki situation main ham bazahir to khush dikhai daitay hain,apnay dostoo,relatives etc kay sath zingai guzzar rahay hotay hainn...aor kisi khas waja say jo hamaray andar udasi phaili hotii hai,,aik dam say bahirr aa jatii haiii,,....aor wahi hota hai jo ap nay ooper likhaa hai,,phirrr ham isss udasii kay sath compromise kartay hoey khushii kaa khooll charhaa laitay hain...and yehi zindagi hai..

kehtay tu u thek he ho

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: akela pan

kehtay tu u thek he ho

daikhh ooOoo shabrati.....:fight:

aik to hi meri batoo ko , sahi nai kehtaaa,,,baki sab man admit kartay hainn:dance2:

[AbgeenA]

Re: akela pan

han sahi kaha yhe tareeka sab sy best hy... lolzzz thapar acha lagati ho

awesome such mein aise feelings he develop ho jati hn...

haan thapar lagana bohat zaruri hota he na kabhi kabhi:lol