Kia App Apnay Dost Ban'na Pasand Kerain Gain ? Would You like to be a friend of you ?

[BhaTaktii RooH]

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tumhari yeh baat sun ke offline honay ko dil ker raha he :(

mai bhi ja rahi hoon...namaz parrhney..:ys:

take care sub log..
Allah hafiz..

[AbgeenA]

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Janab aap ko kis ne keh dia ke jo loog doosron ke moaamlat mein mudakhlat nahi kerte wo loog bohat achay hotay hein. Jo loog kisi ke moaamlat mein interest nahi lete aur self-centered personality ke malik hotay hein mein unhein "dead personality" samajta hoon. Aap jub tak zinda ho aap ka influence hona chahiye apne ghar walon pe, apne se related loogon pe. Loogon mein interest lein, unhein achay mashwaray dein. Aik bans bananay ki bajaye apne aap ko aik saya daar darakht ki tarah rahein dosron ko apni chahoon se mustafeed karein. Aap ki chooti chooti interference jo ke positive ho gi aap se related loog usay bohat appreciate karein ge. Loogon ko ehsaas ho ga ke aap ki life mein un k liye koi ehmiyat he. Apni is mentality ko change karein aur apne aapni personality ko self-centered ki bajaye lively banaein.

Thanks and Best Regards :lol

ache bure hone ka to me ne kaha hi nahi
or ap ko apki zindagi ne esa bnaya or mujhe meri zindagi ne esa bnaya

[Admin]

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Wa allaikum salaam

Haan, apney aap ka dost to banena chahta hoon, per koi yeh to batao, main khud ko paoun ga kahan sey?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Wa allaikum salaam

Haan, apney aap ka dost to banena chahta hoon, per koi yeh to batao, main khud ko paoun ga kahan sey?

bhainsoon ke baray se

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ache bure hone ka to me ne kaha hi nahi
or ap ko apki zindagi ne esa bnaya or mujhe meri zindagi ne esa bnaya

mujay meri zindagi ne aisa nahi banaya bulke mein ne khud intentionally apne ander kuch changes laein. You shouldn't simply let your life decide for you everything remaining idle. Kuch kaam aagay berh ker kiye jatay hein. Aap ke concepts clear honay chahyein aur aap ke ander ki force strong honi chahiye on particular issues. Keeping yourself away from others shows nothing but your idleness.

[Admin]

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bhainsoon ke baray se

Chalo shuker hai wahan Ghorrey mil jatey hain main samjha sirf sialKHOTEY miltey hain 372-haha

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Chalo shuker hai wahan Ghorrey mil jatey hain main samjha sirf sialKHOTEY miltey hain 372-haha

buri baat :goat:

[ummid]

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Argument: If you accept all the people (whether they are bad or good) as they are, then it simply reflects you are not accepting them from the depth of your heart or otherwise this acceptance or interaction belongs to surface level only. It also shows that you don't bother about the possibly bad things of the people who surrounds you and that you have given your very being a big margin to enjoy your very life without interfering others. Living in community demands a lot from your end to influence others but in a positive manner. Your this statement shows your lack of interest in others :p

first thing... Human beings are just human beings they are not good or bad... its their deed which are good or bad.. ager koi shaks aap se zyadah hai khoobiyon mein tu kya woh ek accha insaan hojaayega sirf is liye ke us ki good deeds aap se zyadah hai... or ek Insaan jo aap se kum hai apni good deeds mein kya woh ek bura Insaan hojaayega..... their is no insturument through which you can measure who is good or bad....

secondly, understand the meaning of "acceptance" Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they're alive and human. when I say acceptance... I mean accepting someone with all their good and bad deeds... but as human bein I am no one to judge someone on this earth.. others are just a Fallible human being the way I am : )

third: I live on philosphy of: "people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave. No matter how hard you try..." you can reduce the level of intansity but not the total behavior, it needs lots of practice.... when I accept someone... or something... it gives me scope of change... modification... if I just reject or get aggressive or deny it will never ever going to help neither me nor my frndz...

fourth: (with respect)If you think my statement shows lack of interest that is your view point.... Agreeing to it or not is mine ... so I am not agree with your satement ; )

[lucky]

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[Mr. Sialkoty]

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first thing... Human beings are just human beings they are not good or bad... its their deed which are good or bad.. ager koi shaks aap se zyadah hai khoobiyon mein tu kya woh ek accha insaan hojaayega sirf is liye ke us ki good deeds aap se zyadah hai... or ek Insaan jo aap se kum hai apni good deeds mein kya woh ek bura Insaan hojaayega..... their is no insturument through which you can measure who is good or bad....

Would you please highlight the concept of human being in your eye? Is it flesh, bones, blood and crust and all? Don't you think their deeds belong to their very being and without their deeds they quite vulnerable to simply be related to animals directly. Isn't it? Yes there is no instruments who could calibrate the exact amount of good and bad traits but here let's not rule out our consciousness and our power of judgement which is very rationally be controlled by our gray matter. If we don't have confidence on these of our vital instruments then a man will be nothing but a confused species. We being a man are well quipped with all the instruments to make a proper or improper judgement.

secondly, understand the meaning of "acceptance" Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they're alive and human. when I say acceptance... I mean accepting someone with all their good and bad deeds... but as human bein I am no one to judge someone on this earth.. others are just a Fallible human being the way I am : )

Here you have messed up two things i.e. love and acceptance and your view point is still not clear enough for me to make a proper assertion. In the beginning you said that you accept the people the way they are. Here you have summed up love and acceptance in one statement as your statement seems to be covering all the human being where your sub-category "love" also exists. If I am mistaken in categorizing then still it is another confusion. In such case your acceptance seems to be loosing its due force and strength as idea remains generalized because this way everyone is almost having acceptance for others. And why you can't judge or understand others? Do you lack the due abilities and capabilities given by almighty God to get to know others? Isn't it an idle statement?

third: I live on philosphy of: "people will continue to behave in the way they want to behave. No matter how hard you try..." you can reduce the level of intansity but not the total behavior, it needs lots of practice.... when I accept someone... or something... it gives me scope of change... modification... if I just reject or get aggressive or deny it will never ever going to help neither me nor my frndz...

You are psychologist but with a very negative frame of mind. Where are the applications of what you have been taught throughout your academic years?

I will appreciate if you would further clarify your last statement as I want to conclude something out of it ;)

fourth: (with respect)If you think my statement shows lack of interest that is your view point.... Agreeing to it or not is mine ... so I am not agree with your satement ; )

Cheeti :p

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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:donno:

[AbgeenA]

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mujay meri zindagi ne aisa nahi banaya bulke mein ne khud intentionally apne ander kuch changes laein. You shouldn't simply let your life decide for you everything remaining idle. Kuch kaam aagay berh ker kiye jatay hein. Aap ke concepts clear honay chahyein aur aap ke ander ki force strong honi chahiye on particular issues. Keeping yourself away from others shows nothing but your idleness.

[ummid]

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Would you please highlight the concept of human being in your eye? Is it flesh, bones, blood and crust and all? Don't you think their deeds belong to their very being and without their deeds they quite vulnerable to simply be related to animals directly. Isn't it? Yes there is no instruments who could calibrate the exact amount of good and bad traits but here let's not rule out our consciousness and our power of judgement which is very rationally be controlled by our gray matter. If we don't have confidence on these of our vital instruments then a man will be nothing but a confused species. We being a man are well quipped with all the instruments to make a proper or improper judgement.



Here you have messed up two things i.e. love and acceptance and your view point is still not clear enough for me to make a proper assertion. In the beginning you said that you accept the people the way they are. Here you have summed up love and acceptance in one statement as your statement seems to be covering all the human being where your sub-category "love" also exists. If I am mistaken in categorizing then still it is another confusion. In such case your acceptance seems to be loosing its due force and strength as idea remains generalized because this way everyone is almost having acceptance for others. And why you can't judge or understand others? Do you lack the due abilities and capabilities given by almighty God to get to know others? Isn't it an idle statement?



You are psychologist but with a very negative frame of mind. Where are the applications of what you have been taught throughout your academic years?

I will appreciate if you would further clarify your last statement as I want to conclude something out of it ;)



Cheeti :p

Allah ne kisi Ajmi ko kisi Arbi per fazilat nahi di... mager Asal cheez taqwa hai... now see here... taqwa is your deed... so it doesnt matter whether you are Arbi or Ajmi or someone else... you are not superior to anyone... so as human being we all share the equal worth... now is it clear to you??? koi mutaqee yeh nahi kahega ke main "Tawqa" ho.. woh yeh kahega main taqwa karne wala ho... (Mutaqee)... now can you see the diff. between human being and their deeds... how they are different...

For your second doubt: I'll say read it again.. I said acceptance is not Love... you Love someone because he or she has a lovable traits....!! so acceptance and Love is two different things... I accept you as a human being and specailly as a falibal human being who will continue to make mistakes the way I do.. and I love you because I like certain personality traits of yours.. not its not neccessary for me to love all of them because I have accepted them as Falibal human being...!!

a psychologist with a negative frame of Mind... again its your opinion... and I respect the fact that you have right to build your opinion... but I refuse to accept it... : )...

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Aisay kia dekhti ho :shyy:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Allah ne kisi Ajmi ko kisi Arbi per fazilat nahi di... mager Asal cheez taqwa hai... now see here... taqwa is your deed... so it doesnt matter whether you are Arbi or Ajmi or someone else... you are not superior to anyone... so as human being we all share the equal worth... now is it clear to you??? koi mutaqee yeh nahi kahega ke main "Tawqa" ho.. woh yeh kahega main taqwa karne wala ho... (Mutaqee)... now can you see the diff. between human being and their deeds... how they are different...

For your second doubt: I'll say read it again.. I said acceptance is not Love... you Love someone because he or she has a lovable traits....!! so acceptance and Love is two different things... I accept you as a human being and specailly as a falibal human being who will continue to make mistakes the way I do.. and I love you because I like certain personality traits of yours.. not its not neccessary for me to love all of them because I have accepted them as Falibal human being...!!

a psychologist with a negative frame of Mind... again its your opinion... and I respect the fact that you have right to build your opinion... but I refuse to accept it... : )...

Tum ne end pe kia khoob kaha

but I refuse to accept it :shyy: