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Assalamlaikum
kuch in pehlay aik sawal discuss ho raha tha aik jaga me vohi yaha share kar rahi houn ...yeh sawal to aksar poucha jata hai lekan aaj tuk koi clear jawab nahi mill paya is ka ....
Allha say apnay kamoo kay leye dua karni chaye ...or jo kaam na ho raha ho wo choor dena chaye kay Allha nay is main hamaray leye behtri nahi rakhi is leye wo nahi ho raha .....!
or dosra yeh kay try try agian ...nahi ho raha try kartay rehian ..poray yakeen or dua kay sath kaam karaian ..yani chorna nahi ho jaye ga ...
to kaam kabhi ho jata hai kabhi nahi ....

to wo kon sa point hai jahan say aap ko lagta hai kay try kar kar kay bhi yeh kaam nahi ho raha to ub choor daian kay yeh hamaray huq main behtar nahi ?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Jahan tak tumharay pehle point ka taaluq he, to mein kahon ga ke wo point nahi tumhari sooch he. Aisi sooch inactive loogon ke dimaag mein akser pai jati he jo apne aap ko kisi kaam ke saath ziada dair affiliate nahi rakh saktay ya jo apni concentration loose ker jatay hein. Ya jo apni full efforts for the particular solution nahi put ker saktay aur apna hoosla haar jatay hein. It is just like angoor khatay hein. Aap kis tarah faisla ker saktay hein ke Allah ne is kaam mein behtari rakhi he ya nahi rakhi he? Come out of the orthodox believes and be practical. Try Tray again Or change the direction. These are simply two choices for you that mainly depend on your priority, temperament and devotion.

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Jahan tak tumharay pehle point ka taaluq he, to mein kahon ga ke wo point nahi tumhari sooch he. Aisi sooch inactive loogon ke dimaag mein akser pai jati he jo apne aap ko kisi kaam ke saath ziada dair affiliate nahi rakh saktay ya jo apni concentration loose ker jatay hein. Ya jo apni full efforts for the particular solution nahi put ker saktay aur apna hoosla haar jatay hein. It is just like angoor khatay hein. Aap kis tarah faisla ker saktay hein ke Allah ne is kaam mein behtari rakhi he ya nahi rakhi he? Come out of the orthodox believes and be practical. Try Tray again Or change the direction. These are simply two choices for you that mainly depend on your priority, temperament and devotion.

aap sirf 2nd point pay yakeen rakhtay hain ....ok....to mera sawal hai dunia main har cheez jis ko aap hath lagaoo wo aap ki nahi ho jati......kio?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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aap sirf 2nd point pay yakeen rakhtay hain ....ok....to mera sawal hai dunia main har cheez jis ko aap hath lagaoo wo aap ki nahi ho jati......kio?

Kyonke haath laganay se cheez apni nahi ho jati ; )

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Kyonke haath laganay se cheez apni nahi ho jati ; )

chaloo aap ko wo cheez pasand a gai ..aap nay efforts bhi lagai ...koi job ,koi pasand ki cheez jo aap ko chaye us key leye kushish ki...kushish kar kar kay bhi aap ko nahi miili...app ko nahi lagta wo cheez aap kay leye the hi nahi.......?

[AbgeenA]

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walekumsalam
meri to zindagi ka daro mdar hi duaon or Allah par he...mangti hun...mil jati he...nahi milta to samjh jati hun mere leay behter nahi tha or khud ko samjhati hun k isi par razi rahe jo mil gya.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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chaloo aap ko wo cheez pasand a gai ..aap nay efforts bhi lagai ...koi job ,koi pasand ki cheez jo aap ko chaye us key leye kushish ki...kushish kar kar kay bhi aap ko nahi miili...app ko nahi lagta wo cheez aap kay leye the hi nahi.......?

Why do you go for "yeh cheez mere liye thi he nahi". Let me explain it with a simple example. Aik medical kay student ki preparation achi nahi wo get through nahi ker pata. Wo dobara preparation kerta he phir bhi fail ho jata he, wo teen chaar baar try kerta he per phir bhi paas nahi ho pata. Aisi soorat mein wo yeh nahi keh sakta ke medical mere liye hay he nahi.

Aisi soorat mein kuch cheezon per ghoor kerne ki zaroorat he. Ho sakta he ke wo student by default itna capable he nahi ke wo Medical ke imtehan paas ker sakay. Us ke zehni meyaar us tarah ka nahi. Ya usay concentrate kerne mein problem ho rahi he aur wo dehaan nahi de pa raha, ya wo depression mein aa ke kuch ghalat ker jata he. Ya yeh bhi ho sakta he ke baar baar fail honay ke baad us ki preparation itni ho gai he ke usay aik aadh attempt ker leni chahiye jis se wo paas ho sakay.

Hum kon hotay hein decide kerne walay ke yeh cheez hamaray liye achi he nahi thi is liye nahi mili. Maybe us cheez ka hasool sirf aap ke aik step ke faslay per reh gaya ho.

Yeh sooch aik pessimistic he aur non-practical loogon ke liye he. Ager Medical ka student 2, 3 baar fail honay ke baad yeh decide kerta he ke yeh kaam mere liye mushkil he itni he energies mein social science ya kisi aur subject ko de don to mein degree le sakta hoon aur wo yeh soch ke apni line change ker le to yeh aik practical idea he.

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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walekumsalam
nahi milta to samjh jati hun mere leay behter nahi tha or khud ko samjhati hun k isi par razi rahe jo mil gya.

Kisi cheez per iktefa kerna ya insaan ka aik satisfaction level hona to bohat achi baat he. Per insaan mein khoob se khoob tar ki justaju zaroor honi chahiye. Its my personal opinion, you may not agree with it.

[AbgeenA]

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Kisi cheez per iktefa kerna ya insaan ka aik satisfaction level hona to bohat achi baat he. Per insaan mein khoob se khoob tar ki justaju zaroor honi chahiye. Its my personal opinion, you may not agree with it.

[MeemSheenAlif]

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Why do you go for "yeh cheez mere liye thi he nahi". Let me explain it with a simple example. Aik medical kay student ki preparation achi nahi wo get through nahi ker pata. Wo dobara preparation kerta he phir bhi fail ho jata he, wo teen chaar baar try kerta he per phir bhi paas nahi ho pata. Aisi soorat mein wo yeh nahi keh sakta ke medical mere liye hay he nahi.

Aisi soorat mein kuch cheezon per ghoor kerne ki zaroorat he. Ho sakta he ke wo student by default itna capable he nahi ke wo Medical ke imtehan paas ker sakay. Us ke zehni meyaar us tarah ka nahi. Ya usay concentrate kerne mein problem ho rahi he aur wo dehaan nahi de pa raha, ya wo depression mein aa ke kuch ghalat ker jata he. Ya yeh bhi ho sakta he ke baar baar fail honay ke baad us ki preparation itni ho gai he ke usay aik aadh attempt ker leni chahiye jis se wo paas ho sakay.

Hum kon hotay hein decide kerne walay ke yeh cheez hamaray liye achi he nahi thi is liye nahi mili. Maybe us cheez ka hasool sirf aap ke aik step ke faslay per reh gaya ho.

Yeh sooch aik pessimistic he aur non-practical loogon ke liye he. Ager Medical ka student 2, 3 baar fail honay ke baad yeh decide kerta he ke yeh kaam mere liye mushkil he itni he energies mein social science ya kisi aur subject ko de don to mein degree le sakta hoon aur wo yeh soch ke apni line change ker le to yeh aik practical idea he.

ustad, u ne kaan udher se nahi pakar lya ?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ustad, u ne kaan udher se nahi pakar lya ?

Meri jaan murgi ke bablu, baat act ki nahi philosophy ki ho rahi he. Aik he kaam but with two different intentions. Ub samaj gaya na. Chalo shuker he

[RulzZ]

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[BhaTaktii RooH]

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ammu aye bahar laye..

ammu u ka reply me ko acha laga u ko 10/10 diiye jatey hain...

[sarfraz_qamar]

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Assalamlaikum
kuch in pehlay aik sawal discuss ho raha tha aik jaga me vohi yaha share kar rahi houn ...yeh sawal to aksar poucha jata hai lekan aaj tuk koi clear jawab nahi mill paya is ka ....
Allha say apnay kamoo kay leye dua karni chaye ...or jo kaam na ho raha ho wo choor dena chaye kay Allha nay is main hamaray leye behtri nahi rakhi is leye wo nahi ho raha .....!
or dosra yeh kay try try agian ...nahi ho raha try kartay rehian ..poray yakeen or dua kay sath kaam karaian ..yani chorna nahi ho jaye ga ...
to kaam kabhi ho jata hai kabhi nahi ....

to wo kon sa point hai jahan say aap ko lagta hai kay try kar kar kay bhi yeh kaam nahi ho raha to ub choor daian kay yeh hamaray huq main behtar nahi ?

W salam.............

aik to ap kay thread chakraa karr rakh daittay hain keh kia pochaa jaa rahaa haii 2nd i think
point kaa to mjhay naii pataa,,but main try zaroorr kartaa hoo naa hoo too uss koo Experience
main dalll karr aaggay ki sochtaa hooo